Man Came Out to Parents TWICE... So Why Is Dad Shocked By Wedding News? 🤔

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🌈 Coming out can be a rollercoaster ride, especially when it comes to parents! 😅 Our protagonist, let's call him the Courageous Queer, took the leap at the tender age of 14. 🏳️‍🌈 Mom was shook, but eventually came around... well, sort of. 🙄 Dad, on the other hand, seemed to have selective hearing. 🙉 Fast forward 10 years, and the Courageous Queer is ready to take the next big step with his beau, Mike. 💍 But wait, there's a plot twist! 😱 Dad's just now realizing his son is gay and he's not happy about it. 😡 Buckle up, folks, because this story is about to get wild! 🎢

🌈 Coming Out at 14: A Tale of Two Parents 😬

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👩‍❤️‍👨 Mom's Passive-Aggressive Remarks vs. Dad's Indifference 🤷‍♂️

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👨‍👨‍👦 Awkward Attempts to Tell Dad About Boyfriend Mike 😅

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💑 10 Years Later: Moving In with Mike and Marriage Plans! 💍

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😡 Mom Upset, Dad Furious: The Fallout 💥

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🤔 Dad's Anger: "Why Didn't You Tell Me Sooner?" 😠

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💔 The "Loss" of a Son: Dad's Perspective 😢

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🏳️‍🌈 Comfortable with Sexuality, but Leading Dad On? 🤥

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📣 Update: Unexpected Attention and Feeling Like I Owed the Truth 🗣️

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👴👵 Parents from a Different Time and Culture 🕰️

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🎓 The Risk of Coming Out and Parental Support Through College 🙏

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🔮 Uncertain Future, but Independent Now 💪

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💕 A Decade with Mike: Breakups, Smooth Sailing, and Appreciation 🥰

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🌈 The Courageous Queer's Coming Out Conundrum: Dad's Delayed Reaction! 😱

Well, well, well... looks like the Courageous Queer's coming out journey has been quite the ride! 🎢 From Mom's passive-aggressive remarks to Dad's selective hearing, it's been a wild 10 years. 🙉 But now, the Courageous Queer is ready to take the next step with his long-time love, Mike. 💍 Plot twist: Dad's just now realizing his son is gay and he's not happy about it! 😡 The Courageous Queer is left wondering if he should've been more persistent in making sure Dad got the memo. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! 🍿 Grab your popcorn, folks, because the responses are bound to be entertaining! 😂

Dad's Homophobia Costs Him a Son. NTA. 👏

bananahammerredoux | bananahammerredoux

Father's ignorance isn't OP's fault. NTA 👍

RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun

Being true to oneself is a personal choice. Spread love ❤️

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Dad's shock is not your fault, NTA 💯

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Father in denial, but eventually accepted partner as family 😊

GeminiAtl | GeminiAtl

Congrats on thriving without parents' support! NTA for sure 💯

lindtbaer | lindtbaer

Be yourself and let kindness surround you. #NTA 👏

rolz63 | rolz63

Dad ignored coming out, shocked by wedding? NTA stands firm 💪

darkstarcrashes64 | darkstarcrashes64

Trying to come out to clueless parents for 10 years. NTA 👏

gobsmacked247 | gobsmacked247

Homophobic dad brushed off son's coming out, now shocked at wedding. 💯

Samupupu | Samupupu

Is the dad forgetful or homophobic? 🤔

SourNotesRockHardAbs | SourNotesRockHardAbs

Homophobic dad ignores son's coming out, shocked by wedding news. 😒

AcidCokeWeed | AcidCokeWeed

Dad in denial, can't change willfully ignorant people. Hope you're happy ❤️

I_onno | I_onno

Parents in denial, you're not at fault. NTA 👍

louib716 | louib716

Coming out once should be enough. Congrats on long-lasting love! ❤️

Advanced_Lobster | Advanced_Lobster

Love wins! 🌈👬 Happy for you and Mike! ❤️

itstheweathergirll | itstheweathergirll

Dad's ignorance shows lack of care for son's life 😕

BexB783 | BexB783

Dad ignored son's relationship, NTA for wedding news 👯🏻‍❤️

SuperSoftSoda | SuperSoftSoda

Denial? This NTA comment has a river in Egypt 🇬🇧

Kyle-Voltti | Kyle-Voltti

Dad shocked by gay wedding news after 8 years? NTA.

RebelScientist | RebelScientist

Homophobic parents shocked by son's happy gay wedding 👭🏻‍🎓

Esabettie | Esabettie

Supportive comment calling out dad's behavior and advocating for LGBTQ+ rights. 🌈

Fly_Sistas | Fly_Sistas

NTA and the father is in denial 🙅

nkdeck07 | nkdeck07

Dad's closed-mindedness not your fault 🙅‍♂️

Gingersnap0422 | Gingersnap0422

Heartwarming comment offers love and support to OP ❤️

Assliam- | Assliam-

Supportive comment acknowledges father's denial and offers sympathy and congratulations 🙏

mercedes_lakitu | mercedes_lakitu

This mom isn't taking any nonsense from rude dads 😤💪

neonghost0713 | neonghost0713

Don't internalize their guilt trips. NTA. 👍

JaeKizza | JaeKizza

Congratulations on your wedding! Love wins! ❤️👬

dacoyle | dacoyle

OP's father doesn't listen. 'Teaching me biology' was perfect 😂

Thriftyverse | Thriftyverse

Parental disapproval and passive aggression. Not the a-hole (NTA).

cocoagiant | cocoagiant

Parental homophobia caused strain in OP's relationship with them.

mjz21 | mjz21

Maturely came out, but parents still in denial. NTA. 👍

wilburstiltskin | wilburstiltskin

Dad's shock is a protest. Parents might skip the wedding.

PrettySneaky71 | PrettySneaky71

Demanding better treatment from loved ones. You deserve it! 💪

whats_a_bylaw | whats_a_bylaw

Dad heard you, he understood you, he just didn't like it 🤯

LadyKlepsydra | LadyKlepsydra

Coming out isn't a one-time event, NTA comment explains.

reclaimation | reclaimation

Dad needs hearing aids, OP is NTA and good luck!

lonely_cactus | lonely_cactus

Navigating coming out to conservative parents with grace. 🌈

shellexyz | shellexyz

Dad's reaction to son's wedding news - NTA!

LiffeyDodge | LiffeyDodge

Dad in denial looks like a fool now 😂 #NTA

breentee | breentee

You don't owe anyone your sexuality. Dad needs to listen 👍

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Parents not listening to their child's coming out story 😢

MentallyPsycho | MentallyPsycho

Congrats on coming out twice and your relationship! 🙌🏻

noorayjannat | noorayjannat

Parents can't use 'different time' as an excuse for bigotry 👍

hydrangeasinbloom | hydrangeasinbloom

Homophobic dad gets what he deserves. NTA 🙌

katt-w | katt-w

Dad missed the memo, NTA. Congrats to you and Mike! 😊🙌

torio333 | torio333

Supporting your child's identity should be the bare minimum 👏

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Sending good vibes for a more inclusive and loving family ❤️

RudyRoo2017 | RudyRoo2017

Love wins! NTA! Marry who you love and move on.

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

Dad in denial for 10 years, shocked at son's wedding 😱

ironman7456 | ironman7456

Dad's denial doesn't make you the a**hole! 👏

egopocalypse | egopocalypse

Parental acceptance is important and NTA for being yourself. 👏

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Dad ignored son's coming out twice, shocked by wedding? NTA 👏

Introvertedpanic | Introvertedpanic

Dad's denial of son's sexuality is wrong but he loves him 💜

BonaFideBill | BonaFideBill

Father's bigotry costs him son's wedding joy. NTA wins!

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Supportive comment celebrates stable relationship and young commitment. 👏

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Unsupportive dad ignores son's coming out, blames son for it 😢

Kushiels_Handmaiden | Kushiels_Handmaiden

Dad refuses to accept son's sexuality, plays ignorant. Narcissistic behavior. 🤬

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Don't blame yourself for his willful ignorance. 🤷‍♂️

Korrin | Korrin

Parents forget happiness of their child, NTA, Congrats 👏

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