Best Friend’s Husband Flirts, But Who’s to Blame?

Imagine being best friends with someone for years, only to have their spouse make a pass at you. That’s exactly what happened to a 31-year-old woman who found herself in a sticky situation when her best friend’s husband sent her flirty messages. What’s even more shocking is the reaction of her best friend when she found out. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story.

Years of Friendship

The ‘Off’ Husband

Social Media Connections

The Flirty Messages

Confronting the Husband

Backtracking and Begging

Saving the Evidence

Breaking the News

Unexpected Reaction

Blaming the Messenger

Defending Herself ️

A Warning ⚠️

Angry Departure

Unanswered Messages

Hoping for the Best

The Blame Game: A Tale of Betrayal and Misplaced Anger

In a shocking turn of events, a woman’s best friend blamed her for her husband’s flirtatious messages. Despite presenting the evidence and expressing her concern, the woman was met with anger and accusations of leading him on. Now, with their friendship on the line, she’s left wondering if she did the right thing by telling her best friend about her husband’s actions. Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this complicated situation…

Supportive comment, hope for reconciliation, give space and move on.

Blamed for husband’s flirtation, NTA receives cold shoulder

Encouraging support for telling the truth and respecting boundaries.

Friend’s husband flirts, commenter supports OP, hopes for friend’s realization

Supportive comment offers hope for friend’s realization.

Standing up for the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable.

NTA. Tough situation, but you did the right thing

Supportive comment encourages friend to come to her own senses

Denial is a powerful thing . People blame the messenger, not the sleaze bag.

Speaking up about friend’s husband’s flirting leads to blame game

Friendship in jeopardy as husband’s behavior is denied.

Friend chose husband over best friend. Red flag on husband.

Friendship fallout after confronting friend’s cheating husband. NTA.

Supportive comment helps friend navigate husband’s flirting

Speaking up can have consequences, even when you’re NTA

NTA. Friend’s hurtful reaction not about you. Hope for reconciliation.

Revealing infidelity to a friend is tough but necessary

NTA did the right thing, friend in denial, AH husband.

Calling out a friend’s creepy husband. NTA stands strong

Supporting a friend through a tough truth

Defending against unfair accusations.

Being honest with your friend was the right thing to do

NTA for telling truth, friend may regret not listening later ‍♀️

Toxic friend blames OP for her husband’s behavior. NTA.

Revealing infidelity to a friend can have consequences. ‍♀️

NTA, but friend may block you. She’ll realize eventually.

Wife’s Krav Maga skills save friend from cheating husband.

Best friend’s husband hits on friend, she’s not to blame

Supportive comment, suggests pulling back from friendship with cheater’s wife.

Friend’s husband flirts, but OP not to blame. NTA

Friend excuses husband’s behavior, blames women for his lack of control

Offer support to friend despite anger over cheating husband.

Friend shares story of NTA situation with bad outcome

User blames men for ruining friendships, calls out toxic behavior.

Helping a friend in need can come at a cost

Being the messenger can be messy ‍♀️

Women often face this, NTA but friendship may have ended

Defending against blame-shifting, offer support and evidence if necessary.

Friend defends creepy husband, blames NTA best friend.

Blaming the woman hit on is wrong. Partner is the cheater.

Supportive reply to friend’s situation with engaging hope

Brutal honesty ends friendship, blame game begins. NTA.

Supportive comment with no replies. Friend is blaming wrong person.

Good friend recognizes husband’s behavior, advises patience for realization.

Speaking the truth can be risky, but it’s the right thing.

Supportive comment advises giving friend space and honesty with husband.

NTA did the right thing, friend may be in denial

NTA supports friend who discovers husband’s infidelity.

Friend in denial, commenter advises to step back. NTA

Supportive advice to tell friend about husband’s flirting.

Friend’s husband cheats, friend gets mad at messenger. NTA.

Losing friends over calling out bad behavior? ‍♀️

NTA. You did the right thing. Prepare for losing friend.

Friend’s husband flirts, but NTA for telling her.

Supportive response to friend’s defensive reaction to husband’s flirting.

Trust your gut feeling and give your friend space

Supportive comment, NTA verdict. Good job standing up for yourself!

Blaming women for husband’s behavior? Not cool. #NTA

Believe your friends, not their a**hole partners.

Blaming OP for husband’s behavior? Not cool.

Friend blames OP for husband’s actions, ends friendship. ‍♀️

Friend blames messenger for husband’s flirting. NTA, block and move on.

Denial won’t change the truth. Shut it down with honesty

Patients agree: spill the beans on cheating friend’s husband. NTA

Don’t enable toxic masculinity. Keep the door open for growth.

Standing up against harassment is always the right thing to do

Friend accused of lying by bestie, lost friendship. NTA

Supportive comment advises to leave the situation and friend be

NTA. Blaming women for partner’s infidelity is wrong and unfair. Find better friends.

Friend can’t handle truth about her flirtatious husband. NTA.

Interfering in friends’ relationships is not recommended. Listen and support instead.

Woman not to blame for friend’s husband’s flirting. NTA

Speaking up about friend’s husband’s infidelity can be tricky.

Choosing to believe in a good man despite evidence. NTA

Standing up for yourself and telling the truth is always right

Blamed for assault by aunt after 5 years, NTA.