Imagine planning your dream wedding, only to find yourself in the middle of a dramatic dilemma involving your best friend’s love life. That’s exactly what happened to a 25-year-old bride-to-be, who found herself torn between her husband’s conservative family and her best friend’s polyamorous relationship. With emotions running high and the big day fast approaching, she’s left wondering if she’s the one in the wrong.
Dream Wedding Plans
Best Friend’s Poly Love Life
Conservative Family vs. Polyamory
The Uninvited Partners
Marissa’s Reaction
Brandon’s Plea
Greg’s Anger
Marissa’s Ultimatum
Mike’s Response ♂️
Friends’ Opinions ️
Realization and Apology ♀️
Making Amends
Compromise and Resolution ️
Ace’s Decision
Happy Ending?
A Wedding Dilemma Resolved?
After realizing her mistake, the bride-to-be and her husband apologized to Marissa and her partners. They reached a compromise, with Greg and Marissa attending as a couple, and Brandon and Ace doing the same. With the drama seemingly resolved, the wedding party can now focus on celebrating love, in all its forms.
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“YWBTA. You put the opinion of bigots over your friends.”
“YTA already. They way you’ve handled this is awful and your husband sounds like an AH too. You are putting the opinions of your bigoted in laws (and I’m guessing husband too) over your actual friends. If you go through with this you will most likely permanently damage your relationship with you MoH.”
Handling the situation poorly, prioritizing bigoted in-laws over friends.
“Mike said he can’t uninvite his co-workers now so it’s not his problem.” – Ho – but you can uninvite your closest friend’s partners? You let your AH partner be AH to your friends and to you, forces you to be a AH yourself to them – and it’s ‘not is problem’?
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Don’t stress! Most guests won’t notice or care about poly partners.
YTA, catering to bigots. Irrecoverable damage to friendship
YTA for uninviting her partners. Should’ve handled it better.
“YTA. Uninvite the bigots instead of your loyal friend.”
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“NTA. Seriously, a ‘plus three’? What would you have done if there had been more of them? Everyone is entitled to have whatever type of relationship they want of course but you don’t have to go overboard to accommodate their expectations in every aspect. I would have thought a good compromise would have been to offer her a +1 and let her sort out who comes with her. This guy Greg who told you f**k off, I wouldn’t invite him to anything, ever, with that attitude.” ♀️
Bride’s poly friend uninvited to wedding: YTA and extreme A!
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Invite who you want, ignore the haters. YTA for capitulating.
“Bride, it’s YOUR big day too! Don’t let others dictate. “
Debate over plus one at wedding sparks heated discussion
Fiancé’s coworkers invited, poly friends uninvited. Awkward family avoidance?
NTA for not inviting poly friend’s partners to wedding
YTA for hiding information from Marissa about the wedding guests
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“YTA, but less so than Mike.” You should value true friendship.
