I Told My BF I'll Get an Abortion Unless He Cuts Off His Racist Mom 😳🍼

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🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a wild ride ahead! 😱 Meet our fierce protagonist, a 23-year-old woman who's been dating her college sweetheart for 8 months. 💑 They've got big news to share with his mom... she's pregnant! 🤰 But hold on tight, because this story is about to take a shocking turn that'll leave you speechless! 😲 Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, drama, and some seriously messed up family dynamics. 🎢 Trust me, you won't want to miss a single juicy detail! 🍿

🚨 Shocking Revelation: My BF's Mom Called Me the N-Word! 😱

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🤰 Big News: I'm Pregnant... But His Mom Hates Me! 😢

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👀 If Looks Could Kill... His Mom Gave Me the Death Stare! 😠

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🚫 No Food for the 'Negro'? His Mom's Shocking Racism Revealed! 😡

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🤐 Plot Twist: I Secretly Understand Spanish... And Heard Every Hurtful Word! 😥

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🍽️ One Plate for Two? BF's Lame Attempt to Smooth Things Over 🙄

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🚽 Bathroom Breakdown: Confronting My BF About His Mom's Racism 😤

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🤦‍♀️ BF's Ridiculous Excuse: 'She Doesn't Normally See Black People Like That' 🙄

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🚫👶 Ultimatum: Correct Your Mom's Racism or I'm Getting an Abortion! 😠

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💔 Threatened Breakup: BF Acting Like a Mama's Boy 🍼

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💊 Update: I've Decided to Get an Abortion 😔

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🙅‍♀️ I'm Not Mentally Ill for Choosing Abortion! 💪

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🙏 Thank You for the Advice, But I Won't Be Shamed! 😤

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😡 Pro-Lifers, Back Off! Your Insults Won't Change My Mind! 🚫

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🗣️ Stop Shaming Women for Their Choices! 🙌

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😒 Pro-Lifers, Get Over It and Get a Life! 🌿

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🤬 Pro-Lifers Love to Throw Insults, But Don't Even Adopt! 😠

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👏 Let Women Make Their Own Choices! 💪

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😱 Racism, Ultimatums, and a Heartbreaking Decision! 💔

Well, well, well... this story has more twists and turns than a soap opera! 📺 Our girl thought she was in for a sweet meet-the-parents moment, but instead, she got slapped with a heaping dose of racism from her BF's mom! 😡 Can you believe the audacity of this woman, calling her the N-word and refusing to let her eat? 🙅‍♀️ And don't even get me started on the BF's lame excuse... 'She doesn't normally see black people like that'? 🤦‍♀️ Give me a break! 🙄 Our fierce protagonist wasn't about to let this slide, so she gave her man an ultimatum: fix your mom's racist ways or I'm getting an abortion! 😤 Talk about a power move! 💪 But wait, there's more! After some soul-searching, our girl has decided to go through with the abortion, and she's not letting anyone shame her for it! 🙅‍♀️ You tell 'em, sis! 👏 Let's see what the internet has to say about this wild ride... 👀

NTA. Having a racist MIL, a BF with no backbone, and then bringing a child into the mix would make one consider an abortion. 👶💔

Ok_Design_705 | Ok_Design_705

Navigating family dynamics with racist in-laws 🤔

PolarStar89 | PolarStar89

BF's failure to defend against racism is a major red flag 🚨

FatBloke4 | FatBloke4

Cut the man child loose and good luck with your decision 👏

mags7683 | mags7683

Think twice before having a baby with a non-defending BF 🤔

Sweaty_Chart_6963 | Sweaty_Chart_6963

NTA, but it's evident that you're not ready to be a parent. Consider terminating.

gayghostboy69 | gayghostboy69

Stand up for yourself and your child, forget the racist MIL.

CarbonS0ul | CarbonS0ul

Defending partner from racism, won't subject child to dehumanization 👏

Careless_League_9494 | Careless_League_9494

Cutting off racist MIL for abortion? NTA, life will be hell 😳

Targa85 | Targa85

Don't have a baby with that man, protect yourself 👍

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NTA. Commenter advises OP to get an abortion and leave boyfriend.

WilsIrish | WilsIrish

User urges OP to get an abortion for right reasons 👏

Smoke__Frog | Smoke__Frog

Racist MIL and unsupportive BF. Protect yourself. NTA 😳

Effective-Ad7517 | Effective-Ad7517

Cultural differences make it hard to cut off in-laws 😒

AnonymousWiff | AnonymousWiff

Racism in-laws ruins relationships. Don't start a family here. 🚫

sinwon475 | sinwon475

Being pro-choice doesn't justify conditioning fatherhood on mother's behavior 🤔

mdillard2006 | mdillard2006

Standing up against racism and prioritizing the safety of your child 🙌

scienceandpuppies | scienceandpuppies

Supportive comment urging OP to prioritize her future over a toxic family.

Responsible_Fig_8325 | Responsible_Fig_8325

Empathetic comment acknowledges the tough situation and condemns racism 👏

ComplexResource999 | ComplexResource999

Think twice before ultimatums. Kids are permanent, relationships aren't.

JupiterSkyFalls | JupiterSkyFalls

User advocates for abortion over racist in-laws, using slang.

morbidnerd | morbidnerd

Get out of the relationship and do what's best for you. 🙌 NTA.

SylphofBlood | SylphofBlood

Father-to-be's self-centeredness raises concerns for child's future 🤔

Hot_Ad892 | Hot_Ad892

Supportive comment applauds OP's decision to prioritize her own well-being.

VTHome203 | VTHome203

Avoid a momma's boy or face racist grandma battles 😳

Equal_Push_565 | Equal_Push_565

Perhaps having a kid isn't the best idea right now 😕

Informal_Ad2658 | Informal_Ad2658

A grateful woman on not having a child with toxic family 🙏

TauntaBeanie | TauntaBeanie

Consider his and his mother's attitude towards a mixed-race child. 🤔

Cappa_Cail | Cappa_Cail

Empathetic support for breaking free from toxic relationship. 👍

Less_Jello_2489 | Less_Jello_2489

Choose wisely to avoid a racist grandmother for your child 🙏🏻

femfem237 | femfem237

NTA. Don't date a guy who tolerates racism. 💯

JennieGee | JennieGee

Supportive comment encourages woman to leave toxic relationship 👏

Voidfishie | Voidfishie

Dumping a racist partner is an easy decision 💯 #NTA

Hopeless_Ramentic | Hopeless_Ramentic

Mixed-race commenter supports OP's decision to cut off racist MIL ✊

SimpleNo2324 | SimpleNo2324

Supportive comment urges to leave toxic relationship, offers encouragement and hugs 💜

Boujie_Assassin | Boujie_Assassin

Choosing to have an abortion due to racism, NTA. Ex couldn't stand up to mom, not ready to be a father. 🚫🧔🏻👩🏻🚫

Charming-Problem-478 | Charming-Problem-478

User advises OP to consider being a single parent carefully 🤔

Training_Package6761 | Training_Package6761

Choosing between partner and racist family as a Black woman 🤷🏾‍♀️

VeronaMoreau | VeronaMoreau

Empathetic support for woman choosing her own path. 🙌

SpaceMom-LawnToLawn | SpaceMom-LawnToLawn

User recommends abortion and breakup due to partner's behavior.

drehenup | drehenup

Cutting off racist family members: NTA wins the day 👏

TheLadyIsabelle | TheLadyIsabelle

Bold stance on cutting off toxic family for personal well-being.

aftercloudia | aftercloudia

Pro-choice advice on making a tough decision with a racist MIL.

Safren | Safren

NTA stands up against racism and toxic family dynamics 👏

Weird_Highlight_3195 | Weird_Highlight_3195

NTA, but bad decisions lead to disaster 🙄

AmettOmega | AmettOmega

Dump the BF for not protecting you from his racist mom 💯

Binx812 | Binx812

Encouraging support for OP's decision to prioritize her well-being. 😘

Material-Double3268 | Material-Double3268

Supportive comment calls out anti-abortion judgmental a**holes. 👏

CoolCrow206 | CoolCrow206

NTA, but ultimatums aren't a healthy way to solve problems 😔

ScissorMeDaddiAss | ScissorMeDaddiAss

NTA, leave that spineless dude and focus on yourself 👏

Vegetable_String7911 | Vegetable_String7911

Cutting off racist mom or abortion? NTA faces tough choice.

Eatshitmoderatorz | Eatshitmoderatorz

Empathetic support from an internet mom for OP’s tough decision 💗

realistSLBwithRBF | realistSLBwithRBF

Supportive comment with clever compliment and humorous insult.

quirknebula | quirknebula

Regretful advice to avoid having a baby with a bad partner 😢

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Protecting your child from racism is more important than pleasing family 👏 NTA

Ok-Ratio3343 | Ok-Ratio3343

Consider the long-term impact of staying with a racist family. NTA 👍

Lady_Lallo | Lady_Lallo

Choosing an abortion over racist family, NTA. Focus on education.

artemismoon518 | artemismoon518

NTA. Dump him and get the abortion. 👌 Yeet his baby.

mangojones | mangojones

BF should have communicated mother's racism before moving in 😂

Sea_Tank_9448 | Sea_Tank_9448

Dump the boyfriend, he accepts racism and won't stand with you. 💯

marblefree | marblefree

User disagrees with using abortion as a tactic for control.

AnthemWhite | AnthemWhite

Surprise pregnancy and racism - a recipe for family drama 🤔

Toucangenocide | Toucangenocide

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize her well-being. 👍

3Heathens_Mom | 3Heathens_Mom

Dump him! If he can't defend you, he's not worth it 💯

Medievalmoomin | Medievalmoomin

Supportive comment, congratulating OP on standing up for herself and her child. 👏

GlitterKitty456 | GlitterKitty456

Empathetic comment supports difficult decision about abortion 👏

HellyOHaint | HellyOHaint

Racism can cause lasting trauma, cutting toxic people is necessary 👍

Lovelywaffle1 | Lovelywaffle1

Empathetic comment supporting abortion decision and personal autonomy.

no_one_you_know1 | no_one_you_know1

Supportive commenter shares personal experience and encourages personal choice. 👍

DntMindMeImNtRlyHere | DntMindMeImNtRlyHere

NTA. Your BF needs to grow a pair and cut off his racist mom.

Plot_Twist_208 | Plot_Twist_208

NTA. If he won't stick up for you, he won't for child. 😕

endersgame69 | endersgame69

Supportive comment, acknowledges the situation and offers hope 🙏

Independent-Gas7119 | Independent-Gas7119

Supportive comment, wishing the best of luck. 👏

adlittle | adlittle

Choosing a life without hate. NTA, not now.

Jenna2k | Jenna2k

Harsh criticism of OP's ultimatum to BF about abortion.

RareDub | RareDub

Choosing to prioritize your and your future child's well-being. 👏


Take control of your life and make the best decision ✌️

TheGloriousEdweena | TheGloriousEdweena

Abortion should not be used as a weapon in relationships. 👎

Librekrieger | Librekrieger

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