My Bridesmaid Wrote Me an "Essay" on Everything WRONG With Me 🤯

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a wild ride of a story for you today! 🎢 Imagine being besties with someone for 9 whole years, only to have them suddenly drop a friendship breakup bomb on you via text! 💣📱 Talk about a plot twist! 😱 But wait, it gets even juicier... 🍿 Our protagonist, a 27-year-old bride-to-be, finds herself in the middle of a friendship fallout that's more dramatic than a reality TV show! 📺 Will she read the dreaded 'essay' her ex-friend wrote about all her supposed flaws? 📝 Or will she stand her ground and refuse to engage in the drama? 🙅‍♀️ Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♀️

🚨 Friendship Fallout! 😱

llama67 | llama67

🙋‍♀️ Always There for Her... 🤷‍♀️ But Not the Other Way Around? 😢

llama67 | llama67

🗣️ Trying to Talk... 🙉 But She Won't Listen! 😞

llama67 | llama67

🎉 Bachelorette Party Drama! 😬

llama67 | llama67

🤐 Cagey About It... 🤔 But Never Said No! 🙅‍♀️

llama67 | llama67

😭 Rejection Feels Like Garbage! 🗑️

llama67 | llama67

🤨 Realizing She's Not Worth It! 💁‍♀️

llama67 | llama67

📝 The Dreaded 'Essay'! 😱

llama67 | llama67

😊 Smiley Emojis and Friendly Exclamation Marks... 🤔 WTF?

llama67 | llama67

📱 Green Texts and Guilt Trips! 🙄

llama67 | llama67

🤷‍♀️ Not Fully in the Right... 🤯 But Her Reaction Was Wild!

llama67 | llama67

🤔 TL;DR: Friend Fallout and Refusal to Read 'Issues' Essay! 📜

llama67 | llama67

🙅‍♀️ I Said No to the Essay... 📝 She Text-Yelled at Me! 😠

llama67 | llama67

🙏 Thanks for the Feedback... 🤯 900+ Comments, Whaaaaat?

llama67 | llama67

📜 Plot Twist: I Don't Even Have the Letter! 😅

llama67 | llama67

🎭 The Dramatic Tale of a Friendship Fallout and the Unread 'Issues' Essay! 😱📜

Well, well, well... what a rollercoaster of emotions this story has been! 🎢😭 Our protagonist found herself in quite the pickle when her long-time friend suddenly decided to end their friendship via text, just days before her wedding! 💔👰 To add insult to injury, the ex-friend then claimed to have written an entire essay detailing all her 'issues' with our bride-to-be! 😱📝 But our heroine wasn't having any of it and refused to read the dreaded document. 🙅‍♀️ Cue the guilt trips and text-yelling from the ex-friend! 😠📱 Now, the internet is abuzz with opinions on this juicy drama! 🌐🗣️ Let's see what the online world has to say about this wild situation... 👀💬

Friend criticizes bride, but refuses to hear criticism in return 🤯

StealthPhoenix88 | StealthPhoenix88

Ending friendships shouldn't require long essays. Drama queen alert 😒

tannag | tannag

Curiosity killed the cat, but not the bride. NTA.

Left-Car6520 | Left-Car6520

Don't let her essay bring you down. You're amazing! 👏

ijust_ate_abee | ijust_ate_abee

OP did not receive the "essay", grateful for self-growth 👏

llama67 | llama67

32 and still shit-talking? NTA for not reading it 🙄

Anaaatomy | Anaaatomy

Toxic 'friend' uses you as an emotional outlet & drains you. NTA! 👏

SnooHobbies8729 | SnooHobbies8729

Cutting off toxic friendships is hard but necessary 👍

Empress_LC | Empress_LC

Sorry for your loss, bad friend, NTA 😞

profesional-hat | profesional-hat

👏👏 Good for you OP, don't let her bring you down!

maat89 | maat89

Insightful comment on the bridesmaid's 'essay' being about her issues 🤔

pinkyhc | pinkyhc

High school drama queen writes an abusive letter to her friend 📝😒

FlamingCupcakess | FlamingCupcakess

Avoiding a narcissistic bridesmaid, good call 👍

Dixon_Kuntz73 | Dixon_Kuntz73

Walking away is smart. Don't let her have the final dig. 👍

ActingGrad | ActingGrad

Cutting off toxic friends is necessary for self-care 👏

SuperLoris | SuperLoris

Writing an 'essay' about your faults is just a nuisance 🤯

Kind-Kaleidoscope358 | Kind-Kaleidoscope358

NTA, the letter was probably worse. She's not a friend 🚫

Psychological_Lie5 | Psychological_Lie5

Blocking the drama queen was the right move! 👍

TayLou33 | TayLou33

Skipping the essay was the right call. NTA 👍

lonnielee3 | lonnielee3

Friend tried to change me instead of addressing their problem. 👍

MillipedePaws | MillipedePaws

Don't fall for her trap. Block and avoid her toxicity. 🚫

HesterFabian | HesterFabian

Ending toxic friendship before wedding, life's too short 🙌

Unkle_bad-touch | Unkle_bad-touch

A creative what-if scenario that sadly seems unlikely 😔

Lilac_experience | Lilac_experience

Curiosity killed the cat, but NTA. Toxic ex-friend 🤷‍♀️

Zandyphy | Zandyphy

Getting an unsolicited email about everything wrong with you sucks. NTA 💯

StardustStuffing | StardustStuffing

Mature response to toxic friendship. Good on you 👍

Capable-Run8911 | Capable-Run8911

A detailed analysis of the friend's selfish motivations 🤯

Willdiealonewithcats | Willdiealonewithcats

Skipping the essay was the right choice! NTA 👏

heyheyheynopeno | heyheyheynopeno

Spot on! 🎯 Don't waste your time on projection essays.

kimbeth66 | kimbeth66

Don't waste your time on toxic people. NTA 👏

0oellao0 | 0oellao0

NTA. Don't read the essay. You're better off without her. 👍

Stargazer86F | Stargazer86F

Cutting off toxic friendships is the way to go 🙌

messgonemad | messgonemad

NTA for not wanting to read the 'essay' on your faults 🙄

Ohgodimsotiredhelp | Ohgodimsotiredhelp

Friend used bride as therapist, NTA for ending friendship 👏

Stellarkin1996 | Stellarkin1996

Don't settle for toxic friends, just like toxic partners. 👍

Cautious_Ad_2836 | Cautious_Ad_2836

Avoiding toxic people is self-care 💪

JCBashBash | JCBashBash

Middle school behavior from grown women, not appropriate. NTA 👍

HauntingHarmonie | HauntingHarmonie

This friend sounds like an energy vampire 👻

HighElf_Queen_Jen | HighElf_Queen_Jen

Deleting toxic people is liberating 👏 NTA

ResidentRepulsive | ResidentRepulsive

Friend criticized writer during cancer scare, possibly a narcissist. NTA.

witchbrew7 | witchbrew7

Ex-friend sends hateful essay disguised as a favour, sounds toxic. NTA 👍

milzgrills | milzgrills

Sometimes it's best to cut loose toxic friendships ✌️

DamnItDinkles | DamnItDinkles

Block the arrogant bridesmaid and move on with positivity! 🙌

Various-Bridge-325 | Various-Bridge-325

Fighting fire with fire 🔥🔥. A sassy NTA response.

Master-Manipulation | Master-Manipulation

Sending an 'everything wrong with you' essay after ending a friendship? NTA

One_Condition_7001 | One_Condition_7001

Classic response to a lengthy bridesmaid criticism. 🙄

One-Bread36 | One-Bread36

Don't fall for manipulative people. You're NTA 🙌

UnqualifiedIT | UnqualifiedIT

Ex-BF sends breakup letter listing annoying things, wants to stay friends 🤯

cathyclare | cathyclare

A sudden cruel text from a best friend is a cowardly act. 💔

twogreytabbys | twogreytabbys

Don't be a bridezilla, but don't let others walk over you either 🙅

Inevitable-Video-329 | Inevitable-Video-329

Curiosity can be a double-edged sword. NTA 👀

Ill_Scientist_6510 | Ill_Scientist_6510

NTA comment calls out entitled bridesmaid for writing 'essay' on flaws 👏

daydreaming-g | daydreaming-g

Handling criticism with grace and cutting out toxic friends 👏

jazzzhandzz | jazzzhandzz

Leave her in the dust and enjoy your wedding! 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Jealousy breeds toxicity. Good on you for cutting her out! 👍

Repulsive-Nerve5127 | Repulsive-Nerve5127

Supportive comment calls out jealousy and applauds 'cockblocking' 👏

JonesinforJonesey | JonesinforJonesey

Being told you suck like in kindergarten > a PhD thesis. NTA 😂

Whole-Recover-8911 | Whole-Recover-8911

Friend writes cruel essay about bride, gets roasted by editor friend 👏

Gigglebyte88 | Gigglebyte88

Block her and move on. The audacity of some people! 😑 NTA

lisaslyfe | lisaslyfe

Narcissistic friend? You're NTA, it's not about you 😜

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment, agrees with OP's decision to cut off toxic friend.

princessbizz | princessbizz

Friendship ended over emotional labor imbalance. NTA.

Auroraburst | Auroraburst

Blocking the bridesmaid who wrote an essay on you. NTA 👏

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

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