Teen with Autism SHAMED at Brother's Wedding for Sensory Needs 😔

Diply Social Team
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🎩💍 Weddings are supposed to be joyous occasions, but sometimes, even the best-laid plans can go awry! 😰 Our story today revolves around a 15-year-old with autism who found himself in a tricky situation at his brother's big day. 🤵👰 With sensory struggles and a casual dress code compromise, things took a dramatic turn when the sister-in-law got involved. 😬 Buckle up, because this wedding tale is about to get wild! 🎢

🎩 Suit Struggles: A Wedding Wardrobe Woe 😰

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🎧 Noise Cancellers: A Necessary Accessory 🔊

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👔 Brother's Blessing: A Casual Compromise 🙌

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👰 Sister-in-Law's Scorn: A Fashion Faux Pas? 😠

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🤔 Communication Breakdown: Who Should've Asked Whom? 🗣️

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🍾 Drunken Demands: Take Off Those Headphones! 😡

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🚪 Waiting Outside: A Quiet Escape 🏃‍♂️

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🗣️ Newlywed Quarrel: The Day After Drama 😬

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🤔 Second Thoughts: Could I Have Tried Harder? 😕

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🤷‍♂️ AITA? The Suit and Noise Canceller Conundrum 🎧

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Suit Struggles and Noise Canceller Chaos: A Wedding Day Dilemma!

Well, well, well... it seems our young protagonist found himself in quite the pickle at his brother's wedding! Despite getting the green light from the groom to ditch the suit and bring his trusty noise cancellers, the sister-in-law was NOT having it. Cue the drunken demands, family drama, and a whole lot of second-guessing! Now, the question on everyone's mind: was our sensory-sensitive hero an a-hole or his wedding attire and accessory choices? Let's see what the internet has to say about this matrimonial mayhem!

Wearing headphones isn't disrespectful, shouting at someone is. NTA 👏

Substantial_Home_257 | Substantial_Home_257

Understanding autism and sensory needs 🤔

AlbeonX | AlbeonX

Suggested clothing for comfort and blending in with others. NTA.

Due_Fix_3900 | Due_Fix_3900

Savage reply to bride's behavior at brother's wedding 😏

Jdpraise1 | Jdpraise1

Bridezilla shames autistic teen: Redditors agree NTA for brother

Saraqael_Rising | Saraqael_Rising

NTA- SIL aware of needs, brother is supportive, in-laws AHs 🚩

lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86

Comfortable yet formal clothing suggestions for individuals with sensory needs 👕

krankykitty | krankykitty

SIL and her family are the a**holes, not the commenter 🙄

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Brother's wedding dress code causes altercation with autistic teen 😔

1568314 | 1568314

Wedding drama: Brother's wife and family are the real AHs 😠

dropshortreaver | dropshortreaver

Fashion advice misses the point of accommodating sensory needs 🤔

ChilindriPizza | ChilindriPizza

Wedding attire discomfort is acceptable, but not sensory needs. NTA 👍

Terra88draco | Terra88draco

Brother defends teen with autism at wedding, ableist behavior called out

SagaciousSagi | SagaciousSagi

Sensory needs shouldn't be shamed. NTA for standing up.

This_Cauliflower1986 | This_Cauliflower1986

Sibling's bridezilla behavior causes unnecessary rift, NTA.

Pheonyx11 | Pheonyx11

Disability shaming at a wedding? Not cool, NTA!

Uncleted626 | Uncleted626

Supportive comment advises setting guidelines for future events 👍

Hyperdohli | Hyperdohli

SIL shamed autistic teen for headphones at wedding - but jeans?

Scion41790 | Scion41790

Brother's wedding insensitive to autism needs 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Noise-cancelling ear plugs could help discreetly handle noise issues 👉 NTA

Western_Nebula9624 | Western_Nebula9624

Autistic teen shamed at brother's wedding, but not the a**hole

kr0mb0pulos_michael | kr0mb0pulos_michael

Wedding noise-cancelling headphones - a game changer! 🎧👌

Realitylyn | Realitylyn

Supportive comment defends against ableism and misunderstanding 👏

EastLeastCoast | EastLeastCoast

ESH. SIL was out of line, but OP could have made more effort to fit dress scheme. Sensory issues are challenging, but worth working on.

Kinghyrule90 | Kinghyrule90

Groom's mistake and SIL's rudeness - NTA prevails 👏

Fuzzy-Constant | Fuzzy-Constant

A commenter with autism empathizes with the sensory needs but points out dressing in white and casual clothing broke social taboos. ESH 🤷‍♂️

Playful-Wallaby4097 | Playful-Wallaby4097

Semi-formal wear trial and error needed for sensory needs 🧐

kspicydaddi | kspicydaddi

SIL shames autistic teen at wedding, NTA stands up for him 👏

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Brother stands up to abelist SIL; Marriage on the rocks 😞

weebu123 | weebu123

SIL shames teen with Autism at wedding, NTA for standing up

momomunch | momomunch

Autistic commenter defends OP against ableist SIL. 😊

Opheleone | Opheleone

Loving brother defends autistic sibling at wedding 🤝

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

Neurotypical standards shouldn't be pushed on neurodivergent people. NTA 🙌

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Autistic commenter shares positive wedding experience and supports OP.

Delicious_Wish8712 | Delicious_Wish8712

Supportive reply defends autistic teen's needs at wedding 👏

amish__ | amish__

Kind gesture or insensitive? Outfit suggestion for autistic teen guest.

Griffy_42 | Griffy_42

Family failed to support teen with autism at brother's wedding 😔

DiddyDM | DiddyDM

Weddings should be about love, not dress codes. NTA 🌈💕

gypsyqld | gypsyqld

Bridezilla vs. Sensory Needs: NTA stands up for brother

IamNotTheMama | IamNotTheMama

Celebrating presence over appearance - neurodivergent solidarity 👏

yarnsprite | yarnsprite

NTA for having sensory needs, but Reddit is ready to pounce 👀

another-r-account | another-r-account

Dress code dilemma: NTA for wearing blue jeans?

NancyNuggets | NancyNuggets

Empathetic comment acknowledges lack of understanding for disabilities.

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Supportive comment- NTA tried, SIL and family out of line. 👏

GeneralChaos2005 | GeneralChaos2005

Supportive comment suggests trying different clothing options for future events 👍

Disastrous_Drive_764 | Disastrous_Drive_764

NTA, but shamed at brother's wedding for sensory needs 😔

Competitive_Team6174 | Competitive_Team6174

Autistic groomsmen at weddings are awesome! NTA wins 👏

Anomnomouse91 | Anomnomouse91

Sibling's fight not about you, don't feel guilty. NTA 🙌

romantic_elegy | romantic_elegy

Supportive comment for teen with autism at brother's wedding 🙌

Thick_Stomach86 | Thick_Stomach86

Sensory needs seen as shameful? Not the a**hole here. 💪

ChaosAndMischeif | ChaosAndMischeif

Brother's wife lacks empathy, NTA, brother should handle her behavior. 😊

kishmishari | kishmishari

Wedding shaming of autistic teen by family is despicable 😠

Virhia | Virhia

Supportive comment and helpful advice for those with autism 🙌

scubahana | scubahana

Brother's bride shamed a teen with autism for sensory needs 😔

Moonmold | Moonmold

Brother's fiance shamed teen with autism at wedding despite prior arrangement 😔

papuvesi | papuvesi

Respectful guest accommodated sensory needs, SIL acted obnoxious while drunk.

OhioGirl22 | OhioGirl22

Brother's wedding attire causes unnecessary drama, sister NTA 👍

RebelWithoutASauce | RebelWithoutASauce

Sibling support wins over controlling sister-in-law. NTA 👏

arcaneth | arcaneth

Supportive comment validates OP's experience with sensory issues. 👏

MagicUnicorn37 | MagicUnicorn37

Mom of autistic child seeks advice on sensory-friendly jeans 🤔

Nyx_Shadowspawn | Nyx_Shadowspawn

Suit store may help find non-sensory suit for NTA teen 🤩

Ignore-Me-K | Ignore-Me-K

NTA. SIL is being disrespectful for suggesting addressing your own needs is selfish/rude and negatively impacting her. Brother is in the right. 👏

twiddlywerp | twiddlywerp

Insensitive bridezilla shames autistic teen at wedding 😡

SuperD57 | SuperD57

Defending against ableism and supporting family - NTA 👏

UnpleasantUntiny | UnpleasantUntiny

Support for autistic teen, condemnation for ableist sister-in-law 👏

ResponseMountain6580 | ResponseMountain6580

Brother's wife causes unnecessary drama at wedding 😒

rak1882 | rak1882

Supportive comment from fellow autism parent on wedding ableism 🤩

BoyzMom13 | BoyzMom13

Standing up for reasonable accommodations at a wedding 😊

SassiestPants | SassiestPants

Standing up for yourself and managing your condition with grace 💪

HexStarlight | HexStarlight

Fashion critique turns into judgemental YTA comment. 🤔

MoogleyWoogley | MoogleyWoogley

Dress code drama at the wedding, but you're NTA 👏

Sweetsmyle | Sweetsmyle

Empathy wins! Not the a**hole for prioritizing brother's comfort 👏

Robossassin | Robossassin

Brother's love for you is more important than his wife's behavior 💖

haasje83 | haasje83

Brother's opinion matters more than SIL's, you're NTA 👏

Baph0metX | Baph0metX

Brother should have stuck up for teen with autism 🚧

HipposPoopFunny | HipposPoopFunny

Supportive parent shares experience with sensory needs and condemns ableist behavior.

Dewhickey76 | Dewhickey76

You're NTA. SIL embarrassed herself with ableist behavior at wedding 😔

miasabine | miasabine

Sensory needs at brother's wedding - dress code suggestions 🤔

Joo_the_troll | Joo_the_troll

Supportive comment receives full NTA affirmation and praise 👏

sonicANIME2019 | sonicANIME2019

Wedding shaming exposes bride's true colors. #NTA 😎

Extra-Visit-8385 | Extra-Visit-8385

Supportive comment, urging communication and honesty with family members 👍

Every_Caterpillar945 | Every_Caterpillar945

Lack of parental guidance and brother's support questioned 😕

SydlynsMagic | SydlynsMagic

Sensory issues are so annoying but people can't accept it 😒

dopaminehoarder | dopaminehoarder

Don't apologize to the abuser. You have your brother's permission. 💪

jaethegreatone | jaethegreatone

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