He Changed His Name, But Mom REFUSES To Accept It 😠🚫

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🙋‍♀️ Hey there, folks! Buckle up, because I've got a doozy of a story for you today. 😅 It all started when a new employee joined our team at work. They were a total rockstar, but there was just one tiny problem... their mom kept calling ALL. THE. TIME. 📞 Things took an unexpected turn when this employee confided in me about their transition journey. 🏳️‍⚧️ I wanted to support them every step of the way, but navigating their mom's constant calls? Talk about a minefield! 💣 Grab some popcorn, because this story is about to get wild! 🍿

🏢 A New Employee Joins the Team

phoneladyy | phoneladyy

📞 Mom's Constant Calls Cause Concern

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🏳️‍⚧️ Employee Shares Their Transition Journey

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🐌 Taking It Slow and Steady

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🤔 Navigating Mom's Calls During Transition

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🎉 Celebrating a Legal Name Change

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📞 Mom Calls Again, Seeking 'C'

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😠 Mom's Fury Unleashed

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🚨 Mom Shows Up, Demanding Answers

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😳 An Embarrassing Confrontation

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👩‍👦 Mom Plays the 'Mother Card'

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🤷‍♀️ Doubting My Decision

phoneladyy | phoneladyy

🚨 Mom's Meltdown: Supporting a Transitioning Employee Goes Awry! 😱

So, our beloved employee finally got their legal name change sorted out, and they were over the moon! 🌙 But when their mom called asking for 'C' again, I had to break the news that we no longer had an employee by that name. 😬 Cue the mom's fury! 🔥 She stormed into the office, demanding answers and playing the 'mother card.' 🃏 Our poor employee was mortified, and I felt terrible for causing such a scene at work. 😔 But here's the real question: should I have just let the call go through? 🤔 The internet's gonna have a field day with this one! 🌐 Let's see what the masses have to say about this mother-child showdown! 🥊

Mom refuses to accept son's transition and harasses him at work 😠 NTA for protecting him and creating a safe space 👏

neverathought | neverathought

Supportive advice for navigating relationship with trans coworker's mother 🌈

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Setting boundaries with difficult parents 🙌 NTA

Hun13ter | Hun13ter

Acceptance matters. Identity is not a choice for someone else.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Respect your child's transition, not calling them at work 🙅‍♂️

BraddardStark | BraddardStark

Boss tolerates insane mom, hopes son goes no contact 😠

hello_friendss | hello_friendss

Supportive comment brings hope and gratitude for trans acceptance 🙏🏻

nakedwithoutmyhoodie | nakedwithoutmyhoodie

Supportive comment, happy for the person's allyship 👏

SquirrelQueen13 | SquirrelQueen13

Supportive comment reminds OP to not let mom's issues affect work 👍

Kira_Ren13 | Kira_Ren13

Great coworker supports name change, sets boundaries with overbearing mother.

bamf1701 | bamf1701

Supportive comment shuts down transphobia with a touch of sass 👏

upset3000 | upset3000

Supportive comment defending someone's choice to transition. 👍

getheran_uber | getheran_uber

NTA and company should get restraining order against this nuisance 🚫

Candid-Ear-4840 | Candid-Ear-4840

Supportive comment on using correct term for trans person 🏳️‍⚧️

squishenn | squishenn

Supportive comment from a trans person. 🏳️‍🌈❤️

MaxArdite | MaxArdite

Respecting the employee's wish. Mom needs to move on 🚫

raerae6672 | raerae6672

Employee's supportive coworker earns praise for respecting name change 👏

NotSoAverage_sister | NotSoAverage_sister

Empathetic response to trans person's struggle with unsupportive mother 💞

faenyxrising | faenyxrising

Heartwarming comment from a trans man thanking ally. ❤️

stephstarstruk | stephstarstruk

Supervisor suggests addressing unprofessionalism of frequent personal calls at work.

dwellingintrees | dwellingintrees

Mother won't accept renamed employee, commenter defends employer's actions.

yellowchaitea | yellowchaitea

Support for an adult's name change decision. 👏

Laramila | Laramila

Supporting a coworker's transition and standing up to toxic mom 👏

TCTX73 | TCTX73

Supportive comment suggests using gender-neutral pronouns for clarity 👍

ThisRideHasTwoSeats | ThisRideHasTwoSeats

Admirable OP, but remember to use B's preferred gender pronouns! ❤️

Despada_ | Despada_

Setting boundaries with employees' parents calling work 🚫

AmericanMadl | AmericanMadl

Introducing the new reality now could save grief later. 🤔

MauraOC123 | MauraOC123

Setting boundaries with family is important. Great boss, NTA 👍

tailofthecrackfox | tailofthecrackfox

Suggests obtaining HR papers to prove harassment. Professionalism matters 🤑

KaszaJaglanaZPorem | KaszaJaglanaZPorem

Setting boundaries with a difficult mom. NTA for sure 👌

pacalaga | pacalaga

NTA for changing his name, mom needs to respect it 🙅‍♂️

DragonQueen777666 | DragonQueen777666

Standing up for B's identity, calmly suggesting a lesson for mom 👏

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Mom refuses to accept son's name change, internet calls her AH 😠

SliderDaFeral | SliderDaFeral

Support for legal obligation to use trans person's correct name 👏

SnappyCapricorn | SnappyCapricorn

Boss praised for supporting employee's name change 👍

SnooDoughnuts7171 | SnooDoughnuts7171

Mom's bigotry could cost her son his job 😠

burritogoals | burritogoals

Standing up against dead naming. Mom won't budge 😠

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Respectful workplace supports man's transition. NTA wins.

Ace_Squirrel8588 | Ace_Squirrel8588

Trans commenter shares support for name change, offers solidarity.

Conway | Conway

Standing up for trans and non-binary rights. 🏳️‍🌈💜

singsweetly4u | singsweetly4u

Mom won't accept name change, comment suggests trespassing and ignoring.

kindashort72 | kindashort72

Mother's behavior deemed unprofessional and weird by commenter.

FreakyRabbit72 | FreakyRabbit72

Overbearing mother won't accept son's transition, NTA sets boundaries 👏

Informal_Accident418 | Informal_Accident418

Overbearing mom needs to stop. NTA for setting boundaries.

hanhan0399 | hanhan0399

Supportive comment shows the importance of using correct pronouns 👍

Bigfilmguy75 | Bigfilmguy75

Navigating professional boundaries when siding with an employee. NTA 🙂

MaddyKet | MaddyKet

Mom humiliates son at work, he deserves better 😢

Opaquelace5089 | Opaquelace5089

Mom crosses professional boundaries, NTA's request is reasonable 👍

autumncurly14 | autumncurly14

Supportive comment highlights importance of using correct name. 👍

Aggressive_Pass845 | Aggressive_Pass845

Supportive comment praises OP's handling of a difficult situation 👍

quietfangirl | quietfangirl

Supportive comment, reminds to prioritize person's feelings over mother's.

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Setting boundaries with a difficult parent in a professional manner.

hesterpry | hesterpry

Proper name drama, NTA gives an ultimatum 🤔

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Supportive commenter praises OP for standing up to mom 👍

nananancy | nananancy

Changing names can be tough, but NTA made the right call 👍

asfinfrock | asfinfrock

Transman shares support, relates to tricky, entitled parents

meronx | meronx

Assertive response to a tricky situation 💪

dreamsuggestor | dreamsuggestor

Supportive comment, suggests setting boundaries with mother at work.

TripThruTimeandSpace | TripThruTimeandSpace

Protecting employees from harassment: suggestions for company policy 🚨

UnrivaledSuperHootie | UnrivaledSuperHootie

NTA. Manager provides support and advice to employee dealing with harassment.

Plantsandanger | Plantsandanger

Suggests a smart way of safeguarding employee information 👍

optimusprimavera | optimusprimavera

Standing up to deadnaming: NTA, wholesome AH 👏

Anasyrma_ | Anasyrma_

Supportive commenter praised for acceptance in face of denial. ❤️

leazypeazyyy | leazypeazyyy

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