Pregnant & Alone for Christmas?! 😱 Fiancé's Shocking Decision

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🎄 Ho ho ho, it's the most wonderful time of the year... unless you're a pregnant mom-to-be facing the holidays alone! 😢 Our 31-year-old protagonist is expecting her first bundle of joy on December 30th, but her fiance's family has other plans. 🌴 They're insisting he joins their annual Florida getaway, leaving his very pregnant partner to fend for herself. 😱 Is she the a-hole for wanting her man by her side during this special time? 🤰 Let's dive into this festive fiasco and find out! 🎅

🍼 Baby's First Christmas... Alone? 😢

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🎅 Fiance's Family Insists He Joins Their Annual Getaway 🌴

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 FOMO Fuels Fiance's Decision to Ditch Pregnant Partner 😤

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🎄 Siblings Sync Up Schedules, Leaving Mom-to-Be Solo 😞

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🚨 FOMO Alert: Fiance Fears Missing Out on Family Fun 🚨

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💍 In-Laws' Subtle Snubs: Not Quite Part of the Fam... Yet 😒

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🌎 Grandparent Emergency Keeps Mom-to-Be's Parents Away 😔

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🎄 Facing a Lonely Christmas: Friends & Fam Busy with Their Own 😢

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🤰 Why THIS Year? Mom-to-Be Questions Fiance's Priorities 🤨

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😡 Fights Erupt Over Fiance's Loyalty: Parents vs. Partner 💔

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🤐 Silence Settles In: Mom-to-Be Stops Voicing Concerns 😶

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🤷‍♀️ AITA for Wanting My Fiance by My Side for Baby's Arrival? 👶

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🎄 Fiance's Festive FOMO Leaves Pregnant Partner Alone for the Holidays 😢

Our mom-to-be is facing a lonely Christmas as her fiance prioritizes his family's annual Florida vacation over being there for his pregnant partner. 😞 With her own parents away dealing with a family emergency, she'll be all alone during this special time. 😢 Fights have erupted over her fiance's loyalty, with him feeling torn between his parents and his partner. 💔 She's stopped voicing her concerns, wondering if she's the a-hole for wanting him by her side. 🤷‍♀️ The internet has some thoughts on this holiday heartache... 👀

Supportive commenter offers to take care of vulnerable pregnant woman ❤️

GoodRepresentative33 | GoodRepresentative33

Pregnant and alone on Christmas? Not the a**hole, FFS.

loverlyone | loverlyone

Prioritize your health and baby. Re-evaluate your relationship 😢

AngelofSol80 | AngelofSol80

Trust your gut and seek support from friends and family 🙏

LillyLovegood82 | LillyLovegood82

Importance of being present for childbirth discussed. 👨‍👩‍👤

No_Trifle4817 | No_Trifle4817

Fiancé prioritizing parents over family. NTA. 💍👨‍👩‍👧

jasperjamboree | jasperjamboree

Fiancé's shocking decision to leave pregnant partner for Christmas. Commenter advises setting boundaries and making a plan in case of labor. 😱

Spiritual_Basil7665 | Spiritual_Basil7665

Protect yourself and your child. Don't marry him. 🚨 NTA

BatpigMama | BatpigMama

Putting parents over pregnant fiancee on Christmas? Not husband material. 🤷‍♀️

The_Bad_Agent | The_Bad_Agent

Therapist confirms partner is TA for leaving pregnant fiancée alone 😠

Apprehensive-Guess42 | Apprehensive-Guess42

Fiancé wants to leave pregnant partner alone for Christmas 🤔

cdsmith | cdsmith

Fiancé prioritizing Xmas in FL over pregnant partner. NTA. 🤰🏻

Helpful_Hour1984 | Helpful_Hour1984

Traveling to Florida during pregnancy amidst COVID season, NTA.

AMooseintheHoose | AMooseintheHoose

Future husband prioritizes Xmas over birth of his child. NTA.

dudleymunta | dudleymunta

A harsh reality check for a pregnant woman left alone. 😢

tealcandtrip | tealcandtrip

Heartwarming story of a husband who prioritized his pregnant girlfriend/wife. NTA.

NotMyFirstChoice675 | NotMyFirstChoice675

Heartfelt support for pregnant woman abandoned by fiancé at Christmas. ❤️

Ancient-Condition280 | Ancient-Condition280

Sneaky plan to not notify fiancé of baby 🤪

Knickers1978 | Knickers1978

🤯 NTA, but is marrying him really the best decision?

TotheWestIGo | TotheWestIGo

NTA commenter sympathizes with pregnant woman's fiancé problem. 🤰🏻👎

Natural_Garbage7674 | Natural_Garbage7674

Congratulations on the baby! Husband's behavior unacceptable 😒

Hefty_Front_1012 | Hefty_Front_1012

Stand your ground! 💪 Don't marry into a toxic family.

AdministrativeBank86 | AdministrativeBank86

NTA won't stay for selfish fiancé's return; moving out immediately. 😠

Mishy162 | Mishy162

Leave the a**hole fiancé and his family! You deserve better! 👏

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Supportive comment, advises to prioritize self and baby over fiancé's playtime.

BeautifulPhantom1 | BeautifulPhantom1

Don't marry him! You and your baby deserve better. 💓

SabrinaBee1360 | SabrinaBee1360

Husband prioritizes in-laws over pregnant wife? NTA stands firm.

FoldingLady | FoldingLady

Fiancé's absence on Christmas shows his selfishness. NTA, speak up.

chelean3 | chelean3

NTA - Being left alone while pregnant is unfeeling 😠

whoopiedo | whoopiedo

NTA mama's boy fiancé leaves pregnant partner alone on last Xmas together. Divorce immediately. 🚩🚩

LiveMathematician371 | LiveMathematician371

Suggesting a doctor's appointment to inform fiancé about unpredictable pregnancy 👨🏻‍🍳

Equivalent_Juice2395 | Equivalent_Juice2395

Putting family before you and baby? 🚩 Rethink relationship.

Chipchop666 | Chipchop666

Fiancé's parents prioritize Christmas over their pregnant son's fiancée? NTA

Time-Tie-231 | Time-Tie-231

Heartbreaking situation 😔 Seek a supportive environment for the baby 💕

sbh56 | sbh56

Hopeful comment wishes well for pregnant woman's due date

PsychologicalBit5422 | PsychologicalBit5422

Engaging comment! The commenter highlights the importance of the situation with emojis and rightly calls out the fiancé's behavior. NTA 😱

YourLocalMosquito | YourLocalMosquito

Leaving a heavily pregnant partner alone for vacation? 😱 NTA

louisebelcher99 | louisebelcher99

Encouraging words for a pregnant woman being left alone for Christmas 😊

Frisianian | Frisianian

NTA. Stand your ground and consider the future implications 🤔

Trick-Performance-88 | Trick-Performance-88

Pregnancy travel struggles resonate with NTA commenters 😍

nefarious_epicure | nefarious_epicure

Husband prioritizing toxic family over pregnant wife 😡

Lovelife_20 | Lovelife_20

Empathetic commenter consoles pregnant woman left alone on Christmas

imsooldnow | imsooldnow

NTA. Bold suggestions for pregnant OP to deal with absent husband.

ConsiderationDue9909 | ConsiderationDue9909

Fiancé needs to learn his responsibilities and obligations 🤦‍♂️

Medical-Resolve-4872 | Medical-Resolve-4872

Husband's sweet gesture vs. fiancé's abandonment. NTA, leave him 💔

NonaAndFunseHunse | NonaAndFunseHunse

Fiancé prioritizing parents over pregnant partner? 🤔 NTA wins!

nezuko__tohru | nezuko__tohru

Supportive comment. Encourages OP to show fiancé this post. 😔

czzyp | czzyp

Supportive comment calls out ex's behavior and sets boundaries 👏

porkypandas | porkypandas

Fiancé prioritizes family Christmas trip over pregnant partner. NTA. 😠

Mundane-State-7306 | Mundane-State-7306

Supportive comment calls out family's behavior and offers sympathy ❤️

BmoreArlo | BmoreArlo

Fiancé prioritizes family over pregnant partner during holidays 😒

Great_Injury9618 | Great_Injury9618

NTA recommends serious action against fiancé's red flags. 💪🏻

Winterlong | Winterlong

Husband prioritizing parents over pregnant wife 😒 #Selfish

CrabbiestAsp | CrabbiestAsp

Fiancé leaving for 2 weeks at Christmas while you're due in 2 days? 😱NTA

mamachonk | mamachonk

Heartless fiancé leaves pregnant partner alone on Christmas 😔🎄

Aurora-love | Aurora-love

Pregnant partner left alone for Christmas by fiancé. Heartless move 😔

loetou | loetou

Protect your daughter's future with legal custody agreement. 👍

Mindtrbl | Mindtrbl

Prioritizing Mom over first child? 🤔 Selfish AH alert 🚨

Delilahpixierose21 | Delilahpixierose21

Ex-fiancé prioritizes family vacation over child's birth. NTA.

AlannaAdvice | AlannaAdvice

Fiancé prioritizes mother over pregnant fiancée for Christmas? 🤔 NTA.

Winter_Dragonfly_452 | Winter_Dragonfly_452

Assertive advice for a betrayed pregnant woman. 🤰

Amiedeslivres | Amiedeslivres

Future husband prioritizes family over pregnant fiancee and child. NTA.

ASD1985 | ASD1985

Supportive reply advises reaching out to friends for the holidays. 🙏

Routine-Focus-9429 | Routine-Focus-9429

Sage advice on co-parenting and getting a court order 👍

Misshelved | Misshelved

Fiancé ditched pregnant partner for Christmas? 🤨 NTA and reevaluate.

naosync | naosync

Standing up for what's right 💪🏻

youm3ddlingkids | youm3ddlingkids

Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl! 🎉 Ex got what he deserved. His mother doesn't deserve to see the baby. 👎

mcindy28 | mcindy28

Set boundaries and seek therapy, don't forgive missed birth.

Curious_Solid1450 | Curious_Solid1450

Take control and file for custody ASAP. Be prepared 👍

DidIStutter76 | DidIStutter76

Pregnant & alone for Christmas?! NTA deserves better 😠

Successful_Bath1200 | Successful_Bath1200

Stand up for yourself and your child. You deserve better. 👏

angelicak92 | angelicak92

Hopeful comment on co-parenting with well wishes for future.

mak_zaddy | mak_zaddy

Sending his stuff to Florida! NTA strikes back 😎

zannazo | zannazo

Heartbreaking situation 😢 Ex-fiancé's family doesn't deserve baby's love ❤️

DrDommy | DrDommy

Supportive comment, expressing relief for missed toxic partner's birth

isweatglitter17 | isweatglitter17

Choosing co-parenting over counseling after family's behavior. 🤝

TimeEnvironmental687 | TimeEnvironmental687

Pregnant and alone on Christmas, fiancé is being selfish! 😤

AlarmingResist3564 | AlarmingResist3564

Putting his child before his parents is a no-brainer 👍. Skipping the birth? Therapy needed 🤔

IndependenceLegal746 | IndependenceLegal746

Partner prioritizes family poorly in a shocking decision. 🤷‍♀️

BumblebeeSuper | BumblebeeSuper

Supportive comment about congrats on baby & ex's behavior

DemiChaos | DemiChaos

Setting boundaries with toxic in-laws for a happy motherhood 💖

Lecture-Kind | Lecture-Kind

Advice on setting boundaries with toxic family and co-parenting.

SuccessfulInternal40 | SuccessfulInternal40

Congrats on baby girl, time for him & evil in-laws to face music 👦🏼🎉

Massive-Wishbone6161 | Massive-Wishbone6161

Supportive comment about giving birth without fiancé's presence. 👍

kumza87 | kumza87

Harsh but true, better to cut your losses 👍

Las4863 | Las4863

Supportive comment. Asserts ownership of baby's name and boundaries.

sharonvd | sharonvd

Trust your family and prioritize yourself. Your partner is toxic 💯

jinxxed42 | jinxxed42

Put yourself first. Cut your losses and distance yourself. 👍

MsKit77 | MsKit77

Heartless fiancé and family leave pregnant woman alone on Christmas 😡

paddy-crime-1663 | paddy-crime-1663

NTA, fiance needs to grow up and prioritize his family 👨‍👩‍👤🎄

Savethedance | Savethedance

Pregnant and alone on Christmas? NTA! What a tool! 👍

backyardchick | backyardchick

Due dates aren't a guarantee, and you deserve support 👏

emeraldpapaya | emeraldpapaya

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