Man REFUSES To Help With Cruel Mom’s Funeral After YEARS Of Abuse

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a family drama on our hands. Imagine growing up with a mother who despised your very existence, while showering your siblings with love and affection. Talk about a recipe for lifelong trauma! Well, that’s exactly the situation our poor protagonist found themselves in. Now, with dear old mom six feet under, the siblings are demanding our hero’s involvement in the funeral planning. But after a lifetime of abuse, is it really fair to expect them to play the dutiful child? Let’s dive into this messy tale of family dysfunction and see if we can untangle this web of emotions! ️

A Tragic Tale of a Mother’s Cruelty

The Reasons Behind the Hatred

The Hurtful Words of a Heartless Mother

Secrets Kept from a Hateful Parent

Relief in the Face of Death

⚰️ Funeral Planning Fiasco

The Demand for Shared Expenses

The Obituary Objection

‍♂️ The Plea for Exclusion

️ The Ongoing Family Feud

Internet Weighs In on Family Funeral Feud!

Well, well, well! It seems our protagonist’s heart-wrenching tale of maternal abuse and sibling strife has struck a chord with the internet masses! From cries of support for our hero’s stance to admonishments of their seemingly callous behavior, opinions are flying faster than a funeral wreath in a windstorm! Some argue that blood is thicker than water, insisting that our protagonist should put aside their pain for the sake of family unity. Others vehemently defend their right to distance themselves from the toxic legacy of their late mother. It’s a moral quandary that would make even Solomon scratch his beard in contemplation! So, what does the court of public opinion have to say about this familial fiasco? Let’s take a gander at the top responses and see where the chips fall!

Stand firm and don’t let them guilt trip you.

NTA suspects family wants to split funeral cost

Supportive comment, encouraging to move on and enjoy holidays

Stand your ground and don’t let abusive family guilt trip you.

Standing up to abusive family, NTA, don’t owe them anything

The commenter suggests a condition for helping with the funeral. NTA.

Polite but firm NTA for refusing to help cruel mom’s funeral

Savage obituaries as revenge for abusive mom? NTA wins again.

Celebrating the demise of an abusive parent is normal. Cut off deluded siblings.

NTA takes the high road but suggests singing ‘Ding, Dong, the Witch Is Dead’ at funeral

Respect your own wishes. Don’t let anyone guilt trip you.

Sibling unawareness: a common issue in abusive family dynamics ‍♂️

Set clear boundaries and don’t let them guilt-trip you

Ignoring toxic family: NTA, keep your money and peace

Block them! They only want you for funeral expenses. NTA.

Celebrating the death of an abuser is understandable. NTA.

Sibling’s grief may be making them blind to mother’s abuse. NTA.

Savage reply to cruel mom’s funeral. NTA wins.

Setting boundaries after abuse: NTA, communicate trauma, avoid triggers

NTA. Family turned blind eye to abuse, don’t owe them anything

Grieving for the mother you never had is painful enough

NTA refuses to help with abusive mom’s funeral, suggests fireworks

Siblings failed to protect from abusive mother. Don’t fall for manipulation. NTA

NTA for refusing to mourn your abuser

Get revenge by crafting your own obituary. NTA

Siblings asking for help after years of abuse? NTA

Survivor’s siblings may not understand abuse. Inheritance not mandatory.

Sibling takes charge of abusive father’s funeral, brother approves humorously

Sibling conflict over abusive mom’s funeral. NTA vs siblings

Choosing not to help with abusive mother’s funeral. NTA

Advice on accepting siblings may also be damaged by abuse.

You’re not the a**hole for not helping with cruel mom’s funeral

No love lost. NTA for not helping with abusive mom’s funeral

NTA. Enjoy your freedom and blessings on you for a great life

Siblings want you to forgive abusive mom for their own benefit

No obligation to participate in planning or be active here.

NTA stands up to abusive family with funeral ultimatum

Choosing not to help with abusive mom’s funeral, NTA ✔

A revengeful suggestion to expose the cruel mom’s true nature

Declining to attend a funeral of an abusive parent is acceptable

Savage yet NTA – Celebrating the end of a cruel life!

Sibling’s lack of responsibility, NTA’s mom’s funeral plans.

Petty revenge suggestion for abused commenter at mom’s funeral.

Cutting off toxic family: NTA and NC eventually

NTA. Powerful story of standing up to abusive parents.

Kudos for standing your ground and protecting your family! NTA

Don’t engage with them about the funeral, it won’t help

Family can’t force love for abusive mom. NTA

Financial strain and past abuse justify not helping with funeral

Sibling prioritizes optics and money over abusive mom’s funeral. NTA.

Coping with the death of an abusive family member

Family expects abused son to help with abusive mom’s funeral

Validating the OP’s decision to stay away from abusive mother’s funeral. NTA

Cutting ties with abusive family – NTA, siblings enabling behavior

Savage suggestion shuts down family trying to take advantage. NTA

Family betrayal and abuse, celebrate in your own way

Block them entirely and don’t respond to them ever

Not the a**hole for refusing to help abusive mom’s funeral

Humorous response to pandemic paranoia in funeral context.

Sibling defends man’s decision of not helping abusive mother’s funeral

Standing up to family pressure after years of abuse

Don’t give in to toxic family pressure! NTA

Empathetic NTA commenter validates OP’s decision to not help with abusive mom’s funeral

Choosing to not contribute to abusive mother’s funeral. NTA

Choosing not to help with abusive mom’s funeral. NTA.

Refusing to pay for abusive mom’s funeral – NTA

NTA takes a stand after years of abuse

Sibling refused to help abusive mom’s funeral, NTA

Write your own obituary and refuse to celebrate her life

Breaking free from abuse is incredible. NTA for standing firm.

Cutting ties with toxic family: NTA, blood doesn’t always matter

Write your own obituary for your abusive mom. NTA ‍♀️

Honesty is the best policy, NTA

Brutally honest refusal to whitewash years of abusive treatment.

Cash-grabbing family? NTA! Don’t feel obligated to help them.

Forgiving cruel mom for funeral? NTA says comment.

Set boundaries and don’t engage. NTA.

You owe them and her, absolutely nothing. Keep your head high!