Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy tale of a newly single mom 🤱 who just scored her dream house 🏠 and is ready to start fresh. But wait, there's a twist! 😱 Her boyfriend of two years is getting a little too comfy, calling it "our" house and leaving his stuff everywhere. 🧳 Is he trying to sneakily move in? 🕵️♂️ Or is our leading lady just not ready to share her space? 🙅♀️ Get ready for some serious boundary-pushing drama! 🍿
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🚨 Boyfriend Overstepping Boundaries or Loving Gesture Gone Wrong? 😬
Well, well, well... looks like our leading lady is in quite the pickle! 🥒 She's finally got her dream home 🏠, but her boyfriend seems to think it's "our" house now. 😒 He's leaving his stuff everywhere and always hanging around when the kids are gone. 🙄 She just wants some alone time, but he's not having it! 😤 The internet has spoken, and it's clear she needs to set some serious boundaries. 📏 Let's see what the masses have to say about this boundary-pushing beau! 🗣️
Enforcing boundaries in a relationship is important. 🚫🏠
Hi_Im_Dadbot | Hi_Im_Dadbot
NTA. Concerns for BF's living situation, nesting & pushiness. Be careful OP. 👍
boredathome1962 | boredathome1962
Be careful, he might gain tenancy and become difficult to evict 😱
Glassgrl1021 | Glassgrl1021
How about setting boundaries and having some 'me time'?
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Don't let him control your home. Make him leave. NTA. 👍
xsmalldragon | xsmalldragon
Concerned commenter questions why OP is with unstable partner.
Heavy_Pipe9387 | Heavy_Pipe9387
Dump him! 🚫👋 Not worth the red flags or sex.
Fennicular | Fennicular
Protecting yourself and kids is not selfish. End it. NTA. 👏
eleanorlikesvodka | eleanorlikesvodka
Concerned commenter warns OP not to let her addict BF take advantage.
chickenfightyourmom | chickenfightyourmom
Establishing boundaries with a 'hobosexual' BF - NTA 👏
Vegetable-Cod-2340 | Vegetable-Cod-2340
Harsh truth: he won't change, consider leaving. 👎
TyrionsCodpiece | TyrionsCodpiece
Red flag alert! Commenter calls out manipulative language tactics. 🚨
NSFWgamerdev | NSFWgamerdev
Setting boundaries is important. NTA. 🚫👥
Semperfi413 | Semperfi413
Red flag alert! Relationship not progressing to desired future. 🚨
sabraham_lincoln | sabraham_lincoln
Your boyfriend seems to be trying to move in. NTA.
Top-Bit85 | Top-Bit85
Setting boundaries is important for your and your children's safety. 💪
Specific_Progress_38 | Specific_Progress_38
Age and career interests raise concerns about the man's intentions 🤔
JulsTiger10 | JulsTiger10
Setting boundaries in a relationship - NTA for standing firm 👏
chapteronetwo | chapteronetwo
Consider red flags, mental health, and future children before committing.
Wise_Entertainer_970 | Wise_Entertainer_970
Sarcastic warning about potential squatter boyfriend. Move on, sis. 👋🏼
ArchSchnitz | ArchSchnitz
Enforcing boundaries and owning your house is NTA 👏
itzmala | itzmala
Setting boundaries is important. NTA's partner's reaction is concerning. ⚠️
DaveWpgC | DaveWpgC
Setting boundaries with partner over shared living space. 💪
APFernweh | APFernweh
Protect your home and your children from addiction and toxicity 🚫
LM1953 | LM1953
Recovering alcoholic offers advice on BF's manipulative behavior. Leave him.
Longjumping_Bid_447 | Longjumping_Bid_447
Suggests time apart to help partner see the seriousness 🙌
TheRealMeetMountain | TheRealMeetMountain
Alcohol misuse red flag. Sobriety and sponsor chip first priority 🚨
Right_Weather_8916 | Right_Weather_8916
Prioritize yourself and kids, set boundaries, avoid unnecessary headache 🙏
Latter-Cost-1331 | Latter-Cost-1331
Setting boundaries is important. NTA. Dodging a bullet 👋
Vannie91 | Vannie91
Is it really about the house or the relationship issues? 🤔
jcclune73 | jcclune73
Red flag boundary stomper established as resident. Get therapy ASAP.
Dachshundmom5 | Dachshundmom5
Red flags and manipulation - time to end the relationship? 🤔
imonbeachtime | imonbeachtime
Protect your space! Set boundaries with your possessive boyfriend 💪
Neeneehill | Neeneehill
Protect your home and family - consult an attorney 💪
CaptKimi57 | CaptKimi57
BF is moving in without officially moving in. Stop him! 🚫
Important_Bother_430 | Important_Bother_430
Red flags: OP's BF leaving valuables, getting packages delivered. Toxic relationship.
Hdaxter13 | Hdaxter13
Setting boundaries in a relationship is important for everyone involved 👍
olmansmit | olmansmit
Harsh but necessary advice for someone in a toxic relationship. 🚫
RaiseIreSetFires | RaiseIreSetFires
Protect your boundaries and take control of your home! 🙌
Kittytigris | Kittytigris
Red flags 🚩 Get him out if not sober & in AA
Blackhawk-388 | Blackhawk-388
Be cautious, he may legally become a tenant without notice 👀
Nice_Feeling4398 | Nice_Feeling4398
Set boundaries early on in a relationship 👍
Strict_Condition_632 | Strict_Condition_632
Harsh truth with a dash of sarcasm. ESH 👎
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Don't let anyone destabilize your life, NTA 👏
Used_Mark_7911 | Used_Mark_7911
Protect your property and boundaries to avoid future problems 👍
NWIsteel | NWIsteel
Choosing a partner with mental health and addiction issues - NTA 👍
KezarLake | KezarLake
Don't deal with people who don't take no for an answer 👍
LovedAJackass | LovedAJackass
Don't settle for less, prioritize yourself. 💪
unbeliever87 | unbeliever87
Setting boundaries is important when it comes to sharing space 👍
Much-Independence717 | Much-Independence717
A warning of the dangerous situation the OP is in 😱
bad_robot_monkey | bad_robot_monkey
Boundaries are important in any relationship. NTA 👏
nmeerajasey | nmeerajasey
Don't let him stake his claim too soon 👍
LBROTSI | LBROTSI
👏 Stand up for your boundaries and kick him out. NTA.
Savings_Summer2608 | Savings_Summer2608
Putting yourself and your children first is key to happiness 👌
Fallout4Addict | Fallout4Addict
Concerned comment calls out problematic relationship - 🚫🍸
AdStandard5060 | AdStandard5060
Setting boundaries with an addict ex-partner 🚫🍺
IllustratorSlow1614 | IllustratorSlow1614
Break it off before he manipulates and pushes his way in. 👍
Peacemkr45 | Peacemkr45
Concerns raised about boyfriend's mental and alcohol issues 🤔
Popular-Jaguar-3803 | Popular-Jaguar-3803
NTA. Beware of manipulative behavior and take a break. 👍
Intimacy4u | Intimacy4u
A cautionary warning about dating someone with an 'alcohol problem'
DaisyDazzle | DaisyDazzle
User calls out OP's 'hobosexual leach' of a boyfriend 😬
No_Cauliflower_5489 | No_Cauliflower_5489
Beware of tenancy laws! Don't let him establish tenancy. Change locks 🔑
sanslenom | sanslenom
Protect your home and your heart. Don't let him in! 👍
Blue-Phoenix23 | Blue-Phoenix23
Protect your children and yourself from toxic living situations. 👏
BulkyCaterpillar4240 | BulkyCaterpillar4240
Boundaries are important. NTA. 🙅♀️
AdOne8433 | AdOne8433
Dating an alcoholic parent as a child-free person is risky. 🚫
Aggravating_Meat2101 | Aggravating_Meat2101
Concerned commenter advises ending unhealthy relationship due to age and past.
crunkjuices | crunkjuices
Be cautious of an active addict's words and actions. 🔥
NothingAndNow111 | NothingAndNow111
Red flag recognized and practical advice given. Protect your assets! 👍
EarnestErica | EarnestErica
User questions partner's maturity, advises to stand up for self. NTA 👍
ApproxKnowledgeCat | ApproxKnowledgeCat
From dislike to like: ownership in relationships ❤
jessicamaevh | jessicamaevh
Setting boundaries with possessive partner can lead to controlling behavior
00Lisa00 | 00Lisa00
Red flags: Mental health/alcohol abuse issues and passive moving in 🚨
Unlikely-Housing8223 | Unlikely-Housing8223
NTA. Numerous red flags indicate low value male. End it. 👍
478607623564857 | 478607623564857
Take back your space, NTA. Pack his things and communicate clearly.
Practical_Reindeer23 | Practical_Reindeer23
Protect your space! 🙅🏽♀️ Keep your house yours.
gemmygem86 | gemmygem86
Take control of your relationship 💪 with a firm but fair message ✊
tinainmalta | tinainmalta
Single mom defends her right to call her house her own 💪
Phoenix-Jen | Phoenix-Jen
👍Taking control and setting boundaries with a 'hobosexual' boyfriend.
Patient_Gas_5245 | Patient_Gas_5245