Man REFUSES to Raise Parents' Adopted Kids if They Die 😱💔

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😳 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a family drama on our hands. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Our protagonist, a successful 26-year-old, is facing a moral dilemma that's sure to get your blood boiling. 🔥 With aging parents and surprise adopted siblings, this story is a rollercoaster of emotions. 🎢 Get ready to question what it truly means to be a family as we dive into this juicy tale! 🍿

🍼 A Surprise Sibling Situation! 😱

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👴👵 Loving Parents Despite Their Age

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💰 Set Up For Success Thanks to Mom & Dad

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😊 Doing Well at 26, But Then...

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🌎 Considering Adoption From Abroad

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👧👦 Meet the New Additions!

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🤷‍♂️ Not Close to the New Kids

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👴👵 Aging Parents, Tough Questions

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😕 The Awkward Conversation

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😳 My Shocked Reaction

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🗣️ Yelling, Screaming, and Leaving

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😔 Feeling Bad, But Conflicted

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🤔 Am I the A-hole?

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😱 Surprise Siblings: A Family Feud Erupts! 🔥

Well, well, well... looks like our protagonist is in quite the pickle! 🥒 With elderly parents springing surprise adoptions on them, it's no wonder tensions are running high. 😤 But is it fair to expect them to take on the responsibility of two young kids they barely know? 🤔 The internet has some strong opinions on this one, and trust me, they aren't holding back! 🗣️ Grab your popcorn, because the drama is about to unfold in the most entertaining way possible. 🍿 Let's see what the masses have to say about this family feud! 😈

Adopting at their age is a terrible idea 😱💔

Kari-kateora | Kari-kateora

Adopting kids late in life doesn't make them your responsibility 👍

Kecir | Kecir

Adopted kids as responsibility? Bro NTA, get a cat instead! 😂

roy_lobster | roy_lobster

Fair point, not responsible for kids you didn't adopt. 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Adopted kids shouldn't ruin your life. NTA 👍

Meretneith | Meretneith

Man refuses to raise adopted siblings if parents die 😱💔

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

NTA for refusing to raise parents' adopted kids. 👍

cricket73646 | cricket73646

Refusing to parent adopted siblings: NTA, not ungrateful 📸

wolfram127 | wolfram127

ESH. Parents are assholes for treating the kids like dogs, but letting them go into foster care is also an a**hole move.

xtrasmols | xtrasmols

Consider the kids' future, they don't deserve foster care 😔👏

scarybottom | scarybottom

NTA for not wanting to raise parents' adopted kids if they die 😱💔

garbageofthesea | garbageofthesea

NTA for not wanting to raise parents' adopted kids. 🙌

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

Adopted siblings ≠ obligation. ESH for lack of discussion.

Belligerent_ice_cube | Belligerent_ice_cube

No obligation to raise someone else's kids. NTA 👍

killjessicakill | killjessicakill

Thought-provoking question about family and responsibility 🤔

psu-fan | psu-fan

Respectful comment defends man's decision to not raise adopted kids.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Age and parental responsibilities, NTA comment

Spicy-N-Sassy | Spicy-N-Sassy

Age and health concerns make raising adopted siblings unreasonable. NTA 🙌

disowningdad | disowningdad

NTA for refusing to raise parents' adopted kids. They should've planned.

undefiened | undefiened

Parents' selfish decision to adopt doesn't make OP responsible. NTA 👏

compassionfever | compassionfever

Adopting kids then throwing them to someone else is selfish. NTA 🙌

Sekio-Vias | Sekio-Vias

Sympathetic commenter understands why OP won't raise adopted kids.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Choosing not to raise parents' adopted kids. NTA explained.

DetPeralta99 | DetPeralta99

NTA: No obligation to raise adopted kids, not the a-hole 👍

mitzi_mozzerella | mitzi_mozzerella

Taking in 2 school-aged kids full-time is a huge responsibility 😓

_LaVidaBuena | _LaVidaBuena

NTA who refuses to take on the burden of selfish parents.

UristMcD | UristMcD

Not obligated to raise adopted kids of deceased parents. NTA.

ireadgoofystuff | ireadgoofystuff

Are you legally obligated to take care of your adopted siblings?

jmochicago | jmochicago

Adopted siblings are family, show them love and effort ❤

genesy711 | genesy711

Parental selfishness will harm the kids' upbringing 😔

BlanketNachos | BlanketNachos

Adopting kids at an old age and expecting backup is irresponsible 😤

Kay_Elle | Kay_Elle

NTA. Proper backup plan needed. Foster/volunteer if they wanted children.

MandeeLess | MandeeLess

Fostering vs adopting: A critical parenting decision 👨‍🎓

elepheyeno | elepheyeno

No obligation to raise adopted kids. Respectful distance advised. NTA.

Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy

Adopted kids' future uncertain, man justified in refusing guardianship. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Adoptive mom supports OP's refusal to raise adopted kids. 👍

LitChick2000 | LitChick2000

Adopted siblings causing family tension, NTA wants to vent 🤷‍♀️

vicki427 | vicki427

Redditors offer support to childfree person standing up for themselves.

_Yalan | _Yalan

Age limit set for adoption, empathizes with at-risk kids.

apeshitdonkeydiq | apeshitdonkeydiq

Redditor argues OP should prioritize family trauma over personal comfort 😒

leighlarox | leighlarox

NTA thinks adopting at 77 is insane and burdensome. 🤯

Stealthy-J | Stealthy-J

NTA. Adopting at old age, pets better option than children 🐶

supermeg77 | supermeg77

NTA, but with a mild tendency to ESH. Commenter empathizes with OP and criticizes the parents' selfish adoption decision.

DocSternau | DocSternau

Consider a pastor as a resource for the kids' adoption. NTA.

jittery_raccoon | jittery_raccoon

Adoptive parents' lack of long-term planning was unfair to all 😕

Lizzyrules | Lizzyrules

Choosing not to raise adopted kids. NTA, fair decision.

Aerielchrissie | Aerielchrissie

NTA commenter calls parents 'selfish bastards' 😱

Mkins | Mkins

NTA. Commenter questions OP's childhood and criticizes parents' selfishness.

DasDingleberg | DasDingleberg

Not obligated to care for adopted kids, parents should've discussed 👍

myscreamgotlost | myscreamgotlost

NTA, commenter empathizes with situation and points out flaws 🤔

JustDucki314 | JustDucki314

Savage NTA comment about adopted siblings with no connection 👏

TheREALNesZapper | TheREALNesZapper

Compassionate comment expressing sympathy for adopted children's situation.

dorkeyyorkie- | dorkeyyorkie-

Taking in kids you won't raise? NTA says this commenter 👍

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NTA suggests godparents & wills for neglected adopted kids 👍

GinAndBareIt92 | GinAndBareIt92

NTA, but parents should ensure care for adopted kids with inheritance.

bleh234 | bleh234

Urgent action needed to protect adopted kids from negligent guardians 🚨

InfamousBuzzBuzzBee | InfamousBuzzBuzzBee

NTA. Your parents are irresponsible, not you 👍

Grumpy_Yuppie | Grumpy_Yuppie

Adopted kids are not play toys, NTA made the point 💯

RyeBL | RyeBL

NTA suggests fostering over adoption, hopes kids find loving home 🙏

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

NTA commenter calls out poor planning and worries for children.

faithnfury | faithnfury

NTA for not wanting to raise adopted kids.

deraybrast | deraybrast

A 74-year-old refusing to adopt a child. NTA or not?

Opagea | Opagea

NTA for refusing to raise adopted kids of unknown parents.

ieya404 | ieya404

NTA commenter questions parents' lack of preparation and expresses sympathy.

ChunL1 | ChunL1

Adopted kids not your responsibility, NTA. Hope they're okay 🙏

gringaellie | gringaellie

Adopting at an old age? NTA for not wanting responsibility.

batclub3 | batclub3

Age is just a number, but responsibility is not 😒

TheUnwritenMyth | TheUnwritenMyth

Adoptive parents expect adult child to raise their young adoptees. NTA.

Dr_Fumblefingers_PhD | Dr_Fumblefingers_PhD

Legal recourse to refuse custody if parents ignore objections. NTA 👍

Anhart15 | Anhart15

NTA for refusing to raise adopted kids of elderly parents.

Anarkizttt | Anarkizttt

No obligation to raise adopted kids, poor planning on parents' part 🙄

Froggetpwagain | Froggetpwagain

Challenging comment on the responsibility of adopting children.

obscureposter | obscureposter

Heartbreaking story of an adopted girl who was kidnapped from Uganda.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Protecting children and following standards is crucial in adoption. 👨‍👩‍👧

LeeLooPoopy | LeeLooPoopy

NTA calls out selfish parents adopting children for empty nest syndrome.

TunaNoodleMyFavorite | TunaNoodleMyFavorite

NTA. Adopting kids without planning for their future was wrong 👍

ImAlreadyTracerBoii | ImAlreadyTracerBoii

NTA prioritizes parents' responsibility towards adopted kids over a puppy.

EscapeFromTexas | EscapeFromTexas

NTA. OP's parents were selfish adopting kids at their age.

XxhumanguineapigxX | XxhumanguineapigxX

Adopted grandkids? Not my responsibility. NTA 😊

cheeseburgerwaffles | cheeseburgerwaffles

Concerned commenter suggests reporting unfit family for children's safety 🚨

symckr | symckr

Suggests involving other family members in guardianship discussion 🙏

captandor | captandor

NTA: Refusing to raise adopted kids of irresponsible parents 😊

TheWhoamater | TheWhoamater

NTA commenter defends OP's decision not to raise adopted kids.

EvilChibiFox | EvilChibiFox

Not obligated to parent adopted kids if parents die. NTA 👍

icantweightandsee | icantweightandsee

Adopted kids as a burden? 🤔 NTA stands firm.

pobream | pobream

NTA says it's better for kids if man doesn't adopt. 👍

MisterShortstack | MisterShortstack

NTA for refusing to raise parents' adopted kids if they die 😱💔

Screaming-Harpy | Screaming-Harpy

NTA defends not raising adopted kids, suggests foster parenting instead 🤔

fanlism | fanlism

Elderly parents expect too much? 🤔 NTA takes stand. 💪

Pigeonzlut | Pigeonzlut

Adoptee sympathizes with OP's NTA decision, blames parents' poor judgement.

willisbetter | willisbetter

Adopting for selfish reasons? NTA commenters weigh in 🤔

BannerTortoise | BannerTortoise

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