Sister's BF's PTSD Screams Ruin Thanksgiving Visit - Forced to Get Airbnb! 😱

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

🦃 Thanksgiving is a time for family, food, and... night terrors? 😱 When our host invited their sister and her boyfriend to stay for the holiday, they had no idea what they were in for! 🙀 Despite knowing about the boyfriend's PTSD, the host didn't expect the blood-curdling screams that would shatter the night. 😱 With thin walls and no sleep, the host was left wondering: AITA for asking them to get an Airbnb? 🤔 Let's dive into this Thanksgiving tale of terror! 🎭

🦃 Thanksgiving Surprise: Sister's BF Brings Night Terrors! 😱

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🍽️ After the Feast, the Fright Begins! 🙀

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😱 Blood-Curdling Screams Shatter the Night! 🌙

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😴 No Sleep for the Weary Host! 😩

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😳 Embarrassed BF Clams Up! 🤐

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🏨 Airbnb or Bust: Host Needs Rest! 😴

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😠 Sister Demands Empathy, Storms Out! 🌪️

aita-cantsleep | aita-cantsleep

🎭 Stuck with Theater Tickets, Plans Ruined! 😞

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😴 Host's Sleep Issues: No Naps, Just Hallucinations! 👀

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⏰ 2 Hours to Dreamland, 3 Days to Crazytown! 🤪

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🚨 Not Just Inconvenient, It's a Safety Hazard! ⚠️

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🏘️ Apartment Living: Neighbors Hear All! 👂

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🙏 Host Keeps Cool Despite Frustration! 😌

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🤔 AITA for Prioritizing My Sleep and Safety? 😴

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😴 No Sleep, No Empathy: AITA for Choosing Rest Over Family Drama? 🤔

Our poor, sleep-deprived host was left in a tough spot when their sister's boyfriend's night terrors turned their Thanksgiving visit into a waking nightmare! 😱 With no warning about the screaming and their own medical sleep issues, the host had to make a tough call: Airbnb or bust. 🏨 But the sister wasn't having it, storming out and leaving the host stuck with theater tickets and a whole lot of frustration. 😞 Now, the internet is divided: should the host have sucked it up for family, or were they right to prioritize their own health and safety? 🤔 Let's see what the masses have to say about this Thanksgiving drama! 🍿

Sister's BF's PTSD ruined Thanksgiving visit, NTA for getting Airbnb

LuvMeLongThyme | LuvMeLongThyme

NTA, but communication is key in situations like these. 👥📢

EngineeringOwn2299 | EngineeringOwn2299

NTA, reasonable to expect a warning. PTSD screams are tough.

Suitable-Cod-1381 | Suitable-Cod-1381

NTA with PTSD suggests common sense and courtesy for hosts.

mushululu | mushululu

Being considerate of others is important, mental illness or not. NTA 👍

intergalacticcircus_ | intergalacticcircus_

Unreasonable to expect guests to go 3 days without sleep 😑

sapphicsapphires | sapphicsapphires

Definitely NTA. Your sister should've warned you about his screams.

Perfectly_imperfectK | Perfectly_imperfectK

Sister's BF's PTSD ruins Thanksgiving visit. NTA for being upset.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA, but communication is key even for unexpected situations.

ironicuwuing | ironicuwuing

NTA commenter sets boundaries for guests with medical conditions.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA, but noisy PTSD screams ruined Thanksgiving - sympathy for BF.

Pistalrose | Pistalrose

Prioritizing health over sympathy for sister's BF's PTSD - NTA 🚯

arthurthebear | arthurthebear

Sleep is crucial, sister's BF's PTSD screams not a minor issue. NTA 🙄

Maddieolies | Maddieolies

Responsibility for mental health is important. NTA for speaking up 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Should the sister have informed about boyfriend's PTSD screams earlier? NTA

missveronicaleigh | missveronicaleigh

NTA for not wanting to endure sister's BF's PTSD screams 👀

deadbiker | deadbiker

NTA calls out sister for not disclosing BF's PTSD 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Pre-warning is key: NTA's night terrors and staying over.

happycoffeebean13 | happycoffeebean13

Setting boundaries in your own house is important. #NTA 👍

Unlikely_Cockroach26 | Unlikely_Cockroach26

Curious commenter asks if there were other sleeping options available.

late_to_the__party | late_to_the__party

Redditor supports OP's decision to ask for separate sleeping arrangements. 👍

LaLaLura | LaLaLura

NTA. Not fair for him to expect you to lose sleep 😒

BlueBerryOkra | BlueBerryOkra

Validating NTA's decision to prioritize own well-being and boundaries.

Sweettooth_dragon | Sweettooth_dragon

Setting boundaries for mental health is okay. NTA 🙌

elemonated | elemonated

Informing about night terrors is fair. NTA for getting Airbnb.

mysticalmac99 | mysticalmac99

PTSD flashbacks can be traumatizing. NTA for avoiding it. 😱

makdaddi_ | makdaddi_

NTA commenter emphasizes importance of prior knowledge and empathy.

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Sister should have warned them, NTA stands corrected. 👍

thegreatwanderer00 | thegreatwanderer00

NTA. Heartbreaking experience of waking up to terrifying screams 😢

Moist-Investigator63 | Moist-Investigator63

Avoid traumatizing others and getting evicted. NTA!

mrbnlkld | mrbnlkld

NTA. Standing up for yourself and asserting boundaries. 🙌

JdorianIRL | JdorianIRL

Understanding different PTSD triggers is crucial for everyone's comfort. NTA.

4U2NV1981 | 4U2NV1981

Disclosing disruptive problems to hosts is important for peaceful stays 🙌

SyninHex | SyninHex

Sleep is crucial for everyone's brain, including those with PTSD. NTA.

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Compassionate comment suggests therapy and medication for sister's BF's PTSD.

GloInTheDarkUnicorn | GloInTheDarkUnicorn

Unexpected PTSD screams can be terrifying. NTA for seeking peace 🙏

Writer2509 | Writer2509

Sister's BF's PTSD screams ruin Thanksgiving visit - NTA

Shakeit126 | Shakeit126

Responsibility to control PTSD for group events. NTA.

Revolutionary-Yak-47 | Revolutionary-Yak-47

Logical solution: NTA for asking sister's BF to get Airbnb 💪

FlyingMacheteMonster | FlyingMacheteMonster

NTA- Guests should warn hosts about their behavior beforehand. 😒

[deleted] | [deleted]

Accommodating PTSD is key. Communication is important for expectations. 🤝

chainlinkchipmunk | chainlinkchipmunk

Partner's understanding and overprotective behavior during PTSD episodes.

WellSuckMe | WellSuckMe

Misinformation leads to Thanksgiving Airbnb fiasco, NTA for revoking promises.

Gigitygigtygoo | Gigitygigtygoo

Living with CPTSD is tough, host deserves honesty and empathy.

MountainStorm90 | MountainStorm90

Disability disclosure: NTA's limits when accommodating guests. 🚯

Meat_your_maker | Meat_your_maker

Respectful explanation of the importance of disclosing PTSD for accommodations. 👏

andriasdispute | andriasdispute

A cautionary tale on breaking promises for personal gain 😔

lBreadl | lBreadl

Defended for not hosting Thanksgiving due to Sister's BF's PTSD

Auntimeme | Auntimeme

Noise-sensitive OP not at fault for sister's BF's PTSD screams.

littlepinkgrowl | littlepinkgrowl

Sister's BF's PTSD screams cause Thanksgiving disaster. NTA for reaction.

Neravariine | Neravariine

NTA with PTSD screams in sleep, BF should apologize 😞

pvssyliqvor | pvssyliqvor

Living with PTSD is tough. NTA for getting an Airbnb.

CanUFeelItMrKrabs | CanUFeelItMrKrabs

PTSD symptoms vary greatly, it's important to communicate triggers 👍

Background_Owl_3474 | Background_Owl_3474

No YTA here, commenter defends OP's Thanksgiving decision 🦃

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Undisclosed night terrors ruin Thanksgiving - commenter says NTA.

Quantum_Blue_ | Quantum_Blue_

Being considerate of others is important, even with PTSD. 🙏

ThornaBld | ThornaBld

Setting boundaries with PTSD is important. Sister is the AH. 😕

bscrolling | bscrolling

Snores like a sailor, saved by earplugs. NTA wins!

No-Agent-1611 | No-Agent-1611

Undisclosed night terrors make it difficult to judge sister's actions 🤷

Katy_moxie | Katy_moxie

Unwarned screams at night? NTA for getting an Airbnb 😱

ConsistentCheesecake | ConsistentCheesecake

A Redditor with PTSD sympathizes with OP's Airbnb woes. 😞

2squirrelpeople | 2squirrelpeople

Sleeping through night terrors doesn't make OP TA. NTA.

CronologicallyAbsent | CronologicallyAbsent

Warning guests about needs is considerate. NTA. 👍

SystemConfident399 | SystemConfident399

Supportive comment defends host, calls out unfair situation. 👏

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Sister's lack of empathy towards sound-sensitive sibling with medical issue 😒

_whats-going-on | _whats-going-on

NTA for asking sister's BF with PTSD to get Airbnb 😊

Existing-Discount-96 | Existing-Discount-96

Snoring OP provides earplugs for roommates, sets the standard. 👍

EllyStar | EllyStar

NTA commenter shares personal experience with PTSD screams.

Take_away_my_drama | Take_away_my_drama

OP's post, NTA, and a call for better communication 👏

gojo96 | gojo96

Empathy expected but BF's family should have communicated better. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Common courtesy and communication is key for overnight stays. NTA 👍

crazycatleslie | crazycatleslie

Insightful comment on the effects of night terrors. 🙏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Terrifying experience with night terrors, but NTA for avoiding situation.

Formal-Revolution-83 | Formal-Revolution-83

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for setting boundaries.

AmberWaves80 | AmberWaves80

NTA's sleep was disrupted by sister's BF's PTSD screams. Sister was inconsiderate.

Schanzie | Schanzie

Sleep issues vs PTSD - NTA prioritizes own sleep needs 😴

LeahDragon | LeahDragon

Sleep deprivation and safety concerns - relatable and concerning ⚠

Firethorn101 | Firethorn101

NTA comment - Disabilities don't entitle you to special treatment. 💤

Wyshunu | Wyshunu

NTA for wanting a heads up about sister's BF's PTSD screams 😱

orangemoonboots | orangemoonboots

Sister's BF's PTSD screams terrify everyone at night! NTA.

noccie | noccie

Sleep trauma empathy - requesting another place to sleep, NTA 🙏

lamadelyn | lamadelyn

NTA. Practical advice for hosting visitors with disruptive behavior. 🙌

roberto487 | roberto487

Earplugs not enough to block out sister's screaming BF with PTSD 😱

carissadraws | carissadraws

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