Daughter Disinvited from Brother’s Wedding But Still Expected to Pay?

Imagine being the financial backbone of your family, only to be disinvited from your brother’s wedding for a long-lost childhood friend! That’s the situation Rita finds herself in. After her father’s passing, she’s been supporting her brother John and their mother. Now, John’s getting married to Sam, and they expect Rita to pay for the wedding. But when a childhood friend pops up, they disinvite Rita to make room. How does Rita respond? Let’s dive into this family drama!

Rita, the Family’s Financial Hero

John’s Life Funded by Rita

John’s Wedding and a Big Request

Cutting Down Guests

Rita Gets the Boot

Questioning the Decision

Rita’s Response

John and Sam’s Reaction

Sam’s Threat

The Ungrateful Couple vs. the Generous Sister

So, Rita has been the financial hero for her family, supporting her brother John and their mother after their father’s passing. But when John and his fiancée Sam plan their wedding, they disinvite Rita to make room for a long-lost childhood friend. Despite expecting her to pay for the wedding, they kick her out, and Rita decides she won’t be funding their big day. John and Sam are furious, but Rita’s already given them gifts and financial support. Now, Sam’s threatening to cut ties. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation…

Sister disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay? NTA.

Savage NTA comment shuts down entitled brother’s wedding drama

Daughter disinvited from brother’s wedding but expected to pay? ESH.

Skepticism over brother’s wedding disinvitation and mysterious friend

Daughter disinvited from wedding, but still expected to pay? NTA.

Daughter disinvited from brother’s wedding but expected to pay? NTA

NTA comment calls out family for taking advantage of Rita

Parent criticized for favoring son over daughter in wedding planning.

Entitled son causes family drama. John and Sam are TA.

Brother’s entitled fiancé disinvites sister but still expects payment? NTA

Daughter disinvited from wedding, but still expected to pay? NTA

NTA sister disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay

NTA disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay?

NTA stands up to controlling family member, supports bullied sister.

Brother disinvites sister from wedding but still expects her to pay? NTA.

Daughter disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay? Commenter calls out OP for not defending daughter and letting son take advantage of her. YTA on many levels.

Daughter disinvited from brother’s wedding but expected to pay? NTA

NTA stands up to entitled brother and toxic future sister-in-law

Parent supports daughter disinvited from wedding and being taken advantage of.

NTA stands up for herself and refuses to pay.

Rita’s not the a**hole, but why pay for John’s wedding?

Daughter disinvited but still expected to pay? ESH according to OP

Brother disinvites sister from wedding but still expects her to pay? NTA.

Daughter helped family but disinvited from wedding, NTA for refusing payment

Daughter disinvited from brother’s wedding but expected to pay? NTA.

Bankrolling mom Rita is the only NTA in this mess

Savage response to a nightmare brother’s wedding.

Satisfying takedown of entitled siblings. NTA wins the day!

Cutting financial support for entitled brother at wedding

Don’t let Rita pay for the entitled couple’s wedding

Cutting toxic family members saves money and sanity

Wedding drama and ex-girlfriends. NTA but don’t go.

Family comes first Money shouldn’t divide siblings. #NTA

Brother disinvites sister from wedding but expects her to pay? NTA

NTA calls out John and Sam’s ironic behavior and priorities.

Supporting Rita is the right thing to do. Don’t cave in.

Daughter disinvited from wedding, but still expected to pay? Commenter calls out mother’s entitlement and lack of gratitude in raising her son.

Daughter disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay? YTA.

Uninvited daughter expected to pay for brother’s wedding? NTA!

Family reunion without the bride? NTA wins this round

NTA calls out entitled siblings for expecting disinvited sister to pay.

Sister disinvites daughter but expects her to pay? NTA wins.

NTA suggests a witty response to stop family’s greediness

NTA! Commenter calls out entitlement of brother’s wedding invitation.

Daughter disinvited but still expected to pay? NTA claps back

Mother’s unhealthy dynamic with children leads to financial burden and conflict.

Family drama and wedding expenses – NTA’s perspective

Rita is NTA and deserves better than entitled family members.

Cutting toxic family members? NTA and Rita is a saint

NTA stands up to selfish brother and refuses to pay

Daughter disinvited from wedding, but still expected to pay? YTA.

Mother defends daughter’s decision not to pay for brother’s wedding

John’s entitlement is reprehensible. NTA and son is spoiled.

NTA. Family only contacts when they need money

Supportive comment shows empathy for mistreated daughter.

Uninvited sister still expected to pay? That’s not fair

Rita disinvited from brother’s wedding but still expected to pay?

Generous sister defends herself from accusations of spoiling brother. NTA

Parents uninvited daughter from wedding and still expect payment? TA.

Sister disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay? NTA stands up to entitled brother and fiance.

User calls out OP for not taking responsibility, YTA vibes

Mother defends daughter who was disinvited from brother’s wedding. NTA.

Generous sister disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay? NTA

Sister disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay?

Cutting off toxic family members, even for weddings

Sister uninvited from wedding but still expected to pay? NTA!

Family dynamics questioned. Why is Rita expected to pay for everything?

NTA for refusing to fund brother’s wedding, but YTA for expecting Rita to pay if re-invited.

Tough love for a struggling mother from blunt commenter

Daughter funded brother’s wedding, disinvited, and still expected to pay? YTA

John needs therapy. NTA and neither is your daughter.

Rita is a saint and everyone else is TA

Generous Rita disinvited from wedding but still expected to pay? NTA

Rita stands up for herself and her money

User slams selfish family, supports bride disinvited from wedding.

Don’t pressure Rita to pay. Your son would be losing both of you. NTA

NTA commenter supports disinvited daughter, wishes happiness for couple.

Rita is a selfless person, let her enjoy her holiday! ️

Daughter not the a**hole, but brother’s entitlement is astonishing. Why is she financially supporting him at 28?