Imagine entrusting your beloved pet to your parents, only to have them ignore your wishes and cause the pet’s untimely death. That’s exactly what happened to a 26-year-old woman who left her cat, Kylo, with her parents while she and her husband settled into their new home. Despite her explicit instructions to keep Kylo indoors, her parents let him roam outside, leading to a tragic accident. Now, the heartbroken woman is questioning whether her parents can be trusted with her future children.
The Move and Kylo’s Temporary Home

A History of Tragedy

Kylo: An Indoor Cat ⬛

Parents’ Excuses

Pleading for Kylo’s Safety

Tragic News

Heartbroken and Angry

A Tough Decision

Trust Issues

The Ultimate Question ❓

Can Trust Be Restored?
After the devastating loss of her beloved cat Kylo, a heartbroken woman is left questioning her parents’ ability to respect her wishes. Despite her constant pleas to keep Kylo indoors, her parents’ negligence led to his tragic death. Now, she and her husband have decided to deny her parents the opportunity to babysit their future grandchildren without supervision. Can trust ever be regained after such a heartbreaking betrayal?
Respect for one’s wishes is crucial in babysitting. NTA

Asserting parental rights and condolences for deceased pet. NTA.

Heartless parents dismissed daughter’s grief over cat’s death. NTA.

Parents who ignored daughter’s trauma now denied babysitting privileges

Grandma learns the hard way: being a grandparent is a privilege

Empathetic commenter supports grieving cat owner, condemns dismissive parents.

Loving parents respect their child’s wishes and needs ❤️

Cat owner blamed for not helicopter parenting their pet

Contradictory comments on cat’s death and babysitting privileges. NTA.

Parents disregard daughter’s wishes, lose babysitting privileges. NTA.

Loss of beloved cat due to bad pet owners, NTA.

Trust is key, and apologies go a long way

Cat’s death sparks family conflict, but blame is shared.

Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings about cat and dad

Passionate response to neglectful pet owners, with a dash of profanity.
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Cat owner criticized for leaving cat with parents, deemed YTA

Using the Brown M&M Clause to explain why NTA and parents lost babysitting privileges.

Pets are family too. Grief over a pet is valid.

Curious commenter questions cost of moving cat, sparks debate.

Cat becomes family after a year of living with them

Financial struggles lead to family conflict over pet and children.

Heartfelt comment offers sympathy for cat loss

User advises not to let in-laws babysit due to animal mistreatment.

Cat given to family with 3 dogs, commenters outraged

OP is slightly at fault for not making other arrangements

Cat dies, parents refuse to babysit, everyone sucks here.

User sympathizes with OP, suggests not trusting parents with child.

Respect is key. NTA for setting boundaries with parents.

NTA commenter suggests parents unfit to babysit after mistreating cat

NTA commenter warns against leaving child with irresponsible parents

Respect for pets = respect for children. NTAH

Supportive comment, user would cut off family if pet harmed

Clear NTA judgement and concern for child’s safety

Pets are a litmus test for most people . NTA.

Trust is hard to regain after a beloved pet’s death.

Parents dismiss daughter’s grief over cat’s death, internet supports her

Respectful NTA stands up to dismissive parents after cat’s death

Red flag: Inability to follow instructions. NTA for concern.

NTA commenter defends OP and denies grandparents babysitting privileges.

Respect boundaries with pets, respect boundaries with children. #NTA

Cat-loving commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation and criticizes parents’ lack of empathy.

NTA comment: Trust issues with parents and inanimate objects

Deceptive gluten-free cookies lead to friend getting sick

Grandparents denied babysitting privileges after dismissing daughter’s grief over cat’s death. NTA.

Supportive comment condemns heartless parents, offers condolences for loss

Using ‘just’ to describe a beloved pet is unacceptable. NTA.

User sympathizes with OP’s loss and declares them NTA.

Grandparents can be crazy dangerous , commenter says NTA

Cutting off toxic family members, NTA wins the day

Parents’ dismissive behavior warrants no babysitting privileges, NTA.

Compassionate reply offers condolences and support for future pets

Heartfelt condolences for cat’s loss, and wise advice given.

Red flags raised after parents’ carelessness with cat’s death

Supportive comment encourages going no contact with family.

In-laws’ resentment of pescatarianism leads to supervised grandkid visits

Supportive commenter empathizes with OP’s loss and anger towards parents.

Cats are family too, should babysitting privileges be denied?

NTA warns against potential harm to kids by dismissive grandparents
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Trust issues: Commenter questions parents’ babysitting abilities after cat incident.

Valid point on parents’ ability to babysit a toddler

Heartfelt sympathy for commenter’s loss and validation of their feelings.

Setting boundaries with parents who don’t respect them.

Cat’s death dismissed by parents, NTA suggests going no contact

Empathetic comment supports decision to deny babysitting privileges

Respectful commenter supports OP’s valid feelings about deceased cat.

Supportive comment reminds OP of their reproductive autonomy ❤️

User refuses to trust negligent parents with babysitting duties

Heartless cat death leads to babysitting ban for negligent parents.

NTA stands up to dismissive parents, prioritizes children’s safety

Military analogy suggests parents failed test by dismissing daughter’s grief

User sympathizes with OP’s anger towards parents’ disregard for cat’s life.

User shares a personal experience and supports OP’s feelings.

Respect for pets is a good indicator for childcare ethics

User sympathizes with commenter’s struggle with disrespectful parents.

Cat owner receives blame for pet’s death, sparks family conflict.
