Man Refuses to Bring Girlfriend’s Son to Guy’s Night – Is He Wrong?

Imagine being in a relationship where you’ve bonded with your partner’s kids, and you’re all getting along great. But what happens when you want a night out with your buddies, and your partner asks you to bring her teenage son along? That’s the dilemma our friend here is facing. He’s been dating his girlfriend for over a year and has formed a strong connection with her son, Jake. However, when it comes to his guy’s night, he’s hesitant to bring the teenager along, fearing the environment might not be suitable. And now, his girlfriend isn’t too happy about his decision. Let’s dive into the story and see what unfolds.

A Year of Love and Bonding

Connecting with Jake

Guy’s Night Plans

Poker Night with the Boys

Not Suitable for Teens?

Growing Up Without a Father ‍

Guy’s Night for Adults Only?

Girlfriend’s Disapproval

Caught Between Buddies and Being a Role Model

Our friend is in a tough spot – he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend’s son, but when it comes to his guy’s night, he’s not sure if it’s an appropriate environment for a teenager. He just wants to have fun with his buddies without worrying about being a role model. His girlfriend, on the other hand, believes it would be good for Jake to experience some ‘guy time’ since he grew up without a father. Now, the internet is weighing in on whether our friend is in the wrong for not including Jake in his guy’s night plans. Let’s see what people have to say… ️

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“NTA. Having a kid at Guys’ Night would be uncomfortable for everyone “

NTA. Guys night is not for babysitting a teen

NTA for not wanting to drink in front of a child

NTA. No obligation to form father/son bond. Doing plenty already

NTA – Quality time suggestions for bonding with the teenager

NTA. Independence is important in relationships. Bonding over activities helps.

NTA: Guy’s night without girlfriend’s son. Mom overstepped boundaries.

“NTA. Let the guy have his one day off! “

NTA. Bonding with mates without girlfriend’s son. Find alternatives!

NTA. You know the scene, offer a wholesome night with Jake.

NTA. Taking a kid to an adult gathering? That’s bizarre!

NTA. Girlfriend wants to crash guy’s night with her son?

Mom approved, but he said no. One boy’s night!

NTA: Bringing an underage son would cramp everyone’s style

NTA. Girlfriend doesn’t get guys nights, but compromise with kid.

NTA: Jake probably wouldn’t enjoy poker night with old guys.

Confused moms discuss girlfriend’s request for step-daddy duty on guy’s night

NTA: Adult night out, no place for teenager. Enjoy freedom!

NTA: Underage son shouldn’t be at guy’s night. Enjoy your friends!

NTA: Party, kid, and approval – a recipe for disaster!

NTA: Boundaries are important. Don’t let guilt control your decisions.

NTA: Mom wants you to fill a void, but you’re not obligated.

NTA, OP. It’s not fun for him or your friends.

NTA: Teenager doesn’t belong at guy’s night. Awkward for everyone

NTA for wanting guy time, but consider separate teenage-friendly plans

“NTA – She wants you to bring friends on guys night.”

NTA! Pushy girlfriend after only a year?

NTA. Protecting the kid from adult activities.

NTA, consider your friends and girlfriend’s son’s comfort

Not the a**hole for refusing to bring girlfriend’s son

Not the a**hole for refusing to bring girlfriend’s son

NTA. Let the baby be a baby for now!

NTA. Girlfriend disrespects boundaries – freedom is important in relationships.

NTA – Take some time for yourself, kid-free!

NTA: Bio dad’s absence may have skewed her expectations.