Fiancé's Daughter Plays Sick Card: Is She Manipulating Him? 😲

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Diply | Diply

We've all heard of parents spoiling their kids, but what happens when it starts affecting their relationships? One woman has found herself in a tricky situation with her fiancé and his 15-year-old daughter, Summer. Summer, who has an autoimmune disease, is constantly spoiled by her single dad, and her future stepmom is starting to feel the heat. From dinner demands to chore exemptions, is Summer taking advantage of her dad's love or is it just a father's natural instinct to protect his child? Let's dive into the story. 🍿

Summer: The Spoiled Princess 👸

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Cravings and Chore-Free Life 🍕

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Mood Swings and Attention 🎭

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Winter Break Plans ❄️

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Vacation with a Friend 🏖️

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Constant Calls 📞

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Missing Daddy 💔

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Sudden Sickness? 🤒

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

No Fever, No Vomiting 🚫

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Stick it Out, Summer! 💪

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Daddy to the Rescue 🚗

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Rethinking the Relationship 💔

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Manipulation Accusations 😠

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Silent Treatment 🤐

aitafiancedaughter | aitafiancedaughter

Manipulation or Just a Father's Love? 💔

Caught in a whirlwind of emotions, our frustrated fiancée is left questioning if Summer is truly manipulating her dad or if it's just a father's love for his sick child. With a vacation cut short, a 4-hour drive, and a relationship on the rocks, it's clear that this situation has reached its boiling point. 😓 Let's see what the internet has to say about this complicated family dynamic...

Step-parent called out for gatekeeping fiancé's daughter's homecoming. 🔥

Suspicious_Lemon9960 | Suspicious_Lemon9960

User calls out OP for being controlling and immature. 🤨

Primary-Criticism929 | Primary-Criticism929

Compromise or leave: comment advises fiancé's girlfriend on living with daughter

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Redditors slam commenter for questioning child's illness. YTA confirmed. 😑

ElderberryTrick7495 | ElderberryTrick7495

User calls out commenter for being TA and incompatible with dad

WaywardPrincess1025 | WaywardPrincess1025

Empathy is key. Calling a sick child manipulative is unacceptable. 😔

sobbinlikerobyn | sobbinlikerobyn

Being a step-parent is tough, YTA for picking this battle 🤷‍♀️

insomniafog | insomniafog

Redditor shares personal experience, calls out YTA for lack of empathy.

-Onion_Kid- | -Onion_Kid-

Realizing manipulative step-daughter too late, reconsider relationship. YTA. 😕

PhePheLaFrou | PhePheLaFrou

User calls out OP for being the a**hole in parenting situation 🔥

Sweet_Cinnabonn | Sweet_Cinnabonn

Denying a sick child their parent is an a**hole move 😕

AussieTheatre | AussieTheatre

User calls out OP for prioritizing herself over single father's child. YTA.

Oxfordcomma42 | Oxfordcomma42

YTA accused of manipulating situation, ignoring daughter's well-being. 🤷‍♂️

AngstyTheCat | AngstyTheCat

Parent criticizes OP for not letting daughter go home. YTA.

Top_Barnacle9669 | Top_Barnacle9669

User accuses OP of being jealous and dismissive towards fiancé's daughter

icecreamdoggo | icecreamdoggo

Intense reply calling out the commenter as YTA. 😱

ChaosNHamHam | ChaosNHamHam

Educate yourself on autoimmune disorders before judging the child. YTA 🙄

Remarkable_Buyer4625 | Remarkable_Buyer4625

Harsh comment suggests ending relationship and remaining childless. 😱

Alarmed_Jellyfish555 | Alarmed_Jellyfish555

User calls out OP for jealousy and controlling behavior. 🤔

robecityholly | robecityholly

User calls out OP for jealousy and advises to leave.

CoolMoose9566 | CoolMoose9566

Misunderstanding auto immune disease and medication side effects. YTA.

FeelinQMiteDeleteL8r | FeelinQMiteDeleteL8r

Redditors unanimously call out commenter for being an a**hole.

chickadeedeedee_ | chickadeedeedee_

User calls out OP for overstepping boundaries, suggests self-reflection.

Rather-Be-Dreaming | Rather-Be-Dreaming

User calls out OP for disliking fiancé's daughter. Yikes. 🤯

Neci123 | Neci123

Harsh reply to OP's behavior, predicts single life ahead. 🤮

TenderOctane | TenderOctane

Fiancé's girlfriend faces backlash for making a decision about his child's health

esk_7140 | esk_7140

Jealousy towards fiancé's daughter makes OP the a**hole. 🤭

Inside_Syrup_9153 | Inside_Syrup_9153

Engaging with stepchildren can be challenging. YTA for ignoring her.

Natural_Garbage7674 | Natural_Garbage7674

Partner's daughter has autoimmune disease, ESH for telling her to stick it out. Move on.

Bluemyst111 | Bluemyst111

User calls out OP for being manipulative. Yikes! 🤨

dwells2301 | dwells2301

NTA. The commenter is defending the daughter and calling out jealousy.

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A commenter with an autoimmune disease calls out the original poster's lack of empathy.

MommaLokiLovesYou | MommaLokiLovesYou

Curious commenter questions if illness affects daughter's chores 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

OP may need a reality check 😕

20Keller12 | 20Keller12

Dating a dad with a sick daughter is a tricky balance. ESH.

Dotty_Ford | Dotty_Ford

Fiancé's daughter is being treated like a princess, OP should leave 💔

weronikap85 | weronikap85

User calls out OP for being controlling and potentially ruining relationship. YTA.

NewBloomInDecember | NewBloomInDecember

Daughter's manipulation backfires, calls out YTA for sneaky tactics. 😒

lughsezboo | lughsezboo

Enabling vs. Assisting: Finding Autonomy in Disability Care 🙏

Mruu | Mruu

Fiancé's daughter expresses discomfort, YTA for not taking it seriously.

Prestigious_Nose6915 | Prestigious_Nose6915

Fiancé's daughter is sick but looks fine. OP is YTA.

bgeerke19 | bgeerke19

NTA, OP needs to have a calm conversation with her fiance.

painted_unicorn | painted_unicorn

A commenter shares their experience with autoimmune disease and advises the poster to be more understanding and supportive of their fiancé's daughter. 🙏

PalmTreeAmethyst | PalmTreeAmethyst

Package deal: Coping with a partner's child 👥

Inevitable-Slice-263 | Inevitable-Slice-263

Insensitive dad called out for not believing daughter's chronic illness. 😔

nintendosbitch666 | nintendosbitch666

No valid examples of spoiling, YTA. 🙄

Kilroy5188 | Kilroy5188

ESH for demanding attention in a father-child relationship. Dad should prioritize.

Cecillia_Darkbloom | Cecillia_Darkbloom

YTA should apologize and be more understanding of daughter's situation. 😕

Fuzzy_Balance_6181 | Fuzzy_Balance_6181

Prioritizing his daughter over marriage 👨‍👦👧

Stacy3536 | Stacy3536

Heartwarming comment applauds OP's ex for being a great dad ❤️

Anxious-Abrocoma-630 | Anxious-Abrocoma-630

Engaged couple's future in question due to fiancé's daughter's behavior. 😕

mojo4394 | mojo4394

User calls out OP for being controlling, damaging relationship 🤬

NixKlappt-Reddit | NixKlappt-Reddit

User calls out ableism and defends daughter's chronic illness.

SoloBurger13 | SoloBurger13

Engaged Redditor considers kicking out fiancé's daughter. 🤔

Sad_Satisfaction_187 | Sad_Satisfaction_187

Former stepmom warns of fiancé's daughter's manipulative behavior. YTA if return.

C4Biatches | C4Biatches

Harsh comment suggests avoiding dating single parents. 😱

jellyfish018 | jellyfish018

Sarcastic comment calls out manipulative behavior towards fiance's daughter. 😒

kali0324 | kali0324

Dodging a bullet: Fiancé's daughter manipulates him. NTA.

Calm-Cantaloupe7355 | Calm-Cantaloupe7355

Father gets called out for poor parenting skills. Yikes! 🤯

Thari-97 | Thari-97

Co-parenting communication is key. OP should have consulted dad. YTA 🙄

Stargazer86F | Stargazer86F

YTA accused of downplaying child's disease and feelings. 😱

Something_Is_Rong | Something_Is_Rong

Redditor disagrees with OP's decision, shares personal trauma. 😢

floweringbirds | floweringbirds

User calls out OP for being jealous and controlling. 🔥

bokuto_has_my_heart | bokuto_has_my_heart

User advises OP to find a partner with no children 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

Elegant-Stretch-7675 | Elegant-Stretch-7675

Red flag alert! Is this relationship doomed from the start? 😱

Arisia118 | Arisia118

Fiancé's decision to keep his fiancé's daughter away sparks criticism. YTA

kermitstarr27 | kermitstarr27

Red flags raised as commenter dismisses daughter's autoimmune disease. YTA.

narrauko | narrauko

Step dad calls out manipulative behavior, defends daughter. 🔥

dnjprod | dnjprod

User advises against forcing a relationship, calls OP YTA. 😕

[deleted] | [deleted]

User advises to end relationship with fiancé's daughter priority.

Maximoose-777 | Maximoose-777

Stepdaughter's needs are priority, marriage won't work if not accepted 😔

seldatak | seldatak

Mother defends fiancé's daughter's chronic illness, calls OP jealous. YTA.

Sad_Satisfaction_187 | Sad_Satisfaction_187

Ouch! A scathing reply with a YTA verdict. 🤯

NormativeTruth | NormativeTruth

Jealousy and accusations towards child's illness, YTA confirmed. 🤷

buttercupgrump | buttercupgrump

User reminds OP that they have no say in parenting decisions.

captnspock | captnspock

Don't assume a child is manipulative, prioritize their needs. 🙏

ischemgeek | ischemgeek

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