🔥 Best Friend Fallout: One Wants a 'Hot Girl Summer' and the Other Doesn't Approve! 😱

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Picture this: you and your best friend have been planning a girls' trip to an island paradise. You're both excited to finally get away after a year of lockdowns, but there's one problem - you want to have a 'hot girl summer' and your bestie isn't on board. This is the story of two friends whose dream vacation quickly turned into a friendship nightmare. 😰 One friend, fresh out of an abusive relationship, just wants to let loose and have some fun. But when she suggests going on separate vacations, her bestie doesn't take it well. 🏝️💔

Vacation Plans Falling Apart 🏖️

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Down to Two, but at What Cost? 😕

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Hot Girl Summer Dreams 💃

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Bestie's Boundaries 🚧

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Sticking Together, No Matter What? 🤔

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A Compromise... or Not? 🙅‍♀️

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New Plan: Fall Trip 🍂

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Bestie's Harsh Reaction 😡

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Slut-Shaming and Gossip 🗣️

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Feeling Hurt and Confused 💔

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EDIT: Clearing Things Up 📝

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Not Leaving Her Alone All Week 🤷‍♀️

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One Vacation, One Choice 🌴

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Influencer Image Issues 📸

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She Has Her Own Vacation Plans 🏖️

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Besties at Odds: Can Their Friendship Survive? 😢

So, there you have it: a friendship on the rocks over a vacation gone wrong. One friend just wants to have a carefree summer after years of being in a toxic relationship, while the other is hurt and resorting to name-calling. 😰 It's clear that both friends are feeling the strain of this situation, but can they find a way to mend their friendship? Let's see what the internet thinks of this tricky predicament... 💬

NTA commenter supports 'hot girl summer' and calls out slut-shaming 👏👏

Vegetable-Tale8023 | Vegetable-Tale8023

Validating different vacation interests, but friend is being immature 😒

videojay | videojay

Supportive comment encourages 'hot girl summer' and warns of toxic friend.

Damn_Dutchman | Damn_Dutchman

Friend wants to control vacation, calls OP a slut. NTA.

JeepersCreepers74 | JeepersCreepers74

Friend wants to hook up on vacation, other disapproves. ESH.

Ritehandwingman | Ritehandwingman

NTA. Don't let her sl*t shame you. Celebrate your freedom! 🎉

Swim_Forsaken | Swim_Forsaken

Ex-ho calls out prioritizing dick over friend, ESH for slut-shaming.

titsoutshitsout | titsoutshitsout

Ditching a friend for a 'hot girl summer' vacation? ESH.

sentinelsexy | sentinelsexy

Friend wants vacation, OP wants 'hot girl summer', ESH.

pnwgirl34 | pnwgirl34

You do you! NTA for wanting space and a hot girl summer. 👏

bisexual_fool | bisexual_fool

Compromise is key! Both friends were in the wrong. 🚫

kdpirategirl | kdpirategirl

Best friends fight over trip and dating choices. ESH.

pen_zz | pen_zz

Valid concern for safety, but don't sacrifice your vacation completely. 🏖️

sweadle | sweadle

Don't be a good little puppy, ditch the controlling friend 🐶

Dear_Analysis_5116 | Dear_Analysis_5116

The importance of trip length in friend fallout discussions. 🤔

NoiseProvesNothing | NoiseProvesNothing

Both friends are at fault for their actions and reactions 🤷‍♀️

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Immaturity and name-calling over broken plans? ESH 🤦‍♀️

squirrels33 | squirrels33

Standing up for yourself and being honest is NTA 👏

Able-Ad-6727 | Able-Ad-6727

US vs UK: Different views on ditching friends for hookups? 🤔

Sad-Communication756 | Sad-Communication756

YTA thinks girls should have fun without guys. 🙄

Sad-Communication756 | Sad-Communication756

You have a right to enjoy your trip. NTA 👍

radioaktvt | radioaktvt

Vacation priorities differ, but name-calling is uncalled for. #NTA 🍷

trilliumsummer | trilliumsummer

Supportive comment applauds friend's 'hot girl summer' and freedom.

Hannymann | Hannymann

Can't take a break from 'hot girl summer' on a short vacation? 🤔

particledamage | particledamage

Friend wants 'hot girl summer' over hanging with friends. 🤪

TheFireOfPrometheus | TheFireOfPrometheus

Enjoy your hot girl summer responsibly! NTA for living life.

Silverbird22 | Silverbird22

Friend resorts to name-calling and slut-shaming. NTA, reconsider friendship. 🤢

mountaingoat05 | mountaingoat05

Navigating friendship and hookups on vacation: ESH but compromise possible 🤔

queen-of-quartz | queen-of-quartz

Don't let a 'hot girl summer' ruin your friendship! 🚫

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Take time to heal before engaging in self-destructive behavior 🙏

Deerpacolyps | Deerpacolyps

Take time for yourself after an abusive relationship instead of rebounding. 😔

skydaddy8585 | skydaddy8585

👏🏼👏🏼 You go girl! Being upfront about your needs is important. #NTA

Redditadminrapist | Redditadminrapist

Why choose between vacation and hot girl summer? INFO needed

SorryThatsPrivate | SorryThatsPrivate

Don't prioritize hookups over friends, but also don't slut-shame. ESH. 🙅🏼

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Friend wants 'hot girl summer', ditches friend on trip. YTA.

tigerlily2021 | tigerlily2021

Live your life! Don't let anyone slut shame you! 👏

NotHisRealName | NotHisRealName

Friend cancels trip for 'hot girl summer' causing fallout. YTA-ish?

mindless_scrolling27 | mindless_scrolling27

ESH for ditching friend, her for slut-shaming. Dick is abundant.

CoffeeandOreos | CoffeeandOreos

Best friend called out for prioritizing hookups over friendship. YTA.

Yallneedjesuschrist | Yallneedjesuschrist

ESH for slut shaming and being a bad friend 😐

momomocha | momomocha

Suggestion to bring her bf to avoid third-wheeling. 🤔

i_like_it_eilat | i_like_it_eilat

Friendship fallout over 'hot girl summer' vacation plans. NTA stands firm.

Alternative_Ad_921 | Alternative_Ad_921

Standing up for boundaries and against slut-shaming. 👏

revmat | revmat

Harsh comment calls out selfish behavior in friendship. 💔

Rebe1Ye11 | Rebe1Ye11

Empowering response to friend shaming 'hot girl summer' plans 💪

ButLikeSeriously | ButLikeSeriously

Friend wants 'hot girl summer' and ditches trip, YTA confirmed 👎

DonateToM7E | DonateToM7E

Planned trip gone wrong, name-calling ensues. ESH. 🤷‍♀️

izaby | izaby

Abandoning a friend for hookups is wrong, but so is manipulation.

LeFuzzyBunny | LeFuzzyBunny

Friendship dilemma: Hot girl summer or last minute plan change?

thymeraser | thymeraser

Don't let anyone shame you for wanting a 'Hot Girl Summer' 💃🏽🔥

pearlyribbon | pearlyribbon

Friend wants 'hot girl summer' but bailing on others is lame 😒

Minute-Limit-5249 | Minute-Limit-5249

ESH for slut shaming, but YTA for dropping friend suddenly. 😑

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Respectful ESH comment on differing vacation preferences and safety concerns.

kasseeday | kasseeday

Both sides have valid points, but slut-shaming is not okay. 🤔

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Friend's visit turned into a nightmare. NTA. No slut-shaming.

marty_spooks | marty_spooks

Best friends clash over 'hot girl summer' vacation plans. ESH.

hurricane_t0rti11a | hurricane_t0rti11a

Maintaining boundaries in friendships is important for healthy relationships 👍

angeleaniebeanie | angeleaniebeanie

Married commenter defends going on trip with single friends. NTA 👏

sparkydmb99 | sparkydmb99

Embrace your 'hot girl summer' and shut down slut shaming! 💁‍♀️

BeautifulWorking6 | BeautifulWorking6

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important. NTA 👏

th1rteenghosts3 | th1rteenghosts3

Friend didn't support 'girls night out' after breakup, ended friendship. 💔

mimik_128 | mimik_128

Celebrate your freedom and have a *hot girl summer*! 🎉

girlandagun | girlandagun

Vacation chaperone? NTA. Individual needs and interests matter. 🙌

nim_opet | nim_opet

Compromise is key for a successful vacation with friends! 🏝😊

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Vacation with a friend is to spend time together. ESH.

Sammy2202 | Sammy2202

Embrace your freedom and go on a hot girls summer! 💃🏼👯‍♀️

Intrigued_Alpaca_93 | Intrigued_Alpaca_93

Going on a girls vacation? Don't let unhealthy coping mechanisms follow. 😱

ogstepdad | ogstepdad

Supportive comment about healthy sexuality and solo travel.

Inactivism | Inactivism

Live your life, lose the negativity 🙌🏻

SepoJansen | SepoJansen

NTA wants a wild summer but friend expects constant company. 🌴

padam__padam | padam__padam

Don't sacrifice your mental health for a codependent friend. 💪

FirebirdWriter | FirebirdWriter

Don't let anyone shame you for wanting a 'hot girl summer' 💪🏻

Itsallonthewheel | Itsallonthewheel

Supportive comment calling out toxic friend's behavior. 🙅‍♀️

Lizzo13 | Lizzo13

Enjoy your freedom and be careful! NTA for wanting space 😊

ninasimonerules | ninasimonerules

Be a wing woman, not a hater! NTA 🙌🏼💃

S_R33d | S_R33d

Vacation conflict with a toxic friend. NTA. 🍷

StartedOffasAnOrgasm | StartedOffasAnOrgasm

Friend wants a 'hot girl summer', other shames her. NTA.

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

Escaping abuse is tough, but you're NTA for prioritizing yourself 👏

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