They Treat Him Like Garbage...Now She's BANNING Me from Their House?! 😳

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Diply | Diply

Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of family drama that's sure to make your jaw drop. 😱 Meet our loving couple, who've been together for 4 years and decided to leave the nest. 🐣🏠 But when it comes to visiting the boyfriend's fam, things get a little... awkward. 😬 From cleaning their own guest room to cooking while mom sips wine, it's not exactly the warmest welcome. 🍷🙄 And don't even get me started on the forgotten birthday! 🎂😢 Grab some popcorn, 'cause this story's about to get wild! 🍿🎢

🎉 Birthday Blues: The Forgotten Son 😢

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🏠 Unwelcome in Their Own Home? 🤔

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🍷 Cooking with a Side of Passive-Aggression 🙄

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❓ No Interest in Their Own Son's Life? 😞

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🤐 Keeping Quiet About Family Matters 🙊

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😊 Happiness Found at Mom's House 🏡

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🎁 Thoughtful Gestures Unreturned 😔

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😢 A Birthday Ending in Tears 😭

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📱 A Hopeful Text Message 🤞

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☎️ A Belated Birthday Wish and Accusations 😠

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🚫 Banned from the In-Laws' 😲

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🤷‍♀️ Asshole or Not? The Dilemma 🤔

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🎂 The Birthday Blowup: A Tale of Forgotten Wishes and Family Feuds 🔥

Well, well, well... looks like we've got a classic case of family drama on our hands! 🙌 Our poor birthday boy was left feeling forgotten and unloved by his own flesh and blood. 😢💔 But when his partner tried to save the day with a simple text, all hell broke loose! 📱💥 Accusations of manipulation and being banned from the in-laws' house? Talk about a birthday surprise! 😲🎁 Now, the question on everyone's mind: was the partner an a-hole for trying to make things right, or was this a justified call-out? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this birthday blowup! 🎉🔥

NTA, terrible mother blames partner, use opportunity to stop visiting.

esmoves | esmoves

NTA calls out mother-in-law's miserable behavior. No replies.

pearshaped34 | pearshaped34

Encourage husband to contact family to realize they're toxic. NTA 🙌

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Cutting toxic family ties can be a blessing 👍

Gwendolynftw | Gwendolynftw

NTA. You offered a way out for her negligence. Her loss.

tnscatterbrain | tnscatterbrain

Toxic parents, not worth the trouble. NTA 🚫👨‍👩‍👦

cowfetuslover | cowfetuslover

NTA commenter supports OP's decision to cut contact with disrespectful family.

RindaC10 | RindaC10

Supportive comment calling out bad parenting. You're not the a**hole.

Amara_Undone | Amara_Undone

Cutting contact with narcissistic in-laws for partner's health. NTA 🙌

OatmealCookieGirl | OatmealCookieGirl

NTA wins by not seeing miserable people anymore 🎉

Quaker16 | Quaker16

Mother forgets birthday, responds with 'is it that time again?'. NTA.

MomToShady | MomToShady

Cutting toxic family ties for self-care 💪

Mahliki | Mahliki

Reminding someone of their responsibilities can be tough 😖

Cry_Original | Cry_Original

Supportive comment praises wife for standing up for husband's dignity 👍

redditalb | redditalb

Supporting partner with terrible in-laws, MIL always blames others.

Appeltaart232 | Appeltaart232

Don't subject yourselves to toxic family dynamics. Be the strength.

Nomegusta111 | Nomegusta111

NTA, obvious forgetfulness and cover-up makes TA's guilt clear 👍

BertTheNerd | BertTheNerd

Let go of toxic family and focus on what matters 👍

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Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm 😳

lilymoscovitz | lilymoscovitz

Stand up for your husband, NTA! 🙌

TwistedTomorrow | TwistedTomorrow

Advice for dealing with dysfunctional family dynamics and scapegoating.

JudithButlr | JudithButlr

Suggestion to drop the rope with toxic family 👍

2ndcupofcoffee | 2ndcupofcoffee

NTA, but risking partner's feelings wasn't worth it. Check r/JustNoMIL.

mowgli0423 | mowgli0423

Supportive comment suggests going no contact with toxic family. 🤝

Ueverthinkwhy | Ueverthinkwhy

Supportive comment for partner's miserable mother. Spread positivity ❤️

Electrical_Turn7 | Electrical_Turn7

Cutting off toxic family members? NTA and good riddance! 🙌

garbanzoismyname | garbanzoismyname

Encouraging advice to cut ties with emotionally abusive family. 💪

TofuDumplingScissors | TofuDumplingScissors

Unwelcome before, now obligation removed. Sad now, long-term win. 😢

TequilaMockingbird80 | TequilaMockingbird80

Don't fall for the manipulation! 😳

AUGirl1999 | AUGirl1999

NTA wins by being banned from horrible in-laws' house. 🎉

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Don't clean their guestroom anymore! You deserve better. NTA 👏

beldarin | beldarin

NTA stands up to bad mother accusations 💪

reychael_ | reychael_

NTA, go no contact. Celebrate with takeout and a movie 🍕

brokencasbutt67 | brokencasbutt67

In-laws play favorites, forget birthdays but ban OP? NTA.

geekygirl81 | geekygirl81

Family isn't always blood. NTA for cutting toxic ties. ❤️

Homicidal_GoldFish81 | Homicidal_GoldFish81

Partner's family mistreats OP, NTA for cutting ties.

Sabbatha13 | Sabbatha13

A supportive commenter calls out a bad mother. 👏

iwantonethree | iwantonethree

Cutting ties with toxic family member is a blessing 👍

fishingforhobbits | fishingforhobbits

Not the a**hole for standing up for fiance's forgotten birthday 💯

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Put your partner's mental health first 🙌. Stay in a hotel and enjoy!

iamnick817 | iamnick817

Advice to seek therapy and limit contact with toxic family.

Meedusa13 | Meedusa13

Support for a poster who stood up to a bad mom 😎

MotherofDaleks | MotherofDaleks

Being banned from their house is a blessing. #NTA 😊

JustNeedAName154 | JustNeedAName154

Leave them behind and find more fulfilling pursuits. NTA. 👍

Reasonable_racoon | Reasonable_racoon

Family's forgetfulness leads to justified ban. NTA 👌

learningasura1 | learningasura1

Cutting off toxic family? Counseling could help. 🙏

kfrank5899 | kfrank5899

When in doubt, visit your mom 😊

LordofToomay | LordofToomay

MIL gets called out for being a terrible host. NTA! 💯

cpcfax1 | cpcfax1

SO's birth family are terrible people, NTA for avoiding them 🙌

MissThirteen | MissThirteen

Cutting toxic family out can be painful but freeing 👏

QuestBear | QuestBear

Choose your support system wisely and stay away from toxicity. 👍

sdbinnl | sdbinnl

Dealing with in-laws can be tough 😞, but standing up for yourself is important 👊. NTA.

nonchalantenigma | nonchalantenigma

Selfish MIL forgets ex's birthday, bans DIL for confronting her. NTA

Smart-Platypus6762 | Smart-Platypus6762

Cut ties with stepfamily for stepdad's favoritism. NTA.

Maleficent_Ad_3958 | Maleficent_Ad_3958

Supportive comment suggests minimizing contact with terrible family. 👏

ravynwave | ravynwave

Cut toxic in-laws out of your life. Enjoy positivity ♥

FreePizzaBitches | FreePizzaBitches

Enjoy the freedom of not going to a miserable person's house! NTA ❤️

jbrod1991 | jbrod1991

Spouse's family makes you both miserable, NTA for avoiding them 😊

moontiara16 | moontiara16

Encouraging therapy for husband with toxic mother situation. 💗

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A heartbreaking story of parental neglect and a supportive spouse. 😢

blandarchy | blandarchy

Defending a good mother against unfair treatment by family 👏

CremeDeMarron | CremeDeMarron

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