😱 Sleep Disorder or Just Lazy? Mom Calls Out Partner for Morning Struggles 💤

Diply Social Team
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Imagine spending 11 years waking up your partner every single morning, only for things to get worse after having three kids. One exhausted mom is at her wit's end, dealing with her partner's inability to wake up in the morning. With a newborn in the mix, she's starting to question if this is just laziness or if there's an underlying issue. Let's dive into her story and see if she's justified in calling him out. 😴👶

11 Years and Counting

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The Struggle is Real

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Sleep Schedule Woes

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No Rest for the Weary

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Morning Miscommunication

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Nursing Troubles

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Confronting the Issue

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Offended and Defensive

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The Aftermath

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Tears and Frustration

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Is She Right or Just Tired? 😩

After 11 years of struggling to wake up her partner, this mom is beyond frustrated. With three kids, including a newborn, she's questioning whether her partner's inability to wake up is due to laziness or an actual sleep disorder. When she finally confronts him about it, he's offended and defensive. Now, she's left wondering if she was out of line for suggesting he has a disorder or if she should just accept the situation as it is. Let's see what the internet has to say about this sleep-deprived dilemma... 🤔💭

Partner's morning struggles: NTA suggests treating him like an adult 🙌

Propofol_Totalis | Propofol_Totalis

Partner's laziness and unfair expectations causing strain on relationship. NTA.

iwanttoquitposting | iwanttoquitposting

No excuses for relying on someone else to wake you up 🙅


Partner needs to take responsibility for waking up on time. NTA 👍

Suitable-Cod-1381 | Suitable-Cod-1381

Encouraging comment suggests seeking medical advice for partner's sleep issues.

hello_friendss | hello_friendss

Partner's morning struggles pose a safety risk. NTA's concern valid 😱

Boliele | Boliele

Heavy sleeper? Heavy responsibility. NTA suggests solutions. 💪

K-no-B | K-no-B

Let him deal with the consequences 😎

waxillium_ladrian | waxillium_ladrian

Partner's morning struggles cause unpleasantness. Suggest video evidence and support.

hisowlhasagun | hisowlhasagun

Separate bedrooms may solve morning struggles with lazy partner. 😴

Salty_Hedgehog5874 | Salty_Hedgehog5874

Urgent advice to see a doctor for possible sleep apnea.

chickauvin | chickauvin

NTA. Encourage him to seek medical help for sleep apnea.

PepperPhoenix | PepperPhoenix

Partner's morning struggles affect mom's health. NTA suggests solution. 👍

breathemusic14 | breathemusic14

ESH. Address the issue earlier. Husband needs a sleep study. 🚨

[deleted] | [deleted]

Understanding the struggles of a partner with sleep disorder.

That_Bet7416 | That_Bet7416

Waking up a difficult partner is a nightmare 😱

OhShiny_ | OhShiny_

Partner's morning struggles: NTA suggests refusing to wake him up 🙏

RaceyRee3 | RaceyRee3

Partner's morning struggles make OP feel like a mom of 4 🙄

Bigtoes2 | Bigtoes2

Partner's morning struggles causing frustration, advice on filming methods 🎥

DinaFelice | DinaFelice

Partner's sleep disorder causing morning struggles, needs medical attention ASAP 🚨

BlueBumbleb33 | BlueBumbleb33

Stop enabling him. Let him wake up late. NTA 👍

Zarahemnah | Zarahemnah

Partner's morning struggles enabled by coddling behavior for 11 years 😴

[deleted] | [deleted]

Being a SAHM is a full-time job, partner needs to change ⏰💤

janewithaplane | janewithaplane

Partner's morning struggles: NTA suggests leaving him to wake up alone 😂

missteacher2 | missteacher2

A helpful comment correcting a parent's enabling behavior. 👍

Striking_Description | Striking_Description

NAH, let him sleep and suggest a sleep clinic. 😴

scarletteapot | scarletteapot

Don't be his mother. Have a calm discussion instead. 👍

meagancavell | meagancavell

Partner's morning laziness disrupts child's sleep. Commenter calls out behavior.

Puzzled_Juice_3406 | Puzzled_Juice_3406

Partner's morning struggles cause ESH situation, buy sonic boom alarm.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Partner may have sleep apnea, needs medical help ASAP. 💤

[deleted] | [deleted]

Concerned partner suggests letter to address bf's morning struggles.

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

Lazy husband needs to step up and help with kids. NTA 👍

MerryE | MerryE

Encouraging response suggests medical help for partner's sleep issues. 👍

AttemptedAdult | AttemptedAdult

Suggests partner may have underlying mineral deficiency causing morning struggles.

N7twitch | N7twitch

Sleep apnea may be the cause of morning struggles. Understanding is key.

atleasticanthink | atleasticanthink

Narcolepsy or sleep apnea? Urgent sleep study needed. NTA.

OnyxRaven13 | OnyxRaven13

Both parties need to communicate calmly and maturely about issue. 👍

InnerChildGoneWild | InnerChildGoneWild

Mom suggests Super Soaker to wake up lazy partner. NTA.

Decent_Bandicoot122 | Decent_Bandicoot122

Validating concerns and suggesting solutions for partner's morning struggles. 🚩

mkat23 | mkat23

Partner's morning struggles: Sleep disorder or laziness? NTA suggests help.

stefaelia | stefaelia

Partner should take responsibility for waking up, but inappropriate behavior.

CiaMcWhatever | CiaMcWhatever

Partner accused of cheating due to morning fatigue 🤷🏼

olivebuttercup | olivebuttercup

Could it be a heart condition causing morning struggles? 🤔

Friday-Cat | Friday-Cat

User suggests partner may have sleep disorder, OP NTA.

SeePerspectives | SeePerspectives

NTA needs a break from partner's morning struggles 😫

CampaignDangerous632 | CampaignDangerous632

Partner's morning struggles - NTA suggests sleep disorder or laziness.

MM-dot-AU | MM-dot-AU

Partner struggles with morning wake-up, may have sleep disorder.

ChapelGr3y | ChapelGr3y

Partner's morning struggles causing frustration, offer help and support. 👍

pixp85 | pixp85

Suggests recording partner's wake up attempts to prove laziness. 📹

Ruckus_Riot | Ruckus_Riot

Sleep apnea is tough, but tough love is necessary. NTA.

Professional_Math_87 | Professional_Math_87

NTA. Tough love may be necessary for BF's wake-up call 💤

ITSlave4Decades | ITSlave4Decades

Parenting is a tough job, don't let anyone convince you otherwise 😓

ginsengtea3 | ginsengtea3

Don't blame yourself. He's an adult and it's his responsibility. 👍

colo28 | colo28

Don't jump to conclusions, do some research together for solutions 💻

calaakla | calaakla

Partner's morning struggles causing issues at work, NTA for waking him.

NerakYak | NerakYak

Partner needs to take responsibility for waking up, NTA.

puppiesrunamok | puppiesrunamok

Partner's sleep disorder causing morning struggles, NTA for frustration.

MikkiTh | MikkiTh

Mom stands her ground and suggests an alarm clock solution ⏰

Dallaswolf21 | Dallaswolf21

User suggests a solution for partner's morning struggles. 🌅

crystallz2000 | crystallz2000

Dumping ice on partner to wake up, treated like frat bro. 😂

Nancy2421 | Nancy2421

Amazon has solutions for heavy sleepers 😴💤 NTA.

Which-Month-3907 | Which-Month-3907

Partner's morning struggles: NTA suggests oversleeping experiment and separation.

Lizlizerd | Lizlizerd

Partner is a heavy sleeper but wakes up easily. NTA.

immadriftersbody | immadriftersbody

Suggests recording attempts to wake partner up to show later. NTA.

young_coastie | young_coastie

Sleep disorder doesn't excuse childish behavior. NTA.

biiiiigsuuuuuuuuc | biiiiigsuuuuuuuuc

Struggling to wake up? You're not alone. NTA.

Ssnnooz | Ssnnooz

Taking care of home & kids is tough. NTA, need help. 👏

ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586

Wake up call options: let him suffer or air horn?

Pale_Pumpkin_7073 | Pale_Pumpkin_7073

Partner's morning struggles causing stress for mom, suggestions given. NTA.

GhostEchoSix | GhostEchoSix

Partner's morning struggles causing tension, advice for communication and solutions. 👍

Ride5000 | Ride5000

Partner's morning struggles are not OP's responsibility. NTA.

Hot-Tie8062 | Hot-Tie8062

Partner's morning behavior may lead to relationship issues. Suggest sleep study.

AdMaleficent4473 | AdMaleficent4473

NTA for being angry - frustrating to live with heavy sleeper. 😑

Old-Elderberry-9946 | Old-Elderberry-9946

Partner's morning struggles may require sleep study and communication.

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Partner's morning struggles due to ADD, NTA suggests coping mechanisms. 👍

dwegol | dwegol

Partner's morning struggles: NTA suggests doctor's visit for solution. 🙏

Horror-Cranberry4456 | Horror-Cranberry4456

Partner may have sleep disorder, suggest home sleep study 🛌

ArcheryOnThursday | ArcheryOnThursday

Partner's morning struggles pose safety risk, seek help ASAP. 🚨

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Let him adult or lose his job 🤷‍♀️

Cute_Yogurtcloset_72 | Cute_Yogurtcloset_72

Struggling with morning wake-up? Seek support groups for advice 🙏

bellyscritches | bellyscritches

NTA. Don't let your partner's morning struggles ruin your day. 🙌

axa645 | axa645

Partner's morning struggles: NTA says he should see a professional.

WednesdayBryan | WednesdayBryan

Stop enabling him. He's a grown adult. 👍

trazism | trazism

Partner's morning struggles: NTA suggests tough love for adulting.

HappyElephant82 | HappyElephant82

Tips for better sleep hygiene and consistent wake-up times. NTA.

hilfnafl | hilfnafl

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