Girlfriend DEMANDS 50/50 Finances NOW That He Earns More 😠🤑

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🤔 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of love, money, and a whole lot of drama! 💸💕 When two lovebirds decided to move in together, they had no idea they were about to embark on a rollercoaster ride of financial ups and downs. 🎢 Get ready for a story filled with plot twists, family feuds, and a boyfriend left wondering if he's the bad guy in this messy situation! 😬

🏠 Moving In Together: A Tale of Two Incomes 💰

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💸 The Initial Income Disparity: She Earns More! 😲

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🙅‍♀️ Girlfriend Says No to Pooling Finances! 😤

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😌 Boyfriend Accepts the Situation... For Now 🤔

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🎉 Boyfriend Gets a Big Raise! 💰💰

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📈 Boyfriend's Career Takes Off, Girlfriend's Stagnates 😬

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😲 Girlfriend Wants to Split Finances Now! 💸

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👪 Family Weighs In: Mom Says Share, Dad Laughs 😂

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🤔 Boyfriend Questions His Decision: Am I the A**hole? 🍑

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Girlfriend Wants to Share Finances Now That Boyfriend Earns More!

Well, well, well... looks like the tables have turned in this relationship! Our protagonist, the once underpaid boyfriend, has climbed the career ladder and is now raking in the dough. Meanwhile, his girlfriend's stuck in a dead-end job with no hope for a raise. But wait, what's this? Now that he's the breadwinner, she suddenly wants to share finances! The audacity! Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama!

Don't combine finances if not married. Legal protections only for marriage.

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Stop Keeping Score: Successful relationships focus on ‘we,’ not ‘me.’ 👭👭

IridianRaingem | IridianRaingem

Protect your finances, don't let her take a penny 💰

DanielJacksonOfSG-1 | DanielJacksonOfSG-1

Petty money arguments causing tension in hypocritical relationship. ESH.

grw313 | grw313

Equal finances? NTA reminds GF of her own past behavior. 😊

RGD1983 | RGD1983

Keep finances separate until marriage and girlfriend changes mentality. NTA.

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Pooling finances should be a mutual decision, not scorekeeping. 👍

CreepyTale8 | CreepyTale8

Negotiating finances in a relationship requires trust and communication 💋

avakyeter | avakyeter

Splitting finances 50/50 may not be sustainable long-term. Communication is crucial. 👍

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Establishing trust before combining finances is important, don't be petty 👍

asegers | asegers

Keep the peace by explaining your stance without being an a**hole 🙌

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope

Combining finances after raise? Y'all need to chill 😒

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Discussing finances is important for serious relationships 💰

CakeisaDie | CakeisaDie

A decade together and split finances work for them. 👍

mssheevaa | mssheevaa

Separate finances is fair and a joint account for mutual expenses

annoyedpotatolady | annoyedpotatolady

Girlfriend demands 50/50 split after he earns more 💰👀 NTA calls out double standards.

graciek106 | graciek106

Splitting finances equitably based on individual incomes is a fair compromise. 👍

Cummy-Bear-Magic | Cummy-Bear-Magic

Separate finances a good idea until marriage, NTA for wanting that.

teke367 | teke367

Golden rule of treating others fairly praised with NTA comment.

luigiman2021 | luigiman2021

NTA, but unequal income can create a toxic power dynamic 😎

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Girlfriend wants 50/50 now that he earns more 💰💔 NTA

aitaidontthinkso | aitaidontthinkso

Communication is key in finances. Don't use money as a weapon. 💋

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Possible explanation for girlfriend's change in financial expectations.

Mysecretaccount-99 | Mysecretaccount-99

ESH, but communication is key for a healthy relationship 👍

Marvalbert22 | Marvalbert22

Married woman shares how she manages finances with her husband 💰

theassholeofalabama | theassholeofalabama

Sensible advice on income sharing models and communication in relationships.

Teh_Hammerer | Teh_Hammerer

NTA suggests flexible approach for home finance management.

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Both sides have room to improve in financial disagreement 😐

missanthropy09 | missanthropy09

Fair to split expenses based on income, NTA for choosing that

silly_sarahSG1 | silly_sarahSG1

Stick to your guns and earn respect in the relationship 👍

jocky300 | jocky300

Keep finances separate until marriage to avoid hassle. NTA.

historygirl1815 | historygirl1815

Sharing finances not necessary until marriage, tit-for-tat is childish 😑

unaotradesechable | unaotradesechable

NAH. Girlfriend reconsiders decision. Mutual long-term financial decision needed.

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User suggests keeping finances separate until marriage, sparks debate.

niddlerrr | niddlerrr

NTA, but harsh truth about adult relationships and mindset 👍

DaenyTheUnburnt | DaenyTheUnburnt

Money matters! NTA but talk honestly about finances and goals 💸

Expert_Raptor | Expert_Raptor

Separate accounts and a joint account for bills is smart 🤩

Who_Am_I_1978 | Who_Am_I_1978

NTA gets support after girlfriend demands 50/50 split finances

sassyourfrass | sassyourfrass

NAH. Score keeping can ruin a relationship. Other ways to support financially.

mdubleyoo | mdubleyoo

Combining finances: NTA, but not always necessary for relationships 💎

angelmr2 | angelmr2

Sharing finances in a relationship is important for long-term success 👭

hindude13 | hindude13

Discuss finances with your GF directly or seek professional help 👍

PenguinPeregrine | PenguinPeregrine

Questioning job promotion and cultural differences on finances.

nana7777777 | nana7777777

Money troubles brewing for unmarried couple 🤷‍♂️

EnterTheMunch | EnterTheMunch

A detailed guide on how to split finances in a relationship 💸💰

snowdroptiger | snowdroptiger

Consider a joint account and separate extra income 💳

cdaisycrochet | cdaisycrochet

Discussions about finances before marriage are important 💰💍

guitarguywh89 | guitarguywh89

NTA believes in separate finances to maintain financial independence 💵

Klutzy-Oven | Klutzy-Oven

User agrees with dad and advises to sign pre-nupi.

Tinnitus_Maximouse | Tinnitus_Maximouse

Don't marry her and pay alimony later! NTA 👏

ThrowAwayPregnant111 | ThrowAwayPregnant111

Stay firm on your decision and let results speak for themselves 👍

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

Honest discussion needed to avoid resentment and unhealthy dynamic. NTA 👍

restlessbitchface | restlessbitchface

Splitting finances with girlfriend not a good idea, NTA.

TheRandomWeird0 | TheRandomWeird0

The importance of sharing household duties for a fair relationship 👭🏻‍🍳


OP warns against combining finances before marriage in a hilarious way.

leelougirl89 | leelougirl89

Finances should stay separate until marriage. Suggests 75% joint account.

botabought | botabought

Split finances only after marriage proposal. Fair game. 🎩💍

GreenSlime- | GreenSlime-

Suggests a fair solution: joint account with proportional contribution 💰

awkwardphoenix95 | awkwardphoenix95

Suggests compromise of joint account, but keep separate accounts. NTA.

aliencatgrrr | aliencatgrrr

Shared account suggestion - ESH, but no need to be petty 🙂

Furious_Wolf_Taco | Furious_Wolf_Taco

Don't let anyone control your finances 💰🚫

Rbfam8191 | Rbfam8191

NTA's suggestion for joint account works brilliantly 👍

Kjeldoriann | Kjeldoriann

Don't let your partner take advantage of you. NTA 👍

LovedAJackass | LovedAJackass

Keep finances separate to avoid relationship scorekeeping 🚫

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

Against pooling finances, even after marriage. Relationship cynic agrees.

underhilloverhill | underhilloverhill

NTA seeks advice for healthy relationship & finances 💰💕

risfun | risfun

NAH couple faces financial dilemma after 2 years of living together 💫

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Red flag raised on GF's financial demands as potentially narcissistic 😠

Tots795 | Tots795

Consider a joint account for shared costs to avoid resentment 👍

OccludedOracle | OccludedOracle

Combining finances is about give and take, not keeping score 💋

lolol69lolol | lolol69lolol

Discuss openly & decide together what works for both of you 👍

PleasantUnicorn | PleasantUnicorn

Pooling finances after trust built is good, but don't keep score 👍

Unicorns-at-Arbys | Unicorns-at-Arbys

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