45 Degrees & Parents STILL Insist on Eating Outside! 🌬️😠

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🥶 Brrrr! Imagine being invited to brunch at your boyfriend's parents' house, only to find yourself shivering on their deck in 45°F weather! 🙅‍♀️ Our poor protagonist has endured this chilly tradition for years, but last week, she finally reached her breaking point. 😤 Bundled up in layers, she still couldn't enjoy her meal as the food turned cold faster than you can say "pass the syrup!" 🍳❄️ When she politely asked to move inside, her request was met with silence... even from her own boyfriend! 😑 Desperate for warmth, she took matters into her own hands and finished her meal in the dining room. 🍽️🙌 But now, tension is in the air, and her boyfriend is calling her rude! 😬 Let's dive into this icy tale of family drama and find out if our shivering sweetheart is really the a-hole here! 👀

🍽️ Brunch at the In-Laws' House... What Could Go Wrong? 🥶

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❄️ Freezing Temperatures? No Problem... for Them! 🙅‍♀️

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🌡️ Last Week's Brunch: A Chilly 45°F! 🥶

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🧣 Bundled Up, But Still Freezing My Buns Off! 🍑❄️

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🍳 Cold Food, Cold Hands, Cold Everything! 😖

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🤷‍♀️ "Should We Pack It In?" Nope, Dad's Not Budging! 😤

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🙊 Silence from the Peanut Gallery... Even My BF! 😑

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🍽️ Taking Matters Into My Own (Warm) Hands! 🙌

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😬 Tension in the Air... and Not a Word Spoken! 🤐

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🤔 Was I Wrong? Maybe... But Enough is Enough! 😤

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👩‍❤️‍👨 Trying to Be a Good GF and "Daughter-in-Law"... But at What Cost? 🥶

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🥶 Frozen Out by the In-Laws: Was I Wrong to Seek Warmth? 🍽️😬

Well, well, well... it seems our protagonist's attempt to escape the frigid outdoor brunch has left her in the cold with her boyfriend's family! 😬❄️ After years of enduring chilly meals on the deck, she finally mustered the courage to speak up and move inside to finish her meal in warmth. 🍽️🙌 But instead of understanding, she was met with icy silence and later, a heated confrontation with her boyfriend! 😤 Now, she's left wondering if her actions were truly rude or if her in-laws' insistence on alfresco dining in Arctic temperatures is the real issue here. 🤔 It's a classic case of family drama with a side of frostbite, and we're here for it! 🍿 Let's see what the internet has to say about this chilling tale! 👀

Guest freezes outside at 45F while rude parents eat in, NTA.

Hegel321 | Hegel321

Dad's insistence on eating outside leaves guests freezing and uncomfortable 😒

float05 | float05

NTA. Boyfriend needs to respect your comfort and safety 🙏

Turkeysocks | Turkeysocks

Red flag? BF needs to step up as host 🚩

Sevenspoons | Sevenspoons

Dump the bf with unreasonable parents for your happiness. 🙌

Weird-Pomegranate388 | Weird-Pomegranate388

Scottish upbringing vs. cold weather: NTA guest sets boundaries 🍀

HaggisDragon | HaggisDragon

What does this even mean? 😕

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. BF's family is rude and you deserve better 👏

coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85

Braving the cold, NTA went inside to eat alone 😊

These_Silver7543 | These_Silver7543

Guest is uncomfortable eating outside, boyfriend berates her for being rude. NTA.

QYB1990 | QYB1990

Break up with this strange guy, dine out on the story 🍔

No_Collar2826 | No_Collar2826

Winter is coming, stay warm and NTA 🧣❄️

ProfessionalCar6255 | ProfessionalCar6255

Polite response to weird parents insisting on eating outside. 🙏

Hello_Spaceboy | Hello_Spaceboy

Polite response to rude behavior. NTA for eating indoors. 😊

cawingcrowcaw | cawingcrowcaw

Assertive advice for standing up to controlling father-in-law. 🤨

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Malicious compliance to the rescue! 😎🤔

_____-----_____1 | _____-----_____1

Freezing outside? No thanks! NTA stands their ground.

rochan71 | rochan71

Struggling with the cold? This commenter can relate 😧

Skarvha | Skarvha

No need to suffer for the sake of others. 😊

No-Names-Left-Here | No-Names-Left-Here

British redditor can't handle 45 degrees, same here mate 😂

princessanonymoose12 | princessanonymoose12

Have some fun with it! 😂

geekgirlau | geekgirlau

Avoiding cold dinners: NTA suggests fake sneezing or skipping invites.

SparkleBait | SparkleBait

Eating outside in 45 degree weather? Food must've tasted gross 😷

TheEducationLady | TheEducationLady

BF's parents ruined dinner outside and relationship with OP.

clandahlina_redux | clandahlina_redux

Cold and polite OP vs. rude parents and BF 🤷🏻‍♂️

Ill-Conversation5210 | Ill-Conversation5210

Setting boundaries with controlling parents. NTA for refusing.

oldlady2013 | oldlady2013

Putting up with bs won't make you a good daughter-in-law 😡

Disastrous_Curve_ | Disastrous_Curve_

Guests shouldn't freeze to please their hosts. NTA.

Professional_Grab513 | Professional_Grab513

Don't be an a-hole, respect people's temperature preferences ❄️

Attirey | Attirey

Polite NTA commenter fed up with uncomfortable outdoor dining.

einsteinGO | einsteinGO

Defend your warmth, not your BF. NTA 😊

Oxfordcomma42 | Oxfordcomma42

Expecting everyone to be comfortable in 45 degrees is rude ❄️

tawnie6879 | tawnie6879

NTA, rude of them to give you silent treatment. Reconsider in-laws 😔

mistydayze | mistydayze

Eating outside at 45 degrees? No thanks, not hospitality 😒

Ann-von-Beaverhausen | Ann-von-Beaverhausen

Red flag alert! Address the power imbalance & controlling behavior 👀

Bluefoot44 | Bluefoot44

Take control of your health and don't let others dictate. 💪

AjnaKing | AjnaKing

Suggest gifting a patio heater to enjoy family time outside 🌱

TLGinger | TLGinger

Refusing to freeze outdoors for a meal. 😱

PipeInevitable9383 | PipeInevitable9383

Dad's in charge but doesn't know how to treat guests 😕

HowFunkyIsYourChiken | HowFunkyIsYourChiken

Victorian blizzard outfit not enough for unheated deck in 40s 🥶

pdeb22 | pdeb22

NTA's BF's dad is rude AF. Talk to BF about it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Don't be a cold-hearted a**hole, respect people's comfort level 🚫

spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey

Being a good host means keeping guests comfortable. 👍

notrightmeowthx | notrightmeowthx

Join the rebellion against outdoor dining with dad! #NTA

Hermiona1 | Hermiona1

Excluded from family meals due to FIL's germaphobia. 😠

daebaknae | daebaknae

Canadian commenter supports not eating outside in cold weather 🇨🇦❄️

Chanterellelovescats | Chanterellelovescats

BF problem? 🤔 NTA shouldn't suffer, parents need to understand.

TheVue221 | TheVue221

NTA freezing temps, relatable coffee break, and a Google search ☕❄️

dogriwn | dogriwn

Choosing comfort over cold: NTA, BF's family's insanity AH 😫

princessanonymoose12 | princessanonymoose12

Choosing to eat inside or outside should not be a problem 😊

cylemmulo | cylemmulo

Family insists on eating outside at 45 degrees - NTA!

Powerful_Ad_1239 | Powerful_Ad_1239

Standing up for oneself and defying parental norms. NTA 🙌

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Moving to a colder place? Talk to your bf and stand up for your needs! ❄️

No_Procedure_2870 | No_Procedure_2870

Defending hospitality with sass and sarcasm. 😏

cstarh408 | cstarh408

Single comment section, cold weather, and a sassy response.

AdventurousDoubt1115 | AdventurousDoubt1115

Being a considerate host means accommodating guests' comfort levels 👍

tldr012020 | tldr012020

Partner's family is abusive. Leave if he won't protect you. NTA

ooooooooooooolivia | ooooooooooooolivia

New Englander agrees dad is delusional for eating outside in cold 😱

reedspacer38 | reedspacer38

Guest called out for being mistreated by inconsiderate hosts. 👏

Ghic_Chic | Ghic_Chic

Standing up for your comfort 🙌 #NTA

Bnovel | Bnovel

Don't suffer outside for politeness. NTA 🙌

disposiblecamera | disposiblecamera

Different people handle temperatures differently. Don't be a snowflake. ❄️

295Phoenix | 295Phoenix

Boyfriend and father are the a**holes, see the red flag 🍊

mrcloseupman | mrcloseupman

BF's foolishness questioned in outdoor dining etiquette debate. 🤔

elliptical-wing | elliptical-wing

Don't freeze for the sake of 'tradition'. Stand your ground! 🙌

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A cold dinner party? No thanks! NTA for staying warm 😊

Karlette88 | Karlette88

NTA. Hosts should be considerate of guests. 45°F is cold. 😱

that_greenmind | that_greenmind

Guest gets cold shoulder from parents insistent on eating outside

Live-Pomegranate4840 | Live-Pomegranate4840

Setting temperature limits for outdoor dining. NTA confirmed.

TacosForDinnnnner | TacosForDinnnnner

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