Man SLAMS Girlfriend's "Selfish" Tears at Brother's Funeral 😱💔

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Buckle up, folks, because we've got a heart-wrenching tale of love, loss, and a whole lot of drama! 💔 When a young man loses his beloved brother, he's left reeling from the pain. 😢 But when his girlfriend shows up after the funeral in tears over her crappy day at work, things take a turn for the worse. 😬 Is he an a-hole for calling her out on her selfishness during his darkest hour? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🕵️‍♀️

💔 Tragedy Strikes: A Brother's Untimely Passing 😢

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🌹 Saying Goodbye: The Funeral 😔

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😭 Girlfriend's Tearful Arrival: An Hour After the Funeral 🕰️

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💔 A World Falling Apart: The Depths of Grief 😞

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😡 Calling Out Selfishness: A Grieving Man's Frustration 🗣️

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🤔 AITA for Calling My Girlfriend Selfish? 🙋‍♂️

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✍️ Edit: Recurring Behavior, But Usually Not Bothersome 🔄

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🤷‍♂️ Day-to-Day: Her Problems Aren't Actually Trivial 🗓️

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Grief-Stricken BF vs. Work-Stressed GF: Who's the A-Hole? 🤯

Looks like we've got ourselves a classic case of "my pain is bigger than your pain" here! Our grieving boyfriend is at his wit's end after losing his brother, and his girlfriend's work woes just ain't cutting it in the sympathy department. But wait, there's more! Turns out this isn't the first time she's made it all about her. So, is our man justified in his frustration, or should he have cut her some slack? The internet has thoughts, and you won't believe what they have to say! Grab your popcorn, 'cause this one's about to get juicy!

Switching from crying to anger unnerved commenter. NTA.

Able_Calligrapher178 | Able_Calligrapher178

Supportive commenter sympathizes with OP's devastating loss and girlfriend's selfish behavior.

embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop

NTA. Your girlfriend was being selfish and lacks empathy 🤷‍♂️

TrayMc666 | TrayMc666

Calling out attention-seeking behavior at a funeral 😱

Lythiel | Lythiel

Supportive comment offers condolences and advice for grieving boyfriend.

Nessie51 | Nessie51

Dump her? Harsh, but was she really being selfish?


Evaluate your relationship and prioritize your well-being. #NTA 👍

penguin_squeak | penguin_squeak

Red flag? Commenter suspects manipulation, offers condolences. NTA.

AlienGoddess91 | AlienGoddess91

NTA. Girlfriend's selfish behavior raises red flags 👉🏻💔

Vaalzhin | Vaalzhin

Is girlfriend's behavior a pattern of attention-seeking? 🤔

GloInTheDarkUnicorn | GloInTheDarkUnicorn

Grieving man receives support after calling out girlfriend's behavior 👏

TravellingUnicornMIA | TravellingUnicornMIA

NTA just lost brother but GF prioritizes work drama, suggests new job 👍

Gabbz737 | Gabbz737

Supportive comment suggests therapy and self-reflection for girlfriend's behavior.

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Losing a brother is tough, girlfriend's self-centeredness adds insult 😔

GrabOk6838 | GrabOk6838

Grieving man called a**hole for not comforting selfish girlfriend 😱

Prize_Fox_9163 | Prize_Fox_9163

Condolences offered to commenter, agreement that girlfriend was inconsiderate.

JupiterSWarrior | JupiterSWarrior

Acknowledging others' problems is important even during tough times. NAH 👍

WhyCommentQueasy | WhyCommentQueasy

Condolences for loss. NTA. GF's behavior was inappropriate and selfish 😑

Character-Grape520 | Character-Grape520

Insensitive girlfriend complains about job at brother's funeral.

Countrach | Countrach

Grieving boyfriend gets support for calling out girlfriend's behavior.

bab_101 | bab_101

NTA. Relationship advice after loss of loved one 💔

Vera_Telco | Vera_Telco

Setting boundaries is crucial for a healthy relationship 👍

OkProduce8226 | OkProduce8226

Break up with her. Narcissists only think about themselves 🤷🏻‍♂️

Aggravating-Dot-5453 | Aggravating-Dot-5453

Encouraging empathy and communication in relationships 👨🏻‍👩🏻

riasgremoryslave | riasgremoryslave

Helpful article on supporting and complaining, girlfriend was selfish. NTA.

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Girlfriend's fake tears reveal her manipulative behavior, NTA.

MK_King69 | MK_King69

NTA calls out girlfriend for selfish behavior at funeral 😱

that-1-chick-u-know | that-1-chick-u-know

Supportive comment without context 🤗

annang | annang

Setting boundaries in a relationship is important for emotional health 👍

Ga1aticOverlord | Ga1aticOverlord

Dump her! NTA calls out girlfriend's "selfish" behavior 😱

Infinitecurlieq | Infinitecurlieq

NTA, insensitive girlfriend prioritized her work issues over brother's funeral 😒

FormalJellyfish4683 | FormalJellyfish4683

NTA calls out girlfriend's attention-seeking behavior 👏

leal_diamante | leal_diamante

Partner's self-centered behavior after sibling's death is a red flag 😡

kindly-shut-up | kindly-shut-up

NTA's girlfriend called him an a**hole on his brother's funeral 😱

stinkyandlulu | stinkyandlulu

Harsh advice for a grieving girlfriend 😕

SicilianUSGuy | SicilianUSGuy

Break up with her, she's selfish and not worth it. 👍

rainbow_mak3r | rainbow_mak3r

Valid feelings, but inappropriate timing. NTA wins.

GR33N4L1F3 | GR33N4L1F3

Partner's selfish behavior at funeral reveals deeper character flaw 😕

TrainingDearest | TrainingDearest

NTA, but take time to grieve before making decisions 😢

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Empathetic commenter advises to leave unsupportive girlfriend during grief 😢

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Partner's selfishness called out in blunt comment. 💔

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Encouraging breakup and self-care after insensitive partner at funeral 💔

Effective_Speed_8110 | Effective_Speed_8110

Ex prioritized being important over partner's father's death 🙄

ZephyThrowaway | ZephyThrowaway

User criticizes girlfriend's behavior at brother's funeral, calls her selfish 😒

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NTA. Girlfriend's selfishness and immaturity may require a break-up 🚩

Yiayia_Ioanna | Yiayia_Ioanna

Girlfriend's tears at funeral called "selfish" by commenter 😶

WinEquivalent4069 | WinEquivalent4069

Funeral drama leads to break up advice in comments 👍

JennerikUse | JennerikUse

Break up with her, your feelings will always be on back-burner 😒

One_Experience_265 | One_Experience_265

NTA! Relationship red flag. End it before it gets worse. 👍

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Insensitive girlfriend criticized job at brother's funeral. Not cool. 😒

Shar4j | Shar4j

Questioning girlfriend's honesty, commenter advises reflection before relationship continuation.

ReportSufficient7929 | ReportSufficient7929

NTA calls out girlfriend for selfish behavior during trauma dumping 🗑🏻💔

Limerase | Limerase

Supportive comment offers relationship advice after girlfriend's insensitive behavior.

maybebaby83 | maybebaby83

Grieving man prioritizes trivial problem? Internet weighs in. 🤔

jma7400 | jma7400

Lack of empathy in partner, commenter is NTA 😢

Maleficent-Ear3571 | Maleficent-Ear3571

Supportive commenter advises to drop unsympathetic girlfriend. 👍

akshetty2994 | akshetty2994

Condolences offered with criticism of girlfriend's behavior. #NTA 😢

sam_from_bombay | sam_from_bombay

Condolences given to bereaved man and validation for his feelings.

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Supportive comment offers comfort and hope for grieving process 💔

mykeltylezard | mykeltylezard

Heartless girlfriend lacks empathy, NTA should let her go 💔

Lisard13 | Lisard13

Condolences to OP. NTA, GF lacked grace to be supportive. 😢

tacokato | tacokato

Heartless girlfriend misses funeral, commenter calls her out as selfish.

spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey

Redditor sympathizes with man who called out girlfriend's behavior.

possiblycrazy79 | possiblycrazy79

Grief is personal. NTA for reacting differently. 😢👏

Glad_Quote_6087 | Glad_Quote_6087

Heartless girlfriend berates grieving boyfriend - NTA to let go 💔

neverclearone | neverclearone

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