She Left Her BF of 3 Years for a Guy She Just Met - Her Friend Told Her EXACTLY What He Thought! 😲

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of love, betrayal, and friendship that's sure to get your heart racing! 💗💔 My friend, let's call her 'Restless Roxy' 😜, had been dating her beau for a whopping 3 years. Everything seemed peachy keen... until a new guy strutted into the picture over Christmas break. 🎅 Suddenly, Roxy was head over heels and ready to ditch her long-time love. 😲 As her friend, I found myself caught in the middle of this messy situation. 😅 So, grab some popcorn 🍿 and let's dive into this wild ride together! 🎢

🚨 Trouble in Paradise: Friend Dumps BF of 3 Years for New Guy! 😱

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💔 Blindsided on Their 3-Year Anniversary! 💔

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🤯 Ex-BF Completely Caught Off Guard! 😲

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🤔 "He Deserves Someone Loyal" - My Honest Take 🗣️

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🙄 Ridiculous Excuses or Valid Reasons? 🤷‍♀️

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😕 Did I Go Too Far with My Bluntness? 🤐

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🆕 Update: Clarifying Some Key Points! ℹ️

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🙌 I Supported the Breakup... For Their Own Good! 💯

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😊 My Intentions Were Pure, I Swear! 🙏

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🔥 Friendship Tested: Was I Too Harsh on Heartbreaker Bestie? 😬

Well, well, well... looks like Roxy really stirred up a hornet's nest with her sudden switcheroo! 🐝 I mean, dumping your BF of 3 years on your anniversary for a shiny new toy? That's cold! 🥶 When Roxy asked for my two cents, I didn't hold back. I said her ex deserved someone loyal who wouldn't bail at the first sign of a new crush. 💔 Roxy wasn't thrilled with my bluntness, but hey, she asked! 🤷‍♀️ My GF thought I should've kept my trap shut 🤐, but I'm not one to sugarcoat things with my pals. So, internet jury, was I too harsh on my lovelorn bestie? 👩‍⚖️ Let's see what the masses have to say about this tangled web of love and friendship! 🕸️😜

Sometimes the truth hurts, better now than later 🤷‍♂️


Honesty is the best policy. NAH. She's young and exploring 👌

TheVue221 | TheVue221

Dumped after 3 years for someone else? He's better off 🤷‍♂️

teke367 | teke367

NAH, but blunt friend advises ex to move on 👍

CermaitLaphroaig | CermaitLaphroaig

Breaking up after 3 years - tough but necessary decision. 👍

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Friend gives blunt opinion on ex's breakup, both NAH.

ThisIsTheNewSleeve | ThisIsTheNewSleeve

Defending the girl's decision to end an unhappy relationship. 🤷

WolfgangAddams | WolfgangAddams

NTA. Logical response delivered with tact. Valid points made. 👍

International-Aside | International-Aside

Being in a relationship where you're not happy is unfair. ✨

[deleted] | [deleted]

Honesty is the best policy, especially when it's NTA 👍

NZBound11 | NZBound11

Real talk! NTA. Sometimes the truth hurts but it's necessary 👍

InaudibleDusk | InaudibleDusk

Breaking up an unfulfilling relationship is not always YTA 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Navigating young love and breakups without assigning blame 💓

vgome013 | vgome013

Going against the grain with a gentle YTA. Exploring is okay.

DamndestDarrius | DamndestDarrius

Giving opinions when asked can still make you NTA 👍

Hollifo | Hollifo

Don't be too judgmental, watch your wording with friends. 😊

Skymoosh | Skymoosh

Redditor calls out OP for being TA and warns of consequences.

free_range_celery | free_range_celery

Maturity is realizing when you're not ready for commitment 🙌

LeftinOhio | LeftinOhio

Friend thinks OP is the a-hole for judging friend's breakup, but acknowledges everyone sucks here.

TerribleAttitude | TerribleAttitude

Breaking up doesn't necessarily make someone unloyal. 😐

Bedquest | Bedquest

Let her live, she's young and the heart wants what it wants 💗

krn73 | krn73

Love can be confusing in your 20s, better things await ❤

Athenacosplay | Athenacosplay

Friend shames YTA for not supporting friend's breakup decision 🤷

BurnedOutTriton | BurnedOutTriton

Opinion given harshly, but friend asked for it. ESH.

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Supportive comment on friend's breakup and exploration journey. 👍

wandlust | wandlust

Real friends call out wrongdoings, even if it hurts 🙌

zukka924 | zukka924

Being honest with a friend can help them in the future 👍

dataslinger | dataslinger

Perfectly stated! NTA. She dodged a bullet, thankfully.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Honesty is the best policy 👍

heartwolf25 | heartwolf25

Relationships should prioritize happiness, not obligation. 💓

TootsNYC | TootsNYC

NTA. Honest opinion on poorly done breakup. Truth hurts 🤷‍♀️

verminiusrex | verminiusrex

Dumping someone on their anniversary is cruel. NTA or ESH?

SmallChallenge | SmallChallenge

Supportive comment on friend's breakup with new guy over long-term boyfriend.

Kristaraexoxo | Kristaraexoxo

Friend gets called out for immaturity after breakup. NTA!

grimmygf | grimmygf

Friend gives honest opinion about GF's breakup, not the a**hole

velocibadgery | velocibadgery

Don't ask for honesty if you can't handle the truth. 🤷‍♂️

hfarrands | hfarrands

Honesty is the best policy! Good riddance to bad rubbish. 💯

MercyMedical | MercyMedical

NAH for moving on and friend giving honest opinion 🙌🏻💫 Friendship advice needed 💔

ExpressPension | ExpressPension

Friend gives spot-on advice and deserves a medal 🎖

MyFriendsCallMeEpic | MyFriendsCallMeEpic

Friend gives honest opinion to girl who left boyfriend impulsively 👍

AliciaTransmuted | AliciaTransmuted

Dating around at 21 is normal but tact is important. 😊

Exotic-Huckleberry | Exotic-Huckleberry

ESH but college is a bubble where people change 🎓💔

buymoreplants | buymoreplants

Brutal honesty is the best policy for true friends 👍

bellarexnalajon | bellarexnalajon

Blindsiding your SO on anniversary = a**hole move. NTA.

urbansasquatchNC | urbansasquatchNC

Honesty is the best policy! NTA for telling the truth 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Self-love before dating. Friend gave appropriate opinion. NTA. 👍

ewpsimdead | ewpsimdead

Friend gives tough love after impulsive breakup 🤫

mcbatman69lewd | mcbatman69lewd

Honesty is the best policy 👍

SysError404 | SysError404

Being harsh on a friend who broke up with her boyfriend.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Focusing on self-development > filling void with external things. NTA.

cinisterpictures | cinisterpictures

Choosing loyalty over temptation. NTA for being responsible.

scarlettslegacy | scarlettslegacy

Real friends tell you the truth, not what you want. 👌

Jen5872 | Jen5872

Giving tough love to a friend who couldn't handle it 😢

Darkest-Desires6 | Darkest-Desires6

Honesty is the best policy, even if it's not pleasant. 😊

oldcreaker | oldcreaker

NTA for leaving BF who had no intention of continuing.

Acalson | Acalson

Brutal honesty: NTA comment calls out OP's behavior. 🤬

Matelot67 | Matelot67

Heartbreak is real 😢, NTA deserves better

MySaltSucks | MySaltSucks

Friend gives tough love to girl who left loyal boyfriend 😔

throwed-off | throwed-off

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts 😢

raandommuggle | raandommuggle

NTA calls out ex's immaturity, suspects ulterior motive. 🤔

Whoopsee | Whoopsee

Friend tells roommate truth about her disrespectful behavior. NTA.

DocChiaroscuro | DocChiaroscuro

NTA: Friend agrees ex is better off.

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

Self-love shouldn't be an excuse to act like a s**thead! 😑

BrainLord | BrainLord

Being infatuated doesn't justify being rash. NTA made sense 👍

ninja_trap | ninja_trap

NTA calls out ex-girlfriend's behavior, predicts possible reconciliation.

FrancoUnamericanQc | FrancoUnamericanQc

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