Bride-to-Be Refuses to Cater to Autistic Brother's Needs at Her Wedding 😱

Diply Social Team
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We all know that weddings can be a source of family drama, but what happens when the bride-to-be decides to put her foot down and prioritize her own happiness? Our story today revolves around a woman who's tired of her autistic brother's needs always taking center stage. Now that she's planning her own wedding, she's determined to have everything her way, even if it means going against her mother's wishes. 😬💔

Autistic Brother's Specific Needs

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Growing Up with Extra Attention

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Meltdowns When Things Aren't Perfect

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Wedding Planning Begins

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All About the Bride

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Fiancé's Support

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Mother's Disapproval

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Not Enough Options for Brother

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Bride-to-Be Fights Back

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Mom's Accusations

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Expectations and Reality

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Brother's Preferences

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One Day for the Bride

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No Plans to Change

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Wedding Expenses

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Food Options for Brother

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Bride-to-Be's Dilemma: Her Day vs. Brother's Needs

Caught between her desire to have the wedding of her dreams and her mother's insistence on accommodating her autistic brother's needs, our bride-to-be is struggling to find a balance. She's determined to have her special day, but her mother accuses her of being selfish and not considering her brother's well-being. Despite the tension, the bride-to-be refuses to change her plans, even if it means going against her mother's wishes. 💔👰 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA offers reasonable solutions for autistic brother at wedding 😊

Allaboutbird | Allaboutbird

Bride-to-be stands her ground and prioritizes her wedding day 😎

EleanorOfAquitaine- | EleanorOfAquitaine-

Wedding without autistic brother? NTA sparks debate on inclusivity.

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NTA. Empathetic response to bride's decision to not cater to brother.

Old_Sheepherder_630 | Old_Sheepherder_630

Parenting advice for an NTA bride-to-be dealing with an autistic brother.

Ihateyou1975 | Ihateyou1975

Bride's brother's needs have already burdened commenter's life. NTA 👍

lincmidd | lincmidd

Parent of SN kids empathizes with bride-to-be's dilemma. NTA 👍

unipride | unipride

Weddings are about the couple, not catering to family demands 🙌

goeatacactus | goeatacactus

Suggests talking to brother about setting up a comfortable room. NTA.

PrincessAF0518 | PrincessAF0518

NTA. It's important to teach autistics they can't always have their way 😊

PillowOfCarnage | PillowOfCarnage

Bride-to-be not at fault for not catering to brother's needs

DrKrash38 | DrKrash38

Bride-to-be receives support for not catering to autistic brother's needs 👍

imma-rant-here | imma-rant-here

Autistic commenter shares perspective on accommodating needs at events.

ontilthedawn | ontilthedawn

Weddings are about the bride and groom, NTA. Don't be guilt-tripped. 😍

naranghim | naranghim

NTA bride not responsible for enabling brother's negative behaviors at wedding 👏

stainedglassmoon | stainedglassmoon

Respect your brother's boundaries and let him decide to attend 🙏

SecretSummerMidnight | SecretSummerMidnight

Autistic brother excluded from wedding reception, comment supports decision.

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Bride-to-be defends not accommodating autistic brother at wedding. NTA 👍

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

Weddings can bring out the worst in families 😕

rtenderfoot | rtenderfoot

Former wedding DJ advises bride-to-be to prioritize her happiness 🙌

qrpc | qrpc

Your wedding, your rules! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 👏

Canuhearmegloria | Canuhearmegloria

Consider your brother's feelings and let him stay home 🏠

MsKityFantastico | MsKityFantastico

Autistic sibling's needs overshadowed my special occasion. NTA 👏

mercurial_planner | mercurial_planner

Bride-to-be criticized for refusing to accommodate autistic brother at wedding. NTA suggests reasonable accommodations.

oodles-motherof | oodles-motherof

Savage reply to bride's inconsiderate behavior towards autistic brother 😎

herculaneum | herculaneum

Mother of autistic son supports bride-to-be's decision, criticizes mother's insensitivity 👏

poet_andknowit | poet_andknowit

Navigating family dynamics at weddings can be tough 🤷‍♀️

Calm_Initial | Calm_Initial

Autistic commenter empathizes with bride-to-be and criticizes mother's behavior.

gold_dusted | gold_dusted

NTA bride-to-be tries to accommodate brother with autism at wedding 🙌

OverallDisaster | OverallDisaster

Bride-to-be stands up for herself in catering to autistic brother 👏

Trash-BABIE-Bitch | Trash-BABIE-Bitch

Bride-to-be defends her decision to not cater to autistic brother

HunterRoze | HunterRoze

Bride-to-be stands up for herself against family demands. 👏

JustADerpyArtist | JustADerpyArtist

Options for accommodating autistic brother at wedding, NTA.

Ridleaf | Ridleaf

Sibling shares experience accommodating autistic sister at events. NTA.

anonomouse27 | anonomouse27

Bride-to-be defended for not catering to autistic brother's needs 👏

Handbag_Lady | Handbag_Lady

Bride-to-be advised to prioritize her wedding over autistic brother's needs 💍

JCWa50 | JCWa50

Bride-to-be refuses to cater to autistic brother's needs at wedding. Commenter suggests giving him a choice. #NTA 🙌

KaitlinS_11 | KaitlinS_11

NTA bride deserves a day about her, not her brother. 😍

ducktruck27 | ducktruck27

Supportive comment suggests catering to brother's needs separately. 👍

topazpink777 | topazpink777

Autistic commenter supports bride's decision to not cater to brother's needs 👏

tempeluvr | tempeluvr

Family member suggests not inviting autistic brother to wedding 🤔

avagias | avagias

Weddings are about the couple, not just one family member 👰

GoddessOfMagic | GoddessOfMagic

Sibling of autistic brothers encourages bride-to-be to prioritize her own wedding. NTA 😊

EsthieBestie986 | EsthieBestie986

Autistic person agrees bride is NTA, suggests solution 🤔

harlotofthecataclysm | harlotofthecataclysm

Autistic uncle skipped wedding, sent gift. NTA bride follows suit. 🙌

Smug010 | Smug010

Suggests compromise for bride-to-be and her autistic brother. 🙌

Sir_Tandeath | Sir_Tandeath

Suggestion to ask brother directly and provide a safe space 🙏

kiradax | kiradax

Is the bride's brother's attendance important to her?

404unotfound | 404unotfound

Bride-to-be stands up for herself and her wedding day 🙌

BaffledMum | BaffledMum

NTA. One day about you, but coddling not doing brother favors 😐

pen_pal_girl | pen_pal_girl

Bride-to-be's refusal to cater to autistic brother's needs. NTA says commenter.

toomanyschnauzers | toomanyschnauzers

Weddings are about the couple, not family. NTA for accommodating.

canisnatatrix | canisnatatrix

Bride-to-be stands her ground in catering to autistic brother 🙅‍♀️

pinkcherry99 | pinkcherry99

Wedding should be about the bride, not catering to brother's needs 🙄

Flippn_Freddy | Flippn_Freddy

Wedding drama: Bride refuses to accommodate autistic brother. NTA verdict.

amjay8 | amjay8

Breaking free from controlling family. NTA for prioritizing yourself 👏

WyrdThoughts | WyrdThoughts

Bride-to-be faces backlash for refusing to cater to autistic brother's needs 😬

distracted_x | distracted_x

Autistic brother's needs at wedding: NTA allowed one selfish day.

heyitsbea19 | heyitsbea19

Bride-to-be struggles with accommodating autistic brother at wedding. NTA.

PolitePineapple | PolitePineapple

Bride-to-be receives support for not catering to autistic brother's needs 👏

Feeling-better2day | Feeling-better2day

Sibling with special needs causing conflict at wedding, NTA advice.

SleepyPuppet85 | SleepyPuppet85

Autistic brother should bring own food and have panic room. NTA.

Liraeyn | Liraeyn

Prioritizing a sibling's needs at a wedding is not necessary. 🙌

gogirl0283 | gogirl0283

Don't feel bad, it's your day. 🎉👰🏻‍♀️

Flowerofiron | Flowerofiron

Weddings are about the couple, not guests. NTA for prioritizing.

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Bride-to-be refuses to accommodate autistic brother at wedding. NTA suggests a solution.

jces1 | jces1

Celebrating without exclusion, NTA prioritizes her special day 🙌

deviate_angel | deviate_angel

Celebrate love without needlessly forcing uncomfortable situations. 🙌

[deleted] | [deleted]

Sibling neglect is hard, NTA for standing your ground 👏

De5p | De5p

Your wedding, your choice. Don't let her bully you. 💪

GrammyGH | GrammyGH

NTA mom shares her experience raising a neurodiverse child.

sk0479913 | sk0479913

Bride-to-be refuses to accommodate autistic brother at her wedding. NTA.

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Choosing between upsetting parents or oneself when dealing with disabilities. NTA.

dugglesdad | dugglesdad

Bride-to-be refuses to cater to autistic brother's needs at wedding 😠

MistressLyda | MistressLyda

Wedding is about you and the groom, not catering to siblings.

emmerlaus | emmerlaus

Sister gets support for not catering to brother's needs 👏

odetoapitbull | odetoapitbull

NTA offers reasonable accommodations for autistic nephew at wedding 👏

Ceejayaitch | Ceejayaitch

Bride-to-be defended for not catering to autistic brother's needs.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Set up a video game station for the autistic brother 🤩

sadfrenchtoast | sadfrenchtoast

Internet supports bride-to-be's decision to prioritize her own happiness 🙌

downtowngeek | downtowngeek

Parent of autistic child defends bride's decision not to accommodate brother.

mediocreorganism | mediocreorganism

NTA, accommodating autistic brother at wedding. Mother being controlling.

Ramona_Flours | Ramona_Flours

Supportive comment urges bride to prioritize brother's needs. ❤️

Tawanda64 | Tawanda64

Bride-to-be stands up for herself against entitled mother's demands 🙏

turd_ferguson083 | turd_ferguson083

Communication is key! 🗣️ NTA stands up to parents.

theforceisfemale | theforceisfemale

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