Parentified At 17: Teen's UNFAIR Nanny Nightmare! 😡

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🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a family drama on our hands! 😱 Meet our 17-year-old heroine, stuck between a rock and a hard place. 🪨 Her dad's off chasing his dreams in another country 🌍, leaving her with two options: follow him or stay with her half-sister. 👭 But wait, there's more! Sis has three little ones and expects our girl to play nanny... without pay! 💸 Is she being taken advantage of, or should she suck it up and help out? 🤔 Let's dive into this juicy tale of family feuds and teenage turmoil! 🍿

😱 Teenage Turmoil: Forced to Play Nanny! 👶

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🏫 Staying Put for Senior Year 🎓

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😖 Cramped Quarters & Lofty Expectations 🛏️

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🙅‍♀️ Nanny Duties with No Pay! 💸

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😠 Sis Could Do It, But Won't! 🤦‍♀️

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😤 Complaints Fall on Deaf Ears 🙉

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🤯 Chaos Ensues: Crying, Hungry, Bored! 😭🍽️😴

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😡 Sis Hands Off Baby & Walks Away! 👶🚶‍♀️

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🗣️ Putting My Foot Down: I'm No Nanny! 🙅‍♀️

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🚫 No Way Out: Dad's Ultimatum 😓

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😱 Teenage Turmoil: Am I a Jerk for Refusing to be a Free Nanny? 🍼💸

Our 17-year-old heroine is in a pickle! 🥒 Stuck living with her half-sister and three little ones, she's expected to play nanny 24/7... without a single penny! 💸 Sis works from home but can't be bothered to change a diaper or make a snack. 🙅‍♀️ When our girl puts her foot down, sis threatens to tattle to dad! 😱 Is she being a brat, or is sis taking advantage of her? 🤔 The internet has some thoughts on this family feud! 🗣️ Let's see what they have to say about this teenage turmoil! 🍿

No-win situation for OP, forced to choose sister or father 🤷

Misanthrope-is-ME | Misanthrope-is-ME

Unfair nanny makes teen parent, commenter says NTA 👍

Ok_Sleep8579 | Ok_Sleep8579

NTA, stand up for yourself and suggest paying rent 👍

Yo-KaiWatchFan2102 | Yo-KaiWatchFan2102

NTA and don't owe her anything. Make other arrangements. 👍

Fluffiest_Gremlin | Fluffiest_Gremlin

17-year-old not contributing to household, nanny discomfort. YTA 😡

CameraWrong9945 | CameraWrong9945

NAH verdict for nanny who's dealing with a lot 🤷‍♀️

duchessofwands | duchessofwands

Teen's entitlement and lack of contribution to household criticized. 😒

mermaidunderwater | mermaidunderwater

Sibling drama: commenter thinks OP is YTA for intruding.

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad

User calls out entitled teenager, suggests helping sister in need 💼

nowaynohowanyway | nowaynohowanyway

Teen's entitled behavior gets called out. YTA 🙄

throw_away_800 | throw_away_800

Is the cost of staying worth babysitting a few hours each workday? 🤔

whenisleep | whenisleep

User thinks OP is the a-hole for not helping sister with kids while staying at her house.

RudeMaximumm | RudeMaximumm

Ungrateful teen living rent-free is called out for entitlement. YTA 🤨

Dana07620 | Dana07620

House rules or leave, NTA caught in unfair nanny nightmare! 😡

Ok_Homework8692 | Ok_Homework8692

Teen faces tough love in nanny role. Move out now.

Jeff998g | Jeff998g

Teen called out for privileged behavior and lack of empathy 😒

superdope3 | superdope3

Grateful for an unfair nanny nightmare? ESH, but sister needs help 🤔

queenlehane | queenlehane

Teen's sister is paid to care for her, but it's unacceptable. NTA.

Cpt_Riker | Cpt_Riker

Teen learns she can't avoid responsibilities and earn privileges. 😡

LostDogBoulderUtah | LostDogBoulderUtah

User seeks more info on unfair nanny situation 🤔

FLSunGarden | FLSunGarden

Teen feels unfairly burdened with nanny duties, commenter calls YTA.

ScaryButterscotch474 | ScaryButterscotch474

Engaging comment suggests 3 options and encourages OP to be grateful.

maarianastrench | maarianastrench

Living with sister, forced to babysit, ESH. Suck it up.

1M4m0ral | 1M4m0ral

Escape plan for teen in unfair nanny situation. 💪

Neat_Touch_7224 | Neat_Touch_7224

Unfair nanny situation causes conflict in cramped household. ESH 😑

pseudonymphh | pseudonymphh

Unfair nanny nightmare. OP has few options. ESH. 😢

Ok-Autumn | Ok-Autumn

Teen's nanny duties cause tension in family 😠

Usual-Archer-916 | Usual-Archer-916

Teen's entitlement to sister's time YTA. Be considerate 😑

WeckybbL | WeckybbL

YTA comment: Harsh criticism on entitled behavior 🤬

redlipscombatboots | redlipscombatboots

Teenager accused of being lazy by commenter, no replies.

Actual_Somewhere_ | Actual_Somewhere_

Living under unfair rules? Maybe it's time to leave 👋

Unable_Wrongdoer2250 | Unable_Wrongdoer2250

Missed opportunity or lucky escape? You decide! 😉

Alternative-End-5079 | Alternative-End-5079

OP called out for treating half sister like a roommate 🤷,‍♀️ needs to contribute more 🙏

t3r3sa- | t3r3sa-

Dealing with difficult teens in your home. 🤯

RicFalcon | RicFalcon

OP is the a**hole for not realizing sister's sacrifice 👎

TelMeWutUReallyThink | TelMeWutUReallyThink

Unfair nanny nightmare! Moving out your best bet 😡

Ok_Beautiful_9215 | Ok_Beautiful_9215

Teen gets called out for being ungrateful and selfish. 😒

UnusualFee7072 | UnusualFee7072

Senior year dilemma: Stay and help or leave for independence?

des_habille | des_habille

🤔 Redditor called out for exaggerating babysitting job, minimum wage paid.

Keelera2 | Keelera2

17-year-old learns adulting lesson: a few hours of childcare fair 🧒👶

OPtig | OPtig

Harsh truth about the situation, dad is the real a-hole 👎

United-Substance-821 | United-Substance-821

Find a less crowded place & be out more. NTA, YTA

Gin_n_Tonic_with_Dog | Gin_n_Tonic_with_Dog

User calls out OP for not helping with chores and babysitting, suggests she live with her dad. 😒

NoiseUnhappy28 | NoiseUnhappy28

Wake up and get involved in your life 🙌

blockyhelp | blockyhelp

Choose a side: Move out or help out? 🤔

MypuppyDaisy | MypuppyDaisy

Teen accused of entitlement for complaining about 3-hour babysitting duty 🤬

KuriousCat92 | KuriousCat92

NTA for any reason. A child shouldn't be parentified 😡

AllOver_ThePlace1818 | AllOver_ThePlace1818

Encouraging comment to escape unfair nanny situation and explore new experiences 😊

noletex107 | noletex107

Living with sister requires helping with kids, move out or compromise.

KkSquish17 | KkSquish17

Escape the unfair nanny nightmare and seek help. You deserve better! 💪

randomthoughts56789 | randomthoughts56789

No sympathy for entitled teen playing nanny. 😒

colo28 | colo28

Setting boundaries when moving in with family 🙏

Own_Purchase1388 | Own_Purchase1388

Navigating boundaries and expectations in a complex family dynamic.

SummitJunkie7 | SummitJunkie7

Teen called out for complaining after moving into over-crowded house.

Nurse-Cat-356 | Nurse-Cat-356

Navigating Social Security Auxiliary Benefits explained in a comment.

Responsible_Yam_5455 | Responsible_Yam_5455

Teen's nanny complains, gets called out for being ungrateful 😒

Wasabi-Remote | Wasabi-Remote

Ungrateful 17-year-old complains about sister's reasonable request 🙄

desirerich | desirerich

Living with your sister rent-free means helping with the kids 😕 YTA

Internal_Progress404 | Internal_Progress404

Teen gets called out for entitlement and laziness. 🤨

inhaledpie4 | inhaledpie4

NTA but need to step up chores in exchange for housing 🙌

Pair_of_Pearls | Pair_of_Pearls

Parent threatens college fund over daughter's nanny duties. YTA.

Dollface9419 | Dollface9419

Sister needs to stop treating you like free childcare 😠

Jazzlike-Season-41 | Jazzlike-Season-41

Hang in there until October, join clubs or volunteer outside 🙌

Severe-Traffic-3429 | Severe-Traffic-3429

Setting boundaries with entitled sister who exploits free childcare 🤔

amber130490 | amber130490

Criticism and disbelief towards commenter's situation. 🤔

Sunnywithachance099 | Sunnywithachance099

Teen stands up to unfair treatment by sister's neglect. #NTA 💪

Familiar_Pie8610 | Familiar_Pie8610

Unfair nanny nightmare! YTAish, pull your weight or leave. 😡

GrimSpirit42 | GrimSpirit42

Take charge of your life, OP! 🚀

CombinationAway2762 | CombinationAway2762

Find a friend to stay with and ignore your dad 👍

Southern_Screen_5579 | Southern_Screen_5579

Discussion on occupancy laws and personal experience with them.

Hogwarts-is-real24 | Hogwarts-is-real24

Teen called YTA for expecting too much from underpaid nanny.

Ashamed-Blueberry-98 | Ashamed-Blueberry-98

Ungrateful teen called out for expecting free nanny service 😒

Empty_Difficulty_577 | Empty_Difficulty_577

Financial dependence does not justify unfair work expectations. #NTA

ParticularTrain8235 | ParticularTrain8235

Generational conflict over household responsibilities. 😳

Independent-Tea8516 | Independent-Tea8516

No leverage, no choice: stay and comply or move out. 😡

Electronic-Cod-8860 | Electronic-Cod-8860

Redditer called out for being selfish and rude towards sister's family 😑

Due-Development-9639 | Due-Development-9639

Tough love for entitled teen. YTA, grow up! 😡

sarabeth73 | sarabeth73

Harsh but fair critique of entitled teenager's nanny situation. 🙄

loving-life6969 | loving-life6969

User questions whether helping the nanny is that unreasonable 🤔

Particular_Cake_2187 | Particular_Cake_2187

User advises teen to talk to sister or move out 👌

Haunting-Ad-5 | Haunting-Ad-5

Teen given options, chose sister. Commenter says don't be selfish. 😡

EMT82 | EMT82

Harsh judgement and tough love in a difficult situation. 😡

Mrfleas | Mrfleas

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