Groom-to-Be Threatens to Disinvite Parents from Wedding Over Racist Comments 😲

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Imagine planning your dream wedding, only to have your parents' cultural ignorance threaten to ruin the big day. That's the situation one groom-to-be found himself in when his parents made a series of racist comments about his South Asian fiancée and her family. Despite having been together for 10 years, the couple's cultural differences have caused tension between their families, leading to an explosive confrontation. Let's dive into the story and find out what happened. 🎭💥

A Beautiful Indian Princess 🌺

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Small Things Add Up 📈

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Insensitive Jokes 😟

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Pregnancy Comments 🤰

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Meeting the Parents ✈️

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Dinner Disaster 🍽️

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Cremation Fire Question 😳

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Bomb Jokes 💣

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Fiancée's Embarrassment 😞

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Brushed Off 🙄

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Parents' Defense 🛡️

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Class Differences 🎩

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Angry Ultimatum 😡

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Tears and Awkwardness 😢

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Cultural Clashes and Wedding Woes 💔

The groom-to-be finally reached his breaking point when his parents made insensitive and racist comments during a dinner with his fiancée's family. Despite his fiancée's reluctance to confront the issue, he took a stand and threatened to disinvite his parents from their wedding. This led to tears, awkwardness, and a whole lot of unresolved tension. Will they be able to find a resolution before the big day? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🥺🎭

Fiancé's parents not at fault, groom should have intervened earlier 🤷‍♂️

grilledjalapenos | grilledjalapenos

Redditor calls out groom-to-be for insincere threat to disinvite parents 😒

craftyboxing | craftyboxing

Red flag alert! 🚩 YTA for not standing up to racism.

silversky6 | silversky6

Fiancé defends parents' racist comments, OP must confront and atone. YTA.

Jyqm | Jyqm

"AITA for allowing my parents to say racist things?" YTA confirmed 😑

Nova_Lurker | Nova_Lurker

Harsh but true. Condoning racism is unacceptable. #NTA

DannyBigD | DannyBigD

Confronting parents about racism can be difficult. Is this real?

Aethermist88 | Aethermist88

Intense criticism of groom-to-be's racist parents' disinvitation.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Partner deserves better, YTA for tolerating racist family and avoiding confrontation 🤯

anarae | anarae

OP is the a**hole for not addressing parents' racism sooner 🤬

Vicsyy | Vicsyy

Standing up against racism at your own wedding? NTA, obviously. 💯

MidwestCPA91 | MidwestCPA91

Stand up to your racist parents and show your love 💖

SheriffWyattDerp | SheriffWyattDerp

User calls out groom-to-be for not stopping racist comments 🤦‍♂️

karskipellis | karskipellis

Silence on racist comments for 10 years makes YTA. Be more active! 🤬

milomochi | milomochi

A WoC's response to a white British man's racist parents 🔥

Kamala_Metamorph | Kamala_Metamorph

User calls out groom-to-be for minimizing his parents' racism. 🤨

LeileiBG | LeileiBG

Redditor calls out groom-to-be for not standing up against racism.

Icutmall | Icutmall

User judges OP as ESH for not defending fiancée from racist parents.

dcm510 | dcm510

Skeptical comment calls out inconsistencies in wedding story 😐

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA for disinviting racist parents, but YTA for everything else 😬

devilbabycryman97 | devilbabycryman97

A commenter advises the groom-to-be to set ground rules for his parents' behavior and protect his fiancé from their racism. 💪

-Nicky- | -Nicky-

Fiancé's partner is an ESH for allowing racist abuse by parents.

7thatsanope | 7thatsanope

YTA for not defending your fiance. Don't invite racists 🚫👨‍👩‍👦‍👦

lauv2308 | lauv2308

Fiancé's inaction for 10 years - YTA for enabling racism 😠

TsitikEm | TsitikEm

No holding back! Commenter calls out groom-to-be for not standing up to his racist parents. 😲

Anewstageinlife | Anewstageinlife

Fiancée's parents are racist, YTA for not speaking up earlier 😒

pkkmm | pkkmm

Racist parents, a complacent groom-to-be, and a fed-up fiancee. ESH.

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Fiancée deserves better than a partner who won't defend her. 🤯

mistoffoleess | mistoffoleess

Addressing racism is crucial, but disinviting parents is extreme 🤷‍♂️

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Push back on ignorant parents and hold them accountable 💪

Observer521 | Observer521

Redditor calls out OP's racist behavior and lack of action. 🤯

emccm | emccm

Airhorn solution to racist parents. YTA for enabling them.

deadlyhausfrau | deadlyhausfrau

Indian woman calls out groom's empty threat against racist parents. 💔

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A scathing comment on a groom-to-be tolerating racism 🔥

sarahlampi | sarahlampi

Strong condemnation of racist behavior and language. 💪

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Silence can be complicity, apologize and take action to stop racism 👏

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Fiancé's partner should have stood up to parents' racist comments. YTA.

Medievalmoomin | Medievalmoomin

Setting boundaries against racism. NTA takes a stand.

EdutechLugie | EdutechLugie

ESH except fiancé and family. Parents are racist & groom enabled.

photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach

YTA for not standing up to your racist parents sooner 🔥

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Doubts raised on OP's story, possible cultural ignorance. YTA.

kris9a | kris9a

NTA for uninviting racist parents, but OP should have set boundaries. Yikes 😲

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Redditor calls out groom-to-be for not shutting down parents' racism.

kieraydar | kieraydar

User calls out OP for not defending fiance against racist parents 🔥

BeTheCheeto | BeTheCheeto

A commenter points out the groom's responsibility in handling racism.

gotalowiq | gotalowiq

Southern ex's family made racist jokes. OP needs to address parents' snobbery.

sweetliasugar | sweetliasugar

Mixed feelings on OP's actions, with a spicy insult thrown in 🤬

janocare | janocare

User calls out groom-to-be for racist behavior towards fiancé. 😱

lisaccat | lisaccat

Furious comment calls out groom-to-be for tolerating racist family. YTA.

HopelessVetTech | HopelessVetTech

NTA. The groom's parents are racist and don't deserve an invite 😒

Beautiful-Lab3047 | Beautiful-Lab3047

User calls out groom-to-be for not addressing racist parents sooner.

Common_Indication773 | Common_Indication773

Addressing racism is crucial, don't wait a decade to act. 🚨

lemetellyousomething | lemetellyousomething

User calls out groom-to-be for allowing racist comments. 🔥

HoodooDiva | HoodooDiva

Racist 'jokes' are not acceptable. Protect your family from toxicity. 🚨

dmetzcher | dmetzcher

Stand up to racism and protect your partner and future family. ✊

DryDependent167 | DryDependent167

OP called out for being a 'crap fiance' over racist parents 🤨

lokihen | lokihen

Standing up to racist behavior after 10 years, NTA. 👏

Practical-Friend3576 | Practical-Friend3576

Calling out small jokes as racism and defending partner. NTA

Crazy_Roof5427 | Crazy_Roof5427

Fiancé's partner and parents are racist, everyone sucks here. 😑

chipotleloife | chipotleloife

Overt racism is not small things! ESH except fiance's family 😲

rcburner | rcburner

OP's failure to confront racism towards fiancee puts wedding in jeopardy 😬

DillyCat622 | DillyCat622

User calls out OP for not addressing racist comments sooner 🤔

Late_Engineering9973 | Late_Engineering9973

OP is called out for allowing racist abuse towards fiancée. YTA 😲

SaturniinaeActias | SaturniinaeActias

Partner deserves better than you excusing racism as 'racism lite' 😡

ceilidh1990 | ceilidh1990

User expresses shock and disgust towards groom's inaction, calls him YTA.

delicate-butterfly | delicate-butterfly

A scathing comment calling out racism and urging the fiance to leave.

adeelf | adeelf

Groom-to-be called out for allowing parents' racist behavior towards fiancee 😒

miata90na | miata90na

Spouse of Indian descent calls out racism, deems YTA for inaction 🔥

eye_snap | eye_snap

User calls out groom-to-be for not standing up to racist parents. 🤯

One-Mango-6820 | One-Mango-6820

Encouraging self-reflection on bias and prejudice. 🤔

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Supportive comment acknowledges hurtful impact of polite racism, offers hope.

cherryislandlife | cherryislandlife

Fiancé's partner is TA for not standing up to racist parents 😠

Haunting_Cherry7505 | Haunting_Cherry7505

Enabling racists for 10 years? ESH except the exposed 🤯

B0r0B1rd | B0r0B1rd

Calling out racism and ignorance with a 🙄

InconvenientHoe | InconvenientHoe

Confronting racist parents after 10 years, not TA but ESH. 🤔

sashaopinion | sashaopinion

Fiancé threatens to disinvite racist parents from wedding. Commenter calls out hypocrisy. YTA.

LingonberryPrior6896 | LingonberryPrior6896

Fiance tolerates racist comments, groom threatens to disinvite parents 🤯

quarantinefifteen | quarantinefifteen

Responsibility to educate parents on racism falls on children.

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

Don't wait to shut down racism in the family. YTA.

Dimitar_Todarchev | Dimitar_Todarchev

Significant other's parents made racist comments, YTA for tolerating it.

reginalestrange | reginalestrange

Confronting racist parents isn't your partner's job. It's yours. 😠

IsDeargAnRos | IsDeargAnRos

A comment calling out ignorance on cultural traditions. 🙄

psychme89 | psychme89

Groom-to-be called out for not speaking up against parents' racism 😲

Pretty_Princess90210 | Pretty_Princess90210

Parents have fetishized fiancée, behaved rudely to POC. ESH except fiancée.

HerGirlFriday | HerGirlFriday

Calling out overt racism 👊

G_Art33 | G_Art33

Harsh criticism for the groom-to-be over racist comments.

KittyKatze3 | KittyKatze3

User calls out OP for downplaying racist comments, advises to leave. 😱

swim_and_sleep | swim_and_sleep

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