Best Friend's Husband Flirts, But Who's to Blame? 😲

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Imagine being best friends with someone for years, only to have their spouse make a pass at you. That's exactly what happened to a 31-year-old woman who found herself in a sticky situation when her best friend's husband sent her flirty messages. What's even more shocking is the reaction of her best friend when she found out. 😨 Let's dive into this drama-filled story.

Years of Friendship 🤝

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The 'Off' Husband 😒

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Social Media Connections 📱

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The Flirty Messages 😳

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Confronting the Husband 😠

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Backtracking and Begging 🙄

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Saving the Evidence 📸

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Breaking the News 💔

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Unexpected Reaction 😮

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Blaming the Messenger 😞

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Defending Herself 🗣️

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A Warning ⚠️

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Angry Departure 😡

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Unanswered Messages 📨

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Hoping for the Best 🙏

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The Blame Game: A Tale of Betrayal and Misplaced Anger 😢

In a shocking turn of events, a woman's best friend blamed her for her husband's flirtatious messages. Despite presenting the evidence and expressing her concern, the woman was met with anger and accusations of leading him on. Now, with their friendship on the line, she's left wondering if she did the right thing by telling her best friend about her husband's actions. Let's see how the internet weighs in on this complicated situation... 💬

Supportive comment, hope for reconciliation, give space and move on.

MouthwashAndBandaids | MouthwashAndBandaids

Blamed for husband's flirtation, NTA receives cold shoulder 😢

ResponsibilityNo3245 | ResponsibilityNo3245

Encouraging support for telling the truth and respecting boundaries. 👍

Emotional_Fan_7011 | Emotional_Fan_7011

Friend's husband flirts, commenter supports OP, hopes for friend's realization 😊

Regina_Phalange31 | Regina_Phalange31

Supportive comment offers hope for friend's realization. 🙏

pfashby | pfashby

Standing up for the truth, even if it's uncomfortable. 👏

slumberingGnome | slumberingGnome

NTA. Tough situation, but you did the right thing 👍

jlmemb27 | jlmemb27

Supportive comment encourages friend to come to her own senses 👍

berrywarrior | berrywarrior

Denial is a powerful thing 😕. People blame the messenger, not the sleaze bag.

mcclgwe | mcclgwe

Speaking up about friend's husband's flirting leads to blame game 😔

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Friendship in jeopardy as husband's behavior is denied. 😞

Comprehensive-Hand60 | Comprehensive-Hand60

Friend chose husband over best friend. Red flag on husband.

sugarypi3 | sugarypi3

Friendship fallout after confronting friend's cheating husband. NTA. 😔

LaoPower | LaoPower

Supportive comment helps friend navigate husband's flirting 👍

Sufficient_Bread1205 | Sufficient_Bread1205

Speaking up can have consequences, even when you're NTA 😕

IKnowFewThings | IKnowFewThings

NTA. Friend's hurtful reaction not about you. Hope for reconciliation. 🙏

Odd_Organization9100 | Odd_Organization9100

Revealing infidelity to a friend is tough but necessary 💔

Intelligent_Stop5564 | Intelligent_Stop5564

NTA did the right thing, friend in denial, AH husband.

Longjumping_Donut790 | Longjumping_Donut790

Calling out a friend's creepy husband. NTA stands strong 👏

Proscuitto1 | Proscuitto1

Supporting a friend through a tough truth 👍

juiceboxfriend95 | juiceboxfriend95

Defending against unfair accusations. 💪

shenanigansco34 | shenanigansco34

Being honest with your friend was the right thing to do 👍

ghostofastorm | ghostofastorm

NTA for telling truth, friend may regret not listening later 🤷‍♀️

GardenDivaESQ | GardenDivaESQ

Toxic friend blames OP for her husband's behavior. NTA.

No_one1016 | No_one1016

Revealing infidelity to a friend can have consequences. 🤷‍♀️

Ducky818 | Ducky818

NTA, but friend may block you. She'll realize eventually.

Nobody_Wins_13 | Nobody_Wins_13

Wife's Krav Maga skills save friend from cheating husband. 🤣

DonZeitgeist | DonZeitgeist

Best friend's husband hits on friend, she's not to blame 👍

Emloiv98 | Emloiv98

Supportive comment, suggests pulling back from friendship with cheater's wife.

LivSaJo | LivSaJo

Friend's husband flirts, but OP not to blame. NTA 👏

Credible333 | Credible333

Friend excuses husband's behavior, blames women for his lack of control 🤔

SnapesGrayUnderpants | SnapesGrayUnderpants

Offer support to friend despite anger over cheating husband. 👍

curious_writer13 | curious_writer13

Friend shares story of NTA situation with bad outcome 😔

ringringbananarchy00 | ringringbananarchy00

User blames men for ruining friendships, calls out toxic behavior. 👏

ObviousArt7432 | ObviousArt7432

Helping a friend in need can come at a cost 😢

RedhandjillNA | RedhandjillNA

Being the messenger can be messy 🤷‍♀️

Valkyr1e_R1s1ng | Valkyr1e_R1s1ng

Women often face this, NTA but friendship may have ended 😢

MoSweetPotato | MoSweetPotato

Defending against blame-shifting, offer support and evidence if necessary. 👏

PokemonPadawan | PokemonPadawan

Friend defends creepy husband, blames NTA best friend. 🤯

piemakerdeadwaker | piemakerdeadwaker

Blaming the woman hit on is wrong. Partner is the cheater. 😔

RavenBlueEyes84 | RavenBlueEyes84

Supportive reply to friend's situation with engaging hope 🙏

Sad-Concert3258 | Sad-Concert3258

Brutal honesty ends friendship, blame game begins. NTA.

CarterPFly | CarterPFly

Supportive comment with no replies. Friend is blaming wrong person. 👍

capriciouskat01 | capriciouskat01

Good friend recognizes husband's behavior, advises patience for realization.

Secret_shopper21 | Secret_shopper21

Speaking the truth can be risky, but it's the right thing. 🙌

Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes

Supportive comment advises giving friend space and honesty with husband.

otomekaidii | otomekaidii

NTA did the right thing, friend may be in denial 🤔

Fluffy_Lunatic | Fluffy_Lunatic

NTA supports friend who discovers husband's infidelity. 😊

BigBicNic | BigBicNic

Friend in denial, commenter advises to step back. NTA 👍

Miss_Melody_Pond | Miss_Melody_Pond

Supportive advice to tell friend about husband's flirting. 🙌

CozmicOwl16 | CozmicOwl16

Friend's husband cheats, friend gets mad at messenger. NTA.

thejexorcist | thejexorcist

Losing friends over calling out bad behavior? 🤷‍♀️

PrestigiousAd3081 | PrestigiousAd3081

NTA. You did the right thing. Prepare for losing friend. 😞

mrsgip | mrsgip

Friend's husband flirts, but NTA for telling her. 👍

Head_Photograph9572 | Head_Photograph9572

Supportive response to friend's defensive reaction to husband's flirting. 👍

anneofred | anneofred

Trust your gut feeling and give your friend space 🙏

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Supportive comment, NTA verdict. Good job standing up for yourself! 👏

UnusGang | UnusGang

Blaming women for husband's behavior? Not cool. 😡 #NTA

Extension-Battle-941 | Extension-Battle-941

Believe your friends, not their a**hole partners. 👍

youreyesmystars | youreyesmystars

Blaming OP for husband's behavior? Not cool. 😑

Brit_in_usa1 | Brit_in_usa1

Friend blames OP for husband's actions, ends friendship. 🤷‍♀️

snugginator | snugginator

Friend blames messenger for husband's flirting. NTA, block and move on. 😒

Successful_Moment_91 | Successful_Moment_91

Denial won't change the truth. Shut it down with honesty 😊

mauve55 | mauve55

Patients agree: spill the beans on cheating friend's husband. NTA 👍

randompoint52 | randompoint52

Don't enable toxic masculinity. Keep the door open for growth. 🙌

dwegol | dwegol

Standing up against harassment is always the right thing to do 💪

reevelainen | reevelainen

Friend accused of lying by bestie, lost friendship. NTA 👍

StoleCapsShield | StoleCapsShield

Supportive comment advises to leave the situation and friend be 👍

Neither_Lawfulness79 | Neither_Lawfulness79

NTA. Blaming women for partner's infidelity is wrong and unfair. Find better friends.

crashingsolo | crashingsolo

Friend can't handle truth about her flirtatious husband. NTA.

Vavamama | Vavamama

Interfering in friends' relationships is not recommended. Listen and support instead. 👥


Woman not to blame for friend's husband's flirting. NTA 👍

Flat_Reason8356 | Flat_Reason8356

Speaking up about friend's husband's infidelity can be tricky. 🤔

deciduousevergreen | deciduousevergreen

Choosing to believe in a good man despite evidence. NTA 👍

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Standing up for yourself and telling the truth is always right 👍

JJonesLa | JJonesLa

Blamed for assault by aunt after 5 years, NTA.

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