Bullied Teen Refuses Dinner at Bully's House 🏠💔 Demands Apology Email Instead!

Diply Social Team
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We've all heard about bullies and their victims, but what happens when the bully's parents try to make amends? In a surprising turn of events, a teen who was being bullied at school by a kid named Dan, finds out that Dan's parents want to invite the victim's family over for dinner so their son could apologize. However, the teen isn't too thrilled about the idea and has a different plan in mind.🤔🍽️

Bully's Parents Reach Out 📞

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Mom's Enthusiasm 🤗

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Not So Cool 😒

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Taking Matters into Own Hands 📱

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A Different Request 📧

dialiasflower | dialiasflower

Why an Email? 🤔

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In-Person vs. Written Apology 📝

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Standing Firm ✊

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Mom's Reaction 😡

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To Dinner or Not to Dinner 🍽️💔

This bullied teen isn't interested in a dinner party at their bully's house, even if it means receiving an apology. Instead, they request a written apology, sent to their school email address, to hold the bully accountable. The bully's mom doesn't think it's appropriate, but our protagonist stands firm. Their own mom is angry, accusing them of being ungrateful and difficult. But is the teen really in the wrong for wanting an apology on their own terms? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💬

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for demanding a proper apology 👏

TheBaney | TheBaney

Bullied teen refuses dinner at bully's house, demands apology email 👏

bobbiegee65 | bobbiegee65

Mature and courageous response to bully's mom's lack of understanding. 👏

puppyfarts99 | puppyfarts99

Demanding a written apology is reasonable. NTA 👏

Mysterious-System680 | Mysterious-System680

Impressive teen sets boundaries and demands genuine apology 💯

ierusju | ierusju

Stand your ground and demand a genuine apology via email 👏

ellbeecee | ellbeecee

Analogy to help OP's mother understand why dinner was refused 👍

Educational_Cup9850 | Educational_Cup9850

NTA. The bully's parents need to learn about apologies 👏

Amour_fati | Amour_fati

Demanding an apology email instead of dinner at bully's house. NTA.

nickyfrags69 | nickyfrags69

Stand up for yourself and demand the apology you deserve! 👏

Angie-Shopper1983 | Angie-Shopper1983

Standing up to bullies and demanding respect. 💪

JCBashBash | JCBashBash

Standing up to bullies and setting boundaries like a boss! 🤘

Glenn_Coco69 | Glenn_Coco69

Empathetic comment supports bullied teen's demand for apology email. 👏

abcwva | abcwva

Empathetic comment supporting bullied teen's response to insincere apology.

ProjectCrazed | ProjectCrazed

Bullied teen stands up for self, mother fails to support. 👎

Affectionate_Ice_658 | Affectionate_Ice_658

Demanding an apology on your own terms is empowering. 💪

PrincessBuzzkill | PrincessBuzzkill

NTA. A dinner with a bully sounds super-awkward 😓

benitoaramando | benitoaramando

Adults should know better. Victim's comfort is top priority. NTA!

RainyDayRose | RainyDayRose

Bully's mom wants apology on her terms? NTA solved it! 👏

CandylandCanada | CandylandCanada

Demanding an apology on their terms, NTA takes control 💪

Panaccolade | Panaccolade

NTA stands up to bully's family's manipulative apology tactics 👏

NoSurprise82 | NoSurprise82

Standing up to bullies with grace 👏

Admirable-Frog-3748 | Admirable-Frog-3748

Demanding an apology email is a right, not a privilege 💻

staticdragonfly | staticdragonfly

Mom's offer backfires, reveals where bully learned behavior. NTA wins.

justinwalltown | justinwalltown

Standing up to bullies takes courage. You're NTA. 💪

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Demanding change, not just an apology, to stop bullying behavior 👍

evelbug | evelbug

NTA, OP handles bully's parent with grace and maturity 👏

antifreezeontherocks | antifreezeontherocks

Demanding a genuine apology: NTA stands up for self 👏

DuckInMyHeart | DuckInMyHeart

Encouraging comment applauds teen's maturity and resilience 💪

bulgarianlily | bulgarianlily

Taking control back from bully, not bullied into accepting apology 👏

fightingdemons007 | fightingdemons007

NTA. The apology isn't for her, it's for you. 💁‍♀️

awfulasparagus | awfulasparagus

Is a family dinner with disliked classmate and strangers a 'treat'? 🤔

Cevanne46 | Cevanne46

Bullying victim refuses dinner at bully's house, demands apology email instead 👏

fantastic-cabbage | fantastic-cabbage

Confused commenter questions motives behind post, no replies.

EversonGilmuth | EversonGilmuth

Skipping dinner with bully and lasagna = nightmare 😱

mercury-retrobabe | mercury-retrobabe

Victim's right to boundaries and reconciliation, not parents' decision. NTA.

TexasFordTough | TexasFordTough

Demanding a written apology is more meaningful and recordable. 📝

Ippus_21 | Ippus_21

Empowering response to NTA comment 💪

TashiaNicole1 | TashiaNicole1

Inviting bully's victim to their house is not a neutral setting 👍

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Standing up to bullies is always the right choice 💪

phunkydroid | phunkydroid

Encouraging comment for bullied teen's critical thinking skills 👏

Soft-Worldliness-308 | Soft-Worldliness-308

Supportive comment for bullied teen's refusal to dine with bully.

kittynoodlesoap | kittynoodlesoap

Encouraging support for bullied teen's self-advocacy 👏

2015081131 | 2015081131

Standing up to bullies is never easy, but you nailed it! 💪

CapsFan1066 | CapsFan1066

Teen demands apology email instead of uncomfortable dinner with bully. NTA 👏🏻

Kikoiku | Kikoiku

Setting boundaries in the south 🌎 NTA wins!

cinnamonbuns42 | cinnamonbuns42

Accepting an apology is not always necessary. NTA 👏

joshthatoneguy | joshthatoneguy

Respect yourself enough to say no. That takes guts. NTA.

LadySheora | LadySheora

Teen stands up to bully's family. NTA 👏

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NTA. Teen refuses bully's dinner invitation, demands apology email instead! 💯

pinkyhc | pinkyhc

Demanding a written apology after being bullied. NTA.

delkarnu | delkarnu

Standing up to bullies is always the right thing 💪

LooseNic | LooseNic

Standing up to your abuser is never easy. NTA.

OhioPolitiTHIC | OhioPolitiTHIC

Polite refusal of dinner demand, demands apology email instead. NTA 👏

feralheartHH | feralheartHH

Empathetic comment supporting the bullied teen's decision and offering practical advice.

Cara_Bina | Cara_Bina

Demanding an apology email is fair and reasonable. #NTA 👍

Fishie31 | Fishie31

Impressed by teen's mature response to bullying situation 💪

RuutuTwo | RuutuTwo

Empathetic comment applauds teen's confidence and self-respect. 👏

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Victim refusing dinner at bully's house, demands apology email. NTA.

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Ignoring feelings: NTA's mom and bully's mom are similar 🙅

neogreenlantern | neogreenlantern

Standing up to bullies is always the right choice! 💪

SaturniinaeActias | SaturniinaeActias

Stick to your guns and demand the apology you deserve 👏

shawnwright663 | shawnwright663

Forcing a bully to apologize may not be genuine 😕

H_H_B | H_H_B

Standing up to bullies and demanding respect 💪🏼

The_Fires_Of_Orc | The_Fires_Of_Orc

Demanding an apology via email is reasonable and empowering 👏

POAndrea | POAndrea

Parents defending bully son's behavior, NTA stands up for self.

_PrincessOats | _PrincessOats

Redditor questions if there's another side to the story.

Velcroninja | Velcroninja

Demanding an apology email is the right move 👍

daric | daric

No replies yet, but the original post is a mess 🤯

River922 | River922

Smart and strong-willed teen stands up to bully. 🤔

Platypus_Neither | Platypus_Neither

Standing up to bullies with grace 👏

Grouchy-Sky-549 | Grouchy-Sky-549

Demanding an apology on your terms is your right. NTA 👏

No_River7337 | No_River7337

Cheering for the bullied teen's epic response! 👏

Old-Elderberry-9946 | Old-Elderberry-9946

Standing up to bullies is not 'going all lawyer', NTA.

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Bullied teen refuses dinner at bully's house 🏠💔 and demands apology email instead! NTA 👏

ballsohaahd | ballsohaahd

Bully's apology can't be trusted, email is the way 👍

Business-Exchange517 | Business-Exchange517

Demanding an apology on your terms is NTA power move 🤩

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Lawyer recommends making a written record of bullying incidents. 👍

MarionberryOld378 | MarionberryOld378

Support for victim, NTA for refusing dinner invitation. 👏

Solgatiger | Solgatiger

Setting boundaries and feeling safe. NTA wins! 💪

KinkyKitty24 | KinkyKitty24

Demanding an apology on your terms is reasonable. NTA 👍

Milkdromeda27 | Milkdromeda27

Encouraging comment applauds teen's healthy boundaries and bright future 👏

OverwelmedAdhder | OverwelmedAdhder

Mature response to bully, no need to do anything further 👍

the_jesstastic | the_jesstastic

NTA. Victim shouldn't be forced to accept apology or interact.

6738ngkdt | 6738ngkdt

Setting boundaries and prioritizing safety over closure. 👏

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Demanding a specific apology doesn't make OP a bully. NTA 👏

Lucia37 | Lucia37

Demanding a written apology to keep a record. Smart move! 📝

mavwok | mavwok

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