Sister Expects Me to Raise Her... I Said NO WAY! 😳

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🙋‍♀️ Hey there, Facebook fam! Get ready for a wild ride of family drama, unfair responsibilities, and tough decisions! 😱 I've got a story for you that's sure to get your blood boiling and your heart racing. 💔 Buckle up, because we're diving into the world of a big sister who's had enough of being her little sister's caretaker. 😤 It's time to draw the line, but is it too harsh? 🤔 Let's find out together! 👀

🙋‍♀️ Sister Struggles: The Unfair Burden of Being a Caretaker 😓

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📚 Homework Help, Friend Drama, and More: The Never-Ending Responsibilities 😩

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🚶‍♀️ Walking to School Together: Late Again Because of Little Sis 🙄

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🩸 Awkward Talks: Explaining Periods to My Little Sister 😳

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🏃‍♀️ Moving Out and Distancing Myself: Enough is Enough! 😤

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🍳 Cook, Shop, Listen: My Sister's Never-Ending Demands 😫

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🏚️ Sister Moves Out, Cuts Off Parents, and Reaches Out for Help 😲

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💸 Struggling with Rent, School, and Groceries: Can Big Sis Save the Day? 🦸‍♀️

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🙅‍♀️ Tough Love: "Figure It Out Yourself, I'm Not Your Mom!" 😠

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🚫 Putting My Foot Down: It Should Never Have Been My Job! 😡

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😤 Sister's Pissed, Friend Thinks I'm Too Harsh 😕

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🤔 Should I Help Her Become Independent? The Dilemma Continues... 🤷‍♀️

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🔥 Big Sister Draws the Line: "I'm Not Your Mom!" 😠

Well, well, well... looks like our big sis has had enough of being a stand-in parent! 😤 After years of being burdened with her little sister's every need, from homework help to period talks, she's putting her foot down. 🙅‍♀️ But wait, there's more! Little sis has cut off their parents and is now turning to big sis for help with rent, school, and groceries. 😱 Talk about a sticky situation! 😓 Big sis says it's time for little sis to figure it out on her own, but her friend thinks she's being too harsh. 😕 What do you think, Facebook fam? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this family drama! 🍿

NTA, but your parents are massive A-holes. Parentification is child abuse.

redditor191389 | redditor191389

Refusing to be a stand-in mother has consequences. NTA.

C0pper-an0de | C0pper-an0de

Toxic parents, neglected childhood, and entitled sister. NTA. 👍

ImpossibleBop | ImpossibleBop

NTA. Parents were a**holes. Sister is entitled. Friend agrees. You're good.

ebwoods1 | ebwoods1

Sibling dynamic impacted by poor parenting. NTA for refusing.

MrsBarneyFife | MrsBarneyFife

Offer advice, not a place to stay. 🤔

tjlaw1987 | tjlaw1987

Don't let your sister drag you down. NTA 👏

costaa95 | costaa95

Sister moved out at 18, NTA for not raising her.

dkmeow1223 | dkmeow1223

NTA, give advice only if she tries to solve it herself 👍

vsmith55 | vsmith55

Taking care of your sister is not your responsibility. NTA 👍

TheIdealisticCynic | TheIdealisticCynic

NTA, but parents and sister are. Don't be stuck with her. 😳

v2den | v2den

Setting boundaries and offering advice to a dependent sibling 👍

Cent1234 | Cent1234

NTA. Suggests school counselor for sister's learned helplessness. Set boundaries.

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NTA. Offer advice, not a home. 🙌

LLBean-5432 | LLBean-5432

NAH, but sister may face consequences. Informing her can help. 🙌

IHeartDay9 | IHeartDay9

Encouraging self-sufficiency is empowering 💪🏽

smashteapot | smashteapot

Establishing boundaries with entitled sister - NTA 👍

Pickle1036 | Pickle1036

NTA - Forced parentification builds resentment. Have a convo & set boundaries 👍

Millerbomb | Millerbomb

Offering advice without being a replacement parent can help 🙌

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Sister's reaction NAH, parents are TAs according to commenter.

KyliaQuilor | KyliaQuilor

NTA. Sister is an adult now and not your responsibility.

seba_make | seba_make

Sibling struggles after rough childhood, seeking advice and empathy 🙏

WonderingWaffle | WonderingWaffle

NTA. Setting boundaries with family can be tough 😳

ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586

NTA. You were parentified and had every right to move out. Your sister needs to learn to be independent.

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Standing up against abuse and setting boundaries. You're not responsible.

solo954 | solo954

Encouraging comment suggests helping sister with resources. 💪

maranara23 | maranara23

You're NTA for setting boundaries with your sister 👏

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Breaking free from toxic family, empowering message! 💪

CarterCage | CarterCage

Perspective matters in NTA verdict for sister seeking support 👀

Arctixc_x | Arctixc_x

NTA. A clean break is necessary for your sister's growth. 💪

gnimmuc6898 | gnimmuc6898

Sibling dilemma: NAH, parents are the real a**holes 😒

aprilmarina | aprilmarina

NTA! Commenter encourages OP to stand firm and be independent 💪

Derbyshirelass40 | Derbyshirelass40

NTA, parents are AH, sister needs to grow up 🤷‍♀️

Necessary_Pen1621 | Necessary_Pen1621

Don't parentify siblings. NTA for refusing to enable her entitlement. 🙌

cpcfax1 | cpcfax1

Helping family is tricky, but OP has the final say 🙏

PurpleDragon9891 | PurpleDragon9891

Friend suggests calling sister to teach her independence 😊

NS_Tulkas | NS_Tulkas

Offering specific life skill lessons to sister to avoid codependency 👍

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Sister needs to learn to be independent, you're not the a-hole.

bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo

No obligation to help sis, parents are the a**holes 😳

halomtm | halomtm

NTA. Sibling wants free childcare, offer a youtube tutorial instead. 👍

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You're NTA for not raising your sister. Teach her responsibility.👍

GrizeldaLovesCats | GrizeldaLovesCats

NTA, let her figure it out 👍

maybeitsme20 | maybeitsme20

No crutch for sis! NTA stands firm 💪

mwelch930 | mwelch930

Encouraging comment suggests YouTube videos for sister's independence 🙌

wind-river7 | wind-river7

NTA. Sister needs to learn to manage life at 18 💪

Maximoose-777 | Maximoose-777

Sibling entitlement and parental favoritism. NTA sets boundaries firmly. 😎

Practical-Big7550 | Practical-Big7550

Encouraging NTA to guide her sister towards independence 💪

riahgor23 | riahgor23

NTA. Blame lies with parents for turning you into parent 😠

kittynoodlesoap | kittynoodlesoap

Set boundaries, offer help, and prioritize therapy. NTA 👍

HeatherReadsReddit | HeatherReadsReddit

Giving advice is good, but don't make the mistake of helping 🤔

nolechica | nolechica

NTA for setting boundaries with entitled sister, talk to her.

MissCheyenne14 | MissCheyenne14

NTA. Helping her from a distance might be better. 🙈

EarthBelcher | EarthBelcher

NTA. You are not responsible for your sister. Set boundaries.

iprobablyneedcoffeee | iprobablyneedcoffeee

Setting boundaries with a dependent sibling 🚫👨‍👧‍👧💔

fannubal | fannubal

NTA for not wanting to be your sister's surrogate parent 🙏 but also don't do everything for her 👍

Ahstia | Ahstia

You're NTA, but consider the root of the problem 🤔

sumtingswong | sumtingswong

Recommended book helps validate the situation and provide understanding. ❤️

FremdShaman23 | FremdShaman23

NTA comment empathizes with OP and criticizes parents' parenting skills.

Snoo_59080 | Snoo_59080

Helping family is a choice, but consider the impact 🙏

trm_90 | trm_90

Sibling support is important. Help your sister get back on track 👍

flashmannn72648 | flashmannn72648

Breaking free from family pressure. NTA 👍

Handbag_Lady | Handbag_Lady

Breaking free from a toxic pattern. Younger sister needs to grow up 👍

BreuckelenWoman | BreuckelenWoman

NTA. Don't stress, not your problem 😊

Wwwweeeeeeee | Wwwweeeeeeee

NTA, sister needs to understand you're not her burden 🙏

MallyOhMy | MallyOhMy

Putting yourself first is important. NTA 👍

searedwscars | searedwscars

Sibling responsibilities can be overwhelming, you made the right choice 👍

lawless929 | lawless929

NTA, sister needs to learn independence, parents are selfish.

TexasYankee212 | TexasYankee212

Stand up for yourself! 👊 You're NTA, but your parents...

Matchtuff | Matchtuff

Empowering response to toxic family dynamics. NTA 👏

HotelPigeon | HotelPigeon

Sibling expects free ride, but parents failed to teach independence. 😒

Chance-Contract-1290 | Chance-Contract-1290

Setting boundaries with a needy sibling can be tough 🤔 but empowering them to find solutions is a great approach 👍 NAH

Solid_Wish | Solid_Wish

Growing up in a toxic home can have lasting effects 😢, but helping your sister learn independence may be a good compromise 🙏

penguinspie | penguinspie

Encouraging support for sibling abuse survivors ❤️

DNK_Infinity | DNK_Infinity

Stay firm on your boundary, NTA. Don't let her guilt-trip you! 💪

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NTA comment advocates against parentification and warns of future responsibility.

HistoricalInaccurate | HistoricalInaccurate

Being independent is the best favor possible! 👍

666POD | 666POD

NTA. Older siblings shouldn't be responsible for younger siblings forever 🙏

Ihateyou1975 | Ihateyou1975

Cutting off parents means sister cut off too. NTA 👍

Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe

Learning to take care of oneself is crucial. You're NTA 👍

WriteAnotherWoods | WriteAnotherWoods

Setting boundaries with family is tough, but necessary. 🙌

Asocial_dragon | Asocial_dragon

Setting boundaries with entitled sister. NTA 👍

emherrera1960 | emherrera1960

Being a good sister means setting boundaries. NTA 👍

shenbeng | shenbeng

Sibling's unrealistic expectations led to a harsh but truthful response. 😳

lonelysilverrain | lonelysilverrain

Encouraging independence with Google and YouTube resources. 👍

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

NTA- Sister's entitlement stems from parents. No obligation to help.

onalease | onalease

Breaking the cycle of gendered expectations. NTA wins!

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

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