🤰 Buckle up, folks, because this mama-to-be is about to spill the tea on some serious baby shower drama! 🍵 I'm six months pregnant and over the moon about my little boy on the way. 👶 But when my bestie started planning a surprise shower I never asked for, things got messy real quick. 😬 Grab some popcorn, because this story's got more twists and turns than a soap opera! 🍿😱
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🤰 Surprise! A Baby Shower I Never Wanted 😱
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🚫 Ultimatum: Cancel Shower or Lose Me 😠
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🙅♀️ Friendship Over, Bestie Blocked 🚫
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😢 Months of Progress Undone in Minutes 💔
But it took months to cut contact with my mum, and in minutes it was undone. 😭 My husband is with me, but my friends are saying I'm being the a-hole. I didn't think I am, but now I'm thinking maybe pregnancy brain went into overdrive? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this baby shower showdown! 👇 Will this mama-to-be stand her ground or cave to the pressure? 🤰 Stay tuned for the juiciest responses! 🍿
Supportive comment, wishing luck and disapproving of toxic friend 👏
UnsightlyFuzz | UnsightlyFuzz
Friend disrespected boundaries and personal information, NTA for cutting off.
Am_0116 | Am_0116
Friend shares personal info with mom, NTA calls for reality check
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Setting boundaries with toxic family members is important. #NTA
KngLady | KngLady
Standing up for boundaries and cutting off toxic friends 💪
travellingdink | travellingdink
Friend gives away address for baby shower without permission 😬
VindicatedSquirrel | VindicatedSquirrel
Friend's baby shower becomes a nightmare. NTA saves the day.
Texasworld | Texasworld
Setting boundaries is key. Congrats on becoming a mom! 👏
wanderingmind47 | wanderingmind47
"NTA" commenter raises red flags about mom-to-be's decision 🚨
ManahLevide | ManahLevide
NTA for not wanting a baby shower during COVID-19 🤷♀️ Your friends need to prioritize your safety and needs 👏
BoomUnit | BoomUnit
Privacy violation can mess you up forever. Friend cannot understand.
homesickexpat | homesickexpat
Boundaries crossed! 🚫 Hormones not to blame for outrage
eetbittyotumblotum | eetbittyotumblotum
Friend plans surprise baby shower without permission, NTA for ending friendship 👍
desert_red_head | desert_red_head
Toxic friend alert! NTA for cutting ties with her 👋
Schlumpfgesicht | Schlumpfgesicht
Friend's manipulation tactic dismissed as 'hormones'. NTA. Stand firm 💪🏼
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Friend ignores boundaries, NTA for not wanting baby shower.
GeminiAtl | GeminiAtl
Former friend prioritizes herself over pregnant woman during pandemic. NTA.
EngineerEthan | EngineerEthan
Friend disregarded boundaries, shared personal info, NTA for cutting off.
babatoger | babatoger
Breaking off toxic friendships for personal growth and mental health. 👏
grissy | grissy
Friend pressures for bachelorette party, then cancels last minute? NTA.
throwaway_6338 | throwaway_6338
Friend shares personal info with mom-to-be's mom, NTA's reaction
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Supportive commenter suggests checking if friend shared private information with mom.
anniesplash | anniesplash
Pregnant woman says no to party, friend disrespects boundaries 😑
Ilikecosysocks | Ilikecosysocks
BFF gives estranged mother address for unwanted baby shower 😠
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Betrayed by BFF: NTA's privacy breached, friends side with BFF
BasicSquirrel42 | BasicSquirrel42
Toxic friendship exposed! NTA for cutting off boundaries-less friend 😡
Anya_the_Demon | Anya_the_Demon
Setting boundaries with friends and family during pregnancy 🤔
my_greenebeans | my_greenebeans
Friend betrayed personal information to abusive mother, justified to end friendship 💯
technicolored_dreams | technicolored_dreams
Curious commenter asks why OP cut contact with mom. 👀
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Friend ignores wishes, invites no-contact mom to shower: NTA
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Friend disregarded boundaries, NTA for skipping baby shower 👏
MandeeLess | MandeeLess
Baby showers aren't compulsory, NTA for saying no 👍
Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil
Empowering response to baby shower refusal and setting boundaries 💪
tinatarantino | tinatarantino
Dumping Gaby for violating your privacy is justified 👍
HelpfulName | HelpfulName
Friend crosses line, commenter supports OP's decision to cut ties.
Artistic_Bookkeeper | Artistic_Bookkeeper
Pregnant woman receives unwanted party invite during pandemic, stands up for herself 😊
Charliewarliewoo | Charliewarliewoo
Protect yourself and your baby. NTA 🚪👋
loudent2 | loudent2
Pregnancy entitlement: Commenter supports mom-to-be's decision. NTA.
xVeranex | xVeranex
Unexpected baby shower plans, NTA gets the last laugh 👶
mlb64 | mlb64
Polite way to handle an arrogant, controlling, and selfish friend 😊
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Friend goes crazy over mom-to-be's decision, but she's NTA.
Dana07620 | Dana07620
Cutting out toxic family members: NTA's jaw-dropping story
MyDentistIsACat | MyDentistIsACat
Boundaries set but friend didn't listen 🤷🏻♀️
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NTA, friend disrespects boundaries and has baby shower at your house 😒
MinFarshaw- | MinFarshaw-
Stand your ground and let Gaby explain to unwanted guests 🙌
Toirneach | Toirneach
Friend ignores boundaries for baby shower, NTA, call cops 😱
Goaheadidareyou | Goaheadidareyou
When a friend crosses the line 👍 NTA takes action
historygirl1815 | historygirl1815
Supportive comment, offers advice and congratulations on baby 👍👶
merpancake | merpancake
Setting boundaries and cutting off toxic people 🚨💪
[deleted] | [deleted]
Planning a baby shower at someone's house without asking? 🤔 NTA
TeamChaos17 | TeamChaos17
Ignoring my wishes for my own baby shower? NTA 👏
Lunar_Raccoon | Lunar_Raccoon
Inviting someone you're not in contact with is unacceptable 👎
kayfeif | kayfeif
Gaslighting and risking safety for a party? NTA here. 💪
Well_Lit_Kiwi | Well_Lit_Kiwi
Friend violates pandemic boundaries and privacy. NTA for ending friendship 👏
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Respect people's wishes, it's not hormones, it's their life. 👍
QueenLaShoppa | QueenLaShoppa
Boundaries were crossed. NTA stands up for herself. Good riddance.
notyouremo | notyouremo
Friendship over: commenter stands up for their decision 👊
ZeRenato1976 | ZeRenato1976
Supportive comment. Toxic friend and friends not respecting boundaries.
CrowJane13 | CrowJane13
Supportive comment, congratulating OP on new baby 💛
ChefofChicanery | ChefofChicanery
Gaby is TA to the power of 10. You're NTA. Take care 😘
klg19 | klg19
NTA to everyone except Gaby. Self-care is important 💋
ithinkmynameisemily | ithinkmynameisemily
Boundaries crossed: blocking boyfriend and mutuals may be necessary.
lizpatanders | lizpatanders
Supportive comment about cutting off abusive mother and toxic friend.
yalldointoomuch | yalldointoomuch
Respectful friend didn't throw baby shower, supports OP's decision. #NTA 👏
WitchyNative | WitchyNative
Friend gave away personal info to estranged mother - NTA
MrPrinceps | MrPrinceps
NTA stands up for her pregnancy and boundaries against toxic friend 👏
ClazN | ClazN
Friendship over: NTA prioritized safety, friend disregarded wants
sheephulk | sheephulk
Prioritizing yourself can be challenging, but toxic friends aren't worth it. ✌️
Ladyaloise | Ladyaloise
Supportive comment defending pregnant woman and calling out toxic friend 👏
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Protect your peace and plan a little date day 😘
dumbsugarplumb | dumbsugarplumb
NTA. Gaby's behavior was terrible. Cut her out of your life.
femmemalin | femmemalin
Standing up to a boundary-destroying 'best friend' 💪🏼
SmoochNo | SmoochNo
Respectful NTA mom-to-be receives validating parenting advice 👍
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"NTA. This shower isn't for you and your baby, it's for Gaby." 😒
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Supportive comment from experienced mom encouraging friend to trust her instincts.
MostTiredMama | MostTiredMama
NTA. Involving estranged mom in pregnancy announcement is unacceptable 😑
rescuesquad704 | rescuesquad704
Friend cut off for disrespecting new mom's wishes 😒
fatmama923 | fatmama923
No baby shower, no problem! Take a day off 🚫🎉
GrannyWeatherwaxscat | GrannyWeatherwaxscat
Betrayal by BFF: Giving estranged mom's info 😱
alt-tuna | alt-tuna
Friend plans baby shower during pandemic, invites OP's mom: NTA x 2
QueenA68 | QueenA68
Friend disrespects mom-to-be's decision, commenters support NTA stance.
beammeupsofi | beammeupsofi
Don't risk it for a baby shower, NTA.
Out_B | Out_B
User points out multiple concerning actions by friend and offers advice.
dca_user | dca_user
Friend crosses boundaries over baby shower; NTA stands firm 👏
tropicsandcaffeine | tropicsandcaffeine
