Grab your popcorn, folks, because we’ve got a juicy story of a seafood allergy, a forgetful boyfriend, and a restaurant fiasco that’ll leave you wondering who’s really the a-hole here! Our protagonist, a 23-year-old woman, has been “dating” Eric, a 31-year-old commitment-phobe, for 8 months. Despite his reluctance to label their relationship, she’s been holding out hope for a romantic gesture. But when Eric finally takes her on a “real date” to a fancy seafood restaurant, things take a fishy turn…
Red Flag Alert: Boyfriend Brings Allergic GF to Seafood Restaurant!

Commitment Issues or Just Not That Into You?

Hurtful Words Lead to a “Real Date” Promise ️

Allergy Alert: GF Can’t Stand the Smell of Seafood! ♀️

️ Seafood-Free Menu? Not a Chance! ♂️

Waiter to the Rescue: Stifling Laughter and Whipping Up a Special Dish!

Grateful GF Tips Big and Thanks the Chef!

BF Loses It Over Being Called “Boyfriend”

⏩ Fast Forward: Living Rent-Free in BF’s Apartment

️ BF Airs Dirty Laundry in Group Chat with Friends

AITA for Calling Out Forgetful BF to the Waiter? ️

Seafood Allergy Showdown: GF vs. Forgetful BF!
Our heroine, allergic to seafood, finds herself at a fancy fish restaurant courtesy of her label-averse beau, Eric. When the waiter arrives, she explains her predicament, accidentally calling Eric her “boyfriend” and causing him to flip his lid. The waiter saves the day with a special seafood-free dish, earning a big tip from the grateful gal. But the drama doesn’t end there! Eric accuses her of humiliation, can’t handle being called “boyfriend,” and even airs their dirty laundry in a group chat with friends. ️ Now, the internet must decide: who’s the real a-hole in this fishy fiasco? Let’s dive into the juiciest responses and see what the verdict is!
Why stay in a toxic relationship? YTA to yourself.

Dating a guy who yelled at you for your allergies?

Insensitive boyfriend disregards girlfriend’s allergy at seafood restaurant NTA
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Don’t let a savage ruin your life, girl. You deserve better ♀️

Leave him! You deserve better than this a**hole. NTA

NTA sees red flags in controlling relationship & restaurant incident

NTA! Eric seems like a massive a-hole. You deserve better

Observation on problematic age gap in toxic relationships.

You deserve better Get out of that toxic situation

Protect yourself from his predictable anger and red flags

NTA, younger GF living rent-free, but emotionally unsupported by older BF.

NTA questions the normalcy of behavior of entitled boyfriend.

Allergic reaction at seafood restaurant raises red flags in relationship.

GF defends herself after seafood restaurant incident. Is free rent enough?

Move on! This relationship is not healthy.

Find someone who won’t feed you bad food and BS.

Age difference and lack of commitment suggest time to move on ♀️
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Dump his crusty a** ASAP!

Dump his a** as soon as possible. He disregarded your health.

NTA and how to deal with a crybaby boyfriend
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Find someone who cares about your health, not just the title ❤️

Girlfriend living rent-free with older boyfriend causes concerns

Late to the party, but why blame OP? Others agree.

Unlabeled live-in ‘f**kbuddy’ causes explosive argument

Partner embarrasses them at restaurant, doesn’t care about food allergy. NTA

NTA! Waiter and chef saved the night. Boyfriend messed up.

Standing up for yourself is important . Don’t settle for less .

Time to label relationship; BF overreacted about waiter incident and driver

Reconsider your inconsiderate relationship with a narcissistic ex-boyfriend. NTA

NTA. Fragile ego boyfie looks like the real a-hole.❌
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Relationship advice: Move on, he doesn’t respect you

Girl, run for the hills! ♀️ NTA, he doesn’t care about you.

Unsure why she’s living with him if not in relationship

NTA for not wanting to be embarrassed in public.

Red flag alert! Run away from the a**hole boyfriend

Red flags raised with selfish boyfriend, prioritize your safety

Defending NTA commenter who questions unhealthy relationship and communication.

Defending a misunderstood comment about a relationship altercation ♂️

Escape a toxic relationship, NTA for prioritizing your well-being ❤️

Find someone who would be proud to call you his girlfriend

Defending the innocent: Commenter stands up for the girlfriend

NTA for not speaking up to a stranger

YTA for accepting such treatment for free rent.

NTA. Savage P.S. might save younger GF from selfish prick.

Savage response shuts down entitled boyfriend. #NTA

Red flags in a relationship, time to reevaluate

Leave him now! You deserve better.

NTA comment suggests leaving immature and commitment-phobic boyfriend.

Dump his toxic a**. Allergies can kill

NTA for wanting to avoid allergic reaction, red flags everywhere

Girl expresses concern for OP’s safety in toxic relationship

Confusion over YTA label sparks NTA agreement in comments.

NTA. Boyfriend overreacted to restaurant incident. Communication needed for resolution.

Support for the girlfriend, condemning the boyfriend’s behavior.

Leave him! ♀️ You deserve better than this abusive situation.

Warning signs of an emotionally abusive relationship.

No room for narcissists and manipulators in healthy relationships

Advice to leave toxic relationship and prioritize self-worth

NTA for calling out toxic behavior. Find someone who cherishes you

Dump him and don’t look back

Age gap debate in the comments

You deserve better than a thoughtless, narcissistic & rude 31yo.

Allergic girlfriend called out for ‘humiliating’ remark at seafood restaurant. NTA.

Age gap or not, dump him! He’s acting like a child

Encouraging reply to victim of emotional abuse
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NTA advice: Don’t waste time on a guy who won’t commit
