🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a dilemma here. 😳 Meet our dynamic duo: two university sweethearts, 23 and in love! 💕 But there's trouble in paradise when talks of the future turn to the pitter-patter of little feet. 👣 Our protagonist, a driven PA with a dream job, finds himself blindsided by his boyfriend's baby expectations. 😲 Will their relationship survive this clash of career and cradle? 🍼💥 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊♂️
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🍿 Grab Your Popcorn! The Internet Weighs In! 🌐👀
Well, well, well! Looks like our lovebirds have ruffled some feathers with this baby bombshell! 💣🐣 The internet is buzzing with opinions, and we've gathered the juiciest responses for your reading pleasure. 😏📱 Will our protagonist be labeled an a-hole for choosing career over cradle? 💼👶 Or will the masses side with his stance on equal parenting? 🙌👨👨👦 One thing's for sure: this couple's got some serious talking to do before any tiny toes come toddling into the picture! 😅👣 So sit back, relax, and let's see what the world wide web has to say about this baby brouhaha! 🌎💬
Listen to his beliefs, they won't change. NTA 👍
milee30 | milee30
Leave him before he becomes controlling with the baby too 🚫 NTA
Uncommondiscipline | Uncommondiscipline
It's important for both parents to be on the same page 👍
Fickle_Session | Fickle_Session
Boyfriend demands girlfriend quit job to raise baby 😠
Hrududu147 | Hrududu147
Think twice before quitting your job for an unappreciative partner 👀
mittenista | mittenista
User thinks boyfriend is selfish for asking girlfriend to quit job.
Tessa_Kamoda | Tessa_Kamoda
Discussing children before having them is crucial for compatibility 🤝
holyhell_why | holyhell_why
Partner's red flags wave as commenter spots them 🚩
augusto_j | augusto_j
NTA - Demanding girlfriend to quit job is outdated parenting attitude 😱
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Empowering advice to dump the controlling boyfriend and pursue happiness 👏
Iwaveatseals | Iwaveatseals
NTA, dump the bf 💔
[deleted] | [deleted]
Support for OP's decision and suggestion for conversation with partner 👍
Alarmed_Restaurant | Alarmed_Restaurant
NTA and higher earner should not be forced to stay home 😊
AugustNClementine | AugustNClementine
Join r/childfree and r/truechildfree, lock down birth control. Dump BF.
SnowWhiteCampCat | SnowWhiteCampCat
NTA. Partner wants kids but dictates expectations without discussion. 😱
southcoastal | southcoastal
Boyfriend demands girlfriend quit job to raise baby, calls her unloving. NTA.
Very-_Good | Very-_Good
Ridiculous to say a parent must stay home with kids 😒
pretenderist | pretenderist
Demanding partner reinforces sexist stereotypes. NTA for wanting autonomy.
lemonade4 | lemonade4
Daycare works for us, NTA. Partner needs a reality check.
BlueTaco500 | BlueTaco500
Paid childcare exists, don't agree to stay-at-home demands 👩👧👦
Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil
Toxic communication in relationships, NTA wonders if internet agrees 🤔
iNOyThCagedBirdSings | iNOyThCagedBirdSings
NTA, if he's already demanding now, it won't get better 😞
terrapharma | terrapharma
Girlfriend won't quit job for baby, NTA wins 👏🏼
2tinymonkeys | 2tinymonkeys
NTA. Validating a working mom and finding a supportive partner 👏
VisualCelery | VisualCelery
Partner wants her to quit job for kids, is it worth it?
Moodypanda69 | Moodypanda69
🚩 Red flag alert! Boyfriend demands girlfriend quit job. NTA.
DawnaZeee | DawnaZeee
Why not let him homeschool the kids instead? 🤔
justyouraverageann | justyouraverageann
Working mom defends daycare and suggests therapy for disrespectful boyfriend 🙏
EmotionalFix | EmotionalFix
Choose your happiness and avoid a traumatic family separation 🙏
Kross369 | Kross369
Partnership requires communication and agreement, NTA 👍
evilshenanigan | evilshenanigan
Married dad shares parenting experience, rejects boyfriend's demand. 🙎
Feed_Me_No_Lies | Feed_Me_No_Lies
Supportive comment calls out extreme behavior from boyfriend.
PrincessUnicornyJoke | PrincessUnicornyJoke
NTA suggests taking maternity leave and having an honest conversation.
MrsLilysMom | MrsLilysMom
Don't let someone else's dreams become your nightmare 😏
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🚩 Boyfriend's demand without discussion is a red flag. #NTA
BowTrek | BowTrek
Respect is key. Better to find out incompatibility before marriage.
Ravenclaw79 | Ravenclaw79
Loving your career doesn't mean you love your child less 😍
lilirose13 | lilirose13
Partner demanding changes without conversation is immature. Helpful advice given.
ovur6 | ovur6
NTA, partner's lack of respect for your work and opinion 🙄
randomredittor21 | randomredittor21
Different life plans, NTA, live your life 😎
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Surprising twist: gender confusion changes NTA to WTF 😳
Corpsab | Corpsab
Having kids should be an all-in, gung-ho choice. 👍
ShyFossa | ShyFossa
Girlfriend stands up for herself against controlling boyfriend 💪
TheMightyWoofer | TheMightyWoofer
User advises girlfriend to leave sexist boyfriend demanding she quit job and raise baby
MadKitKat | MadKitKat
NTA commenter warns against having a child with controlling partner 😱
thedoeeyedwanderer | thedoeeyedwanderer
Different priorities and visions. NTA for knowing early on.
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NTA, but boyfriend has a god complex. Discuss caregiving roles. 🙌
iusedtostealbirds | iusedtostealbirds
Don't let anyone force your career on hold 💪
ashbluebear | ashbluebear
Partner's unrealistic demand and reaction raises red flags. Consider moving on. 👍
moodymelanist | moodymelanist
Toxic relationship alert! 🚨 Run away from gaslighting boyfriend ASAP
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Discussing children before marriage is crucial to avoid resentment later 👆
praisethehaze | praisethehaze
Girlfriend is NTA for refusing to quit job for boyfriend.
rustyleftnut | rustyleftnut
Girlfriend's boyfriend wants her to quit job for baby 🙄
mercmouth1 | mercmouth1
Partner or Boss? Commenter calls out controlling boyfriend behavior 😠
drunkdaydreamer | drunkdaydreamer
🚩 Boyfriend wants kids but demands girlfriend quits job for it
m_m_mason | m_m_mason
Teaching salary not enough to raise family. NTA wins 👍
Tryptamineer | Tryptamineer
User questions validity of story, suggests leaving boyfriend.
ququqachu | ququqachu
Teacher slams boyfriend's unrealistic expectations for low-paying job. 🤔
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Navigating different futures in relationships: NAH, good luck ❤️
LadyBearJenna | LadyBearJenna
Career shouldn't be sacrificed for parenting. NTA 👏
Ember-Fire-Foxx | Ember-Fire-Foxx
Honesty is key in life plan conversations. NTA 🙅♀️
imjustanotheremily | imjustanotheremily
NTA. A calm and respectful response to a blown overreaction 😊
femmemalin | femmemalin
Boyfriend demands girlfriend quit job to raise baby, commenter advises against
intoon | intoon
Different stances, but things can change. Don't rush decisions 🙌
Itzon | Itzon
Boyfriend demands girlfriend quit job to raise baby. Commenter advises against it.
dnlees | dnlees
NTA! Boyfriend's attitude is a red flag 🚩. End it or agree on no kids.
Picnut | Picnut
Controlling boyfriend demands girlfriend quit job to raise baby. NTA.
armh1313 | armh1313
Red flag alert 🚨. Take a break and assess the situation ⏳
TheDwiin | TheDwiin
Red flag alert! 🚩 Name-calling and yelling? Not parent/boyfriend material.
MedusaStone | MedusaStone
Choosing between career and family: Can this relationship survive? 🤔
Deerheadinapot | Deerheadinapot
🙅♀️ Don't let him trap you with a baby. #NTA
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NTA can work AND raise a child successfully. Boyfriend needs compromise.
C_Alex_author | C_Alex_author
Partner wants her to quit job to raise baby. NTA response.
_sparrow | _sparrow
NTA but not compatible long term. He's TA for assuming.
beldaran1224 | beldaran1224
