I Refuse to Let My Monster-In-Law Watch My Newborn 👶🚫

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🍼 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a doozy of a story for you today! 😳 Our new mama bear 🐻 just gave birth to a precious baby girl 👶 and she's already fiercely protective of her little cub. 🦁 But here's the thing: Grandma-in-law has a seriously sketchy past when it comes to childcare. 😬 We're talking abandonment, foster care, and kids fending for themselves! 😱 So, when MIL started talking about babysitting, our mama bear put her foot down. 🦶 Hard. 😤 Now, the family's in an uproar and hubby's caught in the middle. 😅 Get ready for some serious drama! 🍿

👶 A New Bundle of Joy! 🎉

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😍 Everything About Our Daughter is Perfect! 💕

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🤔 Am I Mostly Valid? 🧐

Aggressive_Cup_5808 | Aggressive_Cup_5808

😱 Leaving Kids Home Alone at 3 and 4 Years Old! 😨

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🛫 MIL Abandons Kids to Visit Her Mother! 😡

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😢 Kids End Up in Foster Care for 2+ Years 💔

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🏚️ Boys Fend for Themselves for 5+ Years 😞

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🙅‍♀️ I Don't Trust MIL Regardless! 🚫

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⏰ Years Have Passed, But... ⌛

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🚨 Other Son in Prison Since 23 😳

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🛏️ MIL Wants to Get a Crib for Babysitting 👀

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🙅‍♀️ I Wouldn't Let You or a Daycare Watch My Baby! 😤

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😡 Everyone's Pissed I Called MIL Untrustworthy 😠

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🤥 Husband Wanted Me to Lie to MIL 😕

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🤷‍♀️ So, AITAH? 🤔

Aggressive_Cup_5808 | Aggressive_Cup_5808

Mama Bear vs. Grandma-in-Law: The Babysitting Showdown!

Well, well, well... looks like we've got ourselves a classic case of a protective mama bear going head-to-head with a grandma-in-law who's got a less-than-stellar childcare record. Our new mom is putting her foot down and refusing to let MIL babysit her precious baby girl, citing a history of abandonment and neglect. But here's the kicker: hubby wanted her to sugarcoat it and give MIL false hope! Talk about a rock and a hard place! 😅 Now, the whole family's up in arms and our mama bear is wondering if she's the a-hole for speaking her truth. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama!

NTA. Can't trust a neglectful parent with a goldfish 🐠

TarzanKitty | TarzanKitty

Red flags raised about leaving a 3-year-old alone. NTA?

TheRealMeetMountain | TheRealMeetMountain

Passionate response against monster-in-law babysitting. Support for OP's decision.

Broad-Discipline2360 | Broad-Discipline2360

Debate on leaving toddlers home alone sparks generational divide 🤔

TarzanKitty | TarzanKitty

NTA. Husband needs to prioritize family over abusive mother-in-law. 👶🚫

imothro | imothro

Husband's forgiveness shouldn't risk baby's safety. NTA 👏

MamaPagan | MamaPagan

Mom stands her ground against a monster-in-law 👏🏼

Kattymcnugget | Kattymcnugget

Husband's judgement is questionable, she's right to not let MIL.

tomatofrogfan | tomatofrogfan

Family sugarcoats to spare feelings, but trust can't be regained.

Live_Western_1389 | Live_Western_1389

Your baby, your rules. Keep an eye on your husband 👶🚫

GreenTravelBadger | GreenTravelBadger

Supportive comment, encourages communication and caution with mother-in-law 👍

GonnaBeOverIt | GonnaBeOverIt

Standing up to a pushy in-law 💪

Concord2018 | Concord2018

A cautionary tale about trusting a neglectful and abusive grandma 👵

Ok-Technology-8908 | Ok-Technology-8908

Protecting your child and setting boundaries, NTA. 👶🚫

Realistic_Head4279 | Realistic_Head4279

Supportive comment on dealing with toxic family members. 🙌

Square-Swan2800 | Square-Swan2800

MIL horror story: Commenter and spouse wouldn't trust her with baby

strongopinion4life | strongopinion4life

Breaking the cycle of abuse is the best possible thing 👍

soberdragonfly | soberdragonfly

NTA. The monster-in-law is a danger, protect your baby 👶🚫

dchplt | dchplt

Stand your ground and protect your baby from toxic in-laws 👏

nosaneoneleft | nosaneoneleft

Protecting your child is more important than hurting feelings 👊

SnooHobbies7109 | SnooHobbies7109

NTA. MIL neglected her own kids, not capable of caring for yours. Stand your ground and ask every family member why they believe she's capable of caring for a newborn when she wasn't capable of caring for her own children. 🚫

Panaccolade | Panaccolade

Protecting your child from a monster-in-law. 👶🚫

Familiar_Macaroon178 | Familiar_Macaroon178

Monster-in-law might get bored and leave the baby 😬

Successful_Moment_91 | Successful_Moment_91

Honesty is the best policy, NTA. Don't sugarcoat it. 👍

Adorable-Reaction887 | Adorable-Reaction887

Setting boundaries with monster-in-law, NTA. 💪

BlossomingPosy17 | BlossomingPosy17

Stand your ground, it's your baby! 👶🏻

freckledreddishbrown | freckledreddishbrown

Parental rights should be respected 👨🏻‍👦🏻. No a-hole here 😊

caillou001 | caillou001

Father dropped baby at child services too. NTA, but wary.

newprairiegirl | newprairiegirl

Protecting your child from toxic family members is important ❤️

bruhidk55 | bruhidk55

Husband needs to set boundaries with overbearing MIL 👶🏻

barrel_of_seamonkeys | barrel_of_seamonkeys

Setting boundaries with a garbage monster-in-law. Stay firm 💪

raine8515 | raine8515

Husband shamed OP for refusing monster-in-law as nanny. NTA.

serenelydone | serenelydone

Protective mother defends decision to not let monster-in-law watch baby 💪

amash50 | amash50

Standing up to a difficult mother-in-law. You go, mama! 👏

General-Visual4301 | General-Visual4301

Breaking the cycle of abuse with in-laws 👏

VTHome203 | VTHome203

No sugar coating for the untrustworthy monster-in-law 🚫

Eyes_Snakes_Art | Eyes_Snakes_Art

Hubby should handle his mom's lies. NTA!

charlienotahorse | charlienotahorse

Spineless hubby and monster-in-law, better odds of Mars travel 🚀

bienie2019 | bienie2019

Protecting your child from neglectful MIL is top priority 👶🚫

Tams_G | Tams_G

Blunt honesty is the best policy. Don't risk your child.

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Clear and direct NTA response to overbearing mother-in-law 💪

Prairie_Crab | Prairie_Crab

Husband disagrees on monster-in-law? Justnomil awaits your arrival! 👶

Ravenkelly | Ravenkelly

Protecting your child from untrusted characters. Stay strong OP! 👊

No_Nonsense_sombrero | No_Nonsense_sombrero

Protecting your newborn is top priority. NTA for setting boundaries.

thethingis82 | thethingis82

Grandma wanted to raise baby with you, dangerous delusion. NTA.

Cardabella | Cardabella

Husband fails to protect wife from monster-in-law. NTA 😍

kikivee612 | kikivee612

NTA, stand your ground and protect your child 👏

No_Pepper_3676 | No_Pepper_3676

Setting boundaries with in-laws, NTA for protecting newborn 👶🚫

angelicak92 | angelicak92

Trust is key, even with grandparents 👵🏼👴🏼

Crafty-Mix236 | Crafty-Mix236

Protecting your kids from family members? NTA, for sure! 👏

OttersAreCute215 | OttersAreCute215

NTA for standing up to monster-in-law's manipulations 👏

Mermaidtoo | Mermaidtoo

Husband needs to stand up to his mother. NTA.

StarlightM4 | StarlightM4

New mom protects newborn, won't let monster-in-law babysit 👶🚫

LukesBaseballCap | LukesBaseballCap

Blunt honesty saves time with monster-in-law. Watch for husband's trauma. 👶🚫

Chemical-Divide5734 | Chemical-Divide5734

Taking a stand against emotional abuse from in-laws. 👊

Plenty_Map_515 | Plenty_Map_515

Husband must stop coddling, monster-in-law abandoned her kids for years. NTA 👍

SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123

Choose who watches your baby, not the monster-in-law. 👶🚫

Unlucky-Ticket-873 | Unlucky-Ticket-873

Husband needs to grow a spine and stop sparing his mom's feelings. NTA 👍

cycophuk | cycophuk

Mother's toxic behavior and neglect won't be repeated with child. NTA 👏

Emotional_Flow_1190 | Emotional_Flow_1190

Monster-in-law refused to babysit, parent grateful, NTA. 👏

OffToParis | OffToParis

Honesty is key. Don't protect abusers, NTA 👍

CalligraphyMaster | CalligraphyMaster

Trust lost forever: monster-in-law's past actions have consequences 🚫

soullessginger93 | soullessginger93

No sugarcoating for a shit mother. Child abuse is unforgivable. 👎

MNConcerto | MNConcerto

Honesty is the best policy 🤥🚫 NTA stands up to Monster-In-Law

Cursd818 | Cursd818

Grandparents not entitled to babysitting. Monster-in-law has horrid track record.

Super-Effort4307 | Super-Effort4307

Stand your ground and make her realize the importance of responsibility 👊

EvenFinding9165 | EvenFinding9165

Grandma's past actions prevent her from being a good grandma 👶

Dry-Elephant-7525 | Dry-Elephant-7525

Setting boundaries with a monster-in-law is a never-ending game 🤷‍♀️. Start strong and conserve energy.

makeeverythng | makeeverythng

Monster-in-law is a no-go for newborn. NTA, be firm 👍

tiredoldmama | tiredoldmama

Protect your child from the monster-in-law at all costs 👶🚫

NotSorry2019 | NotSorry2019

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