Parents DEVASTATED By What Son Said About His Disabled Brother 💔

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Get ready for a heart-wrenching tale that's sure to stir up some emotions! 😢 Meet our protagonist, a 32-year-old man caught between his dreams for the future and the weight of his family's expectations. With a disabled brother who requires constant care, he's facing a dilemma that's tearing his family apart. 💔 Buckle up, because this story is about to take you on a rollercoaster ride of guilt, resentment, and the harsh realities of life. 🎢

😔 A Heartbreaking Family Dilemma

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💔 Drew's Lifelong Struggle

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🧠 The Cognitive Abilities of a Child

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😢 A Life Wasted Away

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👨‍👩‍👦 Parents Devoted to Drew's Care

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🌐 Reconnecting Through Zoom Calls

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🤔 The Subtle Expectation

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🙅‍♂️ Opposed to the Idea

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🗣️ Parents Keep Pushing

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⏰ Time is Running Out

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🏙️ Plans to Move to a New City

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😤 Fed Up with Their Antics

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😥 The Guilt Trip

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🏚️ The Harsh Truth

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😡 Parents Furious at the Comments

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🤷‍♂️ Wanting to Live Freely

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📞 Hung Up Mid-Explanation

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💬 Wife Agrees with the Message

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😱 Shocking Truth Bomb Drops on Zoom Call! 💣

In a heated Zoom call with his parents, our conflicted hero finally reaches his breaking point. 🤯 Fed up with the constant pressure to take on the lifelong responsibility of caring for his severely disabled brother, he drops a bombshell: "The day after you die, I'm sending Drew to a nursing home and I'll never visit him again." 😲 Ouch! His parents are FURIOUS, calling his comments "extremely insensitive" and "cruel." 😡 But is he really the a-hole for wanting to live his life freely? 🤔 The internet is about to weigh in on this explosive family drama, and you won't believe what they have to say! 🍿

Redditor calls out OP for cruel statement towards disabled brother. ESH.

Dszquphsbnt | Dszquphsbnt

ESH: Parents push burden of care on sibling, but harsh comment.

stitchinthyme9 | stitchinthyme9

Redditor calls out OP for insensitive comment about disabled brother 💔

Fallout4Addict | Fallout4Addict

Harsh comment to parents about disabled brother makes YTA.

greenseraphima | greenseraphima

Sibling dilemma: Navigating care for a disabled brother 🤔

irisshadow | irisshadow

Redditor calls out OP for cruel comment about disabled brother 😕

ol_miss_ana | ol_miss_ana

Choosing to care for a disabled sibling is a personal choice 🙏

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Sibling struggles with parents' expectation of caring for disabled brother

Dr_Poopski | Dr_Poopski

Boundaries are important, even with family. 👍

alexisleefoster | alexisleefoster

Redditor calls out OP for treating disabled brother worse than dog 😔

612marion | 612marion

NTA explains how parents expected too much from OP's family 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦

lelouchgirl07 | lelouchgirl07

Dumping your disabled brother in a home & never visiting him again is horrible 😢

hereforwow | hereforwow

Toxic grooming to be a full-time caregiver is NOT okay 😡

ReaffirmReality | ReaffirmReality

Leaving disabled brother in care is okay, intentionally hurting parents isn't 😔

ChocolateChipShame | ChocolateChipShame

Tough love or selfishness? Debate on family care responsibilities.

Squish_the_android | Squish_the_android

Parents criticized for lack of plan for disabled son's future

lexisplays | lexisplays

Caring for a severely mentally ill person is a full-time job 💼❤️

bella0520 | bella0520

Being honest was tough but necessary to live his own life 👍

happy-gofuckyourself | happy-gofuckyourself

User supports OP's decision to not take care of disabled brother

mileaf | mileaf

Parent of disabled child shares heartbreaking fear of leaving vulnerable son

ElizabethHiems | ElizabethHiems

NTA: Commenter supports OP for standing up to parents' neglectful behavior 👏

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Sibling struggles with neglected feelings in disabled brother's shadow. 😔

justsippingteahere | justsippingteahere

Understanding comment sympathizes with difficult situation for disabled brother 💔

rtfcandlearntherules | rtfcandlearntherules

Big brother struggles to care for disabled sibling after parents pass 💔

itsnotbritneybitch | itsnotbritneybitch

NTA. Parents prioritize disabled son, abusive towards other. 🚫👨‍👩‍👦‍👦

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

Siblings struggling to care for disabled brother, YTA for neglecting.

reallynah75 | reallynah75

NTA for not wanting to be caregiver, but YTA for being cold.

poltyy | poltyy

Redditor called out for cruel comment about disabled brother. YTA.

lh123456789 | lh123456789

NTA for refusing to uproot your life for your sibling. Clarify intentions.

JayK289 | JayK289

Understanding the commenter's perspective on a difficult family situation.

PuffyPinkCow1 | PuffyPinkCow1

Parents expect too much but never visiting disabled brother is AH move 🤦‍♂️

Significant_Risk | Significant_Risk

Sibling struggles with caring for disabled brother, parents at fault.

wind-river7 | wind-river7

Sacrifices made by siblings of disabled children often overlooked. NTA 🙌

Mewshimyo | Mewshimyo

Prioritizing a disabled sibling doesn't mean sacrificing your own life. NTA 👏

Netherese_Nomad | Netherese_Nomad

Debate in comments about double standards regarding family obligations 😕

TheMoralBitch | TheMoralBitch

Honesty is the best policy 👍

LibrarianFish | LibrarianFish

Setting boundaries with family over disabled sibling. NTA 👏

WampireKitt3n | WampireKitt3n

Advice on alternatives to nursing homes for disabled family members.

Ragnor144 | Ragnor144

Don't let guilt-tripping parents make their problem yours! 👊

xHugoBoss | xHugoBoss

User stands up for themselves and disabled brother against family pressure. NTA 👏

guriboysf | guriboysf

Compassion for Drew and criticism for abandoning him. 😢

dtjnder1 | dtjnder1

Sibling caretaker plan is not a plan, NTA mom 👏

MaggieAnni | MaggieAnni

A commenter shares their experience with disability and pregnancy shaming.

Firethorn101 | Firethorn101

NTA for snapping at parents who forced caretaker role.

wrong_tr0users | wrong_tr0users

You're not the a-hole, but delivery counts. Rise above 💪

AlgaroSensei | AlgaroSensei

A parent with a disabled child explains how to handle responsibility.

Jamielei | Jamielei

Redditor defends NTA judgment despite harsh comment and no replies.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Caring for a disabled sibling can be challenging. NTA, but communicate compassionately.

DisabledSecretPolice | DisabledSecretPolice

Sibling shares tough love on disabled brother. NTA 👏

fireextinquisher | fireextinquisher

Person expresses empathy but calls out OP's resentment towards family. ESH 🤢

Sashleeyy | Sashleeyy

NTA for expressing concerns about brother's future, but ESH for lacking compassion and understanding for parents' situation. 😔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Counseling can help with resentment towards disabled sibling. YTA judgment.

nannylive | nannylive

Caring for disabled siblings - YTA but ESH (except brother)

Urkelxgrue | Urkelxgrue

Compassionate comment suggests nursing home for disabled brother NTA 👍

Ethan0307 | Ethan0307

Sibling conflict and disability - ESH, but Drew deserves better 😔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Being a caregiver is tough, YTA comment meant to inflict pain 💔

Terrific_Raccoon | Terrific_Raccoon

ESH, but mostly your parents. Consider apologizing for your frustration.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Taking care of a disabled family member can be overwhelming 💔

RubioPaarmann | RubioPaarmann

Sometimes being blunt is the only way to set boundaries.

DeathBahamutXXX | DeathBahamutXXX

Sibling conflict over disabled brother sparks ESH judgment.

cate2283 | cate2283

Choosing to place a disabled family member is a tough decision 😢

[deleted] | [deleted]

Navigating the complexities of disability in the family 👩‍🧭

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NTA! You're not required to care for your disabled sibling 👏

Eponarose | Eponarose

Honesty is important, even in hard conversations. 👍

Samsamsamadam | Samsamsamadam

Sibling in home, NAH, but harsh comment over Zoom.

6thMagrathea | 6thMagrathea

Tough conversation turns cruel - ESH in this family drama

[deleted] | [deleted]

Living with an unseen disability is hard. NAH.

NikNakMuay | NikNakMuay

Compassionate reply encourages understanding and communication 👏

Robokat_Brutus | Robokat_Brutus

Choosing not to care for disabled family member - NTA.

alyssajade23 | alyssajade23

Choosing to prioritize oneself does not make one an a-hole 💪

CeeGeeWhy | CeeGeeWhy

NTA comment suggests burden of caring for disabled adult and lack of communication.

BergJatte79 | BergJatte79

Redditor calls out OP for throwing disabled brother into home. ESH 🤷‍♂️

fkansh | fkansh

Prioritizing family doesn't make you a bad sibling 👍

katherinemma987 | katherinemma987

Family expectations can be overwhelming. ESH for their behavior.

Dhannah22 | Dhannah22

NTA for considering nursing home, not AH for expressing frustration.

xcrunner2019 | xcrunner2019

Sibling's cruel remark sparks debate on caretaking responsibilities.

RedditDK2 | RedditDK2

Caregiver resentment leads to cruel comment and neglectful behavior. ESH 😠

sheramom4 | sheramom4

Sibling expresses resentment towards disabled brother and parents' expectations. ESH. 😞

tmchd | tmchd

Encouraging response to NTA's decision to prioritize correct arrangements. 👍

damwookie | damwookie

Choosing personal aspirations over familial responsibility sparks heated debate. 🤔

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Struggling to cope with disabled brother, NTA for speaking out 💔

MysticDragon14 | MysticDragon14

Support for standing up for your future while acknowledging delivery.

[deleted] | [deleted]

A caregiver suggests a nice home for Drew with loving staff ❤️

YouAreNotMyRobot | YouAreNotMyRobot

Caring for disabled sibling leads to family crisis. **ESH**

elizabethmegan | elizabethmegan

Devoted sibling of special needs person explains why they're NTA 👏

icky-chu | icky-chu

Sibling resentment and ethical dilemmas in caring for a disabled brother. 🤔

SaraMarsh245 | SaraMarsh245

Setting up a revocable trust could help avoid financial burden. 👥

CrazyCarl1986 | CrazyCarl1986

Redditor calls out insensitive behavior towards disabled brother 💔

ejmci | ejmci

Sibling takes initiative to prepare disabled sister for adulthood. NTA.

VanillaClay | VanillaClay

Threatening to abandon disabled sibling is a**hole move 😡

lolaboats | lolaboats

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