They Begged Her To Take The Kids In - Her Response Shocked Everyone 😮

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Get ready for a wild ride of family drama, heartbreak, and tough decisions! 💔 This story is a rollercoaster of emotions that will leave you questioning what's right and wrong. 🤔 Our protagonist finds herself in a sticky situation after her ex's tragic demise. 😢 With two half-siblings in need of a home, will she step up to the plate or stand her ground? 🙅‍♀️ Buckle up, because this tale is about to get bumpy! 🎢

💔 A Tragic Tale of Love, Loss, and Family Drama

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The Ex's New Family: A Recipe for Disaster?

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😢 Tragedy Strikes: The Ex's Untimely Demise

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🙅‍♀️ The Refusal That Sparked Family Tension

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🏥 Health Problems Plague the Former In-Laws

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🚫 Standing Firm: 'It Can Never Be Me'

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👪 The Closest Thing to a Parent?

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😠 Will the Kids Hate Me for This?

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A Family Divided: Will She Step Up or Stand Her Ground?

This story is a tangled web of family drama, tragedy, and tough choices. Our protagonist is caught between a rock and a hard place, with her former in-laws pleading for help and extended family members criticizing her decision to stay out of it. The fate of two young children hangs in the balance, and the pressure is on for someone to step up and be their guardian. But will it be her? The internet has some strong opinions on this one, and we've gathered the best responses for your reading pleasure. Get ready for a wild ride of emotions and moral dilemmas!

NTA. No obligation to ex's cheated kids. ILs are the AHs. 👎

LouisV25 | LouisV25

NTA. 🙌 Extended family can step up if they disagree.

000-Hotaru_Tomoe | 000-Hotaru_Tomoe

NTA for refusing to take in ex's kids, don't let guilt consume you. 😡

pudgesquire | pudgesquire

Stand your ground with boundaries, take care of your kids! 👏

Limp_Confection_1093 | Limp_Confection_1093

Firm but fair response to entitled in-laws 👏

TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680

You're not the a-hole for not taking on your ex's kids 👍

throwaway20698059 | throwaway20698059

Not her responsibility, family should find alternative solutions 🤔

Grouchy-Sky-549 | Grouchy-Sky-549

Flying monkeys offer to take kids but OP not responsible. NTA 😮

ProjectCrazed | ProjectCrazed

Responsible response, can't expect her to take in more kids 👍

oknokej | oknokej

Not the a-hole for refusing to take in kids 👍

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Not responsible for terrible parent's kids, NTA 🙌

Current-Read | Current-Read

User questions people's logic for asking to take in ex's children. NTA.

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad

No obligation to take care of ex's kids. Let family help 😊

FiteTonite | FiteTonite

Setting boundaries is important. Respect them 🙌

Iron_winged_monarch | Iron_winged_monarch

Extended family should step up, not pressure ex-partner. NTA 👍

claireashley31 | claireashley31

Not the a**hole for refusing to raise someone else's kids.

Global_Monk_5778 | Global_Monk_5778

Taking in an ex's affair children? NTA explains why it's difficult 🤔

LavishnessGeneral | LavishnessGeneral

Not the a-hole for refusing to take in unrelated kids 😕

anon466544 | anon466544

NTA refuses to be taken advantage of by lazy in-laws 😍

CharacterRazzmatazz3 | CharacterRazzmatazz3

Choosing not to take in kids doesn't make you a**hole 😮

Cute_Blacksmith_9921 | Cute_Blacksmith_9921

Shipping the kids to extended family is the NTA solution.

Creepy_Meringue3014 | Creepy_Meringue3014

No obligation to help - ex left without a moral standard 😕

Co-existant | Co-existant

👏🏼NTA - standing up for yourself and the kids👏🏼

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Compassionate response to in-laws' request to take in kids. 🙌

NickelPickle2018 | NickelPickle2018

Taking on more kids could stress your finances, NTA 👍

BootlegGamer | BootlegGamer

User questions why ex's family cannot take kids in, agrees with decision not to take them in. 👍

MotherODogs4 | MotherODogs4

NTA, but bewildered by addict's request. Where's their own family? 🤔

ApplicationVast9100 | ApplicationVast9100

Family wants you to take care of their kids, but won't help? Double standards 😑

SeinnaBronze | SeinnaBronze

NTA. You were not responsible for his poor decisions 👍

wildferalfun | wildferalfun

NTA shuts up extended family with a sassy response 😎

nice52 | nice52

Don't let MIL guilt-trip you, NTA! 👍

lolaitajannies | lolaitajannies

Don't be a doormat for your ex's kids! NTA 👍

AreWeFlippinThereYet | AreWeFlippinThereYet

Extended family should step up. NTA. Watch naysayers stumble.

Decent_Ad6389 | Decent_Ad6389

You're not responsible for someone else's kids. #NTA 👍

Trick-Panda-7509 | Trick-Panda-7509

Woman defends herself after refusing to take in ex's kids 👩‍⚖️

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

Firm response to in-laws' request for ex's affair babies. NTA 👍

DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth

NTA - You are as close to their parent as I am 🙌

cmlobue | cmlobue

Choosing not to take on more responsibility, NTA 👍

jammy913 | jammy913

Block them all and move on with your day. 👍

TashiaNicole1 | TashiaNicole1

Polite decline to take in half-siblings garners sarcastic response.

Top-Fisherman-6045 | Top-Fisherman-6045

You're NTA, definitely not responsible for your ex's kids 👍

Wonderful_Manager_31 | Wonderful_Manager_31

NTA shuts down absurdity of putting responsibility on strangers 🙄

KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild

Extended family prefers foster care over helping. NTA wins 👏

Caribe92 | Caribe92

Protecting your family from toxic relatives. NTA 👏

Low_Monitor5455 | Low_Monitor5455

Parenting isn't a 'fun' trade-off. 😡

Far2distractible | Far2distractible

Other family should step up. You're not the a-hole. 👍

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Don't take on someone else's circus 🎪🙅‍♀️ Consider legal options and involve Child Services 👩‍⚖️

chittyshittybingbang | chittyshittybingbang

Politely shutting down critics with a hint of sarcasm 😎

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Ex-husband's family refuses responsibility. NTA for saying no.

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Blood relatives expect you to raise ex's kids? NTA, offer airfare ✈️

PA_Archer | PA_Archer

Extended family wants OP to take kids, but NTA and no obligation.

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No obligation to take in the kids, NTA. 😊

MorgainofAvalon | MorgainofAvalon

NTA! Extended family can take them in if it's a big deal 👍

OkYogurtcloset8273 | OkYogurtcloset8273

Blood relatives expect non-blood relative to take care of kids. NTA.

bertiebastard | bertiebastard

Not obligated to take in kids. NTA 👍

All-I-See-Is-Ashes | All-I-See-Is-Ashes

Family expects OP to take care of kids, OP refuses. NTA 👍

whoatemarykate | whoatemarykate

No responsibility to the kids, family should step up. NTA 😊

teresajs | teresajs

Breaking gender roles in child-rearing 💪

son-of-a-mother | son-of-a-mother

Compassionate NTA, but consider your own children's feelings 😊

MelG146 | MelG146

Don't let them guilt trip you, you are NTA 👍

coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85

Bio mom should take care of her own kids. NTA.

LeChatEnnui | LeChatEnnui

You're not the a**hole but your ex in-laws are 🚩

truthlady8678 | truthlady8678

Not her responsibility. Ex's affair children aren't her problem 🙌

Leading-Seesaw-8442 | Leading-Seesaw-8442

Not the a**hole for refusing to take in irresponsible family's kids.

Tyberious_ | Tyberious_

Not her kids, not her responsibility. NTA 👍

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Ex's family begged her to take unwanted kids, she said no 🙅‍♀️

mak-ina-myn | mak-ina-myn

Don't let them guilt trip you! You're NTA 🙌

No-River7962 | No-River7962

NTA. OP has no obligation to take in the children. 👍

mother_cryptid | mother_cryptid

NTA. Saying no to family isn't easy 🙏 but healthy boundaries matter 👍

k_smith_ | k_smith_

Block and move on: the ultimate solution to toxic family 🚩

Queasy-Republic2131 | Queasy-Republic2131

Reddit user praises OP's response to entitled people. 👏

CrazyCatLadyNL | CrazyCatLadyNL

Ex-wife called out for being asked to raise kids, NTA.

shclapstik | shclapstik

Single mom refuses to take in more kids despite pressure. 🙌

AdVirtual1502 | AdVirtual1502

NTA. Taking on two more kids is a huge burden 😮


Not the a**hole for refusing to take in other kids.

CaptainTooStoned | CaptainTooStoned

Not her kids, not her responsibility. Block the bullies. 💪

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NTA. No obligation to raise ex's kids with affair partner. Block manipulators.

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Ex's extended family should take the kids, not OP. NTA 👍

ErnestBatchelder | ErnestBatchelder

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