SIL Demands Vacation at MY House for Her 'Autistic' Bully Daughter! 😤 I Said NO WAY!

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🌴 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy family drama brewing that's sure to make your jaw drop! 😱 Picture this: a lovely couple planning a dreamy lakeside getaway with their kiddos, only to have their plans derailed by a meddling sister-in-law and her bratty daughter. 🙅‍♀️ Grab your popcorn, because this story is about to get wild! 🍿 Will our heroine stand her ground and protect her family's much-needed vacation, or will she cave to the pressure and invite the troublemakers along? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♀️

🌴 Vacation Plans Gone Wrong? 😱

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Friends Invited, But Can't Make It 😢

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🏕️ Vacation Home Sounds Like a Dream! 🌄

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😬 Enter the Dreaded SIL and Her Daughter 🙅‍♀️

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🤦‍♀️ Autism or ADHD? SIL's Delusions 🙄

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😈 Emma the Bully: No One is Safe! 👿

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🚨 Bullying Backfires, Emma Pulled from School 😲

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🙏 SIL Asks to Tag Along, Husband Relays Request 😬

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🤔 Husband Thinks Trip Could Help Niece, I Disagree 🙅‍♀️

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👦👦 Husband Thinks Boys Need Company, I Laugh 😂

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😡 SIL is Fuming, Says We're Being Harsh! 🔥

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😱 Family Vacation Turns into Family Feud! 🔥

Well, well, well... looks like this family's dream vacation has turned into a nightmare! 😱 Our poor heroine just wants to enjoy a peaceful week at the lake with her hubby and kids, but her pesky sister-in-law and her bratty daughter are determined to crash the party. 🙅‍♀️ Despite the husband's attempts to play peacemaker, our leading lady is standing her ground and refusing to let the troublemakers tag along. 💪 But now the sister-in-law is throwing a hissy fit, claiming they're being "unnecessarily harsh" 🙄 Puh-lease! 🙄 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy family drama! 🍿 Grab your snacks, because the comments are bound to be spicy! 🌶️🔥

Setting boundaries is important, NTA 🙌

pottsantiques | pottsantiques

Husband should spend a week with SIL and her daughter 😏

Legitimate-Chart-289 | Legitimate-Chart-289

Autism is not an excuse for bullying. NTA for saying NO!

TinyRascalSaurus | TinyRascalSaurus

NTA- SIL's demand for a vacation is not a therapy session. Let her be mad.

Cylem234 | Cylem234

Sassy response to a SIL insisting on a vacation visit

JeepersCreepers74 | JeepersCreepers74

Your vacation home, your rules. NTA. 👍

xEllimistx | xEllimistx

Husband throws wife under bus for niece's bad behavior. 🤦‍♀️

SonuvaGunderson | SonuvaGunderson

Polite NTA shuts down SIL's entitled vacation request for daughter.

foodieboricua | foodieboricua

Politely declining SIL's vacation request and setting boundaries. 👍

bingbobadeggins | bingbobadeggins

"Don't light yourself on fire to keep others warm" 💪

Whitestaunton | Whitestaunton

Friend's experience with similar entitled child. NTA confirmed.

geishabird | geishabird

Asking for more info on the relationship with niece 👪

setsumaeu | setsumaeu

Don't let entitled family ruin your vacation! 🍷 NTA

Bbygirl1011 | Bbygirl1011

Politely suggesting alternative VRBO weeks. NTA wins.

1962Michael | 1962Michael

You're not the a**hole for setting boundaries on your property 👏

longsdivision | longsdivision

Don't use autism as an excuse for your child's bad behavior 🙏

Financial_Room_8362 | Financial_Room_8362

Neurodivergent commenter calls out ableism and entitlement of SIL.

treeesapfossil | treeesapfossil

Standing up for yourself against entitled family members 💪

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OP's husband is a jerk for tossing OP under the bus. Shame on him. But I don't blame OP one bit. NTA 👍

MerelyWhelmed1 | MerelyWhelmed1

SIL's 'autistic' bully daughter is not your mental health vacation 🙅‍♀️

atombomb1945 | atombomb1945

Husband is the real problem here. NTA for setting boundaries. 👏

Shoo_B_Doo_B_Doo | Shoo_B_Doo_B_Doo

NTA. Husband needs to learn to respect your decisions. 👍

mydoghasnofleas | mydoghasnofleas

Parent with ADHD advocates for accountability, NTA 🧠💪

hwilliams0901 | hwilliams0901

Firmly but compassionately setting boundaries for a child's behavior 👍

AlphaMomma59 | AlphaMomma59

Vacation should be enjoyable, not stressful. NTA, set boundaries. 👍

gurlwithdragontat2 | gurlwithdragontat2

Respectful NTA reply suggests SIL find another vacation spot 😊

kek2015 | kek2015

Parent refuses to take responsibility for their child's behavior. NTA 👍

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Reducing electronics won't improve Emma's behavior. NTA 👍

miasabine | miasabine

ADHD vs Autism and the 'Get out of Jail Free' Card

rayraywest0 | rayraywest0

NTA. Your family isn't responsible for managing SIL's kid's behavior.

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

Bullying daughter doesn't deserve a vacation, NTA handled it perfectly! 🙌

[deleted] | [deleted]

Protecting kids and saying no to entitled SIL. NTA 👏

BadEmpire25 | BadEmpire25

Husband blamed OP for SIL's entitled behavior. NTA response suggested.

stiletto929 | stiletto929

Neurodivergent people have free will and agency over their actions.

Mikomics | Mikomics

SIL invites herself and her 'autistic' bully daughter on your vacation. NTA.

KatsEye68 | KatsEye68

Husband's blame game and SIL's unreasonable demands. NTA.

disruptionisbliss | disruptionisbliss

Choose to spend time with those who add, not subtract 🙌💯

TickerWhisperer | TickerWhisperer

Mother of two on the spectrum explains the difference between rude and autistic.

ofbalance | ofbalance

Bullying backfiring? Commenter wants more details 🤔

Syrinx221 | Syrinx221

NTA. Commenter criticizes entitlement culture and toxic behavior.

GrapefruitNo3418 | GrapefruitNo3418

Husband needs to be honest with SIL, NTA here! 👍

failure_as_a_dad | failure_as_a_dad

Rewarding a bully with a vacation? NTA for saying no way!

holisarcasm | holisarcasm

Husband's priorities questioned after not backing wife against bullying daughter. 😕

Whocaresevenadamn | Whocaresevenadamn

Research summer programs and camps instead of enabling bullying. NTA 👍

BraveChair6 | BraveChair6

SIL's entitled behavior gets shut down. NTA wins.

PatchworkGirl82 | PatchworkGirl82

Consider your children's opinion before hosting your niece. #NTA

BlueMoon5k | BlueMoon5k

Prideful commenter applauds OP for standing up to entitled SIL. NTA 👏

pensaha | pensaha

Spineless husband ruins vacation, NTA for saying no to SIL.

No-Crew-1641 | No-Crew-1641

Setting boundaries with empathy. NTA 😊

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A stay-cation is better for her autistic niece 🏡

cannibal-vegan | cannibal-vegan

Suggests Airbnb for entitled SIL's noisy daughter, and critiques husband's inattention. 😒

erinhennley | erinhennley

DH threw OP under the bus! NTA needs to talk ASAP 😡

debond01 | debond01

ADHD is a real disorder, therapy may help both parties 🧠

Ashamed_Ferret | Ashamed_Ferret

Lazy SIL demands vacation at OP's house for her bully daughter. NTA.

Permas | Permas

Setting boundaries with difficult family members. 🙌

Humble-Plankton2217 | Humble-Plankton2217

Supportive response to OP's situation. No contact advice given.

sasha7777 | sasha7777

NTA. Stand your ground on vacation, but hubby needs work. 😑

NoleFandom | NoleFandom

Stick to your boundaries and enjoy your vacation! 🍷

ForeignAssociation98 | ForeignAssociation98

Your house, your rules! Don't feel guilty, 100% NTA. 😊

[deleted] | [deleted]

Suggests alternative solution and hints at possible incident. 😬

RDT64 | RDT64

Vacationing with people you don't like? NTA, stand your ground!

mintyfresh_ella | mintyfresh_ella

Navigating family dynamics with grace and honesty. 👍

DDNorth20 | DDNorth20

Be selective with vacation company. NTA for setting boundaries. 👍

Orphan_Izzy | Orphan_Izzy

Husband shifts blame, commenter says NTA. 👍

Historical-Ad4361 | Historical-Ad4361

Block her and don't blame autism for bad behavior 🚩

Glock212327 | Glock212327

Autistic person explains why autism is not an excuse for bullying 🤔

autievolunteernature | autievolunteernature

Husband threw OP under the bus for SIL's vacation request. NTA.

frieda406 | frieda406

Your house, your vacation, your rules. Not the a-hole 👏

FindingContent8408 | FindingContent8408

Firm stance against entitled in-laws. Family safety comes first. 🙌

ianmoon85 | ianmoon85

Rest is best, NTA made the right choice. 👍

kimputer7 | kimputer7

Stand your ground and enjoy your vacation with your family! 💪

Charity-Admirable | Charity-Admirable

Husband throws OP under the bus for refusing SIL's bully daughter. 🤨

[deleted] | [deleted]

Mom falsely diagnosed daughter, NTA for not hosting bullying daughter.

Diva-So-Rude | Diva-So-Rude

Setting boundaries with entitled parents 🙌

1canoemaneh | 1canoemaneh

You're NTA for not sacrificing your vacation for your niece's behavior 😌

EllectraHeart | EllectraHeart

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