Picture this: a 16-year-old girl, who lost her mother eight years ago, is now facing a bizarre request from her dad’s fiancée. The bride-to-be asks the teen to dye her hair or wear a wig for their wedding, just because she looks like her late mother. The girl, understandably, refuses. But little did she know, this would lead to a whirlwind of wedding troubles and family drama. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster and find out what happened…
A Mother’s Legacy

Dad’s New Love

Wedding Plans and Disagreements

Not My Mother, Not My Problem

Babysitting Duties and a Small Speech

Shopping Trip and a Beautiful Dress

A Touching Moment

The Bizarre Request

Standing Her Ground

Dad to the Rescue ️

Wedding on Pause ⏸️

Feeling Guilty

Wedding Troubles: Who’s to Blame?
So, here we have a 16-year-old girl who lost her mother and now faces a strange request from her dad’s fiancée. The bride-to-be asks her to dye her hair or wear a wig for their wedding, just because she looks like her late mother. The girl refuses, and the situation escalates, leading to a pause in the wedding plans and a family feud. The bride’s family blames the girl for not compromising, while she feels guilty but also mistreated by her future stepmother. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA shuts down bride’s petty request. Savage but necessary

Bridezilla’s insecurities caused wedding troubles, NTA handled it well

Father knows best: Dad was right to talk to daughter first

Teen stands up to bride’s bizarre request, earns NTA judgement.

Friend defends second wife’s love for stepchildren with portrait anecdote.
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Empathetic comment encourages self-growth and healthy relationships
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Supportive comment, encouraging girl to keep her natural hair color

Protecting dad from a bridezilla’s bizarre request

Standing up to a bridezilla’s cruel request. NTA wins.

Stepmom-to-be’s jealousy is not your problem. NTA

NTA for refusing bride’s request to change appearance for wedding.

Bridezilla demands groom’s daughter dye her hair for wedding

Stepmom jealous of deceased mom, NTA and dad dodged bullet

Father’s fiancee is a nightmare, NTA for refusing her request

NTA. Standing up for yourself and having an honest conversation

Wedding culture sucks, NTA for refusing bride’s bizarre request

Standing up for oneself against a disrespectful future stepmom

Bridezilla demands bridesmaid change hair to not look like mother. NTA.

Teen stands up to bride’s wrong request, dad sees truth

Don’t mess with a person’s natural hair color, bridezilla

NTA stands up to manipulative stepmom and her deranged family

Bridezilla’s true character exposed by teen’s refusal

Supportive comment defends teen against bridezilla stepmom-to-be.

Girlfriend’s insecurity causes trouble in wedding planning. NTA.

NTA. Supportive dad and a bridezilla on the loose

Stepmomzilla thinks deceased mom’s lookalike daughter is alarming

Refusing to dye hair for wedding causes trouble, but not main issue

Supportive comment to teen facing bride’s jealousy

Stepmom-to-be’s petty request denied, NTA for honoring mom

Teen refuses bride’s request to dye hair for wedding, not the a**hole

Don’t dye your goatee, it’s a gift of remembrance

Bride’s insensitive request makes her definitely NTA. Family blames teen.

NTA defends teen who refused bride’s bizarre hair request

Stand your ground and talk to your dad about red flags

Bridezilla’s unreasonable request causes wedding troubles. OP is NTA.

Bridezilla demands hair change, teen refuses. NTA wins.
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Teen stands up to controlling bridezilla, dad supports her.

NTA. Commenter calls out bride’s insecurity and Disney obsession.

Bridezilla demands hair change, but commenter says NTA.

NTA for refusing bizarre wedding request, dad’s fiancé exposed

NTA. Embrace your natural beauty and rock that ginger hair

NTA stands up to evil step-mother-to-be.

Step parents need to respect boundaries

Standing up for yourself is not unreasonable

NTA calls out bride’s bizarre request for basic human decency

Competing with a dead woman? NTA stands their ground.

Empowering response to bride’s bizarre request, supportive dad.

Fiancé’s audacity exposed, better now than after marriage

NTA. Dad’s fiancée’s request is insane and erases your identity

NTA: Don’t feel guilty for pausing their wedding. Share your feelings.

Fiancée’s jealousy of OP’s mom causes wedding troubles. NTA.

Supportive comment against bride’s bizarre request.

Man saves dad from jealous bride’s bizarre request. NTA.

Bridezilla alert! Teen refuses to dye hair for wedding.

Supportive comment to a grieving teen, encouraging self-respect

Teen refuses bride’s absurd request, not at fault. NTA

Supportive comment warns of potential narcissistic stepmom behavior.

Red flags about dad’s fiancée, OP should talk to him

Teen saves dad from bullet by refusing bride’s bizarre request

Dad defends daughter against bride’s unreasonable request

Supportive comments for teen who refused bizarre wedding request

NTA warns of potential future problems with bride’s bizarre request

Bridezilla demands hair dye, internet calls her out

Empathetic comment supports teen’s decision to honor late mother

Daughter refuses bride’s request, internet agrees with NTA verdict

NTA stands up against bride’s insecure and bizarre request

Redhead teen refuses bride’s hair dye request, NTA.

Protecting memories from toxic family members
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Stepmom-to-be’s insecurity threatens OP’s late mom’s memory. NTA.

NTA! Don’t compromise on insane requests. Her fault, not yours.

Bridezilla’s outrageous request causes wedding troubles, commenter is NTA.
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Accept the family or find someone else

Teen stands up to bridezilla’s shallow request, refuses to change.
