Buckle up, folks, because we’ve got a heart-wrenching tale of love, loss, and a whole lot of drama! When a young man loses his beloved brother, he’s left reeling from the pain. But when his girlfriend shows up after the funeral in tears over her crappy day at work, things take a turn for the worse. Is he an a-hole for calling her out on her selfishness during his darkest hour? Let’s dive in and find out! ️♀️
Tragedy Strikes: A Brother’s Untimely Passing

Saying Goodbye: The Funeral

Girlfriend’s Tearful Arrival: An Hour After the Funeral ️

A World Falling Apart: The Depths of Grief

Calling Out Selfishness: A Grieving Man’s Frustration ️

AITA for Calling My Girlfriend Selfish? ♂️

✍️ Edit: Recurring Behavior, But Usually Not Bothersome

♂️ Day-to-Day: Her Problems Aren’t Actually Trivial ️

Grief-Stricken BF vs. Work-Stressed GF: Who’s the A-Hole?
Looks like we’ve got ourselves a classic case of “my pain is bigger than your pain” here! Our grieving boyfriend is at his wit’s end after losing his brother, and his girlfriend’s work woes just ain’t cutting it in the sympathy department. But wait, there’s more! Turns out this isn’t the first time she’s made it all about her. So, is our man justified in his frustration, or should he have cut her some slack? The internet has thoughts, and you won’t believe what they have to say! Grab your popcorn, ’cause this one’s about to get juicy!
Switching from crying to anger unnerved commenter. NTA.

Supportive commenter sympathizes with OP’s devastating loss and girlfriend’s selfish behavior.

NTA. Your girlfriend was being selfish and lacks empathy ♂️

Calling out attention-seeking behavior at a funeral

Supportive comment offers condolences and advice for grieving boyfriend.

Dump her? Harsh, but was she really being selfish?

Evaluate your relationship and prioritize your well-being. #NTA

Red flag? Commenter suspects manipulation, offers condolences. NTA.

NTA. Girlfriend’s selfish behavior raises red flags

Is girlfriend’s behavior a pattern of attention-seeking?

Grieving man receives support after calling out girlfriend’s behavior

NTA just lost brother but GF prioritizes work drama, suggests new job

Supportive comment suggests therapy and self-reflection for girlfriend’s behavior.
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Losing a brother is tough, girlfriend’s self-centeredness adds insult

Grieving man called a**hole for not comforting selfish girlfriend

Condolences offered to commenter, agreement that girlfriend was inconsiderate.

Acknowledging others’ problems is important even during tough times. NAH

Condolences for loss. NTA. GF’s behavior was inappropriate and selfish

Insensitive girlfriend complains about job at brother’s funeral.

Grieving boyfriend gets support for calling out girlfriend’s behavior.

NTA. Relationship advice after loss of loved one

Setting boundaries is crucial for a healthy relationship

Break up with her. Narcissists only think about themselves ♂️

Encouraging empathy and communication in relationships

Helpful article on supporting and complaining, girlfriend was selfish. NTA.
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Girlfriend’s fake tears reveal her manipulative behavior, NTA.

NTA calls out girlfriend for selfish behavior at funeral

Supportive comment without context

Setting boundaries in a relationship is important for emotional health

Dump her! NTA calls out girlfriend’s “selfish” behavior

NTA, insensitive girlfriend prioritized her work issues over brother’s funeral

NTA calls out girlfriend’s attention-seeking behavior

Partner’s self-centered behavior after sibling’s death is a red flag

NTA’s girlfriend called him an a**hole on his brother’s funeral

Harsh advice for a grieving girlfriend

Break up with her, she’s selfish and not worth it.

Valid feelings, but inappropriate timing. NTA wins.

Partner’s selfish behavior at funeral reveals deeper character flaw

NTA, but take time to grieve before making decisions
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Empathetic commenter advises to leave unsupportive girlfriend during grief
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Partner’s selfishness called out in blunt comment.
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Encouraging breakup and self-care after insensitive partner at funeral

Ex prioritized being important over partner’s father’s death

User criticizes girlfriend’s behavior at brother’s funeral, calls her selfish
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NTA. Girlfriend’s selfishness and immaturity may require a break-up

Girlfriend’s tears at funeral called “selfish” by commenter

Funeral drama leads to break up advice in comments

Break up with her, your feelings will always be on back-burner

NTA! Relationship red flag. End it before it gets worse.
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Insensitive girlfriend criticized job at brother’s funeral. Not cool.

Questioning girlfriend’s honesty, commenter advises reflection before relationship continuation.

NTA calls out girlfriend for selfish behavior during trauma dumping

Supportive comment offers relationship advice after girlfriend’s insensitive behavior.

Grieving man prioritizes trivial problem? Internet weighs in.

Lack of empathy in partner, commenter is NTA

Supportive commenter advises to drop unsympathetic girlfriend.

Condolences offered with criticism of girlfriend’s behavior. #NTA

Condolences given to bereaved man and validation for his feelings.
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Supportive comment offers comfort and hope for grieving process

Heartless girlfriend lacks empathy, NTA should let her go

Condolences to OP. NTA, GF lacked grace to be supportive.

Heartless girlfriend misses funeral, commenter calls her out as selfish.

Redditor sympathizes with man who called out girlfriend’s behavior.

Grief is personal. NTA for reacting differently.

Heartless girlfriend berates grieving boyfriend – NTA to let go
