Meet our man in the middle, juggling the demands of two worlds – a successful girlfriend and an ex-partner living on government assistance. With two kids caught in the crossfire, he’s facing accusations of living large while his children struggle. But is he really the bad guy here? Or is there more to this story than meets the eye? ️♂️ Let’s dive into this intriguing tale of conflict, drama, and moral ambiguity.
The Players in the Game
The Money Matters
Enter the New Flame
Serenity’s Success Story
The Clash of Lifestyles ️ vs
The Instagram Incident
Kayla’s Outrage
The Accusations Fly ️
The Demand for More
The Man’s Stand
The Social Media Storm ️
The Burning Question
A Glimpse into Kayla’s Life
Caught in the Crossfire: Who’s the Real Villain Here?
Our everyday hero, stuck between a rock and a hard place, is facing accusations of living a comfortable life while his children struggle. With an ex-partner demanding more child support and a successful girlfriend offering a different lifestyle, he’s left wondering if he’s the bad guy. But is it fair to demand more from him, or should the ex-partner step up? And what about the kids caught in the middle? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this complex situation…
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NTA: Kids concerned about new girlfriend’s car, not mom’s job.
Single mom defends herself against criticism for receiving child support
NTA. Serenity works hard. Kayla doesn’t. Expect more complaints.
NTA: Don’t let Facebook critics dictate how you spend money
NTA: Mom needs to get off her lazy a** and work!
NTA: Kayla needs to work if she wants more money.
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NTA for contributing, ex needs job. Kids’ ages, childcare.
NTA for not wanting to get a job to pay more child support, but… Something seems off here… if it were really 50/50 then you wouldn’t be having to pay child support (from TX)
Commenter defends not prioritizing money and values job security.
NTA. Your gf works hard for her money, ignore the haters!
NTA: Money not spent on kids Kayla at nail salon
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Shared custody, no child support. NTA. She’s manipulative and jealous.
NTA suggests getting custody to solve the whole problem
NTA. Ex-girlfriend’s money shouldn’t affect child support.
Mom criticizes dad’s parenting, suggests full custody. Who’s selfish?
Mother’s job and kids’ attitudes blamed for entitlement.
Custody battle: Document everything and fight for your kids!
NTA! Father saving for kids’ future while mother lives off assistance.
NTA fights for custody, ex’s spending habits under scrutiny.
INFO: Consider legal advice, not just Reddit, for child support.
NTA. Ex living off child support Should child support be regulated?
Ex accuses father of not paying enough child support. NTA.
Not the a**hole. Let’s find out who’s really to blame!
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Ex should get a job like the rest of us
SAHM accused of scamming, but is she really the a-hole?
Fair custody arrangement? The battle of child support payments
NTA Kayla needs to get a job
Jealous moosh wants nice stuff, but should get a job! NTA
Supportive comment advocating for full custody. Take control!
NTA. Kayla sounds like a grifter.
Parenting and financial struggles: NTA suggests ex needs employment
Lazy mom? Who’s really to blame for the struggling kids?
Kayla’s joblessness: laziness or something more?
Ex-wife should get a job, you’re not the a**hole.
NTA suspects money sent to Kayla isn’t benefiting the kids
Document everything and fight for justice in court!
NTA, paying child support and saving for education. Girlfriend’s fancy things.
NTA: Ex needs to step up and be a role model
Mother refuses to work and demands more money.
NTA: Is your ex manipulating you? Don’t enable laziness!
NTA: Focus on your kids and ignore the haters!
Shared custody, high child support: Is it really fair?
Fight for full custody and remove unfair child support payments!
NTA infinity! Ex should get a job and stop complaining.
NTA. Serenity works hard for her money, she deserves it!
NTA: Your girlfriend works hard and deserves to spend her money
Mom’s priorities questioned. Is she really looking out for kids?
NTA. Kayla’s mom took her designer bag. Get a job!
NTA: Take custody, secure future for kids. Ex gets visitation.
NTA: Jobless mom sparks debate on parental responsibilities.
NTA. Ex should get a job, it’s her responsibility.
NTA, your ex has zero claim to your girlfriend’s lifestyle. Have a conversation with your kids about earning money.
NTA: Ex needs to work, not rely on child support.
ESH: Money for kids, not Kayla. Missed opportunity for improvement.
Love your kids more than you hate your ex!
OP, set boundaries with your girlfriend about discussing finances.
Parental revenge: Putting kids first or playing dirty?
Fight for custody and reduce child support payments. Seek legal advice.
NTA: Ex gets 12k tax free, she needs to plan ahead.
Not the a**hole. Nice name. Lol.
NTA – OP defends himself against ex, proud of sacrifices
♂️ NTA! Kayla’s gotta step up for her kids!
