White Woman's Hair Care Routine Sparks Heated Debate! 👀

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Diply | Diply

🙋‍♀️ Hey there, curly-haired cuties! Get ready for a wild ride! 🎢 I've got a story that'll make your locks stand on end! 😱 Picture this: a 20-year-old white girl with a mane that just won't quit. 💁‍♀️ I've been rocking a trusty hair bonnet to keep my curls in check since I was 12. But when I moved in with my girlfriend, things got a little... hairy. 😬 She accused me of appropriating black culture! 😳 Can you believe it?! I'm just trying to keep my curls poppin'! 💃 So, buckle up, and let's dive into this tangled tale! 🌪️

🙋‍♀️ Curly-Haired Cutie's Conundrum! 😱

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🏠 Moving In, Bonnet Blues Begin! 😬

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

😡 GF's Shocking Accusation! 🚨

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🗣️ Explaining, But She Won't Listen! 😤

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🚫 GF's Ultimatum: Stop or Else! 😳

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🤔 Confused & Seeking Answers! 🆘

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🛍️ Supporting Black-Owned Businesses! 👏

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🗣️ Update: Confronting GF, Showing Comments! 😤

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

😲 GF Shocked by Responses, Finally Listening! 👂

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🚪 Ultimatum: Accept Bonnet or I'm Out! 🏃‍♀️

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🧩 Autism & Accepting New Concepts 🤔

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🏡 Sorting It Out or Moving Out? 🤷‍♀️

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🙏 Update 2: GF's Change of Heart! ❤️

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🤝 GF Apologizes, Admits Being Too Harsh 😌

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

🤔 More to Discuss, But Progress Made! 🌈

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

😕 Silent Treatment Concerns 🚩

algaegreen8 | algaegreen8

😱 Bonnet Blunder: GF Accuses Me of Racism! 🚨

Well, well, well... what a wild ride this has been! 🎢 Our curly-haired cutie found herself in quite the pickle when her girlfriend accused her of appropriating black culture by wearing a hair bonnet to bed! 😱 Despite explaining that she was just taking care of her natural hair and even getting the okay from black friends, her GF wouldn't budge! 😤 Things got so tense that our girl had to threaten to move out if her GF couldn't accept her bonnet-wearing ways! 🏃‍♀️ But wait, there's more! After some serious talks and showing her GF the comments from all of you lovely people, it seems like progress has been made! 🌈 GF admitted to being too harsh and is starting to come around. 🤝 But our curly-haired queen still has some concerns about the silent treatment and her GF's inability to accept new concepts. 🤔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this hairy situation... 👀

Debate on cultural appropriation and racism gets heated 👊

FirekeeperAnnwyl | FirekeeperAnnwyl

Defending against cultural appropriation accusation, girlfriend is a racist. 🤢

KikiYuyu | KikiYuyu

Debate over hair bonnets and cultural appropriation in hair care 🤔

Andle_Randle | Andle_Randle

Culture and history debunk cries of racism. NTA 👏

DowncastOlympus | DowncastOlympus

Wearing a bonnet and taking care of hair isn't racist! 👍

CarassiusMax | CarassiusMax

Debate over white woman's hair care routine and cultural appropriation. NTA

Neenknits | Neenknits

Wearing bonnet to bed is NTA, girlfriend is confused 🙄

Suddenly_Bazelgeuse | Suddenly_Bazelgeuse

White woman defends hair care routine, gets NTA support.

Glass_Status_5837 | Glass_Status_5837

Defending hair care or cultural appropriation? The debate continues. 🤔

dbhalberg | dbhalberg

Black coworker helped find solution. No issue with white kid using bonnet. 👍

TheLastLibrarian1 | TheLastLibrarian1

Interracial couple defends matching bonnets as a curly hair necessity! 👏

autofillers | autofillers

Breaking down hair care stereotypes and discrimination. 👏

flyin_high_flyin_bi | flyin_high_flyin_bi

Defend your curls! NTA's GF is a walking red flag 👊

ArrowsAndLightsabers | ArrowsAndLightsabers

Defending hair care choices, calling out infantilization. 👍

FileDoesntExist | FileDoesntExist

Partner surprised white woman never wore bonnet during sleepovers 😳

SheTheyGay | SheTheyGay

Defending a hair care routine from unnecessary criticism. 🙄

Deergasus | Deergasus

POC excel in haircare, roomie's using yt privilege for appropriation 😒

TheNorthern_exposure | TheNorthern_exposure

Cultural ownership is garbage 🙅‍♀️

SigSauerPower320 | SigSauerPower320

Breaking: Hair bonnets no longer exclusive to black culture 💯

WinterRose81 | WinterRose81

POC friends approve of hair care switch, NTA 👍


Cultural hair care practices are open and shared. 👍

FillorianOpium | FillorianOpium

Challenging white privilege in hair care routine debate. 👊

Any_Air_1906 | Any_Air_1906

Defending haircare routine against woke culture, no replies.

xpotential31 | xpotential31

NTA defends hair care routine against 'woke, white saviors'

rainb0wunic0rnfarts | rainb0wunic0rnfarts

Sleep caps controversy: Is it about race or not?

Lady_Ellie119 | Lady_Ellie119

Misunderstanding cultural appropriation sparks frustration in comment.

lottienonchalant | lottienonchalant

Defending cultural appropriation claims - practical reasons for headscarf use 🤩

AModel3Owner | AModel3Owner

Bamboo bonnet for better haircare! 🤩

Radiant-Chipmunk-987 | Radiant-Chipmunk-987

Defending a black person's hair care against cultural appropriation accusations 👏

Good_Baker_5492 | Good_Baker_5492

Defending hair care choices with a dash of sarcasm. NTA.

UnderstandingAway302 | UnderstandingAway302

Interracial hair care debate turns into questioning motives. 🤔

rwecardo | rwecardo

Bonnet debate: NTA defends hair care routine against GF's criticism 👍

BarbarianGlamGnome | BarbarianGlamGnome

Cultural appropriation debate arises over hair care routine. NTA.

stellacdy | stellacdy

Cosmetologist defends hair care routine against girlfriend's virtue signalling. 💇‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supporting Black-owned business while taking care of your hair! 👍

SomethingMeta42 | SomethingMeta42

Debate over cultural appropriation and reverse racism heats up! 🤯

Phoe_Red | Phoe_Red

Confident commenter shuts down hair care criticism with NTA.

Middle-Son | Middle-Son

POC calls out 'woke white saviour' GF in fiery debate! 🔥

anotherbutterflyacc | anotherbutterflyacc

White woman's hair bonnet not cultural appropriation, girlfriend overreacting. 👍

Kissy1234 | Kissy1234

Bonnets are crucial for curly hair. Respect Black hair care.

badadvicefromaspider | badadvicefromaspider

Bonnets aren't racist, educate yourself on curly hair care! 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Wear your bonnet girl and ditch your girlfriend. NTA.

Bird_Brain4101112 | Bird_Brain4101112

Black hair care explained, girlfriend needs to check her privilege. 👌

bambamkablam | bambamkablam

Defending cultural appropriation in private spaces. 🤔🤷‍♀️

piercingeye | piercingeye

Black woman defends OP's hair routine, asks for product recommendations 👍

BrattyThuggess | BrattyThuggess

White woman defends wearing bonnet for hair care, receives support.

NatureWoman22 | NatureWoman22

Debate over cultural appropriation of bonnets in hair care routine.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Silk bonnets are for everyone, NTA! 👏

Savaril | Savaril

Gatekeeping hair care? Not cool. NTA for girlfriend.

Equivalent-Echidna71 | Equivalent-Echidna71

Breaking hair stereotypes. NTA embraces diversity. 👏

Shoddy-Secretary-712 | Shoddy-Secretary-712

Protective bonnets are universal. Girlfriend needs a history lesson 👍

LTGlitterSquirrel | LTGlitterSquirrel

African commenter approves white woman's bonnet use for her hair 👍

Broken-Ankl3 | Broken-Ankl3

Bouncy curls envy! Commenter buys product for husband. NTA.

agirlonaboat | agirlonaboat

Supportive comment towards hair care routine; no replies.

ReyofSunlight | ReyofSunlight

The history of hair bonnets in the US.

Double_Reindeer_6884 | Double_Reindeer_6884

Black hair care debated, but commenter not appropriating culture. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Long-standing hair routine deemed acceptable by fellow commenters. 🙌

icebergthor | icebergthor

Satin pillowcases vs. bonnets: hair care debate continues 🤔

Laneldeth | Laneldeth

White woman acknowledges friend of color showing proper hair care, NTA 👏

notyourcoloringbook | notyourcoloringbook

Protective hairstyles are a must! Bonnets are life-saving 🙌

Appropriate_Big_5509 | Appropriate_Big_5509

Breaking down hair bonnet appropriation claims. NTA confirmed. 👏

RTSchemel | RTSchemel

Wavy hair care advice from Black coworker sparks discussion 👮‍♀️

ThatsNotMaiName | ThatsNotMaiName

Seek advice from the curly hair subreddit, they're supportive! 👍

EquivalentCommon5 | EquivalentCommon5

NTA defends against accusations of racism in hair care routine.

mikeyt6969 | mikeyt6969

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