'I Don't Want Random Kids Over!' – Jobless BIL DEMANDS Control of Couple's House! 😱

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🚨 Family drama alert! 🚨 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a doozy of a story for you today! 😱 When a jobless brother-in-law overstays his welcome, things are bound to get messy. 🙄 Our protagonist, a 35-year-old man, and his wife thought they were doing a good deed by letting her brother crash with them until he found a job. 🏠 But little did they know, they were in for a wild ride! 🎢 Get ready for a tale of entitlement, boundary-crossing, and some serious sass! 😎

🏠 Family Drama Alert: Jobless BIL Overstays His Welcome! 😱

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🤝 Generous Couple Agrees to Help... But at What Cost? 🤔

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😴 Entitled BIL Tries to Enforce Bedtime on Grown Adults! 🙄

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🍳 Can't Cook, Won't Cook: BIL Expects 5-Star Service! 🙅‍♂️

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💸 Jobless BIL Still Finds Money for Friday Night Fun! 🍻

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📺 Battle for the Remote: BIL Tries to Take Over the TV! 😤

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🤨 Guest Room TV Not Good Enough for Picky BIL! 🤦‍♂️

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👧 Daughter's Friend Visits, BIL Demands to Be Consulted! 😠

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🎮 Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, But BIL Wants to Play Boss! 🙄

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🗣️ BIL Demands "Private Chat" About Mystery Kid! 🙄

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🏠 Homeowner Puts Entitled BIL in His Place! 👏

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💸 No Pay, No Say: OP Lays Down the Law! 😎

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😢 BIL Plays Victim, Wife Calls OP Rude! 😒

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😏 OP's Savage Response: Good, He SHOULD Feel Unwelcome! 🔥

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💼 A Job's a Job, But BIL's Too Good for That! 🙄

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😱 Internet Jury, Is OP the A-hole for Putting Entitled BIL in His Place? 🤔

Well, well, well... looks like our protagonist has found himself in quite the pickle! 🥒 After putting up with his brother-in-law's entitled behavior for far too long, he finally snapped and laid down the law. 😤 No pay, no say, right? 💸 But now his wife thinks he was too harsh, and the jobless wonder feels "unwelcome." 😢 Boo hoo, cry me a river! 😭 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy family drama! 🍿 Grab your popcorn, folks, because the comments are about to get wild! 🔥

BIL refuses to work and wife sides with him. NTA.

LetThemEatHay | LetThemEatHay

Time to throw him the f**k out, dude. 😡

rainyreminder | rainyreminder

Stand up for your boundaries ✊. Let BIL know who's boss. #NTA

Total-Being-4278 | Total-Being-4278

Ian needs to understand he's a guest in HER house. 💁‍♀️

overseas-mango | overseas-mango

Setting boundaries with jobless BIL over house ownership 🙌

PuzzleheadedTap4484 | PuzzleheadedTap4484

BIL freeloading in your house? Definitely NTA, but watch wife's attitude 😓

MiserableQuit828 | MiserableQuit828

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but necessary. 👍

lyan-cat | lyan-cat

Unwelcome BIL gets a clear message from the couple 😒

ben_burnache | ben_burnache

NTA. Entitled BIL needs to be put in his place. 😑

Kurigin | Kurigin

You own the house, not him. NTA, set boundaries 👍

Ok-Mode-2038 | Ok-Mode-2038

Standing up for their home and shutting down entitled BIL. 👏

KittKatt7179 | KittKatt7179

Entitled BIL overstays welcome, makes daughter's friends feel unwelcome. NTA.

raeijon | raeijon

Entitled BIL demands quiet and dinner, kick him out! 😒

hey-demons-its-me-ya | hey-demons-its-me-ya

Family drama? 🙄 Glad they're not mine either. 😂

Nevyn-57 | Nevyn-57

United front key in setting rules with jobless BIL 👍

PossibleAd1348 | PossibleAd1348

NTA. Shut down the unsolicited opinions and demand an apology.

RideTheWindForever | RideTheWindForever

Eviction might be necessary for ungrateful BIL. #NTA 🙄

Successful_Radish_ | Successful_Radish_

BIL being a shitty guest. NTA for setting house rules. 😱

Jorick89 | Jorick89

NTA, but he needs a deadline to move out ⏱️

Peasplease25 | Peasplease25

BIL's entitlement issues and wife's misinterpretation. NTA for sure! 😤

jsodano | jsodano

NTA! Deadbeat BIL needs to move in with his buddies! 🙌

DeepFudge9235 | DeepFudge9235

NTA. Demanding control over your own house is ridiculous! 😑

Better2021Everyone | Better2021Everyone

NTA suggests frank discussion with wife about BIL's expectations.

sweate1 | sweate1

NTA shuts down entitled BIL's demands for couple's house 🙌

BrownDogEmoji | BrownDogEmoji

BIL behaving like an entitled waste of space. 😱

Usual-Worry8412 | Usual-Worry8412

Houseguests overstaying their welcome? NTA, kick them out 🚪👋

RealWanderingWizard | RealWanderingWizard

Entitled BIL needs to contribute or leave. NTA 👍

MissTheWire | MissTheWire

BIL demands veto power over kids' guests after a month 🙄 NTA

GyroThrowAway | GyroThrowAway

User thinks OP is not the a-hole, but should have kicked out BIL sooner.

jdogx17 | jdogx17

BIL forgets he's being helped. NTA. Set a firm move-out date! 🙌

bartkurcher | bartkurcher

No tenant, No say! Daughter's friends allowed. NTA 👍

Lex1982 | Lex1982

You go, OP! Kick that entitled BIL out! 🙌

thehombredallas | thehombredallas

NTA! Kick him out if he can't handle your own house 😡

boatingmyfloat | boatingmyfloat

Unemployed BIL oversteps boundaries, NTA sets him straight. 👏

KA2382 | KA2382

NTA! Show her these responses and your side of the story! 👏

breakingreddit32 | breakingreddit32

Set boundaries with your BIL, remind him he's a guest. 🙌

dembowthennow | dembowthennow

Stand up for yourself and set boundaries with your in-laws! 💪

This_Grab_452 | This_Grab_452

👍 NTA. Tough situation with mooching BIL and wife's support.

Sea-Mud5386 | Sea-Mud5386

Take control of your own house! NTA. 💪

MonkeyWrench | MonkeyWrench

BIL with no contribution demands control of couple's house 🏠😡 NTA

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BIL needs to find a job or hit the road 🚶‍♂️

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet

Stand your ground! Your house, your rules. 👊 NTA

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Don't let entitled family members walk all over you 🙌

TempusWulf | TempusWulf

BIL needs boundaries! Daughter can invite who she wants 😒

jujube1013 | jujube1013

Get him out ASAP! NTA 🚨

ThrwawayLil | ThrwawayLil

Uncle Fester alert! NTA for setting boundaries with jobless BIL 😱

theDagman | theDagman

Don't be a mooch! NTA, make him uncomfortable to leave 😈

Wisdomofpearl | Wisdomofpearl

Take any job to pay bills, entitlement is not an option.

Adorable-Radish577 | Adorable-Radish577

BIL is an overbearing and disrespectful jerk. NTA for kicking him out. 😡

DCWilloughby | DCWilloughby

Entitled BIL needs to get his sh*t together and leave. NTA 👍

Prestigious_Isopod72 | Prestigious_Isopod72

Entitled BIL won't leave, give him a move-out date. NTA 👍

LunasFavorite | LunasFavorite

Kicking out a freeloading BIL: NTA. Don't overstay your welcome! 😊

paul_rudds_drag_race | paul_rudds_drag_race

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but NTA here 🙌

Dye_Harder | Dye_Harder

BIL needs to find a job and move out. NTA 👍

1thatisnttaken | 1thatisnttaken

NTA shuts down entitled BIL's demand for control 🙅‍♂️

visionskate1 | visionskate1

BIL overstaying welcome, NTA gives ultimatum to move out.

neworderfan | neworderfan

Set boundaries and give BIL a move out date. NTA 👍

Desmoche | Desmoche

Don't let him control your house or your daughter's friends! NTA 👏

triggerhappypoptarts | triggerhappypoptarts

Brother-in-law ungrateful for housing assistance, NTA for refusing.

AJWordsmith | AJWordsmith

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