Husband REFUSES to Help Neighbors After Wife Volunteers Him Behind His Back! 😲💔

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🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of a handyman hubby caught in a web of neighborhood drama! 🕷️ Meet our 28-year-old IT guy, working his butt off to provide for his family in a pricey area. 💸 His wife, a stay-at-home mom, has a knack for mingling with the neighbors... and volunteering her hubby's precious free time! 😱 Will our hero stand his ground or cave to the pressure? Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♂️

🏠 Handyman Hubby in High Demand! 🛠️

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💼 Overworked IT Guy Hustling for His Family 👨‍💻

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🙎‍♀️ Stay-at-Home Mom Mingling with the Neighbors 🏘️

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🔧 Handyman Heritage Haunts Hubby 👴

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🤐 Wife's Promises Put Hubby in a Pickle 😬

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🌊 One Good Deed Opens the Floodgates 😰

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Time Takes Priority Over Cheap Neighbors 🙅‍♂️

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🤷‍♂️ Hubby Puts His Foot Down: "Good Luck With That!" 😤

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😡 Wife Wakes Up to Angry Neighbors and Silent Treatment Ensues 🙊

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😰 Wife's People-Pleasing Tendencies Cause Panic 😓

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🤔 Is Handyman Hubby the A-hole for Standing His Ground? 🧐

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Handyman Hubby Draws the Line: "Do It Yourself!"

Our overworked IT guy has had enough of his wife volunteering his handyman skills to the nosy neighbors! Despite his clear warnings, she keeps promising his time, leaving him torn between family time and fixing up the cheapskates' houses. When she does it again, he puts his foot down and tells her to handle it herself. Cue the silent treatment and panicking wife! The internet is abuzz with opinions on this handyman hubby's predicament. Is he an a-hole for standing his ground, or is his wife crossing the line by volunteering his time without his consent? Grab your popcorn, because the drama is about to unfold!

Wife volunteers husband without consent, he's NTA for refusing.

Murtlejean | Murtlejean

Respectful NTA response to wife's boundary-crossing volunteerism. 🙌

christina0001 | christina0001

Voluntelling someone's time is rude, NTA for refusing help 😒

jmast7115 | jmast7115

Prioritizing family time over pleasing neighbors, NTA. 👍

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Don't let your wife volunteer you for free labor 🙅🏻

anarchyshift | anarchyshift

When neighbors take advantage of your kindness... 😑

[deleted] | [deleted]

Wife ignores husband's boundaries, gets upset when he refuses. NTA 👍

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope

Neighborly duties? Not your responsibility. NTA 🙅‍♂️

jupiter235 | jupiter235

NTA saves neighbor from volunteer-happy spouse. Handymen rejoice! 🙌

iNezzzz37 | iNezzzz37

Learning to say no and setting boundaries is important. NTA 👍

UnsightlyFuzz | UnsightlyFuzz

Setting boundaries is important, NTA. Offering alternative solutions may help.

Sweaty_Pear | Sweaty_Pear

Being introverted doesn't justify being a pushover 🤷‍♂️

thiskateuntamed | thiskateuntamed

Charge your wife an insanely high hourly rate 💰

stuckhans | stuckhans

Prioritizing family over nosy neighbors, NTA. Communicate with wife.

tomdell913 | tomdell913

Volunteering someone without consent is not okay. 😑

saymynamebastien | saymynamebastien

Boundaries are important. Don't let others volunteer you without consent. 👍

piedrav | piedrav

Setting boundaries with family is important. 👍

shannamarie91 | shannamarie91

Husband gets volunteered by wife for a job, gives clever solution

mhinckle20 | mhinckle20

Set boundaries and communicate. NTA for wanting fairness.

sneeky_seer | sneeky_seer

Volunteering someone without their consent is not cool. NTA.

citizensfund82 | citizensfund82

Wife volunteers husband for creepy women, commenter calls out sexual harassment. 👏

Candid-Ear-4840 | Candid-Ear-4840

Helpful husband with a truck and trailer saves the day! 🙌

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Setting boundaries with family is important for self-care 🙌

forceofslugyuk | forceofslugyuk

Respect boundaries and don't volunteer someone else's time. NTA.

willowgrl | willowgrl

"Volunteering your spouse's time without asking? Not cool." 😑

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Wife volunteers husband without consent, gets called out for it.

leslielaughs | leslielaughs

Being volunteered without consent? Definitely Not The A-hole! 🙅‍♂️

venakri | venakri

Creative solution for neighborly exchange of services 👍

camanorose | camanorose

Politely declining is enough, you're not obligated to help 👍

tovarischzukova | tovarischzukova

Volunteering someone's time is not okay. NTA 👍

lychigo | lychigo

Pathological people pleasing mother-in-law crosses boundaries, jeopardizes trust. NTA.

Revolutionary_Bug_39 | Revolutionary_Bug_39

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing your ground. 💪

chatondedanger | chatondedanger

Prioritizing neighbors over spouse? NTA calls out wife's actions.

comettheconquerer | comettheconquerer

Setting boundaries and therapy recommended for pushy wife. NTA 👍

friendlily | friendlily

Consent is key. NTA for not helping without wife's permission.

nowhereian | nowhereian

Similar story, but NTA for choosing how to spend time.

ColorsOfTheCurrents | ColorsOfTheCurrents

NTA's wife is pimping him out for free labor 😂

DubsAnd49ers | DubsAnd49ers

NTA. Suggest messaging neighbors to set boundaries and teach wife lesson.

Reliant20 | Reliant20

Respectful NTA response sets clear boundaries with pushy wife.

whenitrainsitpours4 | whenitrainsitpours4

Setting boundaries with neighbors: NTA explains wife's overstepping.

snoop_ard | snoop_ard

Neighborly disputes continue on Reddit. NTA for setting boundaries.

koshka42 | koshka42

Helping neighbors without notice is fine, but wife needs respect.

iamblamb | iamblamb

NTA. Perfect third strike out, wife needs to stand up 🤯

millennialfungus | millennialfungus

Volunteer revenge 🔥 Ironing or babysitting, she'll learn to say no

APH83 | APH83

Wife volunteers husband without consent, NTA for refusing help.

dontbreakmystar | dontbreakmystar

Respectful boundaries are important in relationships and volunteering.

Koskani | Koskani

Wife volunteered him without consent, he's NTA and deserves respect 👏

Crafty_Tackle | Crafty_Tackle

Setting boundaries and standing firm! 💪🏻

NhuQP | NhuQP

"Inconsiderate wife volunteers husband behind his back" - NTA comment

MsRenee2020 | MsRenee2020

Learning to say no is important 👍

periwinkle_cupcake | periwinkle_cupcake

Opposite scenario: Wife volunteers husband without consent. NTA.

grammerenthusiast | grammerenthusiast

Setting boundaries with pushy neighbors. 🙅‍♂️

whitethrowblanket | whitethrowblanket

Setting boundaries with family and respecting spouse's time ✌️

SnooDogs6701 | SnooDogs6701

No guilt needed. Stick to your own commitments. #NTA 👍

FromVikingToGod | FromVikingToGod

Being a husband doesn't mean being a slave 👍

filthymouthedwife420 | filthymouthedwife420

Husband explains liability concerns when helping neighbors without consent. ⚠️

b00kkeeper | b00kkeeper

Setting boundaries is crucial in a relationship. NTA 👍

Holly3x17 | Holly3x17

Advice on dealing with people-pleasing spouses and setting boundaries. 👍

dangerousmushroom | dangerousmushroom

Passive-aggressive revenge plan in the making 🤔

High5assfuck | High5assfuck

Don't volunteer people without their consent, even for good causes! ✌🏻

bolitotheruscornutus | bolitotheruscornutus

Wife volunteers husband without permission, commenter gives helpful advice.

MAZE_ashley93 | MAZE_ashley93

Volunteering someone without their consent is not cool. 😐

elcisitiak | elcisitiak

Silent treatment is abusive, wife is TA. Counseling recommended 🙅🏻

Bollywood_Fan | Bollywood_Fan

Don't volunteer someone else for a task, NTA for refusing.

angsumnes | angsumnes

Spouse's volunteer work isn't a free pass to exploit you. 👍

Methadras | Methadras

Wife volunteers husband without consent, NTA for reaction. 👍

Brock_Samson987 | Brock_Samson987

Neighborly duties? No thanks! Wife, apologize and move on 😷

tmchd | tmchd

Struggling with saying no? This 26M software engineer understands 🙏

b1ack1323 | b1ack1323

Setting boundaries with neighbors: a delicate but necessary conversation. 👍

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Learning to say no is important 👍

ohmoimarie | ohmoimarie

NTA, prioritize your own family over volunteering your husband.

SupaTheBaked | SupaTheBaked

Neighbor volunteers husband without consent, commenter says NTA

smol_pink_cute | smol_pink_cute

Suggests wife should work to free up husband's time. NTA.

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Labor objectification - a new perspective on spousal expectations. 🤔

wah4REDDIT | wah4REDDIT

A humorous take on a wife volunteering her husband without consent 😂

JuneauEu | JuneauEu

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