Thanksgiving is a time for family, food, and… night terrors? When our host invited their sister and her boyfriend to stay for the holiday, they had no idea what they were in for! Despite knowing about the boyfriend’s PTSD, the host didn’t expect the blood-curdling screams that would shatter the night. With thin walls and no sleep, the host was left wondering: AITA for asking them to get an Airbnb? Let’s dive into this Thanksgiving tale of terror!
Thanksgiving Surprise: Sister’s BF Brings Night Terrors!

️ After the Feast, the Fright Begins!

Blood-Curdling Screams Shatter the Night!

No Sleep for the Weary Host!

Embarrassed BF Clams Up!

Airbnb or Bust: Host Needs Rest!

Sister Demands Empathy, Storms Out! ️

Stuck with Theater Tickets, Plans Ruined!

Host’s Sleep Issues: No Naps, Just Hallucinations!

⏰ 2 Hours to Dreamland, 3 Days to Crazytown!

Not Just Inconvenient, It’s a Safety Hazard! ⚠️

️ Apartment Living: Neighbors Hear All!

Host Keeps Cool Despite Frustration!

AITA for Prioritizing My Sleep and Safety?

No Sleep, No Empathy: AITA for Choosing Rest Over Family Drama?
Our poor, sleep-deprived host was left in a tough spot when their sister’s boyfriend’s night terrors turned their Thanksgiving visit into a waking nightmare! With no warning about the screaming and their own medical sleep issues, the host had to make a tough call: Airbnb or bust. But the sister wasn’t having it, storming out and leaving the host stuck with theater tickets and a whole lot of frustration. Now, the internet is divided: should the host have sucked it up for family, or were they right to prioritize their own health and safety? Let’s see what the masses have to say about this Thanksgiving drama!
Sister’s BF’s PTSD ruined Thanksgiving visit, NTA for getting Airbnb

NTA, but communication is key in situations like these.

NTA, reasonable to expect a warning. PTSD screams are tough.

NTA with PTSD suggests common sense and courtesy for hosts.

Being considerate of others is important, mental illness or not. NTA

Unreasonable to expect guests to go 3 days without sleep

Definitely NTA. Your sister should’ve warned you about his screams.

Sister’s BF’s PTSD ruins Thanksgiving visit. NTA for being upset.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/f026c19f-2bc5-4639-a215-5e5c696e9597.png)
NTA, but communication is key even for unexpected situations.

NTA commenter sets boundaries for guests with medical conditions.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/67fcac0d-ee3f-443c-a3cf-c228bb0a8b6a.png)
NTA, but noisy PTSD screams ruined Thanksgiving – sympathy for BF.

Prioritizing health over sympathy for sister’s BF’s PTSD – NTA

Sleep is crucial, sister’s BF’s PTSD screams not a minor issue. NTA

Responsibility for mental health is important. NTA for speaking up
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/c8ac55a1-4745-4dc7-8da0-10a5a47c01e7.png)
Should the sister have informed about boyfriend’s PTSD screams earlier? NTA

NTA for not wanting to endure sister’s BF’s PTSD screams

NTA calls out sister for not disclosing BF’s PTSD
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/78c7c370-7a8d-4959-ba7a-e2b4475e154c.png)
Pre-warning is key: NTA’s night terrors and staying over.

Setting boundaries in your own house is important. #NTA

Curious commenter asks if there were other sleeping options available.

Redditor supports OP’s decision to ask for separate sleeping arrangements.

NTA. Not fair for him to expect you to lose sleep

Validating NTA’s decision to prioritize own well-being and boundaries.

Setting boundaries for mental health is okay. NTA

Informing about night terrors is fair. NTA for getting Airbnb.

PTSD flashbacks can be traumatizing. NTA for avoiding it.

NTA commenter emphasizes importance of prior knowledge and empathy.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/dc83c7e7-c3a5-4cdc-9f48-9c2b151d7b01.png)
Sister should have warned them, NTA stands corrected.

NTA. Heartbreaking experience of waking up to terrifying screams

Avoid traumatizing others and getting evicted. NTA!

NTA. Standing up for yourself and asserting boundaries.

Understanding different PTSD triggers is crucial for everyone’s comfort. NTA.

Disclosing disruptive problems to hosts is important for peaceful stays

Sleep is crucial for everyone’s brain, including those with PTSD. NTA.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/2c9effbd-ab13-4513-8455-80b5d9a86ff8.png)
Compassionate comment suggests therapy and medication for sister’s BF’s PTSD.

Unexpected PTSD screams can be terrifying. NTA for seeking peace

Sister’s BF’s PTSD screams ruin Thanksgiving visit – NTA

Responsibility to control PTSD for group events. NTA.

Logical solution: NTA for asking sister’s BF to get Airbnb

NTA- Guests should warn hosts about their behavior beforehand.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/bc6b22e7-7f48-45c2-9a97-8b44c55c4518.png)
Accommodating PTSD is key. Communication is important for expectations.

Partner’s understanding and overprotective behavior during PTSD episodes.

Misinformation leads to Thanksgiving Airbnb fiasco, NTA for revoking promises.

Living with CPTSD is tough, host deserves honesty and empathy.

Disability disclosure: NTA’s limits when accommodating guests.

Respectful explanation of the importance of disclosing PTSD for accommodations.

A cautionary tale on breaking promises for personal gain

Defended for not hosting Thanksgiving due to Sister’s BF’s PTSD

Noise-sensitive OP not at fault for sister’s BF’s PTSD screams.

Sister’s BF’s PTSD screams cause Thanksgiving disaster. NTA for reaction.

NTA with PTSD screams in sleep, BF should apologize

Living with PTSD is tough. NTA for getting an Airbnb.

PTSD symptoms vary greatly, it’s important to communicate triggers

No YTA here, commenter defends OP’s Thanksgiving decision
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/58894fd6-95c5-4ca3-9564-9397579bd824.png)
Undisclosed night terrors ruin Thanksgiving – commenter says NTA.

Being considerate of others is important, even with PTSD.

Setting boundaries with PTSD is important. Sister is the AH.

Snores like a sailor, saved by earplugs. NTA wins!

Undisclosed night terrors make it difficult to judge sister’s actions

Unwarned screams at night? NTA for getting an Airbnb

A Redditor with PTSD sympathizes with OP’s Airbnb woes.

Sleeping through night terrors doesn’t make OP TA. NTA.

Warning guests about needs is considerate. NTA.

Supportive comment defends host, calls out unfair situation.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/83d5279b-c27c-4a0e-9c81-9b27b528af5a.png)
Sister’s lack of empathy towards sound-sensitive sibling with medical issue

NTA for asking sister’s BF with PTSD to get Airbnb

Snoring OP provides earplugs for roommates, sets the standard.

NTA commenter shares personal experience with PTSD screams.

OP’s post, NTA, and a call for better communication

Empathy expected but BF’s family should have communicated better. NTA.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/43c22ebd-c2cf-4bc9-bff1-f299045b4f57.png)
Common courtesy and communication is key for overnight stays. NTA

Insightful comment on the effects of night terrors.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/9c11be15-40b5-4e8c-8380-e8687055de8d.png)
Terrifying experience with night terrors, but NTA for avoiding situation.

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA’s sleep was disrupted by sister’s BF’s PTSD screams. Sister was inconsiderate.

Sleep issues vs PTSD – NTA prioritizes own sleep needs

Sleep deprivation and safety concerns – relatable and concerning ⚠

NTA comment – Disabilities don’t entitle you to special treatment.

NTA for wanting a heads up about sister’s BF’s PTSD screams

Sister’s BF’s PTSD screams terrify everyone at night! NTA.

Sleep trauma empathy – requesting another place to sleep, NTA

NTA. Practical advice for hosting visitors with disruptive behavior.

Earplugs not enough to block out sister’s screaming BF with PTSD
