Cousin's GF Gets Banned from Family Dinners: Right or Wrong? 😲

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Family gatherings are meant to be a time for bonding and celebration, but sometimes they can turn into a battleground for conflicting opinions and behaviors. One woman found herself at the center of a family drama when her cousin's girlfriend began making rude and sexist comments towards her boyfriend. With tensions rising and the family taking sides, the situation escalated to the point where the girlfriend was banned from attending family dinners. But was this the right decision? Let's dive into the story and find out. 😮

A Happy Family Tradition 🥳

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The Dinner Arrangements 🍽️

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Who Pays for What? 💸

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Enter the Cousin's Girlfriend 😒

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Passive-Aggressive Comments 🙄

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Rudeness Escalates 😤

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Confrontation in the Bathroom 🚽

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Attempts to Resolve the Issue 🗣️

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Family Members Step In 🤔

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The Banhammer Falls ⚖️

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Cousin's Reaction: Fury and Accusations 😠

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The Cold Shoulder ❄️

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A Love for Family and Boyfriend ❤️

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The Fallout: Was the Ban Justified? 🤷

After enduring months of rude and sexist comments from her cousin's girlfriend, this woman found herself in the middle of a family conflict that led to the girlfriend being banned from family dinners. While she didn't set out to get the girlfriend banned, her family decided it was the best course of action. Now, her cousin is furious with her, accusing her of prioritizing her "dumb teen relationship" over his "adult relationship." Caught between her love for her boyfriend and her family, she's left to wonder if the ban was truly justified. Let's see what people have to say about this dramatic situation. 🍿

32-year-old cousin acting immature, NTA for expressing discomfort. 😒

jamieraye | jamieraye

Long-term teen relationship healthier than short adult one 👍

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Girlfriend banned from family dinners for being rude. NTA.

iced_coffee_or_two | iced_coffee_or_two

Family bans cousin's GF from dinners for bullying teenager. NTA.

Doctor-Liz | Doctor-Liz

Mature teens outdo 33 y/o woman in adult relationship 💪

allabouttheUke | allabouttheUke

Toxic GF banned from family dinners. NTA for cousin.

JackNotName | JackNotName

Handling rude behavior correctly, with a touch of pettiness 😏

KilD3vil | KilD3vil

Standing up to rude behavior, NTA wins family's approval. 💯

Stellaris_Maxxion | Stellaris_Maxxion

Support for OP's relationship and criticism of cousin's GF. 👏

Ahelpmeplzta | Ahelpmeplzta

Healthy independence in a relationship vs disrespecting family. 👍

MandaMaelstrom | MandaMaelstrom

Straightforward comment shuts down needless debate 😎

TheLawandOrder | TheLawandOrder

Family bans cousin's GF from dinners for making others uncomfortable. NTA.

anxiousginger11 | anxiousginger11

Confusing behavior: Cousin's GF sounds like a gold digger 🤔

Yestoertchen | Yestoertchen

Toxic GF gets banned from family dinners, cousin calls NTA 😒

veggiecuntt | veggiecuntt

NTA. Wise advice to distance from toxic people. 👍

classactdynamo | classactdynamo

Age doesn't excuse bad behavior at family dinners. NTA.

edirongo1 | edirongo1

Empowerment and popcorn: the perfect response to family drama 😏

Gaosnl | Gaosnl

NTA shuts down entitled cousin's gf who got banned from dinners 😲

nickis84 | nickis84

Cousin condones GF's bad behavior at family dinners. 🤬

VoltaicSketchyTeapot | VoltaicSketchyTeapot

Standing up for respect and consequences. NTA 💯

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Age doesn't define love, stay strong and stand your ground 😊

MissEL17 | MissEL17

NTA commenter defends privacy and accountability in relationships. 👏

Envy_Harr | Envy_Harr

Family has the right to choose who attends dinners. NTA 👍

RhubarbRocket | RhubarbRocket

NTA commenter defends cousin's decision to ban rude GF 😊

desert_elf | desert_elf

NTA! The cousin and his GF are huge TAs 😱

rpwilson20r | rpwilson20r

NTA stands up to age discrimination at family dinners 💪

MystikxHaze | MystikxHaze

NTA. Family dinners are for family, not drama. 👏

koalamonster515 | koalamonster515

Setting boundaries is not being an a**hole. 👍

IdlesAtCranky | IdlesAtCranky

NTA defends banning cousin's GF from family dinners with eloquence.

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NTA for calling out rudeness and enforcing boundaries 👍

swordsfishes | swordsfishes

Teenagers have the "adult relationship"; 30-somethings causing drama 🤪

DrDerpberg | DrDerpberg

Being mature in a relationship is important 🙌

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NTA commenter calls out cousin's controlling and rude girlfriend 😏

GeorgiaSpellman | GeorgiaSpellman

Setting boundaries for adult relationships. NTA prioritizes comfort and happiness 😊

CosmicallyKayla | CosmicallyKayla

Cousin's GF and cousin were asked to stop childish behavior 😒

Bunnawhat13 | Bunnawhat13

Don't take the blame for someone else's bad behavior! 👍

dreadedwheat | dreadedwheat

NTA comment suggests boyfriend should call out girlfriend's toxic behavior.

ouelletouellet | ouelletouellet

Family bans cousin's GF, commenter says NTA. 👍

JaneDove101 | JaneDove101

Temporary ban on cousin's GF until she apologizes. NTA.

poopmeister1994 | poopmeister1994

NTA comment: Cousin's poor choice in relationships is appalling 😱

thicklover | thicklover

Cousin acting like a teen, NTA for banning GF 😊

slashcraft11 | slashcraft11

NTA commenter calls out immaturity and control issues 👏

Otakursed676 | Otakursed676

Family bans cousin's GF from dinners, commenter supports decision

revenge_for_greedo | revenge_for_greedo

NTA calls out hypocrisy in prioritizing 'adult' relationships 🙌

JohnByDay1 | JohnByDay1

Bold commenter admires outspokenness in banned GF situation 🤩

JacobKurtz01 | JacobKurtz01

Toxic GF bullies 19-year-old and expects man to pay. NTA.

mej1675 | mej1675

GF entitlement causing family dinner ban, commenter sees immaturity.

LuckyFoxPL | LuckyFoxPL

OP handled it maturely, cousin and GF need to grow up. 👏 NTA

AggiesMommy | AggiesMommy

NTA commenter defends cousin's GF and criticizes family's behavior.

mstrss9 | mstrss9

Family bans cousin's GF for bullying OP at dinners 😠

Exact_Lab | Exact_Lab

Mature couple splits bills, cousin's GF banned from dinners. NTA.

Enrichmentx | Enrichmentx

NTA calls out cousin's girlfriend, no replies. 👏

Reading4LifeForever | Reading4LifeForever

NTA comment explains why cousin's GF is banned from family dinners 😍

NoPantsEnthousiast | NoPantsEnthousiast

ESH: Commenter suggests speaking directly to GF instead of gossiping.

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GF banned from family dinners for bad behavior. NTA.

Goldster81 | Goldster81

Curious about the remarks that got her banned? 🤔

Lochcelious | Lochcelious

33 year old banned from family dinners for rude behavior 👎

distorted_realities | distorted_realities

NTA comment calls out cousin's hypocrisy in a spicy way 🤪

semperviivum | semperviivum

Mature teen relationship vs immature adult relationship 😎

ajunjuly | ajunjuly

NTA. Cousin's GF is bullying teenage boyfriend. Others intervened, no apology.

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Explaining why the cousin's behavior isn't sexist 💁‍♀️

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NTA stands up to childish behavior, offers reasonable solution. 💪

renee2204 | renee2204

Standing up against bullying: NTA and family wins 💪

CloureedArt | CloureedArt

Feminist argues GF is sexist for expecting men to pay 💰

skurtdidyaheard | skurtdidyaheard

Setting boundaries with family member's rude girlfriend. NTA wins.

GloriousDP | GloriousDP

Family member defends banning cousin's unpleasant girlfriend from dinners. 😍

avast2006 | avast2006

Setting boundaries. NTA saves cousin from future toxic marriage. 👏

Cleonce12 | Cleonce12

33 y/o banned from family dinners for being rude af 😱

giheeredfox | giheeredfox

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