Housemate Throws WILD Birthday Bash - Despite Her Objections! 🎉🚫

Diply Social Team
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🎉 Well, well, well... looks like we've got a classic case of a surprise party gone wrong! 😬 Our birthday girl, let's call her the Veggie Patch Grandma, made it crystal clear that she wanted ZERO birthday festivities. 🙅‍♀️ But her housemate, who we'll dub the Party Planner from Hell, decided to ignore her wishes and throw a rager anyway! 🎊 Buckle up, folks, because this birthday tale is about to get wild! 🎢

🎂 Birthday Blues: The Unwanted Surprise Party 😒

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🙅‍♀️ Introverted Birthday Girl: No Parties, Please! 🙏

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🏠 Housemate Drama: Ignoring Birthday Wishes 😡

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🍽️ Perfect Birthday Dinner with Parents 🍷

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😲 Surprise! The Party Nobody Wanted 🎉

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🕰️ Party All Night Long: No Sleep Till Dawn 😴

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😠 Confronting the Housemate: Honesty is the Best Policy 🗣️

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🙄 Housemate's Lame Excuses: "You Used to Be Fun" 🙄

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🚗 Housemate Bails: Off to See a F--k Buddy 🙈

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😬 Tense Times: Seeking Refuge at Parents' Place 🏡

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🤔 AITA? Should I Have Pretended to Want the Party? 🎭

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🎂 The Birthday Bash Blowout: Veggie Patch Grandma vs. Party Planner from Hell 😈

So, the Veggie Patch Grandma comes home from a lovely dinner with her parents, only to find a full-blown surprise party waiting for her! 😱 The Party Planner from Hell invited everyone and their mother, except for the birthday girl's actual close friends. 🙄 The party raged on until the wee hours of the morning, leaving our poor Veggie Patch Grandma sleepless and seething. 😡 When confronted, the Party Planner from Hell had the audacity to call her boring and claim she "used to be fun." 🙄 Then, he bailed to see a f--k buddy, leaving the birthday girl to clean up the mess. 🙈 Now, the Veggie Patch Grandma is seeking refuge at her parents' place, wondering if she's the a**hole for not pretending to want the party. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this birthday disaster! 🍿

Ignoring boundaries and refusing responsibility makes them the a**hole.

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Unwanted party at housemate's place? Time to move out! 😡🤬

traptwo | traptwo

Being honest that he failed in being nice. NTA 👍

hledac | hledac

Housemate disregards 'no party' rule, NTA for standing up.

Suspicious_Dragonfly | Suspicious_Dragonfly

Birthday turned into unwanted party by manipulative housemate. NTA.

Rexam14 | Rexam14

Surprise parties can be a hit or miss. NTA wins.

iamthelizardqueen | iamthelizardqueen

Housemate ignores request for no party, NTA.

ellejaypea | ellejaypea

Friend ignores boundaries and won't take responsibility. Cut ties?

Skull_Bearer56 | Skull_Bearer56

Housemate throws wild party despite objections. NTA, he's an asshole.

Silamy | Silamy

Roommate throws party against objections - NTA

fadedplatinum | fadedplatinum

Roommate's birthday party was really for himself, NTA.

420uwuwotsthis666 | 420uwuwotsthis666

Housemate throws unwanted party, leaves OP to clean up. NTA.

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Housemate throws party for himself, not OP. NTA.

Jay-Dee-British | Jay-Dee-British

Husband throws surprise party despite wife's objections 😢

HJP_123 | HJP_123

Confused friends let OP attend a party they knew she'd hate 😕

girlwithdog_79 | girlwithdog_79

Housemate ignores request for no party - commenter calls out stupidity. NTA.


Stand your ground! NTA 💪

asmeeks1 | asmeeks1

Roommate throws unwanted birthday party, OP not the a**hole 🎉

Yurigasaki | Yurigasaki

Roommate uses birthday as excuse for party and gets mad.

NinjaSarBear | NinjaSarBear

Suggests hilarious revenge on oblivious roommate who threw party. 😂

mandichaos | mandichaos

Sassy response to party invite leads to NTA ruling. 😎

Dogsarefuckinggreat | Dogsarefuckinggreat

Introverted commenter sympathizes with OP's struggle to avoid unwanted birthday party.

GhostWCoffee | GhostWCoffee

Birthday party drama: Commenter defends wild party-thrower's intentions

Cleonce12 | Cleonce12

Setting boundaries is important, NTA for standing up for yourself. 🙌

kkab4300 | kkab4300

Set boundaries and communicate calmly to improve relationship with housemate. NTA

grixisSeller | grixisSeller

Housemate throws unwanted party. Commenter calls him a 'dick'

Queeniac | Queeniac

Find a new housemate who shares your party preferences. 👍

Cici660 | Cici660

Celebrate your birthday your way! Don't let others dictate 🎉

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Roommate throws unwanted party, commenter relates and supports OP.

a_muffin97 | a_muffin97

When a well-intentioned gift goes wrong... 😱

suicidemeteor | suicidemeteor

When a birthday party is just an excuse to party 🎉

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NTA stands up for respecting boundaries at wild party.

Simen155 | Simen155

Housemate throws a party for himself and leaves OP to clean. NTA 😎

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Former husband threw surprise party despite objections, still annoyed. NTA.

parisinthesoringtime | parisinthesoringtime

Housemate throws unwanted party, gets mad when confronted. NTA.

griseldabean | griseldabean

Surprise party gone wrong, blame game begins 🎉🤔🤷

Grantoine | Grantoine

Set boundaries and move out. 🚪👋

Biologerin | Biologerin

Roommate throws surprise party despite objections, gets mad when refused. NTA

Gracier1123 | Gracier1123

Roommate throws selfish party, doesn't help clean up. NTA.

squish-squish-beep | squish-squish-beep

Respecting someone's wishes is important 👍

fresh-oxygen | fresh-oxygen

Selfish housemate? Move out or deal with lack of empathy.

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Respecting boundaries is key! NTA handled it gracefully 👍


A close friend didn't attend to support OP's objections. ❌

TheCuriousCur | TheCuriousCur

Avoiding unwanted surprises and attention 🙅‍♂️

Curtisziraa | Curtisziraa

Respect boundaries and consent. Don't use someone's birthday as excuse. 🚫

Cactilove | Cactilove

Stand your ground and ditch the messy roommate. 🚫

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Boundaries ignored, party thrown against wishes. NTA confirmed 👍

ellahood2003 | ellahood2003

Housemate's selfish behavior towards introverted roommate 🙄

BabserellaWT | BabserellaWT

Housemate ignores boundaries, ruins birthday. Commenter relates with empathy.

sssciencegirl51 | sssciencegirl51

Friends knew OP didn't want party, housemate used OP as excuse 🤦

Stillwater215 | Stillwater215

Party-loving housemate ignores objections, throws wild bash 🎉

explodingwhale17 | explodingwhale17

Roommate throws unwanted party, gets mad when not appreciated 🤷‍♂️

DigitalPelvis | DigitalPelvis

NTA for being mad but don't let it ruin relationship. 🤪

thatonegirlinflannel | thatonegirlinflannel

Housemate disrespects birthday wishes and leaves OP with cleaning. 😒

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Roommate throws party despite objections, but OP is NTA

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Clear NTA comment with supportive tone and emphasis on communication.

averagecryptid | averagecryptid

Roommate throws party against her wishes; invites own friends; NTA.

Emberwraith | Emberwraith

Housemate ignored boundaries, NTA suggests finding new housing arrangement 🚫

volupturex | volupturex

How to deal with a passive-aggressive roommate 🤔

literal-hitler | literal-hitler

Roommate ignored boundary, didn't help clean after wild party. NTA.

grapeappreciator | grapeappreciator

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