Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a dilemma here. 😱 Picture this: Wifey's been holding down the fort, working her butt off to support Hubby's dream career change. 💪 Meanwhile, Hubby wants to jet off to Europe 🛫 for his bestie's wedding, leaving Wifey alone with their two little ones. 👶👶 Is Wifey being an a-hole for putting her foot down? 🦶 Let's dive in and find out! 🤿
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🔥 Internet Weighs In: Is Wifey the A-Hole? 🤔
Alright, let's break this down: Wifey's been busting her a** 🍑 to keep the family afloat while Hubby pursues his passion. She's sacrificed her own dreams 💭 and even sold her house 🏚️ to make it happen. Now, Hubby wants to drop a pretty penny 💸 on a solo trip to Europe 🇪🇺 for his buddy's wedding, leaving Wifey to juggle the kids 👶👶 and everything else. Hubby says she's just jealous 😒, but can you blame her? 🤷♀️ It's time to hear what the internet has to say about this juicy situation! 🍿 Grab your popcorn, folks, and let's see who's the real a-hole here! 😈
Being a primary breadwinner and caregiver is tough, NTA for sure! 👏
curiouscapybara1989 | curiouscapybara1989
Priorities first! NTA for not prioritizing a lavish wedding.
Hi_Im_Dadbot | Hi_Im_Dadbot
Red flags in the marriage, NTA but concerns for the future 😞
jphamlore | jphamlore
Depressed reader suggests solo spa weekend to drained wife. NTA.
Aliceroo76 | Aliceroo76
Unreasonable husband wants lavish wedding, commenter says NTA 👍
Reasonable-Bear-1374 | Reasonable-Bear-1374
Husband wants lavish European wedding while not contributing to family expenses 💸.
allthewayyurnt | allthewayyurnt
NTA. Suggests not to bring up leaving kids, calmly states financial reality.
twomorecarrots | twomorecarrots
NTA commenter offers advice on communication and appreciation.
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Unemployed husband wants lavish wedding, called unbearable. 😑
BiGtHiCkBoYaSs | BiGtHiCkBoYaSs
Supportive comment calls groom selfish for expecting too much. NTA.
Talathia | Talathia
NTA suggests divorce if husband prioritizes Europe over family.
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Wife financially supports husband, but he wants lavish wedding abroad.
Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet
Celebrations don't have to be expensive to be memorable! 🎉
General_Relative2838 | General_Relative2838
Supportive commenter suggests calling out wedding guests' hypocrisy. 💁♀️
dancing_chinese_kid | dancing_chinese_kid
Supportive comment against husband's selfish behavior. 🤝
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Disappointment turns to YTA after reading the edits. 😑
Ascf33 | Ascf33
Husband prioritizes his dreams over family. NTA. 👏
kami892 | kami892
Being an adult means prioritizing finances over lavish desires. 👍
pfashby | pfashby
NTA, but spouse needs to step up and change dynamic! 👏
lady_410100 | lady_410100
NTA suggests husband decline lavish wedding and get a job 💼
DarkAthena | DarkAthena
Protect your finances and stand up for yourself. 💪
smartypants99 | smartypants99
Married single mom struggles with husband's lavish wedding plans. 😔
murphy2345678 | murphy2345678
Spouse prioritizes extravagance over family? NTA. You deserve better.
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Husband wants lavish wedding but can't afford it, wife disagrees. 💸
bunnyhopskip | bunnyhopskip
Husband wants lavish European wedding, wants to dip into savings. NTA.
QYB1990 | QYB1990
Financial struggle and unequal household responsibilities. Suggests seeking help.
commenter23450 | commenter23450
NTA suggests a clever ultimatum for husband's lavish wedding plan.
NorthImpossible8906 | NorthImpossible8906
Don't let him take advantage of you. You're NTA 👏
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Friend paid for tickets, I paid for hotel, meals. $7k?! NTA
MAS7 | MAS7
Husband's expensive European wedding desire gets rightfully shut down. 💯
lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86
Spouse wants to ditch family for fancy wedding? **Hard** no. 😠
RideTheWindForever | RideTheWindForever
Supportive comment advises against husband's lavish European wedding plan.
janecdotes | janecdotes
Declining wedding invitation with young kids is normal. Send regrets.
Used_Mark_7911 | Used_Mark_7911
Take the vacation and let him mind the kids! #NTA 😊
GroundbreakingPhoto4 | GroundbreakingPhoto4
Spouse wants lavish wedding with combined savings. NTA for objecting.
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Don't foot the bill for his selfish Euro trip! 🤑
popular_username92 | popular_username92
Being unable to afford it doesn't make you the a**hole 💰
SnooCookies10 | SnooCookies10
NTA, divorce him and get a lawyer for repayment. 💸
eye_8_pi | eye_8_pi
Single parent paying for spouse's lavish wedding - NTA
schux99 | schux99
Savage yet valid point about OP's husband. 😂
Screamqueenjames | Screamqueenjames
Wife is a solo parent and husband wants lavish wedding. 🙄
Glittering-Weekend74 | Glittering-Weekend74
Take control of your finances and don't enable him. 💰
Wasseleri | Wasseleri
A comment calling out the wife for being both husband and wife, with a hint of frustration 😒
PearlsOfWisdom27 | PearlsOfWisdom27
Struggling to afford vacation, husband wants to attend expensive wedding. Commenter can relate and offers support. NTA 👏
AmongWilderFlowers | AmongWilderFlowers
Husband wants lavish euro wedding but NTA needs to put foot down 💰
bobafugginfett | bobafugginfett
Husband wants lavish wedding but has responsibilities. NTA for OP.
MeanestGoose | MeanestGoose
Red flags raised about husband's intentions. 🚩
isabgul | isabgul
Stand up for yourself and your finances 💰💪
General-Buy-8191 | General-Buy-8191
Taking loans for lavish wedding is an automatic divorce? 💸💔 NTA
Roostercalhoun87 | Roostercalhoun87
NTA for not being able to afford lavish European wedding on short notice 🤯
Averill0 | Averill0
NTA but wife needs to save money for herself and kids 👍
LawMom2009 | LawMom2009
NTA and couples counseling is recommended to address financial stress.
PommeB | PommeB
Support for NTA: Stand up for yourself and your family 💪
origami-air-plane | origami-air-plane
Husband wants lavish wedding without wife? NTA says comment
National-Cry-2569 | National-Cry-2569
OP's spouse is a financial burden and wants a lavish wedding. 🤑
throwra87d | throwra87d
Get a loan from him, let him go, change locks. NTA.
anonymouswalrus666 | anonymouswalrus666
Priorities and finances clash in decision for lavish trip.
Positive-Source8205 | Positive-Source8205
NTA for not wanting to ditch family for lavish wedding! 🙏
Curious_Wrangler_980 | Curious_Wrangler_980
Equal partnership is key in a marriage ❤️
mzpljc | mzpljc
NTA's financial responsibility drags hubby from lavish Euro wedding! 💸
brit8996 | brit8996
Protect your assets! NTA suggests moving joint funds. 💸
Revolutionary-Crow65 | Revolutionary-Crow65
Husband wants to ditch family for lavish wedding 😭
Top-Passion-1508 | Top-Passion-1508
A supportive comment suggests alternatives for ditching wife & kids
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Why keep a husband who doesn't contribute? NTA
Theoceanismycomfort | Theoceanismycomfort
Supportive comment, no replies. Enraged on your behalf. 💪
MxXylda | MxXylda
Empathetic reply to justified anger. 👊
Resident-Wheel9774 | Resident-Wheel9774
Disgustingly selfish husband wants to ditch family for wedding 😡
PheonixRising21 | PheonixRising21
NTA. Selfish husband wants lavish wedding, leaving wife & kids.
Cautious-Band3605 | Cautious-Band3605
