Mom-To-Be Makes JAW-DROPPING Decision 😲 BFF's Reaction Is Even WORSE

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🤰 Buckle up, folks, because this mama-to-be is about to spill the tea on some serious baby shower drama! 🍵 I'm six months pregnant and over the moon about my little boy on the way. 👶 But when my bestie started planning a surprise shower I never asked for, things got messy real quick. 😬 Grab some popcorn, because this story's got more twists and turns than a soap opera! 🍿😱

🤰 Surprise! A Baby Shower I Never Wanted 😱

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🏠 Nursery Ready, Baby Clothes Pending 👶

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🍼 Bestie's Secret Baby Shower Plan 🎉

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🙅‍♀️ Thanks, But No Thanks - My Reasons 🤰

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😳 Shy Mama-to-Be Avoids Social Spotlight 🙈

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🦠 Protecting Baby from Covid Risks 😷

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🎉 Gaby's Surprise Baby Shower Scheme 😠

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😡 Mama Bear Puts Her Foot Down 🐻

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🙄 Gaby Calls Me a Killjoy 😒

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😲 Surprise Call from Estranged Mom 📞

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🎊 Mom's Excitement Over Baby Shower Invite 😢

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😤 Furious at Gaby's Betrayal 🤬

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🚫 Ultimatum: Cancel Shower or Lose Me 😠

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🏠 Address Leak Adds Insult to Injury 😡

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🙅‍♀️ Friendship Over, Bestie Blocked 🚫

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😢 Months of Progress Undone in Minutes 💔

But it took months to cut contact with my mum, and in minutes it was undone. 😭 My husband is with me, but my friends are saying I'm being the a-hole. I didn't think I am, but now I'm thinking maybe pregnancy brain went into overdrive? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this baby shower showdown! 👇 Will this mama-to-be stand her ground or cave to the pressure? 🤰 Stay tuned for the juiciest responses! 🍿

Supportive comment, wishing luck and disapproving of toxic friend 👏

UnsightlyFuzz | UnsightlyFuzz

Friend disrespected boundaries and personal information, NTA for cutting off.

Am_0116 | Am_0116

Friend shares personal info with mom, NTA calls for reality check

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Setting boundaries with toxic family members is important. #NTA

KngLady | KngLady

Standing up for boundaries and cutting off toxic friends 💪

travellingdink | travellingdink

Friend gives away address for baby shower without permission 😬

VindicatedSquirrel | VindicatedSquirrel

Friend's baby shower becomes a nightmare. NTA saves the day.

Texasworld | Texasworld

Setting boundaries is key. Congrats on becoming a mom! 👏

wanderingmind47 | wanderingmind47

"NTA" commenter raises red flags about mom-to-be's decision 🚨

ManahLevide | ManahLevide

NTA for not wanting a baby shower during COVID-19 🤷‍♀️ Your friends need to prioritize your safety and needs 👏

BoomUnit | BoomUnit

Privacy violation can mess you up forever. Friend cannot understand.

homesickexpat | homesickexpat

Boundaries crossed! 🚫 Hormones not to blame for outrage

eetbittyotumblotum | eetbittyotumblotum

Friend plans surprise baby shower without permission, NTA for ending friendship 👍

desert_red_head | desert_red_head

Toxic friend alert! NTA for cutting ties with her 👋

Schlumpfgesicht | Schlumpfgesicht

Friend's manipulation tactic dismissed as 'hormones'. NTA. Stand firm 💪🏼

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Friend ignores boundaries, NTA for not wanting baby shower.

GeminiAtl | GeminiAtl

Former friend prioritizes herself over pregnant woman during pandemic. NTA.

EngineerEthan | EngineerEthan

Friend disregarded boundaries, shared personal info, NTA for cutting off.

babatoger | babatoger

Breaking off toxic friendships for personal growth and mental health. 👏

grissy | grissy

Friend pressures for bachelorette party, then cancels last minute? NTA.

throwaway_6338 | throwaway_6338

Friend shares personal info with mom-to-be's mom, NTA's reaction

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Supportive commenter suggests checking if friend shared private information with mom.

anniesplash | anniesplash

Pregnant woman says no to party, friend disrespects boundaries 😑

Ilikecosysocks | Ilikecosysocks

BFF gives estranged mother address for unwanted baby shower 😠

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Betrayed by BFF: NTA's privacy breached, friends side with BFF

BasicSquirrel42 | BasicSquirrel42

Toxic friendship exposed! NTA for cutting off boundaries-less friend 😡

Anya_the_Demon | Anya_the_Demon

Setting boundaries with friends and family during pregnancy 🤔

my_greenebeans | my_greenebeans

Friend betrayed personal information to abusive mother, justified to end friendship 💯

technicolored_dreams | technicolored_dreams

Curious commenter asks why OP cut contact with mom. 👀

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Friend ignores wishes, invites no-contact mom to shower: NTA

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Friend disregarded boundaries, NTA for skipping baby shower 👏

MandeeLess | MandeeLess

Baby showers aren't compulsory, NTA for saying no 👍

Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil

Empowering response to baby shower refusal and setting boundaries 💪

tinatarantino | tinatarantino

Dumping Gaby for violating your privacy is justified 👍

HelpfulName | HelpfulName

Friend crosses line, commenter supports OP's decision to cut ties.

Artistic_Bookkeeper | Artistic_Bookkeeper

Pregnant woman receives unwanted party invite during pandemic, stands up for herself 😊

Charliewarliewoo | Charliewarliewoo

Protect yourself and your baby. NTA 🚪👋

loudent2 | loudent2

Pregnancy entitlement: Commenter supports mom-to-be's decision. NTA.

xVeranex | xVeranex

Unexpected baby shower plans, NTA gets the last laugh 👶

mlb64 | mlb64

Polite way to handle an arrogant, controlling, and selfish friend 😊

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Friend goes crazy over mom-to-be's decision, but she's NTA.

Dana07620 | Dana07620

Cutting out toxic family members: NTA's jaw-dropping story

MyDentistIsACat | MyDentistIsACat

Boundaries set but friend didn't listen 🤷🏻‍♀️

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NTA, friend disrespects boundaries and has baby shower at your house 😒

MinFarshaw- | MinFarshaw-

Stand your ground and let Gaby explain to unwanted guests 🙌

Toirneach | Toirneach

Friend ignores boundaries for baby shower, NTA, call cops 😱

Goaheadidareyou | Goaheadidareyou

When a friend crosses the line 👍 NTA takes action

historygirl1815 | historygirl1815

Supportive comment, offers advice and congratulations on baby 👍👶

merpancake | merpancake

Setting boundaries and cutting off toxic people 🚨💪

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Planning a baby shower at someone's house without asking? 🤔 NTA

TeamChaos17 | TeamChaos17

Ignoring my wishes for my own baby shower? NTA 👏

Lunar_Raccoon | Lunar_Raccoon

Inviting someone you're not in contact with is unacceptable 👎

kayfeif | kayfeif

Gaslighting and risking safety for a party? NTA here. 💪

Well_Lit_Kiwi | Well_Lit_Kiwi

Friend violates pandemic boundaries and privacy. NTA for ending friendship 👏

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Respect people's wishes, it's not hormones, it's their life. 👍

QueenLaShoppa | QueenLaShoppa

Boundaries were crossed. NTA stands up for herself. Good riddance.

notyouremo | notyouremo

Friendship over: commenter stands up for their decision 👊

ZeRenato1976 | ZeRenato1976

Supportive comment. Toxic friend and friends not respecting boundaries.

CrowJane13 | CrowJane13

Supportive comment, congratulating OP on new baby 💛

ChefofChicanery | ChefofChicanery

Gaby is TA to the power of 10. You're NTA. Take care 😘

klg19 | klg19

NTA to everyone except Gaby. Self-care is important 💋

ithinkmynameisemily | ithinkmynameisemily

Boundaries crossed: blocking boyfriend and mutuals may be necessary.

lizpatanders | lizpatanders

Supportive comment about cutting off abusive mother and toxic friend.

yalldointoomuch | yalldointoomuch

Respectful friend didn't throw baby shower, supports OP's decision. #NTA 👏

WitchyNative | WitchyNative

Friend gave away personal info to estranged mother - NTA

MrPrinceps | MrPrinceps

NTA stands up for her pregnancy and boundaries against toxic friend 👏

ClazN | ClazN

Friendship over: NTA prioritized safety, friend disregarded wants

sheephulk | sheephulk

Prioritizing yourself can be challenging, but toxic friends aren't worth it. ✌️

Ladyaloise | Ladyaloise

Supportive comment defending pregnant woman and calling out toxic friend 👏

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Protect your peace and plan a little date day 😘

dumbsugarplumb | dumbsugarplumb

NTA. Gaby's behavior was terrible. Cut her out of your life.

femmemalin | femmemalin

Standing up to a boundary-destroying 'best friend' 💪🏼

SmoochNo | SmoochNo

Respectful NTA mom-to-be receives validating parenting advice 👍

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"NTA. This shower isn't for you and your baby, it's for Gaby." 😒

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Supportive comment from experienced mom encouraging friend to trust her instincts.

MostTiredMama | MostTiredMama

NTA. Involving estranged mom in pregnancy announcement is unacceptable 😑

rescuesquad704 | rescuesquad704

Friend cut off for disrespecting new mom's wishes 😒

fatmama923 | fatmama923

No baby shower, no problem! Take a day off 🚫🎉

GrannyWeatherwaxscat | GrannyWeatherwaxscat

Betrayal by BFF: Giving estranged mom's info 😱

alt-tuna | alt-tuna

Friend plans baby shower during pandemic, invites OP's mom: NTA x 2

QueenA68 | QueenA68

Friend disrespects mom-to-be's decision, commenters support NTA stance.

beammeupsofi | beammeupsofi

Don't risk it for a baby shower, NTA.

Out_B | Out_B

User points out multiple concerning actions by friend and offers advice.

dca_user | dca_user

Friend crosses boundaries over baby shower; NTA stands firm 👏

tropicsandcaffeine | tropicsandcaffeine

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