🎩💍 Weddings are supposed to be joyous occasions, but sometimes, even the best-laid plans can go awry! 😰 Our story today revolves around a 15-year-old with autism who found himself in a tricky situation at his brother's big day. 🤵👰 With sensory struggles and a casual dress code compromise, things took a dramatic turn when the sister-in-law got involved. 😬 Buckle up, because this wedding tale is about to get wild! 🎢
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Suit Struggles and Noise Canceller Chaos: A Wedding Day Dilemma!
Well, well, well... it seems our young protagonist found himself in quite the pickle at his brother's wedding! Despite getting the green light from the groom to ditch the suit and bring his trusty noise cancellers, the sister-in-law was NOT having it. Cue the drunken demands, family drama, and a whole lot of second-guessing! Now, the question on everyone's mind: was our sensory-sensitive hero an a-hole or his wedding attire and accessory choices? Let's see what the internet has to say about this matrimonial mayhem!
Wearing headphones isn't disrespectful, shouting at someone is. NTA 👏
Substantial_Home_257 | Substantial_Home_257
Understanding autism and sensory needs 🤔
AlbeonX | AlbeonX
Suggested clothing for comfort and blending in with others. NTA.
Due_Fix_3900 | Due_Fix_3900
Savage reply to bride's behavior at brother's wedding 😏
Jdpraise1 | Jdpraise1
Bridezilla shames autistic teen: Redditors agree NTA for brother
Saraqael_Rising | Saraqael_Rising
NTA- SIL aware of needs, brother is supportive, in-laws AHs 🚩
lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86
Comfortable yet formal clothing suggestions for individuals with sensory needs 👕
krankykitty | krankykitty
SIL and her family are the a**holes, not the commenter 🙄
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Brother's wedding dress code causes altercation with autistic teen 😔
1568314 | 1568314
Wedding drama: Brother's wife and family are the real AHs 😠
dropshortreaver | dropshortreaver
Fashion advice misses the point of accommodating sensory needs 🤔
ChilindriPizza | ChilindriPizza
Wedding attire discomfort is acceptable, but not sensory needs. NTA 👍
Terra88draco | Terra88draco
Brother defends teen with autism at wedding, ableist behavior called out
SagaciousSagi | SagaciousSagi
Sensory needs shouldn't be shamed. NTA for standing up.
This_Cauliflower1986 | This_Cauliflower1986
Sibling's bridezilla behavior causes unnecessary rift, NTA.
Pheonyx11 | Pheonyx11
Disability shaming at a wedding? Not cool, NTA!
Uncleted626 | Uncleted626
Supportive comment advises setting guidelines for future events 👍
Hyperdohli | Hyperdohli
SIL shamed autistic teen for headphones at wedding - but jeans?
Scion41790 | Scion41790
Brother's wedding insensitive to autism needs 🤷🏻♂️
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Noise-cancelling ear plugs could help discreetly handle noise issues 👉 NTA
Western_Nebula9624 | Western_Nebula9624
Autistic teen shamed at brother's wedding, but not the a**hole
kr0mb0pulos_michael | kr0mb0pulos_michael
Wedding noise-cancelling headphones - a game changer! 🎧👌
Realitylyn | Realitylyn
Supportive comment defends against ableism and misunderstanding 👏
EastLeastCoast | EastLeastCoast
ESH. SIL was out of line, but OP could have made more effort to fit dress scheme. Sensory issues are challenging, but worth working on.
Kinghyrule90 | Kinghyrule90
Groom's mistake and SIL's rudeness - NTA prevails 👏
Fuzzy-Constant | Fuzzy-Constant
A commenter with autism empathizes with the sensory needs but points out dressing in white and casual clothing broke social taboos. ESH 🤷♂️
Playful-Wallaby4097 | Playful-Wallaby4097
Semi-formal wear trial and error needed for sensory needs 🧐
kspicydaddi | kspicydaddi
SIL shames autistic teen at wedding, NTA stands up for him 👏
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Brother stands up to abelist SIL; Marriage on the rocks 😞
weebu123 | weebu123
SIL shames teen with Autism at wedding, NTA for standing up
momomunch | momomunch
Autistic commenter defends OP against ableist SIL. 😊
Opheleone | Opheleone
Loving brother defends autistic sibling at wedding 🤝
The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver
Neurotypical standards shouldn't be pushed on neurodivergent people. NTA 🙌
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Autistic commenter shares positive wedding experience and supports OP.
Delicious_Wish8712 | Delicious_Wish8712
Supportive reply defends autistic teen's needs at wedding 👏
amish__ | amish__
Kind gesture or insensitive? Outfit suggestion for autistic teen guest.
Griffy_42 | Griffy_42
Family failed to support teen with autism at brother's wedding 😔
DiddyDM | DiddyDM
Weddings should be about love, not dress codes. NTA 🌈💕
gypsyqld | gypsyqld
Bridezilla vs. Sensory Needs: NTA stands up for brother
IamNotTheMama | IamNotTheMama
Celebrating presence over appearance - neurodivergent solidarity 👏
yarnsprite | yarnsprite
NTA for having sensory needs, but Reddit is ready to pounce 👀
another-r-account | another-r-account
Dress code dilemma: NTA for wearing blue jeans?
NancyNuggets | NancyNuggets
Empathetic comment acknowledges lack of understanding for disabilities.
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Supportive comment- NTA tried, SIL and family out of line. 👏
GeneralChaos2005 | GeneralChaos2005
Supportive comment suggests trying different clothing options for future events 👍
Disastrous_Drive_764 | Disastrous_Drive_764
NTA, but shamed at brother's wedding for sensory needs 😔
Competitive_Team6174 | Competitive_Team6174
Autistic groomsmen at weddings are awesome! NTA wins 👏
Anomnomouse91 | Anomnomouse91
Sibling's fight not about you, don't feel guilty. NTA 🙌
romantic_elegy | romantic_elegy
Supportive comment for teen with autism at brother's wedding 🙌
Thick_Stomach86 | Thick_Stomach86
Sensory needs seen as shameful? Not the a**hole here. 💪
ChaosAndMischeif | ChaosAndMischeif
Brother's wife lacks empathy, NTA, brother should handle her behavior. 😊
kishmishari | kishmishari
Wedding shaming of autistic teen by family is despicable 😠
Virhia | Virhia
Supportive comment and helpful advice for those with autism 🙌
scubahana | scubahana
Brother's bride shamed a teen with autism for sensory needs 😔
Moonmold | Moonmold
Brother's fiance shamed teen with autism at wedding despite prior arrangement 😔
papuvesi | papuvesi
Respectful guest accommodated sensory needs, SIL acted obnoxious while drunk.
OhioGirl22 | OhioGirl22
Brother's wedding attire causes unnecessary drama, sister NTA 👍
RebelWithoutASauce | RebelWithoutASauce
Sibling support wins over controlling sister-in-law. NTA 👏
arcaneth | arcaneth
Supportive comment validates OP's experience with sensory issues. 👏
MagicUnicorn37 | MagicUnicorn37
Mom of autistic child seeks advice on sensory-friendly jeans 🤔
Nyx_Shadowspawn | Nyx_Shadowspawn
Suit store may help find non-sensory suit for NTA teen 🤩
Ignore-Me-K | Ignore-Me-K
NTA. SIL is being disrespectful for suggesting addressing your own needs is selfish/rude and negatively impacting her. Brother is in the right. 👏
twiddlywerp | twiddlywerp
Insensitive bridezilla shames autistic teen at wedding 😡
SuperD57 | SuperD57
Defending against ableism and supporting family - NTA 👏
UnpleasantUntiny | UnpleasantUntiny
Support for autistic teen, condemnation for ableist sister-in-law 👏
ResponseMountain6580 | ResponseMountain6580
Brother's wife causes unnecessary drama at wedding 😒
rak1882 | rak1882
Supportive comment from fellow autism parent on wedding ableism 🤩
BoyzMom13 | BoyzMom13
Standing up for reasonable accommodations at a wedding 😊
SassiestPants | SassiestPants
Standing up for yourself and managing your condition with grace 💪
HexStarlight | HexStarlight
Fashion critique turns into judgemental YTA comment. 🤔
MoogleyWoogley | MoogleyWoogley
Dress code drama at the wedding, but you're NTA 👏
Sweetsmyle | Sweetsmyle
Empathy wins! Not the a**hole for prioritizing brother's comfort 👏
Robossassin | Robossassin
Brother's love for you is more important than his wife's behavior 💖
haasje83 | haasje83
Brother's opinion matters more than SIL's, you're NTA 👏
Baph0metX | Baph0metX
Brother should have stuck up for teen with autism 🚧
HipposPoopFunny | HipposPoopFunny
Supportive parent shares experience with sensory needs and condemns ableist behavior.
Dewhickey76 | Dewhickey76
You're NTA. SIL embarrassed herself with ableist behavior at wedding 😔
miasabine | miasabine
Sensory needs at brother's wedding - dress code suggestions 🤔
Joo_the_troll | Joo_the_troll
Supportive comment receives full NTA affirmation and praise 👏
sonicANIME2019 | sonicANIME2019
Wedding shaming exposes bride's true colors. #NTA 😎
Extra-Visit-8385 | Extra-Visit-8385
Supportive comment, urging communication and honesty with family members 👍
Every_Caterpillar945 | Every_Caterpillar945
Lack of parental guidance and brother's support questioned 😕
SydlynsMagic | SydlynsMagic
Sensory issues are so annoying but people can't accept it 😒
dopaminehoarder | dopaminehoarder
Don't apologize to the abuser. You have your brother's permission. 💪
jaethegreatone | jaethegreatone
