Student's IMPOSSIBLE Choice: Babysit Autistic Classmate or Enjoy Dream Vacation?

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🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy dilemma on our hands! 😱 Meet our 15-year-old protagonist, who's been given the chance of a lifetime: a school trip to Berlin! 🇩🇪 But wait, there's a catch! 😬 The school wants our hero to 'babysit' their autistic classmate, AC, for the entire trip! 😳 Is it fair to ask a teenager to give up their dream vacation to be a caretaker? 🤔 Let's dive into this drama and see what unfolds! 🍿

🚌 The Berlin Trip Dilemma: A Costly Opportunity! 💸

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😱 Trouble Brewing: The Autistic Classmate Joins the Trip! 😬

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🙏 Understanding AC's Struggles, But Fearing the Worst! 😰

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👨‍🏫 The Teacher's Shocking Request: Babysit AC! 😳

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😕 Stalling for Time: What Should I Do? 🤔

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🤨 AC's Independence: Shouldn't He Be Able to Manage? 🤷‍♂️

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😒 AC's Judgmental Nature: A Potential Buzzkill! 😩

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🤷‍♂️ WIBTA for Refusing to Babysit AC? You Decide! 🗳️

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🚨 Big Update: I Said NO to the Teacher! 😮

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🙌 Overcoming My Pushover Ways: A Proud Moment! 😊

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🙏 Thank You, Reddit: Your Input Made a Difference! 🌟

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🚨 The Berlin Trip Babysitting Bombshell: Should Our Hero Say No? 😱

Our protagonist is faced with a tough choice: enjoy the trip of a lifetime or become a full-time babysitter for their autistic classmate, AC! 😰 AC's known for being verbally abusive and judgmental, which could put a damper on the whole experience. 😒 Our hero's family shelled out big bucks for this trip, and they don't want to waste it catering to AC's every whim. 💸 But is it fair to leave AC hanging? 🤔 The internet has spoken, and our protagonist has made a bold move: they said NO to the teacher! 😮 Was it the right call? 🤷‍♂️ Let's see what the masses have to say about this Berlin babysitting bombshell! 💥

Stand up for yourself, report the teacher. Enjoy your vacation! ✌️

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Standing up for yourself against unreasonable expectations from teachers. 👍

Little_Harmonica | Little_Harmonica

Equal partnership on trip, not one person babysitting the other. 👍

Barrel-Of-Tigers | Barrel-Of-Tigers

Don't let others guilt-trip you out of your dream vacation! 🌴

goose_mongoose | goose_mongoose

Don't let others burden you on your dream vacation 🌴☀️

DreMin015 | DreMin015

Don't be a**hole, teacher should take responsibility 😒

brownbird8888 | brownbird8888

Unreasonable request to babysit autistic classmate 24/7 makes everyone unhappy 😠

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Polite decline and set boundaries. Not your responsibility. 🙅‍♀️

laik72 | laik72

Don't let anyone guilt you into ruining your vacation! ✈️🌴 #NTA

frostpudding | frostpudding

Parental supervision needed for autistic child on vacation 👀

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Student not responsible for babysitting, NTA 🔥

musiclovingcat | musiclovingcat

Teacher puts 15-year-old student in awkward babysitting situation 😬

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NTA with clear guidelines for babysitting, school should provide compensation.

bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo

Safety concerns arise when a 15-year-old is asked to babysit. NTA.

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Paid support worker needed! NTA, but job offer anyone? 😂

Catsaresuperawesome | Catsaresuperawesome

NTA. It's unfair for the teacher to ask this of you 😔

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Vacation ruined by babysitting autistic classmate? NTA for refusing

fluffybutt86 | fluffybutt86

Engaging with an autistic classmate during a field trip: NTA

SassyHail | SassyHail

Compassionate suggestion for a difficult and unfair situation ❤️

regalbeagle2008 | regalbeagle2008

NTA, involve parents. School trying to save money on chaperone. 🤔

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NTA, babysitting a classmate is not a student's responsibility.

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Agree, school should provide professional support for disabled students. 🙌

UristMcD | UristMcD

15-year-old not responsible for autistic classmate on vacation. NTA 👍

Whenitrainsitpours86 | Whenitrainsitpours86

Politely declining to babysit autistic classmate on dream vacation. 🚫✈️

Bangbangsmashsmash | Bangbangsmashsmash

Classmate's severe autism requires trained guardian, not vacation companionship 🙅‍♂️

JHunter1986 | JHunter1986

Responsible student chooses dream vacation over uncomfortable babysitting request. ✈️

AlwaysAnotherSide | AlwaysAnotherSide

Offering a compromise while standing your ground. 🤝

proteamom | proteamom

Autistic commenter shares perspective and advises against babysitting classmate. NAH.

HarambesHatred | HarambesHatred

Irresponsible teacher forces student to babysit autistic classmate 😠

Lisbei | Lisbei

Deaf commenter calls out absurdity of being responsible for others.

i_fucked_ur_waifu | i_fucked_ur_waifu

Teacher's negligence? NTA for not babysitting autistic classmate 🤔

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Enjoy your dream vacation guilt-free! School should make arrangements. 🏝️

Carrie56 | Carrie56

OP not responsible for classmate, inappropriate to share room. NTA 👍

TraitorQueen | TraitorQueen

Don't sacrifice your dream vacation to babysit, NTA 🙅‍♀️

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NTA: Peer shouldn't be responsible for extra supervision. Good luck OP 👍

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15-year-old asked to babysit autistic classmate - NTA response

TLema | TLema

Teacher putting both student and autistic classmate in potentially dangerous situation 😕. Advice: involve trusted adults and plan effectively. 🤝

Tomccat | Tomccat

NTA, the commenter suggests talking to parents about liability concerns 💼

JanetMermaid | JanetMermaid

Being responsible for someone with autism on vacation? NTA. 😕

anglochilanga | anglochilanga

Stand up for yourself 💪, enjoy your trip 🍷, NTA 👍

jackssweetheart | jackssweetheart

Autistic commenter defends OP, questions teacher's decision and responsibility ✊

Hartnew | Hartnew

Autistic person shares similar experience, advises against babysitting classmate.

okokokokok11111 | okokokokok11111

Stand up for yourself and enjoy your vacation! 💪🏼🌴

GooseNYC | GooseNYC

Don't let anyone ruin your dream vacation! 🌴 #NTA


Student is not the a-hole for refusing to babysit autistic classmate on dream vacation ✈️

wineampersandmlms | wineampersandmlms

NTA, school should provide proper care or hire trained personnel 🤔

Yawning_Pebble | Yawning_Pebble

Parent of autistic teen supports saying no to babysitting classmate 🙅‍♂️

canbritam | canbritam

Supporting the teacher's attempt to make the trip more inclusive. ✅

Fergmasterflash | Fergmasterflash

School should take responsibility, not burden fellow students. Enjoy Berlin!

AdderWibble | AdderWibble

Politely decline to chaperone, suggest parent or qualified aide instead. ✋🏼👎🏼

skizethelimit | skizethelimit

Don't agree to this. It's not your job. 🚫

nbajads | nbajads

Inappropriate request from teacher. NTA for making a complaint. 🤨

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Teacher agrees, enjoy Berlin without babysitting responsibilities! 🌆✈️

twosteppsatatime | twosteppsatatime

NTA. Student not responsible for peer's care during school trip.

Asayyadina | Asayyadina

Teacher's request was inappropriate. Tell parents & partner with friend. NTA 👍

BroadswordEpic | BroadswordEpic

Suggests NTA use specific examples to express discomfort with AC.

simplewilddog | simplewilddog

Enjoy your vacation! NTA. Teachers/parents should provide a guardian. 😊

Celinder_pigen | Celinder_pigen

👏 Stand up for yourself! NTA. Teacher's offloading her job.

AllIsNew | AllIsNew

Don't let school assignment ruin your dream 🏝️👍

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School responsible for chaperone, not student. NTA 🙌

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Student unfairly asked to babysit autistic classmate on dream vacation. NTA.

k-rizzle01 | k-rizzle01

Stand up for yourself and report the inappropriate request. NTA ✊

Meatbasketbingo | Meatbasketbingo

Polite advice for declining responsibility on dream vacation. 👍

sheramom4 | sheramom4

Stand up for yourself! It's unfair for school to expect you to babysit your autistic classmate 🙅‍♀️

mountainmamax2 | mountainmamax2

Tips for setting boundaries with school when declining responsibility 📝

macsenw | macsenw

Teens shouldn't be expected to babysit special needs classmates on trips 🚫

monster_peanut | monster_peanut

Don't do it! You're not responsible for him. Boundaries matter 🚫👶

rabbles-of-roses | rabbles-of-roses

Set boundaries to avoid being taken advantage of during vacation 😎

littlemissdream | littlemissdream

Politely declining to babysit an autistic classmate is reasonable. 🤝

raenis2634 | raenis2634

Enjoy your vacation, it's not your responsibility 👍

MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench

Tell your parents and get back up 🙌 NTA

pickmeacoolname | pickmeacoolname

Politely decline and enjoy your trip 🌴

EvilAuntBecky | EvilAuntBecky

Teenager should not be responsible for autistic classmate on vacation.

RemDC | RemDC

Stand up for your dream vacation! 🌴 NTA comment.

michaelrulaz | michaelrulaz

NTA. Standing up for yourself and AC's needs. 👏

fanlism | fanlism

15-year-old student not responsible for classmate supervision 👍

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