"It's MY Wedding, Not My Autistic Brother's Birthday Party!" 😠

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

🔔 Wedding bells are ringing, but not everyone's singing! 😬 Our bride-to-be has been dreaming of her perfect day since forever, but there's one big obstacle standing in her way: her autistic brother. 😳 Growing up, everything revolved around his special needs, leaving our girl feeling left out and overlooked. 💔 Now that it's finally HER time to shine, she's determined to have the wedding SHE wants... no matter what! 💪 But when Mom catches wind of the plans, all h-ll breaks loose! 🌋 Is our bride being a total bridezilla, or does she deserve to have her day, her way? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 👇

🎉 Bride-to-Be's Dream Wedding Plans Revealed! 💍

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

🚨 Autistic Brother's Meltdowns: A Family Struggle 😢

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

💔 Bride Admits: "I Never Got Anything to Myself Growing Up" 😔

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

👰 Supportive Fiancé Wants Bride's Happiness Above All! ❤️

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

🤯 Mom SHOCKED by Bride's Wedding Choices! 😱

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

🔥 Bride FIRES BACK: "It's MY Wedding, Not My Brother's Birthday!" 🎂

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

😡 Mom RAGES: "You're Being Selfish & Horrible!" 🤬

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

🤔 Bride's Perspective: Brother Would Prefer Alone Time Anyway 🎧

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

🙅‍♀️ Bride Puts Her Foot Down: "I'm Not Changing ANYTHING!" 👠

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

💸 Who's Paying for This Dream Wedding Anyway? 🤑

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

🍗 Plot Twist: Brother-Friendly Foods ARE on the Menu! 🥔

caterwaulingkid | caterwaulingkid

Family Drama EXPLODES Over Bride's 'Selfish' Wedding Plans!

Our bride is caught between a rock and a hard place, trying to balance her dream wedding with her brother's special needs. Mom is FURIOUS, calling her selfish and horrible for not catering to him. But wait, there's a twist! Turns out, the menu DOES have some brother-friendly options, just not his favorite cake flavor. Plus, the bride and groom are footing most of the bill, so shouldn't they get the final say? This is one wedding drama that's sure to have everyone talking! Let's see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation.

Reasonable solutions offered to accommodate autistic brother. NTA 🙌

Allaboutbird | Allaboutbird

Wedding day is not a birthday party. Stand your ground! 💖

EleanorOfAquitaine- | EleanorOfAquitaine-

Weddings are about the couple, not accommodating every guest's needs.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Let him be himself. NTA for doing your wedding your way.

Old_Sheepherder_630 | Old_Sheepherder_630

Teaching autistic children to self cope. NTA for wedding.

Ihateyou1975 | Ihateyou1975

Wedding shouldn't be catered only to brother's needs. NTA. 😊

lincmidd | lincmidd

Weddings should be molded around the couple, not the guests. 😍

unipride | unipride

Weddings are about the bride and groom, not their family members. 😍

goeatacactus | goeatacactus

Suggest talking to him about a comfortable room nearby. NTA.

PrincessAF0518 | PrincessAF0518

NTA. Don't let your parents guilt-trip you into giving up your wedding day. 🙏

PillowOfCarnage | PillowOfCarnage

Momzilla prioritizes neurotypical guests over autistic brother's comfort. NTA.

DrKrash38 | DrKrash38

It's your day, not your brother's birthday party! 😠

imma-rant-here | imma-rant-here

Understanding an autistic person's needs is important 👍

ontilthedawn | ontilthedawn

Weddings are about the couple, not the family. NTA 😊

naranghim | naranghim

NTA! You're not responsible for your brother's negative behaviors 😕

stainedglassmoon | stainedglassmoon

Respect your brother's wishes for social gatherings at your wedding.

SecretSummerMidnight | SecretSummerMidnight

Include him in the wedding, let him leave the reception 🌟

[deleted] | [deleted]

It's your day, not his. Do what you want. 👏

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

Weddings are stressful enough without family drama 😠

rtenderfoot | rtenderfoot

Former wedding DJ offers great advice for a happy wedding day 🙌

qrpc | qrpc

Your wedding, your rules! Don't let anyone else dictate it. 😎

Canuhearmegloria | Canuhearmegloria

Consider your brother's feelings and let him stay home 🙏

MsKityFantastico | MsKityFantastico

Navigating the challenges of having an autistic sibling and standing up for yourself. NTA! 👏

mercurial_planner | mercurial_planner

Weddings are meant to be memorable and not for accommodating others.

oodles-motherof | oodles-motherof

Mother's cruel behavior towards autistic son and daughter is reprehensible. NTA.

herculaneum | herculaneum

NTA bride stands up to insensitive mother about autistic brother's party

poet_andknowit | poet_andknowit

Wedding conflict with autistic brother's birthday. NTA but pay attention!

Calm_Initial | Calm_Initial

Autistic commenter empathizes with bride, blames mother for situation. 🤷‍♂️

gold_dusted | gold_dusted

Be true to yourself, have the wedding you want! 😊

OverallDisaster | OverallDisaster

Planning your dream wedding doesn't make you a bad sibling 👰

Trash-BABIE-Bitch | Trash-BABIE-Bitch

Wedding drama with entitled parents and autistic brother. NTA wins.

HunterRoze | HunterRoze

Stand up for yourself! It's YOUR big day! 💁‍♀️

JustADerpyArtist | JustADerpyArtist

Options for accommodating autistic brother at wedding, NTA.

Ridleaf | Ridleaf

Sibling solidarity! 🙌 NTA and navigating family accommodations. 💕

anonomouse27 | anonomouse27

Deserving a day of your own. 👏 Cupcake and decompress area.

Handbag_Lady | Handbag_Lady

NTA. Don't accept parents' offer for dress; prioritize your wedding.

JCWa50 | JCWa50

Let your brother decide, it's your wedding day after all! 👭💕

KaitlinS_11 | KaitlinS_11

It's your day, not your brother's birthday party! NTA 😊

ducktruck27 | ducktruck27

Let your brother decide what he wants and be happy 🙌

topazpink777 | topazpink777

Autistic commenter supports prioritizing wedding over their comfort. NTA 👍

tempeluvr | tempeluvr

Wedding day is about the bride, not accommodating family members. 😍

avagias | avagias

Weddings are about the couple, not accommodating every family member. 🙌

GoddessOfMagic | GoddessOfMagic

Sibling of autistic brothers encourages OP to prioritize own wedding (NTA) 👏

EsthieBestie986 | EsthieBestie986

Autistic brother's birthday vs my wedding day, NTA wins 🎉

harlotofthecataclysm | harlotofthecataclysm

Autistic uncle didn't attend wedding, still sent a gift 👍

Smug010 | Smug010

Invite him to ceremony, arrange ride home. NAH situation.

Sir_Tandeath | Sir_Tandeath

Ask your brother how he feels, not your mother. He's 20.

kiradax | kiradax

Consider the importance of your brother's presence at your wedding 👨‍👦

404unotfound | 404unotfound

Don't let anyone guilt trip you into changing your wedding plans! 🙌

BaffledMum | BaffledMum

Wedding day is about the couple, not their autistic brother. NTA 😊

pen_pal_girl | pen_pal_girl

Be understanding of your parents' tough choice. Have a lovely wedding! 😊

toomanyschnauzers | toomanyschnauzers

Weddings are about the couple, not accommodating every family member. 🙌

canisnatatrix | canisnatatrix

Don't feel guilty, it's YOUR wedding, not your brother's party! 😎

pinkcherry99 | pinkcherry99

Wedding is about the couple, not accommodating the brother's needs. NTA

Flippn_Freddy | Flippn_Freddy

Wedding not birthday party. Brother may prefer not to go.

amjay8 | amjay8

Standing up for yourself against controlling family. 💪

WyrdThoughts | WyrdThoughts

NTA. Sensitivity suggested for brother's sensory needs. 🙏

distracted_x | distracted_x

Taking a stand for personal happiness on your wedding day! ✊

heyitsbea19 | heyitsbea19

NTA. Communicating to your mother the impact of brother's needs.

PolitePineapple | PolitePineapple

Wedding day should be about the couple, not the brother! 😡

Feeling-better2day | Feeling-better2day

Wedding woes and family dynamics. NTA stands up for themselves.

SleepyPuppet85 | SleepyPuppet85

Wedding planning for an autistic sibling - NTA's accommodating solution 😊

Liraeyn | Liraeyn

Prioritizing your wedding doesn't make you NTA. Consider separate celebration.

gogirl0283 | gogirl0283

Wedding day is about you, not about your autistic brother.

Flowerofiron | Flowerofiron

Weddings are about the couple, not family guests. #NTA 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Arranging for a friend to take him allowed him to attend 🥰

jces1 | jces1

Celebrate your wedding day without guilt. You're NTA 👏

deviate_angel | deviate_angel

Celebrate love, not family. Consider brother's comfort and celebrate separately 💕

[deleted] | [deleted]

Deserving attention on your own wedding day 💍😎

De5p | De5p

Your wedding, your choice! Don't let anyone bully you 💪

GrammyGH | GrammyGH

As a neurodiverse child's mom, NTA. A wedding should celebrate love.

sk0479913 | sk0479913

Weddings are for the bride and groom, not their autistic siblings. 😠

[deleted] | [deleted]

Setting boundaries with special needs siblings at weddings. NTA.

dugglesdad | dugglesdad

NTA for setting boundaries with family regarding autistic brother's behavior.

MistressLyda | MistressLyda

Wedding is about the couple, not their autistic brother. NTA.

emmerlaus | emmerlaus

Don't sacrifice your happiness for others, live it up! 😎

odetoapitbull | odetoapitbull

A heartwarming story of accommodating an autistic child at a wedding ❤️

Ceejayaitch | Ceejayaitch

Don't sacrifice your wedding day for your brother's comfort 🙅‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Set up a video game station for him to chill 🎮 NTA

sadfrenchtoast | sadfrenchtoast

Stand up for yourself! It's YOUR day 👏

downtowngeek | downtowngeek

Engaging comment from a parent with similar experience and advice.

mediocreorganism | mediocreorganism

Accepting and understanding towards autistic brother's needs. 👏

Ramona_Flours | Ramona_Flours

Don't let your mom ruin your wedding and your brother's day! 🙏

Tawanda64 | Tawanda64

NTA. It's YOUR wedding, not HIS birthday party! 😠

turd_ferguson083 | turd_ferguson083

Set boundaries with brother and communicate to avoid parental interference.

theforceisfemale | theforceisfemale

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