My Husband's Pal Gave Me an UNBELIEVABLE Ultimatum - I Refused! 😤💪

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Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy tale of friendship, family, and some serious dinner party drama! 🍿 When a woman's husband's BFF tries to crash her bestie dinner with his new GF, things get HEATED! 🔥 Will this friendship survive the fallout? 😱 Let's dive in and see who's the a-hole in this messy situation! 👀

🏠 Family Dinners & Friendship Dilemmas! 😱

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👭 Besties Bonding: Lillian & I Become Inseparable! 💕

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💔 Divorce Devastation: Mike & Lillian Split! 😢

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🍝 Dinner Plans: Girls' Night with Lillian! 👧

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😲 Surprise Guest: Mike Wants to Bring New GF! 😳

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🤨 Awkward Moment: Mike Shocked by Lillian's Visit! 😬

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🙅‍♀️ Cancel Lillian? No Way, Mike! 😤

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👪 Family First? Mike Plays the 'Family' Card! 🃏

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🤷‍♀️ Agree to Disagree: No Resolution in Sight! 😕

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🚪 Surprise at the Door: It's Mike & His GF! 😮

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🙅‍♀️ Stand Your Ground: No Uninvited Guests Allowed! 🚫

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🗣️ Heated Argument: My House, My Rules! 😠

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🎭 Dramatic Exit: Mike Causes a Scene! 🙄

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😡 Husband's Accusations: Judgmental & Rude! 😤

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🤨 Mike's Conspiracy Theory: Ganging Up with Lillian! 🕵️‍♀️

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🍽️ Dinner Party Disaster: Friendship on the Rocks! 🚨

Well, well, well... looks like this dinner party turned into a full-blown soap opera! 😱 Our leading lady just wanted a nice evening with her bestie and their kids, but her husband's BFF had other plans. 🙄 He tried to force his new GF on the guest list, but our heroine stood her ground! 💪 Cue the dramatic confrontation at the door and a seriously awkward scene. 🎭 Now, her hubby's accusing her of being rude and risking his long-time friendship. 😤 Talk about a rock and a hard place! 😫 Let's see what the internet has to say about this wild ride of a story! 🌎💬

Entitled friend gives ultimatum, husband expects apology. NTA. 👏

Ambivalently_OW | Ambivalently_OW

Setting boundaries with friends - NTA 👍

Smhlhhach | Smhlhhach

NTA called out Mike and the husband for being control freaks.

Svirfnil | Svirfnil

NTA gets real about disrespectful friend and trash panda husband 🤯

CuriousTsukihime | CuriousTsukihime

Demanding to un-invite guests and showing up uninvited? NTA 👏

TheVue221 | TheVue221

Mike's unreasonable demands make him look like a total a**hole 👎

itstoughbeingeasy | itstoughbeingeasy

Setting boundaries is important and Mike's behavior was immature. 👏

Reluctant_Shard172 | Reluctant_Shard172

NTA stood up to husband's friend who created drama with kids 👏

Babsgarcia | Babsgarcia

Support for OP's decision to shut down Mike's power play 👏

crystalbawl | crystalbawl

NTA stands firm on pre-existing plans despite ultimatum. 👏

LuvMeLongThyme | LuvMeLongThyme

Spouse's friend's power trip: NTA for standing up for self 💪

AFutureMcC | AFutureMcC

Suggesting marriage counselling to resolve conflict. 👨‍👩‍👤

bornii3 | bornii3

Stand your ground, NTA! Plans were made, stick to them 💪

senorito_waves | senorito_waves

NTA- Mike's childish behavior and ultimatum were unacceptable 👏

Silly_philosopher_ | Silly_philosopher_

Mike's immaturity exposed, husband should support you. You are NTA.

wubbly-wump | wubbly-wump

Father of the year demands to throw out his own kids? 🤦‍♀️

Party_Teacher6901 | Party_Teacher6901

Hosting dinner for Mike and his GF is a reasonable request 🍴

AtLeastImGenreSavvy | AtLeastImGenreSavvy

Dealing with a friend's immaturity or a husband's ultimatum?

Traveling-Techie | Traveling-Techie

Bullying partner's ex while kids visit? NTA for refusing ultimatum. 👍

Waitingforadragon | Waitingforadragon

NTA, husband's friend made an unreasonable demand, husband must address behavior.

T_A_10987654321 | T_A_10987654321

Mike's request was outrageous, OP is NTA for refusing 🙅‍♀️

yikesladyy | yikesladyy

Friendship over family? NTA, let Mike go with new gf 🤨

LibTart2021 | LibTart2021

Uninvited guest and husband's reaction - borderline a**hole behavior. NTA.

BunnyDeRabbit | BunnyDeRabbit

Demanding someone change their plans for you is entitled. 😒

A_Brit_Abroad | A_Brit_Abroad

User defends OP, criticizes Mike for trying to upset his ex-wife and kids. 👏

TheGingerCynic | TheGingerCynic

User questions husband's POV and supports OP's decision. 👍

suspicioussmallwoman | suspicioussmallwoman

NTA, husband and Mike owe gf an apology for impossible situation 👏

PurpleWomat | PurpleWomat

NTA, husband's friend shouldn't dictate who you invite. 😑

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Don't mess with dinner plans! NTA for standing your ground. 🍕

NefariousnessGlum424 | NefariousnessGlum424

User agrees with OP and advises to address husband's behavior.

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Stand up to obnoxious ultimatums, NTA! 🙌🏻

Picasso-1066 | Picasso-1066

Husband's friend gave an ultimatum, NTA for refusing. Uninvited guest.

Swegh_ | Swegh_

Mike's entitlement is unbelievable. NTA all the way. 😑

Algebralovr | Algebralovr

Husband's friend gives ultimatum over visit, NTA but husband sucks 😒

pnutbuttercups56 | pnutbuttercups56

Curious about rescheduling: Is Mike unwelcome forever or just that night?

i80west | i80west

Entitled guest tries to kick out dinner party, gets shut down. 👏

Resident_Anxiety4665 | Resident_Anxiety4665

Ex's new girlfriend creates drama at party, NTA for refusing ultimatum 👏

emr830 | emr830

A childish ultimatum from a friend, YTA husband, and reasonable solution.

lynnebrad70 | lynnebrad70

Boundaries are important, even with friends of your spouse 🙌

nim_opet | nim_opet

Canceling plans for him? NTA. What a turd. 👎

musical_spork | musical_spork

Respectful NTA stands up for herself and her friend 👏

GatorRebelChick | GatorRebelChick

Choosing sides wasn't an option until Mike made it one 🤔

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Choosing family over a friend who gave an ultimatum. 👪

Bakecrazy | Bakecrazy

Husband's entitled friend invites himself over, wife refuses - NTA 👍

turd_ferguson083 | turd_ferguson083

Mike demanded his ex-wife and kids to leave for his girlfriend. NTA.

melympia | melympia

Real friends don't give ultimatums, NTA 👏

Living_la_vida_hobo | Living_la_vida_hobo

User calls out husband's behavior in friend ultimatum. 🤬

emherrera1960 | emherrera1960

Uninvited guest throws fit: NTA. Husband must see Mike's behavior.

Lyrasilverose | Lyrasilverose

OP shuts down friend's ultimatum, husband needs to step up 👏

Ok_Clock_8658 | Ok_Clock_8658

Setting boundaries and saying 'no' is important. 👍

ThatsWhatSheSaid404 | ThatsWhatSheSaid404

Mike puts ex's friend in awkward situation, NTA for refusing 🤨

Username_of_Chaos | Username_of_Chaos

Don't let someone else's revenge plot ruin your integrity! 👍

Senator_Bink | Senator_Bink

Calling out a cheater and supporting OP. 👏

AffectionateBite3827 | AffectionateBite3827

You set boundaries, Mike didn't respect them. NTA 👏

bopperbopper | bopperbopper

Respectful boundaries are essential. Ultimatums from friends are unacceptable. 👍

ragnarocknroll | ragnarocknroll

Being rational wins. Don't let anyone disrespect you. 💪

Pocker91 | Pocker91

Mike's insensitive behavior was unacceptable and deserved the refusal. 👏

WallabyAlive | WallabyAlive

NTA. Shocking ultimatum from husband's friend jeopardizes his own children.

bab_101 | bab_101

Canceling on his own kids for his girlfriend? NTA wins 🏆

Due_Big_1368 | Due_Big_1368

Husband's friend crashes party, but wife is called rude? NTA

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Standing up to rude friends, NTA for refusing ultimatum. 💯

GrayBunny415 | GrayBunny415

Setting a date for dinner with his new lady might have helped 😕

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Mike's request is beyond selfish and disgusting. NTA.

bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo

Husband's friend gives ultimatum, commenter suggests alternative solutions. NTA.

ughpleasenonotagain | ughpleasenonotagain

Not the a**hole. Mike is an enormous a**hole. Your husband's behavior disappoints.

TinyHamCat | TinyHamCat

Respecting plans and boundaries is important. NTA 👍

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Friendship lost over dinner plans? NTA. Mike needs to grow up. 🙄

Fanwhip | Fanwhip

Spiting the ex? Not cool 😡 NTA stands her ground.

First_Bumblebee_179 | First_Bumblebee_179

Husband problem alert! NTA for refusing Mike's ultimatum. 🤔

lovebeinganasshole | lovebeinganasshole

Husband's friend demands his kids be thrown out for new girl 😡

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Warning to OP: Husband's friend sets bad example for kids 🚨

txmoonpie1 | txmoonpie1

When your ex wants to introduce his new fling at dinner 😒

Improbablyfromhell | Improbablyfromhell

Controlling behavior much? Mike needs to back off. 😒

Signature_Sea | Signature_Sea

Mike caused a scene, got shut down and exposed as a jerk 😒

john_jdm | john_jdm

Stand up for yourself. Canceling plans is not an ultimatum-worthy offense. 💪

deathcheater144 | deathcheater144

Mike needs a reality check, NTA for setting boundaries. 👍

TermAggravating8043 | TermAggravating8043

Husband should've stood up for her. Mike's an obvious NTA 👍

Careful-Lion3692 | Careful-Lion3692

Was the husband involved? NTA thinks it's deeply disturbing behavior. 🤔

Weird_Biscuits9668 | Weird_Biscuits9668

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