Sister's Outing Dilemma: Is She Being Unreasonable? 🤔

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We all know that family dynamics can be complicated, especially when it comes to balancing our own needs with those of our loved ones. In this story, a woman visits her sister to help her with her newborn baby and household chores. However, the sisters clash over their differing preferences for spending their free time. The visiting sister is exhausted and prefers to stay home, while the new mom craves company on her outings. So, who's in the right here? Let's dive into the story and find out! 😮

Sisterly Help with a Newborn 👶

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Outgoing vs. Exhausted 🏃‍♀️😴

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A Chore, Not Enjoyment 😖

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Park Proposal Rejected 🌳

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Depressed and Feeling Worse 😢

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No One Cares? 🚪

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Update: Letter Under the Door 📝

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Helping Out at Home 🏠

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Nighttime Baby Duties 🌙

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Daytime Assistance 🌞

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Doctor Appointments and Outings 🏥

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Sisterly Conflict: Who's Right? 🤷

This story highlights the delicate balance between helping family and maintaining our own well-being. The visiting sister is doing her best to help with the baby and household chores, but her exhaustion is taking a toll. Meanwhile, the new mom is feeling isolated and craves the company of her sibling on outings. Is it fair for the visiting sister to prioritize her own well-being, or should she put her sister's needs first? Let's see what the internet has to say about this situation... 💭

Setting boundaries with family. NTA for prioritizing responsibilities. 👍

Ihateyou1975 | Ihateyou1975

Offered to help but doing more than enough. NTA 👍

jrm1102 | jrm1102

NTA. Sister's ungratefulness towards your help with the baby. Dial back.

orion_nomad | orion_nomad

Sister offers help but draws a line. NTA 👍

zippy_zaboo | zippy_zaboo

Don't let her bring you down! 🙅‍♀️

295Phoenix | 295Phoenix

NAH. Sister needs social activity, OP needs alone time. Compromise needed. 🙏

alizarincrimson | alizarincrimson

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing up for yourself.

xiaomaome101 | xiaomaome101

Introverted commenter supports sister's outing dilemma. NTA. 🙌

WickedGreenthumb | WickedGreenthumb

Taking a one-month-old on a crowded metro during flu season? 🤔

ReasonedBeing | ReasonedBeing

A supportive NTA comment for overwhelmed sister with helpful suggestions. 🤗

Pharmacienne123 | Pharmacienne123

Reddit convinces sister's helper to leave over park disagreement 😂

Journeythot | Journeythot

Agreed to chores, not daily outings. NTA for setting boundaries. 👍

Alarming_Reply4394 | Alarming_Reply4394

Introverted sister stands up for herself, suggests leaving or talking

lilmsbalindabuffant | lilmsbalindabuffant

It's okay to set boundaries with loved ones. 👍

pacazpac | pacazpac

Helping vs. Nannying: Sister's Outing Dilemma 🤔

DeeVa72 | DeeVa72

Introverts need space to recharge, OP is NTA for setting boundaries. 🙌

sleepingfox307 | sleepingfox307

Sister doesn't need help? NTA, get some sleep! 😴

Select-Anxiety-1557 | Select-Anxiety-1557

Supportive comment defends sister's decision, calls out unappreciative behavior. NTA 👏

Kitiix | Kitiix

NTA: Commenter empathizes with OP's burnout and suggests taking a break. 🙌

Reb1991 | Reb1991

Sister's new mom status is causing loneliness. NAH suggests compromise. 💜

Calijewles | Calijewles

NTA for not wanting to go out, but delegate more tasks.

AmbientBeans | AmbientBeans

Sister's postpartum needs clash with sibling's social needs. NAH.

BreathOfLizard | BreathOfLizard

Helpful advice on setting boundaries in a family dynamic. 👍

Drambooty | Drambooty

Helping with baby and chores, not sister's entertainment. #NTA 👍

EnvironmentalSir8140 | EnvironmentalSir8140

Defending OP's actions, NTA is the popular vote. 👍

couchmonster2920 | couchmonster2920

Concerned commenter asks for more info on overwhelmed sister's situation 🤔

zombiifissh | zombiifissh

Setting boundaries is important, even when helping others. 🛑

NoseAccomplished3285 | NoseAccomplished3285

Helpful sibling feels unappreciated. Time to prioritize own needs. 😔

Life_Is_Good199 | Life_Is_Good199

NTA sister needs to head home and mom it up 😊

Demonslugg | Demonslugg

NTA! Sister ungrateful for help. Leave and let her cope. 😡

InflationMaterial | InflationMaterial

Introvert sister not the a**hole for setting boundaries 🙌

jeswalsurprise | jeswalsurprise

NTA: OP is a great sister and deserves appreciation 👏

Real_Cake_hmm | Real_Cake_hmm

NTA, but sister should consider seeking help for sensory issues 🤔

ErnestBatchelder | ErnestBatchelder

NTA! Commenter sympathizes with sister's outing dilemma and offers support 🙏

Material_Impact_5360 | Material_Impact_5360

User defends OP from entitled YTA comments, supports NTA verdict. 🙌

bigchirp67 | bigchirp67

New mom wants to avoid crowded places for baby. NTA.

squinkythebuddy | squinkythebuddy

Sister taking advantage of helpful OP. Commenters angry. NTA. 😡

SufficientButton1 | SufficientButton1

Supportive comment encourages patience and communication for exhausted sister.

allegragmk | allegragmk

NTA offers to be live-in nanny, sister still wants more 🤔

pinkwineenthusiast | pinkwineenthusiast

NTA commenter defends sister's decision not to go out with sibling.

Sinimeg | Sinimeg

Sister's entitlement leaves OP burnt out. NTA for setting boundaries. 💯

ambermamber | ambermamber

Setting boundaries with a new mom. NTA 👍

Ms-Ann-Thrope2020 | Ms-Ann-Thrope2020

Sister needs a break, but is she being unreasonable? 🤔

amusedmisanthrope | amusedmisanthrope

Sister's not the a**hole for not wanting to go out. 👏

Brain_of_Fog | Brain_of_Fog

Supportive comment defends sister's decision to stay in with baby 🤱

mariruizgar | mariruizgar

New mom's energy level surprises commenter, but NTA verdict given.

obtusewisdom | obtusewisdom

Clarifying the situation: Is sister alone with OP or not?

arsenicaqua | arsenicaqua

Putting yourself first is important. Don't let ungratefulness bring you down. 💪

FartFace319 | FartFace319

Sister complains despite help, NTA suggests letting her try alone. 👍

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Supportive comment encourages sister to stand her ground and clarify boundaries. ✊

Ambs1987 | Ambs1987

NTA. Sister should appreciate help and compromise on outings. 👏

definitely_zella | definitely_zella

Newborn's health is top priority, sister's outing is unreasonable. 👍

firefighter_chick | firefighter_chick

NTA. Commenter suggests setting clear expectations and occasional outings.

Danisue7 | Danisue7

Helpful advice for a new mom wanting to socialize without sister.

midwest_scrummy | midwest_scrummy

NTA. You're already doing a lot. Compromise on outings. 👍

MixFast | MixFast

Self-care first! NTA comment advises exhausted sister to go home 👍

countrybumpkin1969 | countrybumpkin1969

NTA stands up for herself after sister's entitled behavior 💪

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Beck and call gurl? NTA sister deserves some respect 😊

Noirjyre | Noirjyre

User suggests sister try parenting and calls out unpaid nanny. NTA.

ladytypeperson | ladytypeperson

Setting boundaries is important for mental health. NTA 🙌

Multi-fabulous120 | Multi-fabulous120

NTA suggests having a discussion about boundaries and mental health 👍

Nellrose0505 | Nellrose0505

Sister offers to stay home with baby, gets called NTA 👏

Broad_Respond_2205 | Broad_Respond_2205

NTA sets boundaries and suggests sister get help for depression. 🚡

Key-Parfait-6046 | Key-Parfait-6046

Is the sister overstaying her welcome? 🤔

DisneyBuckeye | DisneyBuckeye

Sister wants to go out with a one-month-old, NTA warns of risks. 👍

DigaLaVerdad | DigaLaVerdad

Sister doesn't want to leave baby, commenter says NTA.

nothisTrophyWife | nothisTrophyWife

Sister's unreasonable request for outing with baby. NTA wins.

darkstarr82 | darkstarr82

Self-care is important! NTA for prioritizing your mental health. 👍

Glittering-Toes | Glittering-Toes

Supportive comment, acknowledges sister's needs and boundaries. 👍

Competitive_Garage59 | Competitive_Garage59

Set boundaries and communicate clearly. NTA 👍

Economy-Rise2527 | Economy-Rise2527

Time to go home? NTA commenter offers advice to OP.

Negative_Cookie_9825 | Negative_Cookie_9825

Helpful advice for overwhelmed sister, time to go home. 👍

krakeninheels | krakeninheels

Encouraging comment to prioritize happiness and self-care 🙌

ugheffoff | ugheffoff

Supportive comment encourages communication and boundaries with sister. 👍

blackaradia | blackaradia

Encouraging comment reminds OP to prioritize self-care. 👍

rygdav | rygdav

Setting boundaries and saying no is important. NTA 💯

Sweet_Xocolatl | Sweet_Xocolatl

Sister wants to go out, but grumbles at helpful sibling. NTA.

GirlL1997 | GirlL1997

NTA. It's okay to say no and prioritize your mental health. 👍

K_minibeast | K_minibeast

Supportive reply to introverted new mom, NTA. 👏

Fit-Royal5339 | Fit-Royal5339

Taking a baby to crowded places during a pandemic: NTA's opinion 🤔

ragekage42069 | ragekage42069

One week of help enough for new mom? Debate ensues 🤔

Quick-Store2989 | Quick-Store2989

User sympathizes with sister's dilemma and suggests PPD evaluation. NTA.

RebelliousRecruiter | RebelliousRecruiter

Sister refuses to help when going out, NTA for declining.

IamNotTheMama | IamNotTheMama

Supportive comment validates OP's efforts and suggests compromise. 👍

Hello-there-7567 | Hello-there-7567

NTA sister is being unreasonable for expecting more from you 😑

ThanosWifeAkima-4848 | ThanosWifeAkima-4848

Introvert vs. extravert dilemma: NTA for setting boundaries 🙏

sanguine_sheep | sanguine_sheep

NTA sister is being unreasonable, take care of yourself 👍

New_Improvement9644 | New_Improvement9644

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