Coworker Has NO IDEA Her 'Gay BFF' Is Actually MARRIED... to a WOMAN 😱💍

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

🌈 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a juicy tale of mistaken identities, clingy coworkers, and a sassy wife who's not afraid to set the record straight! 😎 When a flamboyant hubby and his bisexual bride attend a party, things take a turn for the awkward when a certain someone makes a bold assumption. 😬 Get ready for some laughs, some gasps, and a whole lot of drama! 🍿

🌈 A Tale of Two Bisexuals 💍

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

🗣️ The "Gay Voice" Assumption 🤔

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

👩‍❤️‍👨 Meet Sarah: The Clingy Coworker 😬

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

🙅‍♂️ Hubby's Complaints: Clingy & Overbearing 😒

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

🎉 The Party Revelation 🌈

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

💬 The LGBT Topic Arises 🏳️‍🌈

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

😳 Awkward Realization 💍

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

😲 Proof Demanded! 🕵️‍♀️

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

😂 Laughter Erupts, Sarah Humiliated 😳

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

😤 The Reason for the Snap 😠

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

🤔 AITA for Setting the Record Straight? 🙋‍♀️

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

💼 Hubby's Lack of Sharing: Just Coworkers 🤷‍♂️

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

🗣️ No Meaningful Conversations 🤐

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

💍 No Rings Allowed at Work 🚫

theaitathrowaway22 | theaitathrowaway22

Plot Twist: "Gay BFF" is Actually Married... to a Woman!

Well, well, well... looks like someone made a bit of a blunder at the party! When Sarah boldly declared her "gay bff" status with the wife's hubby, she had no idea she was talking to the man's actual spouse! Cue the awkward silence and demands for proof. But our sassy protagonist wasn't about to let this clingy coworker off the hook easily. With a simple point to her wedding ring, she sent Sarah into a state of shock and humiliation. The internet has spoken, and it seems this wife may have been a bit harsh in her approach. But hey, at least hubby's work life got a little less stressful after this fiasco! What do you think, folks? Was this a justified snap or a case of taking things too far? Let's see what the masses have to say!

Setting the record straight without insults. NTA wins 🏆

Appropriate-Energy | Appropriate-Energy

Firm yet fair response to clueless coworker 👏

avast2006 | avast2006

Calling out fetishization and attention-seeking behavior 👏🏼

thing_eli | thing_eli

A commenter disagrees and calls out the original poster for humiliating their coworker.

chartreuseranger | chartreuseranger

Proving a coworker's 'gay BFF' is married 👀 NTA wins 🙌

birdiepet | birdiepet

Suggests a better way to handle the situation. NAH.

physioworld | physioworld

Presumptuous coworker, uncommunicative husband, and embarrassed wife all at fault 🤷‍♀️

Ngin3 | Ngin3

Don't be a mean girl, YTA! Maybe she's just lonely 😞

starri_ski3 | starri_ski3

Redditor calls out OP for humiliating coworker in public 👏

mouse_attack | mouse_attack

Defending the woman and criticizing the OP's actions. 🤬

[deleted] | [deleted]

Setting the record straight without mocking, NTA.

WembleyToast | WembleyToast

Winning games, losing friends 🤷‍♀️ NTA for setting her straight.

s-mores | s-mores

Calling out the fetishization of 'gay best friends'. 💁🏻‍♀️🏳️‍🌈

[deleted] | [deleted]

Questioning the motive behind sharing personal info at work party 🤔

newlifeC13 | newlifeC13

User defends coworker, criticizes husband for not setting boundaries.

Stinrawr | Stinrawr

Bisexual NTA calls out fetishization of 'gay best friends' 👏

101mimo101 | 101mimo101

Unmarried 'Gay BFF' coworker is actually a married man? 🤔

Morons_Are_Fun | Morons_Are_Fun

Woman criticized for humiliating another woman at a party. 😬

darcybriggs | darcybriggs

Calling out a coworker's hypocrisy: ESH with room for growth 🤔

ranstopolis | ranstopolis

Calling out fetishization is important, but public embarrassment isn't necessary. ESH.

Kerribeari | Kerribeari

Wife gets revenge on clueless coworker with savage comeback 👏

PossiblyWitty | PossiblyWitty

Sharing negative things said by your spouse is not cool 🤯

raughtweiller622 | raughtweiller622

Revealing someone's sexuality abruptly is rude, ESH. 🤷‍♀️

freeinnyc2018 | freeinnyc2018

Don't be a mean girl, be nice and explain it 🌈💍

what_a_cheesy_cat | what_a_cheesy_cat

Assuming someone's sexuality can be misleading. 😔

GrannyWeatherwaxscat | GrannyWeatherwaxscat

Bi commenter calls out ignorance and double standards in LGBTQIA+.

annedubya | annedubya

The 'gay best friend' trope is problematic and dehumanizing 😒

Psycho-kitty- | Psycho-kitty-

NTA, gently correcting the clueless coworker 😊

DaZebraffe | DaZebraffe

Calling out problematic 'gay best friend' concept. NTA wins.

hellslittleliar | hellslittleliar

Wedding ring clapback shuts down clueless coworker. NTA 👏

SlooperDoop | SlooperDoop

Complicated issues around bisexuality and gender norms in relationships.

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Insecurity detected! Commenter called out for their acute reaction.

jazzy3113 | jazzy3113

Closed-minded coworker tokenizes 'gay BFF' and embarrasses herself. NTA.

PalmTree888 | PalmTree888

Calling someone your 'gay BFF' is annoying and performative. NTA.

supportbreakfast | supportbreakfast

Playful but not bitchy response to clueless coworker's assumptions 😏

oguzthedoc | oguzthedoc

Criticism of 'gay bff' trend and support for NTA OP.

justpickoneitssimple | justpickoneitssimple

Calling out the fetishization of queer people, NTA wins 🏆

[deleted] | [deleted]

Boundaries are important, even for 'gay BFFs'. NTA 👍

Dichoctomy | Dichoctomy

Calling him her "gay best friend" is insulting and stereotypical 👎

dfghjkjhgfdsaASDFGHJ | dfghjkjhgfdsaASDFGHJ

Calling out toxic behavior and standing up for loved ones 👏

AidaTari | AidaTari

Debate over who's at fault for coworker's humiliation. 🤔

minicyrie | minicyrie

NTA calls out lying coworker about her husband's identity 😈

Calster111 | Calster111

Putting an appropriative coworker in her place 💪

Hinataismyhero | Hinataismyhero

Setting the record straight on being a good ally 🏳️‍🌈

staffsargent | staffsargent

Being someone's 'gay best friend' is creepy, not a compliment. NTA.

turningmyluckaround | turningmyluckaround

Calling out fetishizing and strange behavior. NTA for speaking up.

legolaswashot | legolaswashot

Tokenization of LGBT+ folks and deserved embarrassment. NTA.

NearbyReading | NearbyReading

Assumptions lead to misunderstandings. NTA for setting things straight.

Wookieman222 | Wookieman222

Bi eraser and annoying coworker put in their place 👏👏👏

dxmxmlxx | dxmxmlxx

Polite correction of assumptions about sexuality. Not the a-hole.

PoopSmith87 | PoopSmith87

Hilarious sitcom-like situation, NTA handled it well 😂

SoulExecution | SoulExecution

Calling out problematic behavior of assuming sexuality and demanding proof.

BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry

Assuming someone's sexuality and not knowing your best friend? 🤔

exhaustedstoner | exhaustedstoner

Why claim someone as BFF without knowing them? 🤔 NTA

kleeinny | kleeinny

User questions OP's use of 'bisexual' instead of 'gay'.

simplyammee | simplyammee

Standing up for her husband and correcting a tokenizing coworker 👏

armh1313 | armh1313

Shook her back to reality in the less violent way 😂

WinterGlory | WinterGlory

Setting the record straight without snapping - NTA 👍

CantEatCatsKevin | CantEatCatsKevin

Supportive comment on workplace professionalism and personal struggle.

little_tiny_oranges | little_tiny_oranges

Asking for proof of marriage? That's some nerve 🙄

Kairenne | Kairenne

Claiming someone else's sexuality is wrong. NTA put her in place 😂

Sylver_knee | Sylver_knee

Bisexual woman calls out calling someone 'gay best friend'. NTA.

HyperRedFox | HyperRedFox

Calling out stereotypes and defending loved ones 👏

themachine1234 | themachine1234

Sick of being a 'gay BFF'? NTA calls out toxic friendship.

roxadox | roxadox

Spilling the tea ☕: Coworker flirts with married man, clueless about wife

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Standing up to homophobia with class 💪

CJsopinion | CJsopinion

Supportive comment celebrates respect for LGBT relationships and boundaries.

leilenix | leilenix

Comparing a fake 'gay BFF' to a race is insensitive 👎

vanbarbecue | vanbarbecue

Setting the record straight on fake allyship. NTA.

PurlPaladin | PurlPaladin

Some people fetishize gay men and it's a major problem 😱

[deleted] | [deleted]

Well said! 'Gay BFF' is a tired trope. 💯

catladyloz | catladyloz

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