Imagine looking forward to your birthday celebration, only to be reminded of an embarrassing moment from your past every single year. This is the reality for a 19-year-old woman, who recently found herself in the middle of a family drama that has left the internet divided.
A Birthday Tradition with a Twist
The Unwanted Video Reel
The Infamous Birthday Incident
A Joke that Lost its Humor ➡️
A Promise Broken
The Last Straw ➡️ ♀️
The Aftermath
A Plea for an Apology
Looking for Judgment ⚖️
The Sister’s Perspective ♀️
Birthday Girl vs. The Embarrassing Video: Who’s in the Wrong?
In a twist of birthday events, a 19-year-old woman found herself walking out of her own party when her mother played an embarrassing video from her past, despite promising not to. The video, which features the birthday girl’s younger sister throwing a tantrum at her 11th birthday party, has been a recurring joke for the past seven years. The birthday girl, feeling humiliated and betrayed, is now facing backlash from her family, who label her as ‘ungrateful’ and ‘dramatic’. Meanwhile, her sister seems to revel in the attention the video brings. Who’s right in this situation? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this birthday drama… ️♀️
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“Don’t play the video or I’ll walk out” *Plays video* NTA
“NTA. Your birthday ruined every year. Frustrating and disrespectful sister! “
NTA, mom crossed boundaries with embarrassing video at birthday party
NTA. Take control of your birthday celebrations and set boundaries.
NTA, OP’s struggle with overbearing parents on birthdays
NTA. Fair warning given, but some may see it as dramatic.
“NTA – Sister’s bratty behavior steals birthday thunder. Gross reinforcement.”
Ungrateful birthday girl stands up for herself, no regrets!
NTA: 7 years of repeated jokes? That’s just ridiculous
NTA: Set boundaries for your own birthday celebrations.
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Asserting boundaries: Birthday girl stands up for herself
NTA for walking out. Different outcome if mom did too.
Setting boundaries with loved ones: NTA, consequences are necessary
INFO: Should she destroy the video to prevent further harm?
Stand up for yourself! Don’t let them bully you!
Setting boundaries: A joke that went too far
Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself.
NTA for leaving the party due to a broken agreement.
NTA. Your family disrespected you and ruined your birthday.
NTA. No warning, witnesses – they’re the a**holes.
NTA: Birthday wish ignored, sister’s video caused unnecessary drama
NTA. Your Mum is a huge one though.
Sister ignores birthday girl’s wishes, embarrassing them both
Stand your ground and show her your resolve!
Take back your birthday and make it all about you!
Setting boundaries and following through. NTA. Sounds exhausting.
Mom and sister are TA, hurting birthday girl’s feelings
“NTA. Good for you for standing up for your boundaries! “
OP’s mom crossed boundaries, OP left party, well done!
Stand up for yourself and don’t let the jokes continue!
Setting boundaries: NTA stands up against disrespectful birthday girl.
OP’s video without backups? NTA asks for clarification.
NTA. Standing up to overbearing mom at your own party!
Mother’s repeated joke enables sister’s bad behavior. NTA, block haters.
Embarrassing prank at birthday party, commenter suggests deleting evidence.
NTA Stand your ground against disrespectful jokes!
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NTA. Sister’s favorite joke backfires at her own party.
NTA: Mom’s embarrassing birthday tradition needs to stop.
NTA: A cringeworthy joke that highlights bad parenting. No thanks!
NTA. Clever solution to avoid awkwardness and make everyone happy!
NTA: Celebrate your birthday your own way and make new friends
Mom broke agreement, leaving wasn’t unreasonable.
NTA. Petty revenge ideas for future birthday celebrations.
NTA. Stand up for yourself and set boundaries with your family.
Sister’s birthday prank backfires. Mom can play it next time!
Setting boundaries: NTA enforces consequences for playing stupid games
Sibling rivalry and favoritism leads to a judgmental comment.
Setting boundaries with a selfish mother who ignores your feelings.
Setting boundaries and sticking to them. NTA!
“NTA, stand your ground and delete that video once and for all!”
NTA wants to delete embarrassing video to teach a lesson.
Supportive comment suggests showing video on mom’s birthday. NTA
Provoking others and blaming them for getting angry? NTA!
NTA. Abusive behavior and gaslighting from narcissistic mother. Set boundaries.
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NTA for setting boundaries and standing up for yourself.
Mom breaks promise, birthday girl walks out. NTA.
NTA. Take charge of your emotions and stand up to her!
When a joke goes too far, it’s no laughing matter. NTA.
Celebrate your birthday your way, no apologies necessary! ♀️
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Stick to your guns and don’t apologize!
NTA warned her, but she didn’t listen!
Stand your ground and celebrate your own way!
Promises broken, birthday girl walks out. You’re NTA.
“She kept her promise and left. That’s not funny. NTA!”
NTA. Family needs to grow tf up. ♀️
Celebrate your birthday with your boyfriend and friends!
Mom ignores reasonable request, becomes the AH.
Enforce your boundaries and don’t let others bring you down! ✊
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Setting boundaries, she crossed it. NTA stands her ground.
NTA: Unfair videos at sister’s party, hope you celebrate your way!
NTA: Your mom and sister stole your birthday spotlight
