Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a spicy tale of a savvy stripper-turned-homeowner facing some serious baby daddy drama! Our fierce protagonist worked her booty off (literally!) to buy her dream flat, but now her boyfriend is throwing shade at her “stripper money” and demanding she sell her hard-earned home. Is she being too stubborn, or is her man being a total a-hole? Let’s dive in and find out!
Stripper Turned Savvy Investor

Stripping My Way to Homeownership

♀️ Bye Bye Roomies, Hello Rentals

New Beau, Same Old Story

Baby on Board, Time to Shack Up?

My Place or Yours? Hint: Mine!

♀️ Not Giving Up My Hard-Earned Home

Sell My Place? Not So Fast, Mister!

“Stripper Money” Suddenly an Issue?

Oh No He Didn’t! Stripper Money Shade

“That’s Different” – Is It Though?

♂️ Boyfriend Storms Off in a Huff

Gaslighting Via Text Message

♀️ Am I Being Too Rigid?

Update: Boyfriend Gets the Boot!

50/50 or GTFO

Stripper Money Showdown: Will She Sell Her Dream Home?
Well, well, well… looks like our sassy stripper-turned-homeowner is in quite the pickle! Her boyfriend wants her to sell her beloved flat (bought with her hard-earned “stripper money” ) and buy a new place together, but she’s not having it. He’s throwing some serious shade at her past and making her feel like her home will never truly be theirs. Is she being too stubborn, or is he being a total jerk? The internet has some thoughts…
Partner’s gaslighting behavior and rushed commitment criticized. NTA.

Ex-stripper stands her ground against loser ex-boyfriend. NTA

Partner’s double standard exposed in ex-stripper’s home ownership. NTA

Ex-stripper refuses to sell home bought with ‘stripper money’ – NTA suggests renting it out instead to build wealth

Partner dismisses valid argument with sexist remark. NTA.

Strippers discussing investing and homeownership

Partner shames ex-stripper homeowner, refuses to live in ‘stripper money’ house. NTA.

Ex-stripper warns against letting manipulative men ruin your hustle

Don’t sell the house! Compromise by revisiting later and getting numbers

Partner gaslighting and irrational, NTA for keeping stripper-money home

NTA for refusing to sell apartment bought with ‘stripper money’.

Empathetic comment supports ex-stripper’s decision to keep her home.

Don’t shame strippers for making money. NTA.

Supportive commenters agree that ex is in the wrong

Preserve your independence and keep your apartment!

NTA stands up to controlling partner, warns of red flags

Dreaming of a stripper-funded flat

Supportive comment for ex-stripper facing partner’s gaslighting and abuse.

Stripping stigma: the fear of being outed in a breakup

Partner’s discomfort about ex-stripper money is about control not morality.

Get legal advice before merging properties with a red flag
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Pregnancy before discussion? NTA but poor judgement.

Don’t let anyone shame you for your hard-earned money

Keep your property. Don’t let him take your security. NTA

Partner refuses to live in stripper-funded home. NTA suspicions arise.

Sister takes his side, but commenter thinks he’s irrational. NTA.

Buying a home with ‘stripper money’ doesn’t make you TA

Pregnancy doesn’t mean giving up home. Think carefully!

Partner wants to sell house bought with ‘stripper money’ to put himself on deed. NTA.

Buying home with stripper money – NTA and child won’t care.

Defending the ex-stripper’s right to keep her home

A woman refuses to sell her dream home bought with stripper money #NTA

Partner wants her home for nothing, accuses her of being emotional. NTA.

Supportive comment advises against putting partner on the deed and suggests getting a pre-nup

Splitting apartment costs: fair or not?

Protect your assets and wait to see if he’s trustworthy.

NTA. Run! ♀️ Controlling partner with stripper issues and red flags.
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Consider financial contributions before adding partner to new property deed.

NTA wants to sell flat, but partner is hesitant. Concerned partner might be freeloading but also valid emotional concerns about the flat’s history.

Don’t give in, he’s being dismissive. Your home, your rules

NTA defends ex-stripper’s right to keep her home

Ex-stripper stands up for herself, calling out husband’s emotional reaction.

Partner’s shame is not valid reason to force home sale. ♀️

Gender bias in home ownership debated. #NotJustStripperMoney

Independent home buying goals! NTA.

Supportive reply to pregnant woman facing emotional manipulation.

Partner’s financial control and misogyny towards ex-stripper’s assets. NTA.

Independent ex-stripper won’t let man freeload off her success.

BF wants to add his name to the deed. NTA stands firm.
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Partner wants ex-stripper to give up financial independence and whitewash past. NTA

Empowering comment defending ex-stripper’s right to her home and ambitions.

Don’t let emotions cloud your judgement! NTA

NTA!! Stand your ground and be proud of your accomplishments!

Don’t sell your home for him, NTA

Don’t let fragile masculinity ruin your financially secure life. NTA

Get a lawyer ASAP to handle possible co-parenting issues. NTA

Partner doesn’t respect you; refusing to sell is justified.

Spacious flat bought with hard-earned money, NTA for refusing partner

Valuable fall back asset, keep it and rent it out

Don’t give up security for a tantrum-thrower. NTA

Don’t let him take advantage of your ‘stripper money’

Partner dismisses ‘stripper money’, keep flat and lose him.

NTA. Congrats on buying a home with your hard-earned money! Don’t let him take credit and jeopardize your future.

Stand your ground and dump this emotionally immature man. NTA.

Assertive response shuts down condescending comment without hesitation.

Validating comment supporting ex-stripper’s refusal to sell home.
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Partner trying to mooch off ex-stripper’s house, NTA.

Supportive comment and amusing offer for spare sisters

Don’t let him manipulate you into putting him on the deed!

Partner objects to home bought with ‘stripper money’, NTA response.

Empowering response to judgmental partner. Keep your hard-earned home!

Don’t let him pressure you into marriage. NTA.

Ex-stripper stands her ground against unfair property division. #NTA

Ex-stripper stands her ground against entitled partner.

Empowering comment calling out a useless man and double standards.
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Subtle manipulation? NTA commenter warns of caution.

Red flags and emotions in relationships
